Stop Bullying: Speak Up Special Presentation | Speak Up | Cartoon Network
Summary
TLDREl guion del video explora las experiencias de acoso escolar de varios niños, quienes enfrentan burlas y comentarios hirientes por su apariencia, estilo de vida y diferencias personales. Narran cómo el acoso afectó su autoestima y deseos de asistir a la escuela, y cómo algunos encontraron alivio en actividades como el ciclismo. Aborda la importancia de hablar abiertamente sobre el acoso y buscar ayuda, y cómo el apoyo de amigos y la intervención de adultos pueden cambiar la dinámica negativa. Además, el guion muestra la transformación de las relaciones, donde algunos de los que antes acosaban se convierten en aliados y amigos.
Takeaways
- 😢 La victimización escolar es un problema serio que afecta profundamente a los niños, provocando sentimientos de soledad y tristeza.
- 😔 Los insultos y el trato despectivo pueden llevar a los niños a dudar de sí mismos y a sentirse diferentes o inadecuados.
- 🏫 La escuela, que debería ser un lugar seguro, a menudo se convierte en el escenario de la intimidación y el acoso por parte de compañeros.
- 👕 La falta de aceptación por parte de los compañeros por razones como la vestimenta o el acento puede contribuir al sentimiento de aislamiento.
- 🚫 El miedo a la victimización puede llevar a los niños a evitar situaciones sociales y a sentirse ansiosos al pensar en asistir a la escuela.
- 🙅♂️ Los niños a menudo se sienten incómodos pidiendo ayuda o hablar con los maestros o padres sobre la victimización que sufren.
- 👫 La solidaridad y el apoyo de los amigos son cruciales para enfrentar la victimización, pero a veces los testigos no intervienen y se convierten en espectadores pasivos.
- 🗣️ Hablar sobre la victimización y buscar ayuda de adultos o amigos es una forma efectiva de hacerle frente al acoso escolar.
- 🚴♂️ Los niños pueden encontrar consuelo y escape en actividades que les permitan expresarse y sentirse bien, como el deporte o el arte.
- 🔄 La víctima de la victimización a menudo se convierte en el agresor, lo que demuestra el ciclo tóxico que puede perpetuarse si no se abordan las raíces del problema.
Q & A
¿Qué tipo de insultos recibía la persona en el guion?
-Recibía insultos sobre su apariencia física, como ser llamado 'gordo', 'feo', 'orejas', 'pescado', 'labios de pez' y se burlaban de su acento y su altura.
¿Cómo afectaba el bullying en la vida escolar de la persona?
-El bullying la hacía sentir rechazada y diferente, lo que la llevaba a no querer ir a la escuela y a pedir a su madre que la trasladara a otra ciudad o escuela.
¿Cómo se sentía la persona cuando tenía buenos días en la escuela?
-Aunque tenía días en que no era víctima de burlas, sentía que algo le faltaba porque la persona que la bullía no estaba presente, lo que la hacía sentir incómoda y como si estuviera esperando que algo malo sucediera.
¿Cuál fue el consejo que recibió la persona cuando se sentía abrumada por el bullying?
-Recibió el consejo de hablar con un maestro, un director, un entrenador o incluso preguntarle a la persona que la bullía si está bien, pero lo más importante es hablar y buscar ayuda.
¿Cómo cambió la actitud de los compañeros de la persona que era víctima de bullying cuando comenzó a hacer trucos en bicicleta?
-Cuando comenzó a hacer trucos en bicicleta, algunos de los compañeros que antes lo bullían cambiaron su actitud y comenzaron a apoyarlo, lo que le ayudó a sentirse menos solo y a encontrar un grupo donde pertenecía.
¿Por qué la persona decidió no contarle a los maestros sobre el bullying que sufría?
-Temía que la considerasen un 'chivato' y no querían ser etiquetados con ese nombre, además de que algunos bullies se burlaban aún más de aquellos que denunciaban el comportamiento.
¿Cómo se sintió la persona cuando un compañero que la bullía se disculpó después de ver un video que ella hizo?
-Se sintió sorprendida y alivada, ya que la persona que la bullía se convirtió en su amigo y comenzó a defenderla ante otros compañeros que intentaban hacerle daño.
¿Qué consejo le da la persona a los que están sufriendo bullying?
-Aconseja que hablen con un adulto de confianza, como un maestro, un director o un padre, y que no se sientan solos, sino que busquen ayuda y se unan a grupos donde puedan sentirse parte de algo.
¿Qué cambios ha experimentado la persona en su vida después de haber enfrentado el bullying?
-Experimentó un cambio en su actitud y en cómo los demás la ven, pasando de ser víctima de burlas a ser respetado y aceptado, incluso su apellido, que antes era motivo de burla, se convirtió en algo cool.
¿Qué mensaje final tiene la persona para aquellos que están sufriendo bullying?
-El mensaje final es que no deben callarse, deben hablar y buscar ayuda, ya que el bullying no es una situación que deban aceptar y que al hablar pueden encontrar apoyo y poner fin a la situación.
Outlines
😢 Experiencias de Bullying Escolar
Este párrafo relata la dura experiencia de bullying que sufrió el narrador desde la escuela primaria hasta la secundaria. Se describe cómo fue llamado apodos despectivos como 'orejas', 'pescado', 'labios de pez' debido a su apariencia física y su acento, lo que lo llevó a sentirse aislado y a dudar de sí mismo. A pesar de tener algunos días buenos, la sensación general era de tristeza y miedo al ir a la escuela, donde se sentía vulnerable y constantemente ridiculizado. El narrador también menciona cómo intentó evitar la escuela y cómo su vida escolar se vio afectada negativamente, incluyendo su rendimiento académico.
😞 Nombres y Apodos Ofensivos
El narrador describe cómo su apellido 'cheese' y su sobrenombre 'cheeseburger' lo llevaron a ser objeto de burlas y a ser marginado por sus compañeros. A pesar de ser sensible y luchar contra las lágrimas, el bullying afectó emocionalmente al narrador, disminuyendo su desempeño académico y su enfoque en la escuela. Se destaca la importancia de hablar con adultos cuando se enfrenta al acoso escolar y cómo el narrador encontró alivio en actividades como hacer trucos en bicicleta, lo que le ayudó a canalizar su frustración y a encontrar un propósito diferente.
😡 La Lucha Contra el Bullying
En este párrafo, el narrador reflexiona sobre la impulsión humana de luchar contra el bullying y cómo, a pesar de sentirse vulnerable, hay un deseo intrínseco de defenderse. Se describen situaciones en la escuela y en línea donde el acoso fue una realidad constante, pero también se menciona un momento de redención cuando un compañero que lo había acosado se disculpó después de ver un video del narrador, lo que llevó a una amistad. El narrador también admite haber sido un bully él mismo, reconociendo que el bullying no es una forma de ganar popularidad o respeto, y que el trato respetuoso hacia los demás es fundamental.
👀 Testigos del Bullying
El narrador habla sobre la actitud de los espectadores del bullying, quienes a menudo se mantienen en silencio o se ríen, lo que perpetúa el comportamiento abusivo. Se enfatiza la importancia de apoyar a las víctimas y de intervenir cuando se presencia el acoso. El narrador expresa su deseo de que hubiera intervenido en situaciones de bullying que había presenciado y reconoce la falta de apoyo de parte de sus amigos y compañeros en momentos críticos. También se discute la percepción errónea de los padres y maestros sobre la naturaleza del bullying y la necesidad de que estos adultos comprendan mejor la gravedad de la situación.
💪 Hablar y Luchar contra el Bullying
Este párrafo concluye con un llamado a la acción para luchar contra el bullying. El narrador insta a los espectadores a ser héroes al apoyar a sus compañeros y a hablar abiertamente sobre el acoso. Se aboga por la importancia de comunicarse con padres, maestros y amigos sobre la situación y se desmiente la idea de que el bullying es una broma o un comportamiento inocuo. El narrador comparte su propia transformación, donde su apellido, que antes era motivo de burla, ahora es una fuente de unión y amistad, y subraya que el apoyo y la comprensión de los demás pueden cambiar la dinámica del bullying por completo.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡acoso
💡victimas
💡intimidación
💡autoestima
💡apodos
💡compañeros
💡valentía
💡apoyo
💡identidad
💡solidaridad
Highlights
被嘲笑和欺凌的经历,包括外貌和口音等
在学校因为身材和穿着而受到欺负
欺凌导致的心理影响,如不想上学和情绪低落
欺凌者使用的侮辱性语言和行为
欺凌对学业成绩的负面影响
欺凌经历对自尊心和自信心的长期影响
通过骑自行车和做特技找到逃避欺凌的方式
欺凌者可能也是曾经的受害者
旁观者对欺凌行为的态度和反应
欺凌经历对人际关系和友谊的影响
欺凌者对受害者的公开道歉和态度转变
社交媒体在欺凌和支持中的作用
家长和老师对欺凌的认识和应对方式
鼓励受害者和旁观者勇敢站出来反对欺凌
欺凌的长期心理创伤和恢复过程
通过积极行动和支持来对抗欺凌的重要性
个人成长和从欺凌经历中获得的力量
Transcripts
ugly loser to picture fat no one likes
you
they called me ears fish lips they would
say that my accent sounded weird you've
got an stupid you have no life kids
always make fun of me while I was a big
heavy boy I stab hollow to my voice my
hair to my eyebrows to the way that I
walk that was always the shortest one
and that was the main thing that got me
believed they will tear you apart with
their words come here I'm gonna punch
should I stand up I used to call me a
whole bunch of names I can't even
remember them it's funny I can't even
remember them now
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and middle school and elementary I was
always made fun of because I was always
in my books and I and like I wasn't with
the fashion so I didn't have like the
top line and clothes and all the time
they were just like move the table
usually they would try to avoid place
like I shouldn't be there and they don't
want to be there
thinking about going to school the next
day and was just I just didn't want to
go back go back to school the next day
some days I would come home asking my
mother to move me to a different school
or me to a different City just not going
back there at all other days I would
have good days even for one day when
they're not there you feel more
comfortable and although you mean you
may feel weird because without that one
person you feel like you're waiting for
nothing like you're just sitting there
waiting for someone to say something and
nothing happens
but all good days come to a bad end
on Sunday I would be really really
cranky because that was the last day I
would get a day off I was feeling
excited but in the puppy but that was
the first day school but that next days
everything want to go to school bees are
just so mean it was just well nervous to
go to school I don't want to go to there
well when I wake up in the morning I
kind of stall a little bit because I
mean my teacher is very nice but these
kids I don't look forward to them being
mean to me and in any day
these kids they're saying like you're so
fat you're so stupid
he was like yeah I mean oh you doesn't
know like fat and stupid that you're fat
and stupid
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and then here Henry do you think I'm fat
and stupid while I always say no to make
not make him like feel bad but I'm not
like like him he's not really fat and
stupid he's well I'd say a little bit
chubby but not fat stupid no he's not
stupid at all some kids that were
sitting in I used to be friends with and
they just turned on me all this on me
other kids that don't like me we're
friends with him too and said you
haven't one Q of a choice it's me or him
and I chose that kid I tried to keep it
in I don't want to show them how it
feels but like it's it it doesn't feel
nice because if they do it and they find
a weak spot my nose keep saying that to
me like all over the summer I didn't eat
like anything just to think I was gonna
be skinnier like they need to have a cup
like one reason to be mean to me not to
do it
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well I thought there was something wrong
with me that everyone is making fun of
me I've got to be different I've got to
be the one that's doesn't fit in so
there's not something wrong with them at
this point it's me when I was younger I
suffered from bullying because of my
lips you can see they're kind of
unusually large so I would kind of get
fish lips things like that a lot and my
glasses too I got those at an early age
that contributed and the fact that my
last name is cheese didn't really help
with the matter either so I would get
cheeseburger cheese guys things like
that
that weren't really very flattering and
just kind of making fun of my name I'm
pretty sensitive kids so I would kind of
have to fight back the tears when I was
getting called names
it really kind of hurt me emotionally my
grades kind of dipped a little bit
because I stopped caring about you know
what my grades were and started caring
more about oh do these people like me
are they gonna stop making fun of me and
that really kind of affected my focus
and it wasn't a very fun elementary
middle school experience for me
you know what guys for me getting
bullied was tough you know it's really
lonely so you have to make sure you
speak up you have to tell a teacher you
have to tell a parent are you okay
they say are you okay you know what you
know what you're smarter than me that's
better so listen this is what we're
gonna do because sometimes when you get
bully is like being alone it's really
tough
so you can talk to your teacher you can
talk to your principal to your coach or
like changer said you know what you can
ask that person if they're okay but the
main and the most important thing is to
speak up when I started riding bikes I
used to go up to the racetrack and you
know there were a lot of older guys up
there who would always pick on me and
push me around and tease me call me
names sometimes they'd take my grips off
I was pretty young I was in maybe
seventh grade and that's really
intimidating to be surrounded by people
who are older and stronger and I looked
up to some of them too and so here were
some of my idols who we used to be my
idols but then now they started picking
on me and you know you just come home
and I felt like I was alone and I was
just sitting at the curb I was crying
and one of my friends came over to me
and he said well you know there's other
kinds of bike riding you know you could
race or you can also do tricks on a bike
and I never even thought about doing
tricks on a bike and so I kind of
modified my bike I went in the garage
and started using some of my dad's tools
and I put these pegs on my bike and I
started doing tricks
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when I was really down and feeling bad
you know I always had my bike my bike
was always here for me it never
disrespected me my bike never bullied me
I kind of tried to lay low do as few
things and school as possible just try
to get through the day without being a
made fun of and then somehow they would
still find me and then bully me bullies
do that they prevent you they find out
what you're going to do and they go for
it they go for it they try to get there
before you sometimes they're just like
looking at me like what are you doing
why don't you just run I mean cause I'm
a little too scared to run I mean it's
kind of hard to run away from someone
you know that's so you know big and you
know you kind of feel just frozen right
there
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after I've been bullied you know I feel
like gosh what a day this has been
helped me someone please help me and
then I'm afraid to go that I just don't
want to go to school the next day
because I know what's gonna happen
big slap on the face a big kick in the
knee and then I just feel like I'm not
really brave enough to deal with this
definitely discouraged and feeling just
a little bit down inside and feeling
just like I feel so tiny I feel like
it's all over my life is over I'm
getting threatened by a bully I feel
like I can't do anything about it way
back like really it's self-defense
you're not wrong you're trying to
protect yourself I would say some pretty
harsh things back and then after that I
wouldn't feel too good about it they can
I demoralize you to the point that you
do not have any kind of stand in the
conversation and everyone is laughing at
you
and you're just that odd man out
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when that happens to me I have the kind
of like a feeling that should be doing
something about it
maybe not not necessarily telling
someone it's not using my first reaction
to the situation it's more like should I
be fighting back or something like that
should i retaliate
it feels like an adrenaline rush like
you want to do something it personally
may be bigger than you but you still
want to because you just have that human
impulse to fight back and to do
something and sometimes you fight back
that impulse and you just start doing
not a lot happened in school I mean it
did happen but a lot was online
when I got to school it'd be really like
you'd feel really vulnerable like anyone
could come up to you and say something
bad like I could just be walking the
halls and some kid comes up to me oh
you're so fat goodbye and then push me
to Locker a lot of people would make fun
of me until I made my video I really
liked that I did that
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there's this one kid who has been
bullying me since sixth grade and he saw
the video and he came up to me in school
and also like was online and he saw the
video he told me that he was really
sorry for bullying me and that was that
was amazing because now I'm kind of
friends with him and also there was
there's a website called formspring and
this kid was making fun of me and he saw
my video and he was you know just being
really mean to me and the kid who used
to bully me that said sorry he was
sticking up for me
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when I need help here at the racetrack I
can always find somebody to talk to use
Trevor Baynes in the fence pretty hard
but I know it feels like when you're
being bullied you're all alone but you
can find somebody to talk to find a
teacher a parent or a friend and they
can help you the only way to stop
bullying is to speak up I did bully kids
I guess since I was bullied not to use
it as an excuse but since I was bullying
iya I saw the power that the bully had
and I guess I wanted that so I would I
guess I would bully kids as well I
thought I thought it was cool I thought
it was funny I thought it would impress
my friends make me look like more of a
man when at the end of the day I just go
home and feel terrible about it
it's not cool it doesn't make you cool
unfortunately I was bullied and then I
had a low you know self-image for a
little bit and I noticed that I was
starting to pick on other kids that were
different than me you know it's kind of
just what I knew I was used to being
picked on and then I thought that's what
you were supposed to do I thought to be
cool maybe if I pick on this person
maybe I could maybe people think I'm
cool and really it didn't make me cool
by picking on anyone else you got to
treat others with respect and nobody
likes a bully I still to this day I feel
bad that I did that because that's not
who I am
well my my friends were there they'd
kind of I had a few friends kind of be
like corn man let's just go
let's walk away but if I didn't really
know anyone then it'd kind of be like
they'd just stand there and look at it
some would laugh others would just not
say anything and that didn't help stop
anything the kids that do watch it are
like encouraging them to be mean to me
depending on the crowd they could be a
laughing they could be you know I think
they could just be staring and that's
when the feeling that comes on bed
you feel tomorrow biased you're just
sitting there everybody is staring at
you they notice that bullying is
happening and they're not saying
anything about it and they're not like
they might not be necessarily
encouraging it but they're not doing
anything to prevent it either and they
need to stick up for the people who are
being bullied because if they were in
that situation they would want somebody
to stick up for them too I saw kids
being bullied and I've never stopped in
and stopped it you know what I mean I
never I never I kind of followed the
crowd I didn't jump in but I also didn't
stop it so you know sometimes the crowd
gets moving and you follow them and you
don't you don't stand up and really
that's not the right thing to do
if you see one of your friends being
bullied even if you just go up to them
afterwards and say hey are you okay or
how do you feel is are you are you okay
that really does go a long way and I
know that I had a couple of really good
friends who I'm still friends with to
this day you know they always stood by
my side and that those are who your real
friends are I don't remember
specifically having anyone like stand up
to be an ally I just remember lots of
bystanders they would not they wouldn't
tell the bully to stop they wouldn't
come up to me afterwards and say you
know I'm so sorry what are you gonna do
about it
sometimes does that odd coincidence
someone steps out and helps the person
out sometimes it's surprising who steps
up with my friends they've gone through
bullying I've seen it happen what are
you doing
I've stood there and did done nothing
because I'm worried about them I don't
know why I didn't do anything
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I could have done a lot of things I
could have I could have told the teacher
I could have said something to make the
bully go away but not in a mean voice I
would just say please leave my friend
alone
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if you've seen what happens to other
kids that go and tell on bullying the
bully bullies them even more because
they told on them when I started saying
snitches get stitches and then they
would get though so that I figured not
to tell anyone because then they would
get really angry and they would tease me
more I didn't really go to the teachers
because you know that would be
considered I would be called a crybaby
and a tattletale and I don't really want
that to be added to the list of names I
was called I definitely should have
talked I mean told my teachers even
going to the principal especially
because there were specific people that
were continuously doing it and when I
didn't stop it they felt that there was
their freedom to just keep doing it so
while I thought that it was gonna stop
the name-calling it was just helping
condone it I just wish I had spoke up
sooner because it really would have made
life a lot easier had I just spoken up
sooner when it to the first day or a
first couple of days I really wish I
would have told someone but instead I I
cut it inside and I come home every day
and I would be you know crying and you
know just I would be so bummed out
people don't realize there's a huge
difference between tattling and telling
if you're tattling on somebody you're
just trying to get somebody in trouble
but if you're telling someone about a
problem like a bully you're not tattling
you're actually trying to help somebody
it's okay to tell like some kids they'll
call you a snitch or something like a
snitch is someone who always tell but
like really they're just trying to
protect themselves well I tell my mom
and dad but they're they're kind of like
they just don't really exactly
understand they're like he's bullying
and what did they say it just seems like
they don't really get it I could go on
about that parents parents see it as
always just a bullying and you need to
grow up you need to fight back you need
to start speaking more but they just
they see it as it's just this one thing
but they're not in our shoes where they
see everything and they feel everything
they just see that we're complaining to
them I wish they had understood that
they were actually it was more to it
than it sounded sometimes the teachers
think that these kids are like so nice
the teachers weren't helpful they they
didn't do it and um and like faded into
it they're like they're just toys
because if we tell the teacher we may
get in trouble for something we
absolutely did not do I think that our
teachers need to be able to recognize
bullying better because I think that if
they just kept like more of an open eye
and an open mind that they would be able
to see wow this really is happening
around us that can make a big difference
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the race against bullying isn't gonna be
easy and the bullies are start gonna let
us win so we got to stay strong and
stick together and remember speak up
being the hero against bullying doesn't
mean you have to fight it means you can
walk someone to class it means you can
ask someone if they're okay stops it's
not cool it's not making you any more
popular smarter prettier and bullying is
a pretty serious matter it hurts people
and you think that it's funny but it's
really nice it's not you it's them
be a hero speak up speaking out is
talking to a parent a teacher even one
of your friends
look I know parents don't always listen
when we talk about bullying when we
speak up they don't hear you keep
telling them keep letting them know and
speak up against bullying don't be
afraid of what the other kids are going
to call you or if you're gonna lose your
friends you can just tell someone like
get it off your chest get it off your
mind and you'll feel better
as you can tell it gets noisy around
here sometimes and you really have to
speak up to be heard so we need you to
help us to stop bullying and speak up -
if it's go telling a parent telling the
teacher
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help your fellow teammate out your
classmate teammates it's the same thing
right we're all on the same team speak
up
you should always help it's not funny
dude just stick up to the bully or tell
an adult it kind of sounds like
everybody says that but that's kind of
everything to do just talk to somebody
and I promise you it's going to get
better it has been turned around
actually I am generally liked guy I
actually my last name has become
something that's a little more light I
have a friend named Mac so together
we're back in cheese that's cool I knew
that I was building friends so there
wasn't really something wrong with me it
was the bullies and now they're actually
my friends just too much for some people
it's hard to hold back
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[Applause]
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