Make Her DESIRE YOU! - Easy Ways To Become More ATTRACTIVE TODAY
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the concept of making people emotionally invested in you by using psychological tricks. It recounts the speaker's past experiences using such tricks to attract girls, and how he has since shifted to applying similar tactics positively to influence thousands. The script outlines five strategies: polarizing opinions, being relatable, encouraging emotional openness, creating an enemy, and maintaining an air of mystery. It concludes with the idea that these tactics can be used ethically to gain attention and success in the modern age.
Takeaways
- 😱 Jeffrey's attempt to make people obsessed with him using creepy methods backfired and scared people away.
- 🌟 Adonis naturally attracts obsession due to his leadership, attractiveness, and empathetic nature.
- 🤔 The speaker admits to using psychological tricks in university to make girls obsessed with him, which he now regrets.
- 📱 He confesses to invading girls' privacy by checking their phones while they were with him.
- 🔮 The speaker has transitioned from using these tricks negatively to positively, now helping men worldwide through psychology.
- 💭 Emotional investment is key to making people obsessed with you, which involves time, energy, and emotional influence.
- 🌐 Be polarized: Push people to love or hate you to create strong emotional reactions.
- 👟 Be relatable: People are more likely to obsess over someone they can identify with.
- 🗝️ Encourage people to open up to you; this deepens their emotional connection and investment.
- 🐉 Create an enemy: Having a common adversary fosters group identity and emotional investment.
- 🕵️♂️ Stay mysterious: Keeping some aspects of your life private can pique curiosity and keep people thinking about you.
Q & A
What is Jeffrey's approach to making people obsessed with him?
-Jeffrey tries the creepiest and weirdest ways to make people obsessed with him, but this approach only scares people off.
How does Adonis naturally attract people's obsession?
-Adonis has a natural aura that makes everyone in his tribe obsessed with him. He is the tribe leader, sexy, the best hunter, empathetic, and he uses special tricks to stay in people's minds.
What is controversial about using psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you?
-Using psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you is controversial because it can be seen as manipulative and not genuine.
What was the speaker's experience with using psychological tricks in his second year of University?
-The speaker used certain tricks to make girls obsessed with him, going from being a kissless virgin to having three girls in love with him at the same time.
What did the speaker do that he is not proud of during his time using psychological tricks?
-The speaker looked through the phones of girls he was sleeping with while they were asleep, checking their text messages.
What is emotional investment and why is it important in making people obsessed with you?
-Emotional investment is the time, energy, and effort someone spends thinking about you and how much their emotions are influenced by you. The more someone is emotionally invested in you, the more obsessed they are.
What are the five tricks to make people emotionally invested in you?
-The five tricks are: 1) Polarized - push people to the extreme of loving or hating you; 2) Be relatable - be similar to them but slightly ahead; 3) Get them to open up - emotionally open up to you; 4) Create an enemy - have a common enemy to fight against; 5) Stay mysterious - don't reveal everything about yourself.
Why does creating an enemy make people obsessed with you?
-Creating an enemy creates an 'in-group' and 'out-group' dynamic, making people identify with you and want to be on your side, which leads to emotional investment.
How can staying mysterious make people more obsessed with you?
-Staying mysterious makes people want to piece together more about you, like solving a puzzle, which makes them think about you more.
What is the new currency in the age of business and success according to the speaker?
-The new currency in the age of business and success is attention. If you can make people obsessed with you, you can become extremely wealthy and successful.
How can psychological tricks be used for good according to the speaker?
-Psychological tricks can be used for good by learning them and applying them in a positive way, such as in self-improvement and personal growth.
Outlines
😱 Manipulating Obsession
The speaker discusses Jeffrey's attempts to make people obsessed with him through extreme and creepy behavior, which instead repels them. The contrast is made with Adonis, a natural leader who gains genuine admiration through his qualities and subtle psychological tricks. The speaker admits to using similar manipulative tactics in college to make girls obsessed with him, resulting in unhealthy relationships. He warns against such behavior, emphasizing the negative impact on mental health. The narrative then shifts to how he now uses psychological principles positively to engage a broader audience, focusing on emotional investment as a key factor in obsession.
🧠 Psychological Tricks for Cultivating Obsession
The speaker outlines five psychological tricks to make people obsessed with you: 1) Polarization, pushing people to have extreme reactions to you; 2) Relatability, being relatable yet slightly ahead of the person to make them think about you more; 3) Encouraging openness, which deepens emotional connection; 4) Creating an enemy, which fosters a sense of 'us versus them' and strengthens bonds; and 5) Maintaining mystery, which keeps people intrigued and thinking about you. The speaker reflects on his past misuse of these tricks and encourages using them for good, emphasizing the power of attention in the modern age of success.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Obsession
💡Emotional Investment
💡Polarized
💡Relatable
💡Open Up
💡Enemy
💡Mysterious
💡Psychological Tricks
💡Self-Improvement
💡Attention
💡Empathetic
Highlights
Jeffrey's desire to be obsessively thought about leads to using extreme methods that often backfire and scare people away.
Adonis naturally attracts obsession due to his leadership, attractiveness, and empathetic nature.
The speaker admits to using psychological tricks in university to make girls obsessed with him.
At 21, the speaker had three girls in love with him, showcasing the effectiveness of his tricks.
The speaker's past behavior included going through girls' phones to check their messages, indicating a lack of respect for privacy.
The speaker reflects on his past as a 'degenerate' boy, engaging in clubbing, drug use, and casual relationships.
The speaker has since used similar psychological tricks, but in a positive way to influence thousands of men.
Emotional investment is defined as the time, energy, and effort spent thinking about someone.
The speaker outlines five tricks to increase emotional investment in oneself.
The first trick is to be polarized, pushing people to either love or hate you.
The second trick is to be relatable, which makes people think about you more.
The third trick involves getting people to open up emotionally, increasing their obsession.
The fourth trick is creating an enemy, which fosters an 'us versus them' mentality.
The fifth trick is to stay mysterious, which keeps people intrigued and thinking about you.
The speaker warns that while these psychological tricks can be used negatively, they can also be used positively.
The new currency of success is attention, and these tricks can help one become wealthy and influential.
The speaker encourages using these tricks for good and doing the hard work even when it's challenging.
Transcripts
Jeffrey would love to have people
thinking about him invested into him
obsessed with him and so he tries the
creepiest weirdest ways to make this a
reality but all it does is just scare
off the people that Jeffrey actually
wanted in his life the girl that Jeffrey
wants to attract is Obsession about
someone else Adonis
Adonis has a natural aura about him
everyone in his tribe can't help but be
obsessed with him not only is he the
tribe leader but he's sexy not only is
he the best hunter but he's empathetic
he brings the full package and he even
uses special tricks to make sure that he
stays in his people's minds do you think
it sounds controversial to make people
obsessed with you using psychological
tricks
yes do you want to do it anyway yes in
my second year of University I was a boy
and I used certain tricks that you're
going to learn here but I need to
explain okay first I use certain tricks
to make girls obsessed with me I went
from being a kissless virgin literally
kissless virgin about two three years
prior to this and when I'm age 21 I was
using these tricks to the point of
having three girls in love with me at
the same time and two of them knew about
each other and they'd often like saw
fight and argue with each other when
they see children in the club they were
constantly thinking about me and they
were free whenever I wanted to [ __ ] I
would literally just text them come to
my room and boom literally 20 30 minutes
later she would be there and I wasn't a
good person then so this was four or
five years ago I was just like a
degenerate [ __ ] boy going to clubs
taking drugs and you know sleeping with
lots of girls and stuff I wasn't like a
nice person back then but I do remember
one thing I did which I'm not proud of
but like one of the girls that was
obsessed with not even one honestly I
was gonna say one of the girls but
honestly most of the girls who were
obsessed with me who I was sleeping with
in University I'd often just look
through their phones like they'd usually
just show me their passcodes and stuff
and so when they'd be like asleep next
to me I just like they're doing this
because like it's just interesting
actually been chatting [ __ ] she's been
[ __ ] anyone else let's just find out
but I don't recommend doing this bro
this isn't like it's not good for your
mental health at all and it just yeah
it's just not good for you but like let
me tell you the story of what I did this
girl's asleep next to me take a phone I
know the passcode I'd answer and I start
looking through the text and bro this
happened more than once with like
different girls I'd look through the
text and the best text to look through
if you are like a bad person you want to
look through with girls but I don't
recommend doing this plus if you are
going to do it the best text to look
through her not to look for guys it's
actually to click on her female friends
and actually to see like has she been
talking about like oh yeah [ __ ] this guy
yesterday I click on this girl's female
friends on her text messages and
literally they're all just about me
they're even like the cutest saddest
[ __ ] of like oh my God Hamza just text
me and he's in the club he's thinking
about me yes this was quite a long time
that I was using like certain tricks to
make girls obsessed with me and honestly
I've used similar tricks but now in a
good way from what you're seeing right
now years later I've used psychology to
say more than relevant to be in the
minds of thousands of men around the
world there are thousands of guys who
are seemingly obsessed with and that has
led them to change their lives or
perhaps changing their lives has made
them obsessed with me it's the same
psychology either way I've just used it
differently in a positive way now you
want to make people obsessed with you
this is exactly what you do you get them
to emotionally invest into you emotional
investment simply just means the time
energy and effort someone spends
thinking about you and how much of their
emotions is influenced in any way by you
if you are let's say a stoic guy who's
focused on your purpose and you have
like a girl you're probably not that
emotionally invested into her because
you don't spend all day thinking about
it but if you're more of like a feminine
guy a younger guy you're less successful
you're more of like a normal guy you're
probably quite heavily emotionally
invested in not just your girlfriend but
maybe even just a like a girl that
you've got a crush on you so emotionally
thinking about her all the time you know
you're so excited when she sends you a
text message flip this around and the
more that someone else thinks about you
cares about you feels things because of
you the more that they are obsessed with
you and there's five tricks five things
we can do to spike how much they are
emotionally invested into you Number One
Polarized polarized means to push people
to the extreme dreams of loving you or
hating you too many guys are so soft and
so weak that they'll keep people near
the middle that they don't want to
offend anyone the only way that you'll
find who is real the only way that
you'll find people who really [ __ ] with
you is by pushing people to the extremes
and like really showing almost quite
extreme versions of your personality and
your viewpoints because when you show
those like extreme viewpoints that you
have that's when anyone else who's
similar to that will be like oh wow I
love that guy I love his takes or some
people will say wait I hate him either
way whether they love you or hate you
they're obsessed with you the second
psychological trick that you can use to
make people obsessed with you is to be
relatable and you can see that so
clearly with this channel if you are
relatable if you are just like that
person they'll think about you more
because they're able to like put
themselves in your shoes and if you're
able to be relatable but slightly ahead
of them especially in the things that
matter they'll be so like you know
emotional they'll be thinking like well
like that guy's so similar to me but
he's done something different for
example let's use me when I'm 10 years
old and I'm a little brown kid right
specifically Brown okay and I see some
millionaire walk past and the
Millionaire's an old white guy oh wow
that's really interesting he's a million
oh imagine if I then see a millionaire
who's a brown guy who's only slightly
older than me maybe he's like 20 years
old which one am I able to relate to
more well of course the younger Brown
guy he's going to be in my mind a lot
more than [ __ ] Colonel Sanders if
he's in my mind more than I'm more
obsessed with him I'll be going home
thinking he seems similar to me how did
he make so much money the third thing
you can do to get people obsessed with
you is to get them to open up and this
is perhaps like the one that I use quite
like negatively and maybe manipulate I
didn't I mean I don't know for just
obviously a few years ago back in the
[ __ ] boy days like it's you know girls
are in love with me she's next to me
sleeping and stuff and you know
obviously being sexual and stuff it
opens up and so if she's gonna open up
emotionally to me more and tell me like
you know deeper things or experience
deeper emotions with me and of course
she's going to be more obsessed with me
and again this is what I've been able to
do in a more positive way with what I'm
doing now because the nature of the work
that we do here talking about
self-improvement the deep [ __ ] that
we've been through usually when I'm
speaking to my boys who follow me you'll
end up opening up and telling me some
stuff and when you open up to someone
you start thinking about them more you
start obsessing over them all because
you've kind of shared a piece of your
experiences feelings and maybe traumas
the four psychological trick that you
can use to get people obsessed with you
and perhaps my favorite which is ah I
feel like a bad person talking about my
[ __ ] buddies but it's like it's a part
of me um you know I'm grateful for
everything expressed the fourth thing
you can do is create an enemy we have an
enemy don't we and you know some people
think it's Jeffrey not really Jeffrey's
like the younger version of us who's
just not really on self-improvement but
he's not like a bad person the enemy is
the modern addictions the modern sort of
system that has bred us and conditioned
us to be weak it's the social media
companies the porn companies only fans
that is the enemy if you create an enemy
for yourself and the person that you
want to obsess over you it will create
the psychological term what's called in
group and out group people will identify
with you and want to be on your side
it's like you're fighting a war and that
is so Primal so animalistic that people
will just automatically think about you
and our side more which is emotional
Investments I I use this in a quite
negative way to be honest I never
started doing this purposefully when I
was like a [ __ ] boy you know creating an
enemy meant that there was like two
girls who were arguing with each other I
didn't do that like on purpose thinking
oh yeah if I create an enemy a little
it'll be psychological trivia it was
just more that like I was [ __ ] two
girls and like
I didn't really do it on purpose but it
ended up achieving what I wanted at the
time and now it's very clear that I'm
doing it purposefully I have created an
enemy for us because it's causing us to
rise up and actually take this so much
more seriously and the fifth thing
you're really gonna like this one the
fifth thing that you can do to make
people obsessed with you stay mysterious
a lot of guys don't have the confidence
for this and they'll spill everything
about them straight away and so once the
mystery is gone it's kind of like yeah
well I don't need to think about you
anymore do I so when you meet a new girl
for example are you the kind of guy who
just opens up and just talks and talks
and talks and talks or do you maintain
like almost a level of mystery because
if you keep some mystery if you don't
reveal everything about you it will make
the other person think about you more
not less more because there's more that
they want to piece together they want to
like solve you they want to like figure
you out if you tell someone everything
there is about you which most guys they
are my favorite color my favorite type
of music what's your favorite type of
music yeah I play video game
today but today I did
until 3 P.M and then I most guys aren't
mysterious at all so it's obvious that
like most girls aren't going to be
obsessed with that guy the girls are
obsessed with the guy who stays
mysterious maybe you're watching this
right now thinking wait this is
controversial as [ __ ] I don't want to be
a bad person you can use these
psychological tricks for good psychology
is not inherently a bad thing it can be
used negatively and I hold my hand up I
hold like responsibility for this and
say yes I use it in a negative way but
it can also be used positively and again
I hold my hand up and say yes I take
responsibility I have used it in this
way it sounds kind of bad to learn and
to utilize you know tricks to use on
people but I think it's better to learn
this stuff and use it in a good way than
it is to just like blindly navigate in
the dark we are in a new age of business
and success and we're in the age where
the new currency is attention if you can
make people obsessed with you you can
become extremely wealthy extremely
successful and you can make huge
movements so you can use these
psychological tricks that will make
people obsess with you for good do the
hard work especially when you don't feel
like it mwah
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