Masculine Men Accept This HARSH TRUTH To Maintain Power Around Women (Rude Awakening)
Summary
TLDRThe speaker addresses the common misconception that women are confusing, asserting that women's behavior is straightforward and men often prefer confusion over facing the truth. He outlines three potential outcomes when dating: women being warm and receptive, cold and distant, or hot and cold. He advises men to 'read their keys' and respond appropriately, leaving situations where they're not wanted and not stressing over situations beyond their control. The video emphasizes self-respect, understanding one's worth, and the importance of not complicating the dating process.
Takeaways
- 😌 **Relaxation**: The speaker starts by setting a relaxed and casual tone, indicating that the advice will be given in a laid-back manner.
- 🗣️ **Men's Misconception**: The speaker addresses a common belief that many men have about women being confusing or complex.
- 🚫 **Rejecting Confusion**: The speaker asserts that women are not confusing and that men's confusion often stems from a reluctance to accept the truth.
- 🔑 **Key Outcomes**: Relationships with women typically lead to one of three outcomes: warm and receptive, cold and distant, or hot and cold.
- 💡 **Truth in Simplicity**: The speaker suggests that men should 'read their keys', or observe clear signs of interest or disinterest from women, rather than overcomplicating things.
- 🚀 **Self-respect**: If a woman is not interested, the speaker advises men to have self-respect and remove themselves from the situation.
- 🏃 **Avoiding Hypotheticals**: The speaker warns against creating hypothetical scenarios to explain a woman's hot and cold behavior, and instead to focus on observable behavior.
- 🎯 **Zero Tolerance**: The speaker emphasizes the importance of having zero tolerance for situations that are not beneficial or where one is not wanted.
- 🤔 **Self-Reflection**: Men are encouraged to reflect on why they might be confused in relationships and to stop creating complex scenarios in their heads.
- 🌟 **Honesty is Key**: The speaker recommends being honest and oneself, and accepting the results, rather than trying to manipulate situations.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is addressing the common belief that women are confusing, and the speaker argues that women are not confusing but rather men prefer to be confused than to see the truth.
What are the three outcomes the speaker mentions when interacting with women?
-The three outcomes are: 1) the woman is warm and receptive, 2) the woman is cold and closed off, 3) the woman is hot and cold, sometimes liking and sometimes disliking the man.
Why does the speaker believe that some men think women are confusing?
-The speaker believes that some men think women are confusing because their brains subconsciously prefer to be confused rather than face the truth about the woman's feelings towards them.
What advice does the speaker give for dealing with a woman who is warm and receptive?
-If a woman is warm and receptive, the speaker suggests that there is no need to follow any 'faux alpha male dating advice' and that the man can pretty much get away with anything because the woman likes him.
What should a man do if a woman is cold and closed off, according to the speaker?
-If a woman is cold and closed off, the speaker advises that the man should have self-respect and leave the situation because the woman is not interested.
How does the speaker describe the situation when a woman is hot and cold?
-The speaker describes a hot and cold situation as one where the woman is confused about what she wants, and it's not the man's job to convince her to like him.
What is the concept of 'reading your keys' that the speaker discusses?
-'Reading your keys' is a football analogy used by the speaker to explain the importance of understanding the situation and the other person's feelings, rather than being confused or trying to force a connection.
What does the speaker say about men who are good at reading women's signals?
-The speaker says that men who are good at reading women's signals, or 'keys,' don't waste time on situations that aren't working out and have zero tolerance for confusion or unproductive relationships.
What is the speaker's opinion on honesty in dating?
-The speaker recommends being honest and being oneself in dating, and accepting the results, rather than trying to trick or convince someone into liking you.
What does the speaker suggest is the key to not being stressed in the dating game?
-The speaker suggests that the key to not being stressed in the dating game is to read the signals correctly and not to overcomplicate things by staying in situations that are not working out.
Outlines
🔍 Decoding Women's Behaviors
The speaker begins by setting a relaxed tone for the video, discussing the common belief that women are confusing. He challenges this notion by asserting that women are actually simple and not inherently confusing. The confusion arises when men prefer to remain confused rather than face the truth. He explains that every interaction with a woman typically results in one of three outcomes: warm and receptive, cold and closed off, or hot and cold. The speaker advises that if a woman is warm, there's no need for complex dating strategies, but if she's cold, it's best to respect her feelings and move on. The hot and cold scenario is where men often get confused, but the speaker suggests that it's not about the woman being confusing but rather about men not wanting to accept the reality of the situation.
🚫 Avoiding the Backup Plan Mentality
In this paragraph, the speaker addresses the 'hot and cold' behavior of women, suggesting that it's not about women leading men on or using them as a backup plan, but rather about women being unsure of what they want. He advises that self-respecting men should not try to convince a woman to like them if she's giving mixed signals. The speaker uses the analogy of 'reading your keys' in football to explain how one should assess a situation and make decisions based on clear signs. He emphasizes that it's not a man's job to convince a woman to be attracted to him, but rather to recognize when a situation is not working and move on. The speaker also references a TV show where a guest stated that men with game have zero tolerance for bad situations, which he agrees with, advocating for self-respect and not tolerating situations that are not beneficial.
👋 Leaving the Complicated Behind
The speaker shares anecdotes about men who use dishonest tactics to get what they want from women, emphasizing that while these tactics may work, he advises being honest and true to oneself. He stresses that reading the 'keys' or signs in a dating situation is crucial, whether one is a 'bad boy' or a 'good man.' The speaker suggests that dating should not be stressful and that men should not get emotionally attached to women they are not in a committed relationship with. He concludes by reiterating the importance of reading the signs in any dating situation and acting accordingly, whether that means moving on or pursuing a relationship further. The speaker ends the video by encouraging viewers to enjoy the dating process without stress and to be true to themselves.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Dating Advice
💡Confusing
💡Warm and Receptive
💡Cold and Closed Off
💡Hot and Cold
💡Read Your Keys
💡Self-Respect
💡Red Pill
💡Faux Alpha Male
💡Game
💡Truth
Highlights
The speaker begins by setting a relaxed tone for the video, discussing the pleasant weather and his intention to provide dating advice.
He addresses a common belief that women are confusing, aiming to challenge this notion.
The speaker asserts that women are not inherently confusing and that men's confusion often stems from a reluctance to accept the truth.
He outlines three possible outcomes when interacting with women: warm and receptive, cold and closed off, or hot and cold.
In the case of a positive outcome, the speaker suggests that no special dating advice is needed.
For negative outcomes, he advises against trying to change a woman's feelings through 'red pill' tactics.
The speaker uses a football analogy to explain the importance of 'reading your keys' in understanding women's behavior.
He emphasizes self-respect and advises leaving situations where a woman is hot and cold.
The speaker refutes the idea that a woman's hot and cold behavior means she's using someone as a backup plan.
He quotes a statement from a show about having zero tolerance for confusion in dating.
The speaker encourages viewers to be themselves and accept the outcomes of their dating efforts.
He shares a story about a man who deceives others to eliminate competition in dating.
The speaker points out that many men are not genuine and still succeed in dating, highlighting the importance of reading signals.
He stresses that dating should not be stressful and that emotional attachment should not control one's actions.
The speaker concludes by reiterating the importance of reading signals and not overcomplicating dating.
He ends the video with a reminder to enjoy dating and not to stress over it, emphasizing personal freedom in choosing a dating style.
Transcripts
what's up Brothers hope everyone's doing
well out
there it's a nice cool gray evening in
the middle of
fall and you know it's pretty chill it's
pretty
relaxed so I figured you know what I'll
come out here and I'll give you guys
some dating
advice well mostly I just wanted to turn
the camera on and shoot the with
you guys for a little while so we got a
minute and you know you just want to
chill and talk stick
around and what I want to talk about in
today's video is a comment that I see a
lot in my comment section and I'm
sure most Mana sphere creators dating
coaches and people like that they
probably see this comment a lot so I
know it's a popular belief and a popular
opinion and that is that the majority of
men out there think that women are
confused confusing you know the majority
of men out there think that women are
complex they're just confused by
women and the choices that women make
and the
behaviors that women
possess so that's what I want to talk
about in this
video let me start by you know really
giving you the root Awakening hitting
you with the
truth women aren't confusing
they're very simple they're not the
slightest bit
confusing and if you're a man out there
that thinks women are confusing the
reason you think this is because your
brain would subconsciously rather be
confused than to see the
truth so think about that for a second
pontificate on that one for a
second now
every woman that you go out with every
woman that you take out on a
date you know every woman that you're
texting with or hooking up with or
whatever every situation is going to
result in one of these three
outcomes outcome number one she's going
to be warm and receptive that's a good
outcome right she likes
you outcome number two she's going to be
cold and she's going to be close
off okay that's not so good that means
she doesn't like you very much she
doesn't want to be with
you outcome number three is she's going
to be hot and
cold you know she's sometimes going to
be warm sometimes cold you know
distant confusing
right well here's the thing obviously if
you have outcome number one you don't
need to take take any of this faux alpha
male dating
advice you know you don't need to really
pay too much attention
to any pickup type or like really
study red
pill you can pretty much get away with
anything when a woman likes you okay you
don't have to worry about looking like a
simp like overp pursuing you don't have
to worry about any of that she
likes you it's going to be
fine so understand
that but if you have outcome number two
and she doesn't like
you and you're cramming your brain full
of red pill game
pickup to try to convince her to do
something
otherwise she's going to be repulsed by
you every time because she's already let
you
know she's not into
you okay you're
confused because you can't figure figure
out why you're not getting the response
you
want
but here's the thing if you ever played
linebacker before the coach is telling
you the same thing every day he says
read your
keys reading your keys means you look at
the offensive line and it's very simple
it might look complex to people that
have never played football before but
it's very
simple the linemen are either going to
block for the passer block for the
quarterback or they're going to going to
pull a hole open for a running
back okay so read your keys is it a run
play or is it a pass play right so with
women don't be confused don't sit around
in
confusion read your keys she's warm and
receptive okay cool we've got something
here she's cooled and distant okay cool
we don't have anything here I'm leaving
you know have some self respect get the
hell out of
there but here's the tricky part she's
hot and she's cold sometimes she likes
you sometimes she hates you a lot of
guys will give you real bad advice on
this they'll say well you know she's
somebody else and you're a
backup plan or whatever they'll come up
with all these hypothetical scenarios
that they can't prove and they have no
idea if they exist or
not here's the
truth when a woman's hot and cold
she doesn't know what the hell she
wants okay she's
confused and if you let yourself get
lost in that you're going to be just as
confused as her so if you're a
self-respecting man if a woman's hot and
cool you just get the hell
out because look it's not your job to
convince somebody to like you it's not
your job to convince somebody to be
attracted to you it's not your job to
convince somebody to want to sleep with
you that's their job and if they're
unable to come through on their
job ain't nobody got time for that you
know I was watching a show uh this just
came to my mind I was watching
uh real game no Theory which is uh I
don't know if you guys watch that they
they they do a show on Sunday
afternoons Mr Lucario Steve the dean
Williams
[Music]
uh miles
Cunningham
1950 and uh k k
zagen anyways they do a show on Sunday
mornings and guy on the
show whose name is 1950 he said a
statement the other day and I was just
like sometimes the most simple
statements are kind of profound but what
he said was
guys with game have zero tolerance for
you know it's a pretty pretty
common like you should know that already
right like it's a very simple statement
but it's profound right he's like
simplified it so
much having game isn't about tricking
women into liking you it's not about
convincing people to like you it's not
about putting yourself in a
situation that isn't good for you no
it's about about reading your
keys and saying you know what this is
working or this isn't
working zero time for I'm
getting out you know so anyways shout
out to that show good show on Sunday
mornings check it out but that was just
a cool statement that he said
there but yeah women aren't confusing
women aren't confusing if you're a guy
out there that believes that women are
confusing the reason you believe that is
because sub
consciously you would rather be confused
than to see the
truth and it's like that in a lot of
situations you know a a lot of times you
just can't accept something so you
create this whole complex scenario in
your own head don't do that read your
keys and just go with
it if you knew how
silly how childish the dating
game is out there you wouldn't stress
about it at
all I know a guy this is just I'm just
going to go on a little story here I
know a guy
who runs around telling all the guys all
the
dudes that he's a man of
God and God has made it so he can't get
an erection until he's married
so he'll tell guys that he has Ed but
God gave him Ed because God doesn't want
him to have sex until
marriage and most of the guys will hear
that and they'll like feel sorry for him
like okay this guy can't get it up
whatever
right but secretly this dude is running
around hooking up with everyone's
girlfriend you know he's sneaking over
to people's houses he's he's all
the women
so he's telling guys this to eliminate
the male competition and to have them
believe in that he wouldn't do that but
secretly he's running around hooking up
with all the
women that's the type of goofy
that's the silly that goes on out
there in the dating game like some of
you guys need to realize like you're
probably
better than 80% of men out there but
you're not you're just not
utilizing who you are and what you are
if you realize how silly it was though
you know I used to have a friend in the
summertime we'd go on vacations we'd go
down to
Miami sometimes Myrtle Beach South
Carolina you know we' go to different
places down in the
Southeast this friend of mine this was
before the social media era so you
couldn't just look people
up but he'd tell all the women that he
was a doctor he was like an aspiring
actor you know he was this like real
Rich famous guy he just lie to him and
you know they'd end up sleeping with him
he just bullshitting just lying to him
they'd sleep with him I'm not telling
you to lie to people I'm not telling you
to do what this first guy did either you
know the so-called man of God I'm just
telling you you know half of the men out
there are frauds
and they're still getting action they're
still getting what they want simply
because they're smart enough to read the
keys right it doesn't matter you know I
recommend you be honest and you be
yourself and just accept the results I
think that's the best way that's what I
do but even if you were a con artist you
know you are like the pickup artist type
and you're just trying to play games
with
women if you're able to read your keys
it's simple you go to a bar
you talk to one chick oh she's warm and
she's open cool just stay on her make it
happen you talk to a chick she's closed
off and you know she's ignoring
you leave
immediately don't look like a fool
pursuing somebody that doesn't like
you you know whatever hot and cold
situation leave ain't got time for that
when you read your
keys you don't don't waste any
time sometimes it works out sometimes it
doesn't but you don't stress any of that
it only gets
complicated when you have
kids or you're married or the two of you
own a home together you know if one of
those three things hidden in the
equation it ain't complex just read your
keys and move
accordingly have fun enjoy yourself
you know it's not supposed to be
stressful a lot of guys will sit around
all
heartbroken heartbroken over some
chick that they're not married to they
don't have kids
with like you have no
responsibility to be emotionally
connected to a
woman but somehow she has full control
over your
emotions that's
stupid obviously somewhere along the
line you didn't read your keys you
up somebody's got to be honest with you
and then you sit back and you say well
women are so confusing this woman is so
confusing you know I did everything
right you know and she still dump me and
she's going out with some other
guy no you didn't do everything
right the second you started to realize
she was cool and
distant you stuck around you should have
left that's where you up you
didn't do everything
right so a lot of people like to talk
about bad boys versus good men nice guys
right doesn't matter which one you are
if you want to live a bad boy lifestyle
hooking up with all the
women you can do that you have the
freedom to do
that if you want to be a good man
monogamous settle down you can do that
but regardless of which one you want to
be you can't allow yourself to get
caught up in
that's really all it is you
know there's a lot of women out there
that want to be with a good man a lot of
women out there that just want to settle
down and have a monogamous relationship
there's a lot of women out there that
just want to have fun they want to have
a good time they're looking for that hot
bad boy to really give it to
them whatever you want you can
accomplish you just have to read your
keys all right guys I'm go ahead and
shut this one off but uh and know I hope
this video was somewhat
informative I'll be back again with
another video maybe in a couple of
days that's about it for today guys
until next time see you
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