Dave Ramsey Chapter 4 Sect 1

Steve Durant
1 Nov 202023:55

Summary

TLDREl guion del video aborda la crítica a la cultura del endeudamiento, argumentando que la deuda es una elección y no una necesidad. El orador desafía las nociones convencionales de que el crédito y el consumo son inteligentes, y en su lugar, promueve la prudencia financiera y el ahorro. Destaca la importancia de la autodisciplina y la planificación financiera para evitar la esclavitud a los prestamistas, y desmitifica la idea de que el endeudamiento es esencial para la educación, la vivienda o el estilo de vida. Al final, alienta a los jóvenes a desafiar los mitos financieros y a tomar decisiones sabias para asegurar su futuro económico.

Takeaways

  • 💳 La persona entrevistada tiene múltiples tarjetas de crédito y utilizalas extensamente, incluyendo para viajes y reservas de hoteles.
  • 💰 Se menciona que los puntos de recompensa de las tarjetas de crédito pueden ser muy atractivos, llegando a pagar boletos de avión con puntos acumulados.
  • 🏦 Se destaca la facilidad con la que se pueden adquirir productos y servicios mediante tarjetas de crédito, y cómo esto puede llevar al endeudamiento.
  • 📈 Se critica la cultura del endeudamiento y se argumenta que la deuda es perjudicial, contraria a la mayoría de los mensajes culturales actuales.
  • 📚 Se enfatiza la importancia de cambiar la perspectiva cultural sobre la deuda y se sugiere que vivir sin ella requiere un cambio de paradigma.
  • 🏘️ Se menciona la historia de la tarjeta de crédito, desde su creación en 1950 hasta el surgimiento de las principales marcas como Visa y Mastercard.
  • 📊 Se comparte estadísticas sobre la cantidad de ofertas de tarjetas de crédito y la aceptación de estas por parte de los consumidores.
  • 📉 Se critica la comercialización de las tarjetas de crédito y cómo se presentan a los consumidores, comparándolas con productos que se deben desear y obtener.
  • 💬 Se discute la idea de que la deuda se ha convertido en un producto vendido efectivamente, y cómo esto ha llevado a una mayor aceptación y dependencia de la deuda en la sociedad.
  • 💼 Se relata la experiencia personal del narrador con la deuda, desde su inicio en la vida adulta hasta su decisión consciente de pagar todas sus deudas y vivir sin ellas.

Q & A

  • ¿Cuántas tarjetas de crédito suele tener la persona que habla en el guion?

    -La persona menciona tener una gran cantidad de tarjetas de crédito, incluyendo Visa, American Express, Discover y otras tarjetas de tiendas específicas.

  • ¿Por qué cree la persona que utiliza tarjetas de crédito es tan tentador?

    -Dice que los lugares donde va hacen que sea muy fácil y tentador usar todas las tarjetas de crédito que posee, ya que se utilizan para todo, desde compras hasta reservas de hoteles.

  • ¿Qué tipo de recompensas ha obtenido la persona por usar sus tarjetas de crédito?

    -Ha obtenido recompensas en efectivo, lo cual considera una gran oferta, y menciona que sin ellas no habría podido tomar un viaje a París.

  • ¿Cuánto dinero tuvo que gastar para obtener 275 dólares en recompensas según el guion?

    -Tuvo que gastar 30,000 dólares para obtener 275 dólares en recompensas.

  • ¿Qué lección particularmente difícil se menciona que tiene el orador que está dando la charla?

    -La lección difícil es convencer a la audiencia de que la deuda es una mala idea, lo que va en contra de la cultura actual que promueve la deuda como una forma inteligente de manejar el dinero.

  • ¿Qué ejemplos históricos se mencionan en el guion sobre la actitud hacia la deuda en el pasado?

    -Se mencionan ejemplos como la visión de la deuda como una locura en el catálogo de Sears de 1910, J.C. Penny y Henry Ford que no ofrecían crédito en sus tiendas o autos respectivamente debido a su desagrado por la deuda.

  • ¿Cuál fue el primer tarjeta de crédito mencionado en el guion y quién lo creó?

    -El primer tarjeta de crédito mencionado es Diners Club, creado por Frank McNamara en la ciudad de Nueva York.

  • ¿Cómo se describe el enfoque de las tarjetas de crédito en los comerciales según el guion?

    -Se describe que los comerciales de tarjetas de crédito son brillantes y esperanzadores, pero su objetivo es distraer a los consumidores de las condiciones legales y detalles de la deuda que se encuentran en los avisos legales.

  • ¿Qué consejo se da a los jóvenes en el guion sobre la deuda y la compra de vehículos?

    -Se aconseja a los jóvenes no caer en la creencia de que necesitan una nueva carro para lucir bien, y en su lugar, ahorrar y comprar un vehículo usado en efectivo para evitar la deuda.

  • ¿Qué es una de las mentiras específicas que la gente cree sobre la deuda que se menciona en el guion?

    -Una de las mentiras específicas es que necesitan construir crédito, lo cual el orador desmiente argumentando que no hay razón para endeudarse y que el objetivo debe ser evitar la deuda.

Outlines

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💳 La cultura de las tarjetas de crédito

El primer párrafo aborda la tendencia cultural de acumular tarjetas de crédito y cómo se ha vuelto una práctica común en la sociedad. La persona entrevistada menciona tener múltiples tarjetas, incluyendo Visa, American Express y Discover, y utiliza todas ellas para compras y reservas de hoteles, enfatizando en los beneficios que recibe en términos de recompensas. Además, se discute la facilidad con la que se pueden adquirir productos y servicios a crédito y cómo esto puede llevar a la acumulación de deudas. El locutor del vídeo desafía esta cultura pro-deuda, argumentando que la deuda es una elección estúpida y contraria a la sabiduría financiera tradicional.

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📚 Historia y cambio de paradigma sobre la deuda

Este párrafo explora la historia de la creación de tarjetas de crédito y cómo la percepción de la deuda ha cambiado a lo largo del tiempo. Se mencionan figuras históricas como J.C. Penny y Henry Ford, quienes eran escépticos de la deuda. Se destaca la introducción de la tarjeta de crédito Diners Club en 1950 y la evolución de Visa y Mastercard. El locutor enfatiza la importancia de desafiar la narrativa cultural dominante que promueve la deuda y abogar por un cambio de paradigma hacia una vida sin deudas.

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🎯 El enfoque distorsionado de la publicidad de tarjetas de crédito

El tercer párrafo critica la publicidad engañosa de las tarjetas de crédito, que promueve un estilo de vida de deuda presentándolo como algo deseable y emocionante. El locutor sugiere que los comerciales están diseñados para distraer a los consumidores de las verdaderas implicaciones de la deuda, comparándolos con los gatos que se distraen con luces brillantes. Aboga por una mayor conciencia y crítica hacia los mensajes de la publicidad y la toma de decisiones financieras más informadas.

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🏡 La trampa de la deuda y la compra de bienes raíces

Este párrafo narra la experiencia personal del locutor y su esposa al comenzar su vida matrimonial con deudas y la presión social de adquirir bienes raíces sin fondos iniciales. Describe cómo la 'financiación creativa' y la falta de ahorros los llevaron a adquirir una casa sin dinero de emergencia, lo que a menudo conduce a problemas financieros mayores. El locutor subraya la importancia de la libertad financiera y cómo la deuda limita las opciones y la estabilidad en la vida.

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💸 Debunking los mitos financieros comunes

El último párrafo aborda varios mitos financieros que afectan a los jóvenes adultos, como la creencia de que es necesario acumular crédito o que se puede adquirir deudas en la universidad para pagarlas más tarde. El locutor argumenta que estos mitos son engañosos y promueven una cultura de deudas. Aboga por la autodisciplina financiera, la evitación de la deuda y la importancia de ahorrar y pagar en efectivo para tener opciones y libertad en el futuro.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Deuda

La deuda se refiere a la cantidad de dinero que una persona o entidad debe a otra. En el guion, se discute cómo la deuda es percibida como algo negativo y cómo la cultura actual la promueve como algo inteligente y sabio, lo cual va en contra de las enseñanzas de las generaciones pasadas. El orador argumenta que la deuda limita las opciones de vida y es una forma de esclavitud financiera.

💡Tarjetas de crédito

Las tarjetas de crédito son un tipo de deuda que permite a los usuarios comprar bienes o servicios y pagar más tarde. En el guion, se menciona que son fáciles de obtener y a menudo se promueven con ofertas atractivas, lo que puede llevar a un uso excesivo y a la acumulación de deuda. El orador critica este modelo y sugiere que las tarjetas de crédito son una forma de enganar a los consumidores para que contraigan deudas.

💡Premios y recompensas

Los premios y recompensas son incentivos ofrecidos por las tarjetas de crédito para promover el gasto, como el reembolso de dinero o viajes. En el guion, se menciona que estos premios pueden ser tentadores, pero también pueden ser una trampa para que las personas gasten más de lo que pueden pagar y terminen en deudas.

💡Cultura del endeudamiento

La cultura del endeudamiento es la norma social que promueve la idea de que el endeudamiento es una forma aceptable y necesaria de vivir. El guion critica esta cultura y sugiere que la sociedad ha internalizado la idea de que el endeudamiento es una parte inevitable de la vida moderna, lo que lleva a la aceptación de productos financieros que generan deudas.

💡Autonomía financiera

La autonomía financiera es el estado de ser completamente libre de deudas y tener el control total sobre sus finanzas. En el guion, se presenta como un objetivo a lograr, ya que permite a las personas tomar decisiones basadas en sus propios intereses y no en las obligaciones de deuda.

💡Ahorro

El ahorro es el acto de reservar dinero para el futuro o para comprar algo específico. El guion subraya la importancia del ahorro como una forma de evitar la deuda y de adquirir bienes o servicios de manera sostenible y sin endeudarse.

💡Compromiso

El compromiso se refiere a la dedicación y el esfuerzo continuo para lograr un objetivo. En el contexto del guion, se menciona que el compromiso es necesario para pagar las deudas y alcanzar la autonomía financiera, lo que a menudo requiere sacrificios y cambios en el estilo de vida.

💡Economía de gasto

La economía de gasto es la práctica de gastar dinero de manera consciente y racional para evitar el endeudamiento y el desperdicio. El guion sugiere que la economía de gasto es esencial para mantener el control sobre las finanzas personales y para evitar caer en la trampa de la deuda.

💡Mitos financieros

Los mitos financieros son creencias erróneas o malentendidos sobre el manejo del dinero. En el guion, se mencionan varios mitos, como la necesidad de construir crédito o la idea de que los estudiantes deben tomar prestado dinero para pagar sus estudios, que se refutan con argumentos basados en la prudencia financiera.

💡Autocontrol

El autocontrol es la capacidad de resistirse a impulsos o deseos inmediatos por el bien de los resultados a largo plazo. El guion enfatiza la importancia del autocontrol para evitar el endeudamiento y para tomar decisiones financieras sabias que beneficien al individuo en el futuro.

Highlights

Individual carries multiple credit cards, including store cards, Visa, American Express, and Discover.

Ease of using credit cards in various places inclines people to use them for all purchases.

Rewards from credit cards, such as cash back, influence spending behavior.

The speaker challenges the cultural acceptance of debt, advocating for a debt-free lifestyle.

Debt is positioned as a cultural paradigm that needs to be shifted for financial health.

Historical perspective on credit cards and the evolution of consumer debt.

The speaker humorously compares the marketing of credit cards to a cultural lie that became accepted as truth.

Credit card commercials are criticized for their misleading promises and shiny distractions.

The concept of 'negative sale' in credit card marketing, where consumers beg for debt.

Statistics on the credit card industry's revenue and its impact on consumer behavior.

Personal anecdotes from the speaker about the struggles with debt early in life.

The importance of being debt-free for financial freedom and the ability to pursue life goals.

Myth-busting segment where the speaker addresses common financial fallacies about debt.

Advice for young adults to avoid common debt traps and the importance of saving and cash purchases.

The speaker emphasizes the psychological impact of debt on relationships and the stress it causes.

Final thoughts on the liberating effect of being free from debt and the joy it brings to life.

Transcripts

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so

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tell me uh how many credit cards you

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currently have i carry one card

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two like 10 probably like all the store

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ones with everything

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ham like a visa couple american express

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one here comes another one another

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discover and wow

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when you go in places they make it so

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easy for you

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that you are inclined to use them all my

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shopping hotel reservations

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absolutely everything everything

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everything

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all sorts all sorts of things i use it

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just about for everything that i

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do all my purchases right now because of

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the rewards that i get from the car

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now what kind of rewards have you been

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able to get cash back

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it's a good deal oh it's a fantastic

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deal we wouldn't have taken the trip

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unless we had done that

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wow unless you went into credit card

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debt you would have never been able to

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take that paris trip i guess so yeah

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so 120 000 gets you a couple of

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round-trip tickets exactly

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now how much did you have to spend to

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get that 275. 30 000

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is that kind of good math to spend 30

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000 to get 275 back

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you show me something better and i'll

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sign up for that one

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tonight's lesson is particularly hard

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for a speaker a teacher like me

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because see my job is to bring you ideas

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that you accept as your own that's

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called learning

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if you accept them as your own it's

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going to cause you to go

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do things differently than you used to

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do things

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the problem i've got this evening is

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i've got an uphill battle

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because this lesson goes directly

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perpendicular against

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everything in our culture just about

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every message out there

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talks about how smart and wise you are

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to go into debt and i am going to make

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the rarefied and crazy statement

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that i think debt is dumb i think it's

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stupid

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oh a few of you are kind of getting the

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idea that maybe that'll work you know

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but if can you imagine if i go into a

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public setting and i'm speaking

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you know in a motivational seminar with

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a big lineup a big name seminar guys and

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that kind of thing and i get up there

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and i'm the guy

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saying in this culture car payments are

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stupid credit cards are dumb and a home

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equity loan is crazy

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i mean can you imagine that i'm the guy

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that says you can be a student without a

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student loan

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i mean that is exactly against

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everything you hear out there

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and so what i've got to do is more than

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just merely

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tickle your brain a little bit to get

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you to look at things differently i've

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got to completely

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crush a cultural paradigm

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to even be heard on this subject i'm

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going to attempt to do that in our time

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together with some of you it will work

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and some of you are going to go

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he's just crazy the boys just lost it

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and that's fine i'm cool with that

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because well you know we've already

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figured out normal is broke

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and i don't want to be normal my goal is

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total weirdness

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you know the wall street journal says 70

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of americans are living paycheck to

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paycheck i don't want to be normal

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figure out what most people are doing

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out there don't do it you're in pretty

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good shape

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that's an idea but when it comes to this

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debt subject

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you know if you tell a lie you spread a

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myth loud enough long enough and often

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enough

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eventually it becomes accepted as the

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truth

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you know if i get my compass out i could

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establish really quickly that

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right through there is north according

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to a compass

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now there's always some that will

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argue with that isn't there

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but that's the truth but if i spent 482

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million dollars a year per year for a

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decade or two trying to convince people

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that was north

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some would begin to believe it because

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they saw it on television so it must be

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true

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everything on tv is true isn't it i mean

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reality tv is real isn't it

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come on i mean really isn't it amazing

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how we just buy into this stuff and

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that's what we're talking about here

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and see debt has been marketed to us

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with such intensity with such

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sophistication

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and the marketing and with a large

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amount of marketing dollars for so long

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that to even imagine living without debt

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requires a complete paradigm shift

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a completely new way of looking at

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things

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now the way you get a paradigm shift the

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way you get a new

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way of looking at things is you put

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stuff into your brain that wasn't in

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there before and that's what we're going

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to do tonight

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you know when you read a book and you go

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wow that's i never thought of that that

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way before and it gives you a new way of

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looking at marriage or a new way of

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looking at raising kids or a

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new way of you know controlling your

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physique and losing weight or

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or building muscle or learning to run or

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ride bikes or whatever it is you're

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going to do when you get a new way of

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doing things from

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learning and that's what we're doing

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here tonight so congratulations for

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being with us

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you know our great great grandparents

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thought debt was a sin

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i mean think about it here's some

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interesting actual facts

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the 1910 sears catalog

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now this is sears credit card

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city sears the 1910

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sears catalog said buying on credit

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is folly now that's another generation

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isn't it

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jcpenney mr j.c penny

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was nicknamed because he was so tight

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james cash

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penny because he didn't believe in debt

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and while he was alive j.c penney the

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stores offered no credit

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ever henry ford of ford motor company

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fame

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hated debt ford motor never offered

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credit on cars

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until 10 years after general motors did

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because of henry's personal disdain for

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debt

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these are actual facts but that's a

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whole

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two three generations ago almost now

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isn't it

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and we look back there our great great

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grandparents basically thought

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debt was a sin our grandparents they

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thought debt was really dumb and they

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borrowed on a couple of things and

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you know so around 1950 we see the birth

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of what we now call the credit card by a

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guy named

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frank mcnamara frank printed up some

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plastic cards in the city of new york

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city and and started handing them out as

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a way to go

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several restaurants began to accept

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these cards and it was the very first

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credit card out there it was called

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diners club

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and it is still around out there

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actually around 1958

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out on the west coast there was a little

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company called bancomera

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card sprung up which was the precursor

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and later became known as visa

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in 1958 american excess i mean

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express was born so these are

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this is some interesting history on this

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see our grandparents thought debt was

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dumb our parents come along they start

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to borrow on everything by 1970 only 15

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percent of americans owned plastic

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in 1976 bank americard changed its name

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and became visa just 30 some odd years

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ago

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visa in the scope of the history of the

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world is a fairly new product

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and here's an interesting one too some

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of you didn't know this back in 1986

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sears got in a little dispute with visa

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didn't like the fee structure

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so they said we'll show you we'll just

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start our own brand

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and discover card was born by sears and

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it was became the most profitable

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division of sears and when sears got in

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financial trouble the way they survived

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that financial upheaval was they sold

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off the discover card

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accounts and brand and made a ton of

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money on it

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so our great-grandparents thought debt

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was a sin

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our grandparents thought it was really

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stupid our parents borrowed on a few

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things we come along we borrow on

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everything

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i when you go down a pet store you get

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90 days same as cash on rover

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come here baby repo man's here

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and over 6 billion credit card offers

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went out last year

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6 billion that's 6 000 million and 18

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million people accepted it

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one of my listeners mailed me this in

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for my radio show

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from bank one it's the bank one

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platinum mastercard it's interesting

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it's uh

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it says solid line of credit up to one

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hundred thousand dollars

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it's addressed to mr toby cocker

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on rocky mountain parkway and my

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listener wrote across the front dave

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this is my dog's name

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toby the cocker spaniel

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and toby's been dead four years

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six billion credit card offers out there

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including mr toby cocker

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what we're saying here is is that banks

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are very very good at selling

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their product and what you and i have

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got to realize as consumers is

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debt is not a privilege that is a

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product i love credit card commercials

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they're so

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bright and shiny and hopeful but do you

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know why they are

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they want to distract you they want to

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distract you from what's really going on

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they don't want you to see that

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paragraph of copy at the bottom

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the legal disclaimer so they try to

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distract you with the bright and shiny

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but do you know who else gets distracted

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by things that are bright and shiny

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cats cats love lasers

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they are amazed by a laser so when we

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talk to you about your finances and

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being smart with your money

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when rachel talks to you and dave talks

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to you we're not saying hey you need to

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be a financial expert today

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you need to get a phd in finance we just

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want you to make better decisions

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than cats that's a really low bar i

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think we can get over it but

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credit card commercials sometimes make

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it hard sometimes they try to confuse

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you

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with something that's shiny or they do

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even worse they compare themselves to

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something they're not

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they'll say it's not a credit card it's

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not a credit card

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it's a doorway to adventure it's a

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passport to a new life

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that sounds like there'll be a unicorn

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involved now

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here's the problem when a credit card

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does that i think we should do that too

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like if a credit card is going to

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compare themselves to something they're

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not

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why don't we do that imagine if you

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dated a girl who treated you

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like a credit card does what if in the

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middle of dinner you were just having

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dinner and she declined you right there

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she just left the date that would be a

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bad girlfriend wouldn't it

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what if after a bad relationship your

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dating score was really low

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you had a bad dating score and everybody

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else who met you at a party would say

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you're really interesting i like you you

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seem neat but what happened in ohio in

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2009

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you've got a really low dating score

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imagine if your girlfriend sold that

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relationship to somebody else

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because that happens with credit cards

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all the time i mean imagine if you came

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to pick her up for the prom and he

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knocked on the door

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and it opened and there was a tall man

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in his 50s with a mustache and he said

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your girlfriend told me the relationship

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i'm so excited about the prom

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that would be a bad dating relationship

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so the next time you see a credit card

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commercial

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don't get lost in the shiny or the

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bright or the over promise ask yourself

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what are they really trying to tell me

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right now because i promise it's

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probably not the message you see

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first

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[Music]

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how many of you own a business or in

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sales of any kind raise your hand

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how would you feel if monday morning

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when you got to the front door there

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were people lined up down the street

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on one knee saying please sell me your

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stuff

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you say well i'll have to check your

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credit

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wouldn't that be an interesting way to

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be see if you and i had done as good a

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job selling our stuff

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as the banks have selling americans on

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believing

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debt is necessary to to exist and debt

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is necessary to prosper

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now we go in to buy their product on

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bended knee

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we go in and say please sell me your

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debt and then when they approve

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us to buy their product it's like

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getting accepted to a country club that

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nobody can get in you know it's like

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i i gotta you know i've got a plutonium

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card

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i i was accepted isn't that that's

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tremendous marketing it's called a

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negative sale

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when you can get someone wanting

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something take it away from them so they

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chase you to get it

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that is powerful because everybody wants

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to get into a crowded restaurant don't

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they

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everybody wants to buy something that's

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no longer on the shelves don't they that

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scarcity kind of feeling

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and that's the way debt has been

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marketed and very effectively to where

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now

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we think we're someone if we get

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approved isn't that an interesting

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twist and how they've been able to pull

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that off culture wide

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i think it's excellent i think they're

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they're very very smart

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and i think they're very good at what

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they're doing but you know

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if we go into any other store and the

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salesman comes up and says

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can i help you please you say oh no i'm

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just looking

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i mean what if you went into a bank and

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they said can i help you please you said

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no i'm just looking

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instead you go would you please give me

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a car loan please

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because i need a car we're begging

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them to buy from them

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that's excellent excellent marketing and

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now we've reached the point that

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25 percent of families now have a

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negative net worth

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and i just pulled this up today this is

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very interesting

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last year the gross revenues for the

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credit card industry

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was over a hundred and fifty billion

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dollars as a whole that is more than the

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gross national product

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of egypt puerto rico and the bahamas

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combined

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this is a big deal and these guys are

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very good at what they're doing i'm not

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saying they're evil and i'm not paranoid

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i don't think there's a conspiracy

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i just think they're a lot better at

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selling than we are at not

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buying i think they're excellent at what

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they do

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and i'm really kind of in awe of them in

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an evil whacked out sort of way

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[Music]

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[Applause]

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the rich rules over the poor the

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borrower is

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slave to the lender

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slave to the lender you see what happens

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to most of us is we get out of school we

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get married right

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no this is not marriage

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but sharon and i we got out of school we

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had a little bit of a student loan debt

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we had too much on a mastercard and a

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lot on an amaco card because when i was

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in college i bought a couch on my amaco

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card

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i don't think you're supposed to do that

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are you guys said it was okay though

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and we started off our lives broke you

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remember when you started off broke we

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ain't got money honey but we got

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love good thing too because we ain't got

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no money

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and we were eating in off a card table

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driving a 1902 pinto just getting our

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lives started you remember

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and and that's about the time all those

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pintos were blowing up i don't know if

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any of you remember that or not

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and my wife was driving the pinto so we

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were getting a little worried here my

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buddies are going but you got good life

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insurance don't you

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so i got all embarrassed went and bought

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my wife a brand new car i wanted

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yeah some of the ladies understood that

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one yeah

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and then we're in this little apartment

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watching this television sideways that

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we bought at a

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a at a garage sale and and so i went

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down to one of the electronics store and

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to get me a good television

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90 days same as yeah you know about that

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because i'm a finance major i'm going to

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get that free money

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i'm going to use that free money i'm

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going to beat them up and i bought a

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stereo television which meant i had to

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get a

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stereo and then i had to get an

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entertainment center to put all this

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stuff

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in now we're in a one bedroom flea bag

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apartment eating off a card table but we

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have a

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stereo system shaking eight block area

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priorities baby priorities and that's

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how we started off our lives and then

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our friends came over and said

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oh you've been married 20 minutes and

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you haven't bought a house yet

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oh renters go to hell

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oh you can't be a renter got to buy a

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house got to buy a house got to buy a

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house got to buy a house got a house now

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listen i want you to get a house

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but broke people shouldn't buy a house

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[Music]

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that blessing will turn into a nightmare

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and so we went and we got a house with

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nothing down because that's what we had

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to put down nothing

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they called it creative financing we

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thought it was creative

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here we got no money we signed our name

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and got a house

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this is just good in america what a

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country

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and we bought a house in the same

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neighborhood that i grew up in

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you see larry burkett used to say we

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spend the first five to seven years of

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our marriage trying to attain the same

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standard of living as our parents

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only takes them 35 years to get there

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so we're in the same neighborhood as mom

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and dad had a better car than mom and

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dad

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and for sure had a better stereo system

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than mom and dad

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that's how we started off our lives we

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have people that look like this coming

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to our office all the time

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they're going dude can you get me out

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see the sad thing is 52 percent of the

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marriages in america end in divorce

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of those that divorce in the first seven

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years well guess what they tell us

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90 percent of those say marriage

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problems

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caused the young marriage to crash money

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problems

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caused the young marriage to crash

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you see it's no fun like this to be

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married you know why your leg gets tired

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so we made a decision sharon and i that

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the borrower really is

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slave to the lender that that's as true

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as the fact that that is north

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it's the truth whether we liked it

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whether it was convenient whether it

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hurt our feelings

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it was still the truth

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and we made a decision to get out of

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these things and we worked like animals

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we sold stuff we drove old beat up used

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cars our kids grew up in consignment

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sale yes

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experienced clothing but their college

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fund was funded oshkosh bagash

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and we made a decision we weren't living

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like everybody else we figured out what

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normal was and we didn't want any part

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of it

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it took us a while took us a lot longer

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than some of you that are working our

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program

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but finally we reached the point finally

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we

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we busted it and we pushed and we

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twisted and we turned and we

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sacrificed and we didn't go on vacation

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and we did all the stuff we talk about

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all the time

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finally we paid off everything even the

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[Applause]

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house

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you know what you can do if you don't

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have any payments anything you want

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you know how hard it is to make money

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save money give money and invest money

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when you don't already have everybody

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else's name on your money

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before it comes in it's easy to make

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money save money give money and invest

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money

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when you don't have someone else's name

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on everything you have

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when all the money comes in and all the

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money goes out and only the names are

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changed to protect the innocent it takes

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all the fun

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out of the deal but dave

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[Music]

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what about and that's what i get when i

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go around the country talking about debt

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people generally go yeah debt's a bad

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thing and we borrow too much in america

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we get that dave we understand

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and it's a concept and a philosophy and

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a theology we grasp that but dave what

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about

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and then there's their little thing that

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they think is different

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and we all used to get these butt daves

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so much

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that we finally on our talk radio show

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the dave ramsey show we started doing a

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butt dave theme hour

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where you could call in and ask me about

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your butt dave

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and we would go into it and i started

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hearing and what i started realizing is

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is that people

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not only had believed the overall myth

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that debt was the way to win with money

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but they had all of these very specific

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little lies

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built into the big lie that they had

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believed we call them myths

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if you spread a lie tell it often enough

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and loud enough eventually it becomes

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accepted as the truth

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so what we're going to do in this lesson

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is we're going we are going to pop

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we are going to debunk the myths

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there are several financial myths that

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young adults fall for

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the first one is that you have to build

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credit that drives me crazy

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because credit is not necessary to

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survive

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you need to know that the credit

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industry wants you to believe this

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they know that if they can make people

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think that they need to build their

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credit

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then they're giving you a reason to go

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into debt the truth is

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there is no reason to go into debt

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we're the most marketed to country in

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the world

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watch the commercials when you get home

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all of these commercials make you feel

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like you need these things

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you don't need those things it would be

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nice to have

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but only if you have the money so you

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don't need it

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so avoid debt like the plague i want

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young adults to just slow down

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you can get things later in life just

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save up

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and pay cash for it the next thing is

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that they often think

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i can do whatever i want when i'm in

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college and i'll just pay for it later

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when i'm making money

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taking on a lot of debt because you

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won't tell yourself no we'll limit your

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options later in life

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because when you get out or even if

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you're in school

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you've got to make the money required to

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make those payments

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so by not thinking you can do whatever

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you want and just pay for it later

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what you're doing is having self-control

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and

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later that's going to give you options

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for down the road

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the third thing is the feeling that you

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need a new car

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you have to look cool on campus so you

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need a new car

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the problem with that is if you don't

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pay cash for it

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that car is bringing what a lot of debt

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with it

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and don't get me wrong i felt the same

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way coming out of college

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i didn't have enough money and so

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fortunately i refused to go into debt

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instead i saved up and i was able to get

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a newer car

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later everyone wants everything right

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now

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but debt keeps you from being able to

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pursue your dreams

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later in life don't fall for these myths

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avoid debt save for emergencies and

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large purchases

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and learn to say no even when the people

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around you

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won't

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you

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