How to Create a Sexual Spark With a Woman - Examples

Dan Bacon
3 Apr 202320:04

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how differently would you live your life

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if you had this power with women I'll

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tell you what the power is and then I'll

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show you how to do it it's the power to

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instantly create a sexual spark with any

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woman you meet you essentially have the

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power to attract women at will you're

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not relying on hopefully getting lucky

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you have the power to instantly create a

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sexual spark imagine that you had that

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power right what happens is that rather

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than looking at women and seeing them as

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unattainable or Out Of Reach or too hard

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to get what happens is that you feel

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excited because you know that if you go

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up and interact with her you are going

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to be able to make her feel a spark of

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sexual attraction for you it doesn't

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mean that you're going to be able to

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pick up every woman that you talk to

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because some women aren't going to be

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single and some women just aren't going

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to be a good match for you you're not

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going to like who they are but in every

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case when you walk up and talk to a

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woman you have the ability to create a

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spark of Attraction inside of her she

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actually feels attracted to the

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attractive signals that you are

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displaying when you're interacting with

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her so I'll give you some examples now

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so you can see what I mean by

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unattractive signals versus attractive

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signals and then I'll explain further

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right so imagine that a guy went to a

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party and when he got there he was

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introduced to a girl named Jenny and

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Jenny is an attractive girl he liked her

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as soon as he saw her now in the first

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example I'm going to show that the guy

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is not necessarily being unattractive

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but he's just being neutral right in the

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last example I'll show unattractive

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signals but in this initial example he's

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just being neutral right and you'll see

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that he's not creating a sexual spark

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inside of her so the conversation starts

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and he says oh hi how are you and she

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says good thanks and he says I'm Dan

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what's your name and she says Jenny

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so what do you do she says she works in

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it oh cool so how long have you been

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doing that and she says about 5 years

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all right that's cool so like you're a

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programmer or something she says yeah

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and he then says all right yeah cool so

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did you have to go to university for

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that and she says yeah right so he's

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just having a neutral conversation with

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her right he has an opportunity with a

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woman that he finds attractive named

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Jenny she's telling him what she does

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for a living and he has an opportunity

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right there and then to create a spark

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between him and her but he doesn't do it

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because he either doesn't know how to do

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it or he's afraid that if he tries to do

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it it won't work and he'll get rejected

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and everyone will look at him and

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they'll think he's a loser or whatever

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and so on right so he just plays it safe

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he just talks to her in a neutral way

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because he knows that he can get along

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with people right he can just have a

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chat talk and so forth and he hopes that

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Jenny's going to like him for some

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reason she's going to like how he looks

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She's going to like his shirt or

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whatever it may be or what he does for a

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living but it turns out that she's not

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feeling a sexual spark with him he's

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just another guy who doesn't make her

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feel anything like he's just getting

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along with her and she might see him as

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a good guy and think yeah he's a good

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guy and so forth but there's nothing

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there there's nothing there between them

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so now here's an example of creating a

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sexual spark right this is something

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that I'm an expert at this is something

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that I mastered I went out there and

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interacted with a lot of women and

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hooked up with loads of women and

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enjoyed that before settling down and

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guys who watch my channel would know

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that guys who are new here now you know

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right I've done it hundreds of times and

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it's very easy to do once you understand

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how it works you can do it however

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before I show you the examples I want to

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point out that us men feel attracted to

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women for different reasons than women

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feel attracted to us men so when you

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watch the following examples you might

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be thinking well I wouldn't like it if a

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woman said that to me I wouldn't feel

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attracted if she was behaving like that

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I like women who are nice and friendly I

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like women who are just pretty and nice

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and friendly to me I wouldn't want a

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woman to be playfully challenging me

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playfully messing with me playfully

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teasing me and so on I just want a woman

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to be nice and friendly and warm and to

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be pretty and that's it yet it's

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important to understand that women want

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to feel something else when they're

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interacting with us they don't just want

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to feel nice little Sweet Emotions where

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the guy is just being nice and friendly

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women want to be able to feel our

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confidence our masculinity our rawness

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our daring but at the same time they

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also want us to be Charming to be good

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guys so what I'm about to show you are

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examples of being a good guy but also

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having some balls having a bit of Daring

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putting the woman on the spot and making

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her feel challenged in a playful way

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that attracts women for so many reasons

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and I'll explain some of those reasons

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as as I go through the examples but I

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just want to point out that if you don't

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ever understand this and you continue to

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think that you just have to be nice to

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women and you have to be friendly and

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just get along with them in a nice way

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then you'll be frustrated that they

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don't feel turned on by you even though

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you're being really good to them even

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though you're doing lots of good things

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for them you've got to understand that

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creating a sexual spark is different to

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just being the regular good guy that you

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are you've got to be able to display

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some traits that make a woman feel

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sexual Sparks right so the conversation

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starts off in the same way it's totally

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fine to say Hi how are you and you can

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even ask a woman what she does for a

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living right it's not the best start to

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a conversation but you can work with it

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if you ask that sort of question you can

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still create a spark right so in this

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case I've said Hi how are you got her

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name and she says that she works in it

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then I create a sexual Spark by

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displaying attractive signals well that

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makes sense and she asks why right she

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said that she works in it and I've said

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well that makes sense and she's asking

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why right because Suddenly It's like

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what what why does it make sense why

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does she seem like a girl who works in

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it well when I first saw you I was like

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well this girl looks like a nerd now it

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makes sense you're a nerdy it girl it

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suits you even if she doesn't look like

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a nerd right I'm just messing with her

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right and the attractive signals that

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I'm displaying there is that I have the

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confidence to do that when I'm

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interacting with her the social

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intelligence to be able to make a joke

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in a situation like that and come up

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with something like that she senses that

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I'm not afraid of her but at the same

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time I'm still being a good guy I'm not

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being rude about it I'm not saying

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something like well that makes sense

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yeah when I first saw her I thought this

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girl looks like a nerd instead I'm being

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more Charming about I'm being more

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charismatic I'm adding in a smile I'm

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being a bit cheeky about it and the

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woman can see that women sense these

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things they know it they understand

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what's going on and they see it as

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flirting they don't take offense from it

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and say what you're saying look like a

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nerd yeah and tip a drink in your face

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slap you and then everyone points at you

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in the bar or the club or the party or

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whatever it just doesn't work like that

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women understand and for guys watching

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this who haven't flirted with women

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before you've most likely seen other

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guys do it where they start flirting

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with a woman and they say things that

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you think well if I said that to a woman

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I'd get slapped or I'd get rejected but

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he's able to do it what's going on there

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it's because the woman can sense that

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he's flirting right he's only joking

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with her so in this case you can then

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follow up with something like no I'm

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just kidding you don't seem that nerdy

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you seem kind of cool all right so

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you're continuing on with the joke there

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you're giving her a bit of a compliment

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and you're putting yourself in that

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position where you're sort of in the

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oneup position you're the cooler one

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there but you're not being arrogant

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about it you're still being playful

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about it you're not saying something

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like no I'm just kidding you don't seem

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that nerdy I mean you're kind of cool

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right you're being playful about it by

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saying no I'm just kidding you don't

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seem that nerdy you seem kind of cool

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the woman then feels playfully

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challenged in the moment she sees that

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there's a flous Vibe back and forth

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between you and her if you and her were

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to go home together that night or were

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to go on a date or get into a

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relationship ship you're not just going

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to be a boring flat neutral guy that

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just says oh so how long you been

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working it yeah right and did you have

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to go to UNI to study that yeah right

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how many years did you study at Uni yeah

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okay now that said a guy doesn't have to

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playfully challenge a woman all the time

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it's just something that you can add in

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that instantly creates a spark between

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you and a woman right she FS that energy

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of all right this guy isn't afraid of me

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this guy has the confidence the balls to

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play with me to mess with me to put me

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on the spot right to make me feel a

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little bit uncomfortable in a playful

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way right and that then translates in

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her mind as okay in the bedroom he might

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be a little bit more confident than

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other guys he might you know move me

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around the bed with a bit more

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confidence and assertiveness he might do

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things that other guys are too afraid to

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do in the bedroom additionally she can

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instinctively start to feel that okay

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this guy wouldn't be afraid if I

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introduced him to my friends or family

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he wouldn't be some shy awkward guy that

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can't get along with anyone he can get

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along with people and create that energy

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right away he doesn't have a problem

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creating a bit of a funny moment right

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he's not afraid of that now that said

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creating a funny moment between you and

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a woman isn't the only way to attract

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her right you can also attract women by

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being masculine by being Charming by

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being charismatic and so on yet using

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playfully challenging humor like that is

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one of the easiest ways to create a

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spark it's the best for beginners right

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when you're very confident and sure of

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yourself you can interact with a woman

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and use very subtle body language that

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is coming from your deep confidence your

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deep masculinity and she can sense it

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and she feels attracted and turned on by

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that but for beginners and for guys who

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aren't good at picking up women using

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playfully challenging humor in moments

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like that is one of the easiest ways to

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create a spark so here's another example

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she says that she works in it and then I

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say something like this so on our first

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dat let's make it at my place because my

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computer needs fixing at the moment and

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you just look at her with a bit of a

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cheeky smile she sees that you're just

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being playful there you have the

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confidence to say something like that to

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suggest that you and her are going to go

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on a first date and to tell her to

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actually do something for you to do you

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a favor women don't go around admitting

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this but they like guys who have the

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confidence the balls to occasionally

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tell them to do something right because

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that then translates into the bedroom

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right telling her to get on her knees

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for example and it can translate into

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everyday life where the guy has the

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confidence to tell other people what to

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do so he may be a manager he may be a

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leader and so forth and managers and

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leaders tend to do better in life

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financially of course if he's not a

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manager if he doesn't work at that level

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she sees the potential in him right she

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sees the potential that he may do better

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in life than a guy who's very shy and

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unassuming and is afraid to ask for what

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he wants or is afraid to ask a woman to

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do something for him and another example

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of displaying some attractive signals to

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create a spark in response to her saying

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that she works in it is right so you're

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pretty you're smart but do you have the

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third most important thing of all and

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then she asked what that is the ability

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to cook a good meal I mean are you a

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good cook that is the question right so

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suddenly she sees that you're confident

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enough to say that she is pretty but

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you're not sucking up to her about it oh

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you're so beautiful sort of thing are

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you're just saying it as a matter of

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fact you're not intimidated by her

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you're giving her another compliment by

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saying that she's smart but then you of

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pulling the rug out from underneath her

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in a playful Way by asking if she can

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cook you work in it oh it takes brains

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to work in it right so let's see you're

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pretty you're smart but there's a third

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thing which is the most important

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question of all she then ask what the

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question is can you cook that is the

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most important thing to us men of all

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right so if she's beautiful she then

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sees that yes you see her as beautiful

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but you're not instantly impressed just

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because she's beautiful she has to

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impress you but you're only doing it in

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a playful way you're not being serious

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about it and saying well you know you're

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pretty you're smart but can you cook

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right I mean I like a woman who can cook

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it's none of that sort of stuff it's

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just you being playful Charming

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charismatic creating a funny moment

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between you and her and she then feels

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spark fear she feels a spark because

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you're being confident another spark

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because you're being socially

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intelligent you're able to say something

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like that come up with something like

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that you have the balls to do it the

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masculinity to do it to put her on the

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spot like that to calmly talk through

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what you're saying right you're not

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saying oh okay well you're pretty you're

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smart but can you cook and being nervous

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about it right you're saying okay so

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you're pretty you're smart but there's

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one thing that's more important than all

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of that to us men she then ask what that

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is can you cook are you a good cook that

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is what matters most to us men you then

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instantly create a spark with her where

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there's flirting going back and forth

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and flirting is where you playfully show

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interest in the other person right

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you're showing that you're interested in

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her she's pretty she's smart you're

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going to go out and a date with her and

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so forth but you're only doing it in a

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playful way flirting is an oh well

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you're pretty and smart and can you cook

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I like you flirting is a subtle indirect

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discret language that women understand

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but unfortunately a lot of guys don't

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understand and it's the way to

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communicate your interest in a woman

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without actually saying hey I like you I

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think you're pretty you want to go on a

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date and do you like me too and so forth

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It's a subtle conversation going back

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and forth where you're showing interest

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in each other where she says yeah I can

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cook and yeah my best dish is blah blah

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blah oh cool maybe you can cook me that

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on our second date and you're flirting

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about the idea of going on a date having

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a second date her cooking something for

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you it's not a serious thing but it

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instantly creates this private World

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between you and her a connection you're

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not just talking to her like a neutral

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Guy where you're just getting along and

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you want to be friends with her you're

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instantly creating something between you

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and her so now here's an example of

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displaying unattractive signals the girl

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said she works in it and the guy then

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says oh so yeah what's it like working

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with so many guys you know you know

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you're pretty so I suppose a lot of guys

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are hitting on you at the office

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immediately she knows that okay this

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guy's insecure and if she were to get

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into a relationship with him he would

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most likely become a nightmare for her

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in terms of being insecure and jealous

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and overprotective when she went to work

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and worrying about some male coworker

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talking to her and so on he's clearly

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sending unattractive signals there and

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it's very obvious but what a lot of guys

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don't know is that the unattractive

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signals they are displaying are often

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very subtle right that was an obvious

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example but there are very subtle ones

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as well and when a guy doesn't

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understand how to make women feel

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attracted he interacts with women that

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he finds attractive they don't find him

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attractive and then he starts to look at

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women as being unattainable women like

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that they don't like me I've tried

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talking to women like that they don't

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like me you know maybe I need to accept

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that type of woman

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that's the only one that seems to like

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me right but he doesn't want that he

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wants a girl like that or a girl like

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that you know she's attractive she's

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attractive I like her I like her I want

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to be with a woman like that yet when he

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interacts with her he doesn't create

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Sparks of Attraction so when you have

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the power to create Sparks of Attraction

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inside of a woman you suddenly stop

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feeling nervous and unsure of yourself

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and anxious about walking over and

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talking to a woman because you know that

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if you walk over and start an

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interaction with her you going to be

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able to make her feel Sparks of

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Attraction it doesn't mean that you're

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going to be able to pick up every woman

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that you talk to because sometimes a

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woman is a bit harder to get than others

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and if you don't have the knowledge of

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how to handle that and stay in the

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interaction and move things forward you

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might just give up and walk away or she

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might not be the type of woman that you

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like personality wise or her

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intelligence level might not be where

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you want it to be and then you lose

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interest and walk away but in other

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cases where the woman is good for you

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right you like her you're attracted to

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her and you get along with her and the

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vibe is good you're able to get a result

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so rather than feeling anxious and

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nervous and Afraid and unsure when you

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see a woman that you find attractive you

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actually feel excited because you know

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that if she's single and you like her

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something's going to happen there you're

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going to kiss her you're going to have

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sex with her you're going to get her

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number you're going to set up a date

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you're going to start a relationship

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you're going to have fun times and

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you're selecting her you're in control

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you're not waiting and hoping and

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wishing and just maybe one day a girl

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that I like will like me you see an

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opportunity with a woman that you find

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attractive whether you're going through

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your everyday life or you're at work or

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you're at a party you're at a bar a club

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wherever it may be you see an

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opportunity with a woman that you find

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attractive you walk over attract her and

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move things forward right if she's

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single and she's a sort of woman that

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you like you get the result if she's not

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you just talk to another woman and you

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get the result with her so can you

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imagine how different your life would be

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if you had the power

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of being able to create a sexual spark

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inside of a woman as soon as you started

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interacting with her how different would

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your dating life be how differently

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would you approach your dating life

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right when guys first learn how to do

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this for me most guys just want to be

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able to get a girlfriend and that's fine

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get yourself a pretty girlfriend settle

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down no problem but what happens is that

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a lot of guys who learn my secrets on

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attracting women use it and they realize

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that most of the women they interact

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with

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like them now right so the guy had been

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going through life thinking that he

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would be lucky if he got himself a girl

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to suddenly right lots of pretty girls

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like me and what happens then is many

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guys decide to just play the field or to

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enjoy their choice with women for a

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while which is what I did as well right

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having sex with lots of women having

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multiple girlfriends at once and then

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when I was ready I settle down now I've

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given you some examples of how to

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attract women in this video and if you

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want to learn my best best ever

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techniques for instantly creating a

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spark when you begin interacting with a

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woman and effortlessly making her feel

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more and more attracted to you then I

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recommend that you read my ebook the

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flow or listen to the Audi book version

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essentially you create a spark of

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Attraction when you first start

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interacting with a woman and then you

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guide her through what I call the flow

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when you do that you effortlessly flow

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from one step to the next so you flow

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from a start of a conversation all the

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way to sex and into the start of a

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relationship like it's the easiest thing

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in the world it just flows naturally and

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easily something really cool about all

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of this which is sad at the same time is

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that most guys don't think that this is

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possible Right most guys think that if

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they're going to get a chance with a

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woman she has to like them based on

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their physical appearance or the guy has

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to be successful in life or something

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like that he can't actually talk to her

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and make her feel attracted that's not

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possible that's what most guys think

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most guys think that women feel

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attracted to men in the same way that

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men feel attracted to women in that we

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can look at a woman and instantly feel

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attracted to her instantly like her and

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she doesn't have to do anything else to

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impress us and we' kiss her and have sex

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with her no problem and for some guys

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that even have a relationship with her

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simply based on her looking the way that

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she does and just being a bit friendly

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that's it done so most guys think that

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it works the same way they got to look

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as good as they can and then be friendly

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and then the girl's going to like them

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so if a guy thinks like that and

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interacts with a woman and she doesn't

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want to be with him sexually he thinks

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what I'm not good-looking enough that's

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why he doesn't actually know that he can

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create a spark of sexual attraction when

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he interacts with her he can create

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multiple Sparks and it's easy it's

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simple so on one hand it's sad but on

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the other hand it's cool for you because

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if you actually learn this stuff you

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will see that most guys don't know it

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and you're able to enjoy your choice

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with women because most guys don't know

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how to attract women they just talk in a

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neutral way or they talk in ways that

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turn women off but if you're a guy who

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can create Sparks of sex attraction

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inside of the women that you talk to you

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enjoy your choice of women