Do Men Really Prefer Natural Beauty?

Summary

The video script features a discussion on the concept of 'natural beauty' and its impact on attraction, particularly among men. The participants, who include social media influencers and adult content creators, share their experiences and insights on how societal perceptions and personal choices regarding cosmetic procedures can influence dating and relationships. They explore the idea that while men may claim to prefer natural beauty, they often fail to recognize what is truly natural and are drawn to the results of cosmetic enhancements. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the role of genetics in mate selection, and the societal pressures that influence decisions about body image and appearance.

Takeaways

• 😐 Men's perception of 'natural beauty' can be vague, and they may not always recognize signs of cosmetic procedures.
• 🤔 Some men may appreciate a 'natural look' but are not averse to the idea of cosmetic enhancements if the results are subtle.
• 😟 Women in the adult content creation industry often face criticism and trolling for their appearance, regardless of whether they've had work done.
• 🤨 Men may have preconceived notions about what 'natural' means, which can be influenced by social media and celebrities.
• 👶 The idea of genetic inheritance plays a role in men's preferences for natural beauty, as it relates to potential offspring.
• 🤔 Men might be more attracted to women who have not undergone cosmetic procedures due to concerns about 'false advertising'.
• 😒 There's a societal pressure for women to look a certain way, and men may judge or categorize women based on their appearance, including cosmetic work.
• 😅 Men's attraction to women is complex and can be influenced by both physical appearance and the perception of authenticity.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Men considering long-term relationships or marriage might prefer women who have a natural look to avoid potential family or societal judgments.
• 🤷‍♂️ Despite the attraction to certain aesthetic outcomes, men generally do not focus on the specifics of the procedures but rather the final appearance.

Q & A

What is the general perception of natural beauty among men according to the speakers?

The speakers suggest that while men may claim to appreciate natural beauty, they often don't recognize when women have had cosmetic procedures, and they are attracted to a 'natural result' rather than an overly surgical appearance.

How does the concept of 'false advertising' come up in the discussion?

The term 'false advertising' is used to describe the situation where men are attracted to women who appear natural but have had significant cosmetic surgery, leading to concerns about the reality of their appearance and potential genetic implications for offspring.

What role does social media play in shaping men's perceptions of beauty?

Social media is highlighted as a platform where men form opinions about beauty standards, often idealizing certain looks, and where women receive feedback, both positive and negative, about their appearance, including comments on cosmetic procedures.

Why might some men prefer a natural look in a long-term partner?

Some men might prefer a natural look in a long-term partner due to concerns about genetic inheritance, wanting a partner who has not undergone surgical procedures, and the idea of having children who resemble their parents.

How do the speakers feel about the impact of cosmetic surgery on dating and relationships?

The speakers express that while cosmetic surgery can enhance physical attractiveness, it can also lead to misconceptions and judgments about a person's character and worth, potentially affecting their dating life and relationships.

What is the implication of the statement 'men think with two heads' in the context of the discussion?

The phrase 'men think with two heads' is used to illustrate the dual nature of male attraction, where physical attraction ('the other head') might be prioritized over a preference for natural beauty when it comes to sexual relationships.

How do the speakers view the impact of cosmetic procedures on the perception of a woman's value?

The speakers believe that cosmetic procedures can lead to judgments about a woman's self-worth and the perceived 'ease' of her character, suggesting that some men might see women with such procedures as more attainable or less valuable.

What is the distinction the speakers make between online preferences and real-life choices?

The speakers note a distinction between what men might view or be attracted to online, such as extreme cosmetic enhancements, and what they might choose in real life, often preferring a more natural appearance for long-term relationships.

How do the speakers address the issue of men making judgments based on cosmetic surgery?

The speakers acknowledge that some men make judgments about women who have had cosmetic surgery, viewing them as less authentic or more focused on physical appearance, which can influence dating and relationship dynamics.

What advice do the speakers give regarding the impact of cosmetic surgery on personal dating life?

The speakers suggest being conscious of how cosmetic surgery might be perceived in dating, as it can lead to both positive and negative judgments, and recommend focusing on attracting partners who value character over physical appearance.

Outlines

00:00

🤔 Men's Perception of Natural Beauty vs. Cosmetic Surgery

The paragraph discusses the complex dynamics of male attraction to natural beauty versus cosmetic surgery. The speaker, who works in social media and adult content creation, feels her look is niche and not universally appealing. Despite facing negative comments, she believes most men appreciate natural beauty, even if they're unaware of surgical enhancements. The conversation highlights that men often can't distinguish between natural and surgically enhanced appearances but tend to prefer a natural look. They discuss how men might be attracted to the end result of cosmetic procedures but may also value the authenticity of unaltered features, especially when considering long-term relationships and potential offspring. The speakers also touch on the idea that men might be drawn to the idea of 'false advertising' where a woman's appearance is significantly altered by surgery, affecting their perception of her true self.

05:01

😕 The Impact of Cosmetic Surgery on Dating and Relationships

This paragraph delves into how cosmetic surgery can influence first impressions and dating experiences. The speakers share personal anecdotes where men have made assumptions or judgments based on their appearance, including comments about the need for or results of plastic surgery. They discuss the stereotype that men might view women with plastic surgery as more 'available' or insecure, leading to negative perceptions. The conversation also addresses the societal and familial implications of dating someone with significant cosmetic work, such as the potential for judgment from family members. The speakers contrast the judgments of some men with the attitudes of 'good men' who may be more discerning and less focused on superficial attributes. They conclude by suggesting that while some men might be attracted to the outcomes of cosmetic procedures, a man of character is more likely to value a woman for who she is beyond her physical appearance.

Keywords

💡Natural Beauty

Natural beauty refers to the physical attractiveness that is inherent and not enhanced by cosmetic procedures or surgery. In the context of the video, the discussion revolves around whether men are more attracted to women who possess this unaltered beauty. The script mentions that some men may not realize when women have undergone cosmetic enhancements, suggesting they might prefer what they perceive as 'natural' even if they are not aware of the distinction.

💡Social Media

Social media platforms like Instagram are mentioned as a space where the concept of beauty is often showcased and scrutinized. The video discusses how social media can influence perceptions of beauty and how it may pressure individuals to conform to certain beauty standards, including the decision to undergo cosmetic procedures to enhance their appearance.

💡Cosmetic Surgery

Cosmetic surgery encompasses various medical procedures that alter one's physical appearance to enhance beauty or correct perceived flaws. The video script explores the impact of cosmetic surgery on attraction and dating, suggesting that while men may be attracted to the outcomes of such surgeries, they might also have reservations about the implications of these procedures, such as 'false advertising' or genetic inheritance.

💡Plastic Surgery

Plastic surgery is a subset of cosmetic surgery that specifically focuses on altering the body's appearance. The script discusses how men might not be aware of the nuances of plastic surgery procedures like rhinoplasty or breast augmentation but may still have preferences or make judgments based on whether a woman has had such work done.

💡Attraction

Attraction in the video is discussed as a complex interplay between physical appearance and personal values. It is suggested that while physical beauty can be a factor in initial attraction, deeper values and perceptions about authenticity and 'naturalness' can influence long-term attraction and relationship choices.

💡BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift)

BBL stands for Brazilian Butt Lift, a cosmetic procedure that enhances the size and shape of the buttocks. In the script, BBL is used as an example of a procedure that can significantly alter one's appearance and is a point of discussion regarding men's perceptions and the potential for 'false advertising' in dating.

💡Genetics

The term genetics is brought up in the context of potential partners and the desire for children who inherit certain physical traits. The video suggests that men might be concerned about the genetic implications of dating someone who has had cosmetic procedures, as it could affect the physical characteristics of their offspring.

💡False Advertising

False advertising in this context refers to the potential deception that can occur when someone's physical appearance has been significantly altered by cosmetic procedures. The video discusses how men might feel misled if they find out a partner has had extensive work done, as it could affect their perception of the person's 'real' appearance.

💡Insecurity

Insecurity is mentioned as a potential reason why some individuals might choose to undergo cosmetic procedures. The video suggests that men might make judgments about a person's character based on the assumption that those who have had work done are insecure and may be more easily swayed by attention.

💡Dating Standards

Dating standards refer to the criteria or preferences that individuals have when seeking a partner. The script explores how societal beauty standards and personal values can influence these preferences, with a focus on the tension between attraction to 'natural' beauty versus the outcomes of cosmetic procedures.

💡Authenticity

Authenticity in the context of the video relates to the genuineness of one's appearance and character. It is discussed as a quality that some men might value in a partner, potentially leading them to prefer someone who has not undergone cosmetic procedures, as it represents a more 'authentic' presentation of self.

Highlights

The speaker discusses the challenges of defining 'natural beauty' in the context of social media and adult content creation.

Despite receiving negative comments, the speaker believes most men appreciate natural beauty, even if they're unaware of cosmetic enhancements.

Men may not be able to distinguish between natural beauty and surgically enhanced appearances.

The speaker shares an anecdote about a well-known individual whose 'natural' appearance was actually the result of extensive surgery.

Men are said to appreciate a natural look but not one that appears overly aged or extreme.

The discussion suggests that men may be more attracted to women who have not had cosmetic procedures for the sake of authenticity.

The speaker hypothesizes that men might prefer a natural look for long-term relationships due to concerns about genetic inheritance.

There's a mention of men's potential confusion between what they claim to find attractive and what they actually pursue.

The conversation touches on the idea that men might choose a naturally beautiful woman over a surgically enhanced one for genetic reasons.

The speaker acknowledges that while men may be attracted to beauty regardless of its origin, they might still prefer a natural appearance.

The impact of cosmetic surgery on dating and relationships is discussed, with the notion that some men may view it as a 'bonus'.

The speaker reflects on the double standards where men might seek out certain body types in pornography but claim to prefer natural looks in real life.

The conversation suggests that men's preferences for natural beauty might be influenced by societal norms and expectations.

The speaker shares personal experiences of being judged based on her appearance, including comments about needing cosmetic procedures.

The discussion highlights the potential for men to make snap judgments about women based on their appearance, including assumptions about personality and values.

The conversation concludes with the idea that while some men may be attracted to the results of cosmetic surgery, they might not be as interested in the procedures themselves.

Transcripts

men are more attracted to Natural

Beauty you can see me in the back

going thinking about this one I

struggled with this prompt quite a bit

and I'll tell you why in a moment it's

hard I do Instagram social media and um

adult content creation and I find that

my look is very Niche I don't appeal to

the masses for sure I get a lot of

comments trolling me disgusting BBL go

get a refund you look like you're

wearing a diaper type stuff so I feel

like there are that still most most of

the men do appreciate natural beauties

even if it's like they don't know that

they got worked on

too that's why I'm here that's same same

thing I'll let you go first so I think

men have no clue what's natural and

what's not I I um was going to do a show

for e um and for a year I operated on

this African-American very well-known

human and on her social media literally

everybody's like that's what a natural

beauty looks like and I cannot there's

one inch on her body that I did not

operate on I think they appreciate a

natural

result but they don't want your again

your skin falling off your skeleton they

don't want your boobs down to here and

sometimes honestly they don't even

notice that they're just happy to be

intimate yeah I was thinking something

very similar to you that a lot of men

will say oh I I love natural look at

Kendall Jenner and then it's just like

okay well wait a second you don't know

exactly what natural is so I wanted to

stay back and say well maybe I disagree

because their perception of natural

beauty isn't exactly in tune but I also

feel like like if you were dating a guy

and had no procedures done he may be

more attracted to that reality than he

is attracted to dating a woman who has

had procedures done so you might look

like Megan Fox and that will get you a

lot of male attention but I think when

you're dating a man as soon as he finds

out oh you've had a rhinoplasty you've

had a boob job you've had this he's

thinking what do you actually look like

what am I getting here you know if we

procreate and have a child am I actually

getting the girl who looks like Megan

Fox or am I going to get a child who

looks totally different and I've heard a

lot of men now complain about false

advertising so they're trending towards

the natural even though aesthetically it

may not be as pleasing to them yeah I

feel like okay let's be real if a guy

sees a pretty woman um a guy se's a

pretty woman if a guy's attracted to a

woman he's attracted to a woman I don't

think most men are thinking like did she

get a rhinoplasty is her forehead moving

does she have botox did she get filler

at any point but I think if you were to

give uh man an option of two women in

similar you know uh Beauty standard a

similar level of beauty and you said one

of these women achieved this beauty

through plastic surgery The Other Woman

achieved this naturally they're going to

go towards the woman who achieved it

naturally for a multitude of reasons one

of which I mentioned which is this idea

of false advertising or wanting to have

a child that actually has the genetics

you know at our base level you know we

are mammals we are existing within you

know the the realm of of natural

selection and that's actively working on

us all the time we're trying to make

these genetic choices as we're picking

mates and picking people to uh create

children with and cosmetic surgery

factors into that I think most men want

somebody who uh if they can achieve it

is beautiful but also you know hasn't

gone under the knife now is that to say

that if you go get cosmetic surgery you

will not get men or men will not be

attracted to you no of course not uh you

know a woman is a woman to a lot of men

especially if you're beautiful

regardless of how you got there you will

get male attention it's just to say if

we did that experiment I feel like men

would pick the woman who has not had um

intervention and you know still they're

making that choice even though a lot of

them have no idea what Botox looks like

what filler looks like what uh a

rhinoplasty looks like what a boob job

looks like you're nodding your head is

this something you like experienced oh

yeah I get comments like that all the

time like your kids aren't going to have

that booty or like your kids aren't

going to look like you I mean I haven't

touched my face yet yeah but um if I do

you know if I have kids they won't look

like

that hi buddy

hello a lot of men like natural bodies

and natural girls who don't get any work

done because there are thinking about um

you know what what what about my kids

can I bring them around my parents you

know how are people going to perceive me

bringing someone who has a freaking 44

in hips and butt you know how has it

impacted your personal dating life it it

affects it because they only see that

right and obviously they can see my

social media and they'll see okay okay

well she's done like Playboy right so

she have some legs all open for that

right other men is going to see that and

then you know judge me or that's not

mine that's not exclusive to me if I go

also whether we like it or not men are

placing women in categories and if

you're getting these very dramatic

cosmetic procedures you know double

debob jobs bbls all these different

things you do present a certain image to

men and while it may be an attractive

image there's also little like micro

judgments that are being made or really

large straightup judgments that are

being made of the value that you present

to them um I think a lot of men

interpret many plastic surgeries as uh

being like Oh you're easier because

you're you're probably so insecure that

if I give you attention you're going to

go for me or whatever and I've actively

heard men say this now these are not

good men by any means not people that

you would want to seek out for a

relationship anyways but this is you

know calculations that are being made

simply based off of the way you look and

she mentions does he want to take you

home to your parents there's a lot of

different things that you know the first

impression can can be altered uh when it

comes to getting these cosmetic

surgeries and all these little judgments

are taking place behind the scenes and

you would just never never fully know

going on a date I know I have to be very

conscious with what I wear because if I

wear something like this his mind is

like how am I going to devour you know

it's not like okay what are what are we

going to do on our second date I've

dated multiple people they're like they

start dating me and then but you'd be so

much better blonde and I know that's not

not a procedure or surgery but the last

person um I dated he would tell me all

the time how I needed a poop dog or I

needed my butt done who are y'all dating

who he said

what the door I'd be like um the door

who like I needed these things it was

like yeah you're just a plain Jane

without it like this is this is gross

and I'm like why are you dating me you

yeah you want to say something I can I

think men think with two heads and the

top of their head this one wants the

natural girl and I think really to touch

on your point like for a guy to make a

girl his wife he has to be sexually

attracted to her and that's where the

other head comes in and they don't

gravitate towards the natural girl I

hate to bring them up but you know the

generous sisters it's like one of them

everybody thinks to have plastic surgery

when the other one is just had just as

much but one just looks a little more

exaggerated than the other I think men

don't know what natural looks like I

think you know if you get filler if you

get BOTOX to a normal degree I don't

think they'll care that much um they say

they do but at the end of the day I feel

like the guys who complain about that

stuff on these podcasts or things like

that they only surround themselves with

girls with bbl's and all this stuff and

they yeah I don't know when I'm thinking

about men I'm thinking about like good

men men of like moral fortitude more of

character I'm not thinking about the men

that they're talking about like the guys

on fresh and fit podcast or like a boy

that you date who tells you to get a

boob job CU that is just not in that is

not somebody that I would ever entertain

period per let alone in a a relationship

so when I'm thinking I'm thinking of

like men with discernment say they and

you know so you have guys commenting on

thing how do they end up with that video

in the first place period you know what

I mean like great point they're more

upset that they know they could never

get with you exactly I feel like it's a

more like anger thing think of the

nicest guy you know who's a generally

good guy who's not judging you based off

your BBL or something like that is it a

bonus to have dated somebody who has had

plastic surgery he may be attracted he

may date he may even marry but I don't

ever think a guy is thinking hell yeah

she got a rhinoplasty or like the job is

really whated I should have said I don't

think a good man is ever thinking those

things there are plenty of men who think

those things I should have clarified

relationship well like makes her hotter

yeah if it makes you more attractive

like I don't think a guy cares about

like literally he wants the surgery he

just wants the outcome of the surgery

you know I I mean I completely agree

with you in terms of the outcome like

I'm thinking of a very specific couple

they were very happy prior to her having

a boob job that's fine but then when she

was like Hey I'm going to do that he was

like perfect can I help pick the size

what is it going to feel like this is so

exciting and like he loved her before

but it definitely was a bonus for him he

was like I love you doing what this like

what you're doing as long as I get to

touch them and that's why I say disagree

too because look at you you can look at

the the statistics and with with with

PornHub and all these things it's it's

usually marry men who are getting caught

you know and those are the ones who are

with the the natural non surged woman

but then they're doing what they're

doing you know to the BBL girl yeah I

think that's true but also with the

world that we're living in now there's a

distinction I think to be drawn between

what people watch as far as pornography

and who they engage with in real life

men will watch some crazy stuff and be

getting off to some crazy stuff on the

internet but would never ever ever ever

engage in that way in in real life so we

have to bear that in mind too um that

but it is an interesting point that you

will seek out BBL women you know in your

on your internet you know search history

but you don't want but you claim to not

want that in real life