Do THIS When a Girl Looks At YOU!
Summary
TLDRIn this engaging video, the host offers practical advice for men on how to respond when a woman looks at them, aiming to boost confidence and improve social interactions. Key tips include staying composed, making brief eye contact, giving a subtle smile, and putting away your phone to appear approachable. The host also suggests showing off forearms and wearing a stylish watch to appear strong and reliable. By initiating a conversation with simple questions and focusing on the woman's interests, the video aims to help men connect more effectively in social settings.
Takeaways
- 😀 Remain calm when a girl looks at you to avoid appearing flustered.
- 🕒 Take a brief 5-second pause to collect yourself before reacting to her gaze.
- 🔄 After the pause, make eye contact again to show you noticed her looking at you.
- 😏 Use a subtle smirk to convey interest without being too forward.
- 📱 Put your phone away to signal that you're open to conversation.
- 💪 Adjust your appearance slightly, like rolling up your sleeves, to show confidence.
- ⌚ Wearing a watch can project a sense of style and reliability.
- ⏰ Checking your watch can create a sense of urgency for her to approach you.
- 🚶♂️ Approach her casually if she doesn't come to you, walking at a normal pace.
- 🗣️ Start the conversation with a simple greeting and question, like 'Hi, I'm James, how are you?'
- 📞 Ask her out on a date by suggesting a day that works for her, then get her number to coordinate.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is about what to do when a girl looks at you, providing advice on how to approach and initiate contact in such situations.
What is the first piece of advice given in the video for when a girl looks at you?
-The first piece of advice is not to freak out and to compose yourself when a girl looks at you.
How long should you wait before looking back at a girl who has caught your eye?
-You should wait for about five seconds before looking back at a girl who has caught your eye.
What is the importance of eye contact mentioned in the video?
-Eye contact is emphasized as the most important aspect when approaching someone or initiating contact.
What should a guy do after looking away for five seconds to create doubt in a girl's mind?
-After looking away for five seconds, a guy should look back at the girl and give her a little smirk to show interest.
Why is it recommended to put your phone away after smiling at a girl?
-Putting your phone away signals that you are open to conversation and not busy, making it more likely for someone to approach you.
What is the male version of adjusting your appearance to show interest, as suggested in the video?
-The male version suggested is to put your sleeves up a bit to show your forearms, which can be seen as a sign of strength and style.
Why is wearing a watch considered important in the context of the video?
-Wearing a watch is considered important because it shows a sense of style and reliability, as it implies you are punctual and have a sense of time.
What should a guy do if a girl does not approach after he has smiled and put his phone away?
-If a girl does not approach, the guy should go to her if she has reciprocated the smile, and initiate a casual conversation.
What is the advice for starting a conversation with a girl who has shown interest?
-The advice is to start with a simple greeting, like 'Hey, my name is James, how are you?' and avoid using corny lines.
What is the significance of asking open-ended questions during the conversation as per the video?
-Asking open-ended questions allows the girl to talk about herself, which can make her feel more comfortable and build a connection.
Outlines
😉 How to Respond When a Girl Looks at You
The speaker begins by addressing the viewers and expressing their excitement about making a video on how to handle a situation when a girl looks at you. They discuss common scenarios where a girl might signal interest but the guy fails to respond appropriately. The main advice given is to stay composed and not to panic when noticed. The speaker suggests taking a brief moment to collect oneself before making eye contact again. They emphasize the importance of eye contact and recommend a slight smirk to show interest without appearing too eager. The speaker also advises putting the phone away to appear open to conversation and suggests subtly adjusting one's appearance, like rolling up sleeves to show off forearms, as a way to appear more attractive and approachable.
🕒 Creating a Sense of Style and Urgency
In this paragraph, the speaker continues with advice on how to appear stylish and reliable by wearing a nice watch, which is suggested as an investment piece. They explain that this can create a positive impression on women. The speaker also mentions that checking the watch can give the impression of a busy lifestyle, which might prompt a woman to approach sooner rather than later. If the woman does not approach after the initial interaction, the speaker advises taking the initiative to approach her casually. They recommend introducing oneself simply and starting a conversation with open-ended questions to keep the dialogue flowing. The speaker stresses the importance of not taking rejection personally and suggests moving on to another person if the interaction does not go well.
💬 Engaging Conversation Starters and Closing the Deal
The final paragraph focuses on how to keep the conversation engaging and how to transition into asking the woman out. The speaker suggests asking about her passions or her story as conversation starters, which can lead to deeper and more meaningful discussions. They emphasize the importance of associating positive feelings and memories with the person asking the questions. The speaker advises against asking for a phone number directly but instead suggests coordinating a date first and then obtaining the number as a means of contact. The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to apply the advice given in the video and to be confident in approaching women.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Eye Contact
💡Compose Yourself
💡Smirking
💡Rejection
💡Forearms
💡Watch
💡Urgency
💡Approach
💡Genuine
💡Conversation Starter
💡Passion
Highlights
The importance of not freaking out when a girl looks at you
Take five seconds to compose yourself after making eye contact
The significance of eye contact in initiating contact or conversation
Creating doubt in her mind by looking away and then back
Giving a little smirk to show interest without breaking eye contact
Putting your phone away to appear open and approachable
Adjusting your appearance subtly to show you're aware of being watched
The appeal of forearms and the impression of strength and reliability
The psychological impact of checking your watch to create a sense of urgency
Approaching her if she's shy and reciprocated the smile
Starting a conversation with a simple introduction
Avoiding corny lines and focusing on genuine conversation
Using open-ended questions to expand the conversation
The value of asking about her passions to create a connection
Transitioning the conversation to plan a date without directly asking for a number
The advice on not taking rejection personally
Encouragement to be confident and approach women in social settings
Upcoming music release announcement on December 3rd
Transcripts
what's up lovers how are you doing today
I'm doing great I'm a real hyper as
usual but I don't know if you guys care
to know how I was doing but yeah so
today I am making a video of what to do
when a girl looks at you because you
know
sometime I'm outside I'm at the bar and
I look at a guy to kind of like try to
Signal him hey come over here
Henny doesn't get it
and maybe he doesn't get in because he's
not single he doesn't care he doesn't
find me attractive whatever the case is
but I'm telling you that's what made me
think of this video and I think
sometimes you guys women look at you and
you don't know what to do you don't
realize like yo
it's how I get in and it's how I'm gonna
jump in the [ __ ] quick you guys be
missing out on those points sometimes so
today I'm telling you what to do when
she looks at you number one
don't freak out
you know you're the [ __ ]
yes she's looking at you at you you you
she's looking at you so don't be like
who she's looking at yeah she's looking
at you dead in the eyes she's
so do not freak out compose yourself
sorry compose yourself
number two
take five seconds five seconds to
yourself pretty much so you saw her
looking at you look away for five
seconds compose yourself and be like
okay what am I gonna do uh yes
and then in that five seconds you look
back you look back hopefully she's still
there she's still there looking at you
because she's like yo he needs to
[ __ ]
stab me dead in the eyes because you
know guys eye contact is the most
important thing when it comes to like
approaching somebody or even initiating
contact or talking eye contact you know
I love that [ __ ] I love staring in a
man's eye and if the man can just step
back
it's over I show him like half of a
titty I don't but
I could
so what's gonna happen in that five
seconds that you are taking for yourself
like you're over here she's gonna have a
little doubt she's gonna be like wait I
just looked at him and he looked away
like he's gonna be like oh my God I'm
getting rejected and you know women
cannot handle [ __ ] rejection they
expect you to handle it all day long but
the women is like I know I can do that
like you know
but yeah so you're gonna create that
doubt in her mind that maybe you don't
like her maybe you're not interested
maybe you're not single all of this but
when you turn back
you look at her and you give her a
little smirk
I can't do this map but you're like a
little crooked smoker a better one
obviously but just a little smoke when
you get you get or smirk
uh stare right ahead
don't lose eye contact and be like
no smell curly or smile but not like a
formal like you know a little one
like you saw her I saw what you just did
I saw you staring at me and I'm open
come talk to me [ __ ]
not [ __ ] come talk to me young lady who
knows maybe you turn back you thought
she was looking at you but she wasn't
and now it was uh accidental you know
you keep it moving you know well she
wasn't looking keep eating keep drinking
keep doing whatever you were doing then
when you did the smile you put your
[ __ ] phone away you in your pocket
because you know I know we tend to look
on the phone and be like we're busy
especially when we are feeling a little
nervous we're like okay I do that all
the time I'll be taking my phone I don't
get [ __ ] in my phone or I go on
Instagram but then the message that you
send is that you are not open for
somebody to come in and talk to you so
they're not gonna come and talk because
they don't want to bother you in
whatever you're doing so I'm telling you
put the phone in your pocket and chill
just chill the next thing you do you
gotta print a little bit so you know how
women women do it all the time like you
know when they feel like somebody is
watching them they're like they're
touching themselves they're adjusting
their hair you know
um some they're doing something so what
you need to do the the male version of
that is putting your sleeves up a little
bit and you show a little bit of that uh
[ __ ] forearm that hopefully I mean
for me if you have veins on your
forearms I I don't know what it is with
them veins but I don't know if it makes
me feel like you're strong and you're
like the Incredible Hulk you know with
all them veins I don't know I have
something for veins but I think women
have something for veins and forearms
that like look strong and then hopefully
you got a nice little watch that so it's
not like just like you're putting them
up I mean you could but I'm telling you
having a little wedge shows that you
have a sense of style
which is very important for women and
that you're like probably reliable which
I don't know if it makes real sense but
they think like because you gotta watch
that means you're going to be on time
stylish and make you look reliable so
try to always have a [ __ ] watch and
I'm not telling you go break the bank
with the watch but watching something
you're gonna wear your whole life you're
gonna you can have
a watch your whole life so if it's
something you want to spend money on go
spend money on a watch spend money on
shoes because that shows tensor style
too like me the the yummy thing I really
spend money on is like purses because I
keep my purses forever and watch but I
only have one so so that's all but you
guys like that shows like so much so you
just like fruit
fruit look at the watch okay and keep
doing what you're doing I'm telling you
oh then [ __ ] four arms she's gonna
want the whole forearm and
I need to stop
and also the fact that you're checking
your watch makes it look like you got
somewhere to go you're a busy man maybe
she needs to take her shots right there
and then because
you might be out in a couple minutes so
you know that gives her the sense of
urgency oh damn he's about to leave I
need to make my Approach right now and
then the last part if she didn't come
because she's shy go to her go to her if
she
reciprocated the smile and all that [ __ ]
like you know you have an open
so you go to her and be very like casual
when you walk walk regular don't work
like in a rush like oh my God let me go
over there or don't work like too swaggy
because this is lame I'm sorry it's lame
so walk regularly and then tell her hey
my name is James how are you
simple [ __ ] simple don't come up with
like them [ __ ] lines because uh lines
if it's not a good one she's gonna look
at you like you're corny or like that's
your line that you use on everybody so
she's not gonna like that even if you
say hello I'm James how are you to
everyone that sounds more genuine so
that's something you should say to
everyone that you meet kind of so
go with that if she turns around and
she's like I'm fine and then look away
okay you know that wasn't for you to
come just be like all right and you go
back to your seat you should not care
why she rejected you or
um you shouldn't care that she rejected
you period like you shouldn't care
because she's rejecting something that
she doesn't even [ __ ] know
so you go back to your seat and go talk
to another [ __ ] that's one but if she's
open and she's like I'm fine how are you
and you can just start a regular
conversation you know we always think
like we need to have something lined up
you don't you are a human she's a human
just go and talk to her regularly like
tell her do you have any fun plans for
this weekend or do you frequent this bar
often or are you waiting on your friends
or you're here by yourself like there is
a bunch of questions but what you need
to think and remember is that whatever
she gives you the little crumbs that
she's throwing at you like with her
response so hopefully she's saying some
[ __ ] you can piggyback on it and like
expand the conversation you always need
to look for those because so then that
makes the conversation where is he on
you no stress like let's say she says
okay at least we can have some friends
visiting town and um yeah it's gonna be
a good time and you're like oh where are
they visiting from are they from where
you're from what do you have plans for
them like what do you like you know you
can you can just go like with whatever
she says pretty much you don't have to
like put pressure on yourself thinking
like okay the conversation's gonna be
great no ask your question and we've
watched your response just grab
something and ask another question and
I'm telling you the more you talk about
her the more she's gonna like you
because women want to talk about
themselves she might ask you a question
hopefully you can respond but um women
like to talk so the more you make her
talk about herself the better she's
gonna feel and one opener that uh you
can always use and I'll let you know
that uh it works one guy used it only
one used it on me and I was like oh okay
uh the question was what's your story
and that's a question that nobody asked
so right there you're gonna set yourself
apart and also it's gonna catch her of
God so she's gonna be like oh okay and
she's gonna start wondering okay what's
my story and like bring her hopefully
happy memories about where she's from
how she got where she's at now and and
that's just like again she's gonna talk
about herself she's gonna love it and
that's it and then you're in the [ __ ]
quick quick quick quick
oh I have another one that works really
well that one only one guy asked me
before it was like um what is a passion
of yours that you would do if you were
not getting paid for it and I was like
damn that's a good question because I
mean you know we always think like of
[ __ ] that
um we want to make money off of and but
then the fact that he's talking to me
about my passion that brings me joy
because I'm like okay what are my
passions what do I really like to do and
then that start bringing memories of my
passions and the good time I have and
then right there I'm gonna associate
that with him because he's the one who
asked me that question so therefore he's
the one who brought me joy even if it's
really the passion that's bringing me
joy but since he asked and he made me
think about it you know you get the
picture so I think after that
you get the your ice skates you want to
go out
and don't ask for the number just like
that just ask her to go out and ask her
what day is a good day for her you know
and then at the end you ask for the
number so you can coordinate that's how
you get the number you don't get the
number let me have your number you get
the number because the number is going
to be the way
to be uh able to be in contact with her
to coordinate for the date so the number
becomes more of a accessory of a tool
than just you getting a number
that's all I got for today I hope you
guys like this video I hope that makes
you feel more at ease when a girl looks
at you because you guys they're shy you
guys might be shy but women always
expect you kind of like come and talk to
them so hopefully you can go and talk to
her and help her out and help yourself
out too
jumping up
so I don't know why you're jumping to
the side but hey you know there's
several ways to jump in the [ __ ] so I
if you haven't subscribed yet I hope you
guys are gonna subscribe to this Channel
and then you can follow me at uh Melly
Monaco
on Instagram and I really love Excel and
I got some music coming out pretty soon
December 3rd uh hopefully you guys are
gonna go listen on Spotify and that you
are going to watch the video when it
comes out same day December 3rd Mark the
date December 3rd I'll be here all right
I love you lovers and I hope you're
having a good day and that um
you're being great yeah go be great go
be great all right I love you
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