9 HABITS That Make YOU Look INSECURE To Women (Total Turn Off )

Summary

In this video, Marne highlights nine common social mistakes that make men appear insecure to women, often without realizing it. These include poor eye contact, excessive self-deprecation, denying compliments, and constantly talking about oneself. He emphasizes the importance of confidence in creating genuine connections and avoiding behaviors that signal insecurity, such as over-apologizing or hiding romantic interest. The video provides actionable advice on how to improve social interactions with women and builds confidence. Marne also introduces Joy Mode, a supplement designed to boost sexual performance, as a way to enhance overall confidence.

Takeaways

• 😀 Poor eye contact makes you appear insecure. Practice holding eye contact to convey confidence and interest.
• 😀 Excessive self-deprecation can make you seem like you don’t like yourself, which is unattractive. Use it sparingly.
• 😀 Denying compliments shows insecurity. Simply say 'thanks' to show appreciation and build connection.
• 😀 Making fun of others too often signals insecurity and overcompensation. Avoid putting people down to seem cool.
• 😀 Constantly talking about yourself can make you seem self-absorbed. Share the spotlight and ask others about themselves.
• 😀 Bragging about your career or wealth comes off as arrogant and insecure. Let your achievements speak for themselves.
• 😀 Downplaying your career makes you look insecure. Present your job in a way that shows its value and importance.
• 😀 Apologizing for everything signals a lack of confidence. Reserve apologies for when they're genuinely necessary.
• 😀 Hiding your romantic interest in women makes you seem dishonest and insecure. Own your intentions to appear confident.
• 😀 Confident men don’t need to boast about their wealth or career to attract women. Show your value in other ways.
• 😀 Women are instinctively drawn to men who are clear about their intentions and unashamed of their interest in them.

Q & A

Why is poor eye contact a social mistake?

Poor eye contact is a social mistake because it makes you appear insecure and uninterested. Women instinctively pick up on this, and it conveys nervousness or a lack of confidence. Holding eye contact helps reassure the person you’re engaging with, showing that you’re listening and confident.

What is the risk of constant self-deprecation?

While self-deprecation can be used humorously in moderation, overusing it can make people think you truly dislike yourself, which may prompt them to feel the same way. This undermines your self-confidence and can make you less attractive.

How should you respond to a compliment to avoid looking insecure?

When someone compliments you, respond with a simple 'Thank you.' This shows that you appreciate the compliment and value what the person said. Avoid downplaying or denying the compliment, as this can make you appear insecure or uncomfortable with praise.

Why is making fun of others a sign of insecurity?

Making fun of others is often a tactic used to seem superior or cool in front of women. However, constantly putting others down can indicate that you’re overcompensating for your own insecurities. Secure individuals don’t need to belittle others to feel good about themselves.

What is the issue with constantly talking about yourself?

Constantly talking about yourself can make you seem arrogant or self-absorbed. It may come across as if you're seeking approval rather than trying to connect with others. Sharing stories relevant to the conversation and allowing others to share theirs helps build rapport and shows genuine interest.

Why is bragging about your career unattractive?

Bragging about your career, especially focusing on wealth and status, can be a turn-off because it highlights materialism rather than personal character. Confident, wealthy men don't feel the need to flaunt their success; those who do may appear insecure or shallow.

What’s the opposite of bragging about your career that could be seen as insecure?

Downplaying your career or feeling ashamed of it is another form of insecurity. When you minimize your job or act like it’s not important, you may come across as lacking pride in your work. Instead, try presenting your job in a positive light by explaining its value and relevance to your life.

How does excessive apologizing make you appear insecure?

Excessive apologizing can be a sign of insecurity because it suggests you fear conflict or rejection. Saying sorry too often, especially for things that don’t require an apology, can make you seem unsure of yourself. It’s better to save apologies for situations where they are genuinely warranted.

Why is hiding your interest in women a mistake?

Hiding your interest in a woman can make you seem dishonest or insecure. Women often test whether you’re confident enough to admit your romantic intentions. If you deny flirting or interest, you risk coming across as lacking the confidence to pursue what you want, which can be a turn-off.

What is the benefit of openly expressing your romantic interest?

Openly expressing your romantic interest in a woman signals confidence and honesty. It shows that you're unashamed of your intentions, which can be a huge turn-on. It’s also a key step in avoiding the 'friend zone,' as women are attracted to men who aren’t afraid to show they’re interested.