LET GO OF THE NARCISSIST THEY MOVE ON BUT BEGIN TO RE-IDOLIZE YOU‼️

Summary

This video addresses the emotional aftermath of a relationship with a narcissist, encouraging viewers not to compare themselves to the new partner a narcissist quickly moves on to. It explains that the narcissist’s need for constant validation leads them to re-idealize their former partner once they realize the new supply doesn't match the qualities they had. The message emphasizes that while the narcissist may appear to be thriving, it’s important to celebrate your own worth, avoid falling back into the cycle, and recognize that you are irreplaceable.

Takeaways

• 😀 Narcissists often move on quickly to a new partner, but this does not reflect your worth—it reflects their need for constant validation.
• 😀 The narcissist may have manipulated you into believing they were your soulmate, but their love was a tool for gaining 'supply'.
• 😀 When narcissists transition to a new partner, they quickly realize that the supply they receive isn’t as potent as the one you provided.
• 😀 Don’t compare yourself to the new supply. The narcissist’s quick move on is more about their inability to truly appreciate you.
• 😀 The narcissist may re-idolize you after leaving, but this re-idolization is not an invitation to return to the toxic cycle.
• 😀 Narcissists rely on 'supply' to feel good about themselves, but their needs can never be fully satisfied, leading to their eventual dissatisfaction with the new partner.
• 😀 The qualities you had, such as loyalty and trustworthiness, cannot be easily replaced by the new partner. This causes narcissists to eventually recognize your value.
• 😀 Narcissists often try to manipulate the new supply using the same tactics that worked on you, but those tactics rarely have the same effect.
• 😀 It’s crucial to understand that any attempt by the narcissist to make you feel jealous or inferior is a manipulation tactic—don’t fall for it.
• 😀 The best course of action is to celebrate your worth and move on. Let go of the narcissist and trust that their re-idolization is more about their own failures than your qualities.

Q & A

Why does it hurt when a narcissist quickly moves on to someone else?

It hurts because it can make you feel unworthy, lead to self-comparisons, and affect your self-esteem. You may have believed the narcissist was your soulmate, and their sudden shift can feel like a personal rejection.

What does the narcissist’s quick transition to a new supply reveal?

It reveals that the narcissist never truly appreciated you. They may have used you as a source of validation and energy (referred to as ‘supply’) but were never genuinely committed or loyal.

How should you view the narcissist’s new relationship?

You should view the new relationship as the narcissist's attempt to find another source of validation. This new supply is unlikely to provide the same level of emotional support or loyalty that you did.

What does it mean when the narcissist re-idealizes you after moving on?

Re-idealization occurs when the narcissist realizes that the new supply doesn't measure up to you. They may begin to see your unique qualities and start to regret their actions, but this is usually a manipulation tactic to make you feel valuable and return to their life.

Should you let the narcissist back into your life if they re-idealize you?

No, because the narcissist will not appreciate your forgiveness. They will see it as a manipulation success, not as a genuine act of redemption, and the cycle of disrespect will continue.

How does the narcissist's behavior impact your self-worth?

The narcissist’s actions may lead you to question your value, especially when they quickly move on to someone else. However, it’s important to remember that their behavior reflects their inability to appreciate you, not your worth.

What should you focus on when dealing with a narcissist moving on?

You should focus on healing, recognizing your own worth, and not comparing yourself to the new supply. Celebrate the fact that you’ve freed yourself from a toxic relationship and can now focus on self-growth.

Why is it important not to compare yourself to the narcissist’s new partner?

Comparing yourself to the new supply can undermine your self-esteem. The narcissist's new partner cannot replace the unique qualities you offered, and their relationship is unlikely to provide the same level of emotional depth and trust.

What does it mean when the narcissist needs to 'trust' their partner?

For a narcissist, trust is crucial because it allows them to manipulate and control without fear of betrayal. They expect loyalty but do not offer the same in return, which is why they struggle with genuine relationships.

How should you respond if the narcissist tries to make you jealous?

You should ignore any attempts to make you jealous, as they are just part of the narcissist’s manipulation tactics. Engaging with this behavior only feeds into their desire for attention and control.