Stop Wasting Time On Women
Summary
TLDR视频脚本讨论了追求女性的行为及其背后的心理。作者认为,如果需要追求女性,那么她可能不是一个好的伴侣。他解释说,好的女性不会让人追求,因为她们更注重未来而非即时的快乐。追求通常意味着浪费时间,而好的女性会立即与感兴趣的人建立联系,共同规划未来。视频鼓励观众反思自己的行为,不要浪费时间追求那些只关心即时满足的人,并建议在遇到新女性时迅速做出决定,判断对方是否真正适合共同规划未来。
Takeaways
- 🚫 追逐女性通常意味着她们不是好女人,因为好女人不会让人追求。
- 👀 好女人不会浪费时间让人追求,她们会直接表达兴趣并愿意共度时光。
- 💡 追逐通常发生在女性只关注即时快感,如社交、饮酒、旅行等活动时。
- 🚶♂️ 男性如果发现自己总是在追逐女性,应该反思并停止这种行为。
- 🤔 好女人会考虑未来,她们的决策会考虑后果,而不是只追求即时的快乐。
- 💑 当你遇到一个好女人时,你们的关系会自然发展,不需要刻意追求。
- 🏡 好女人会考虑长远,比如婚姻、家庭、共同购房等,而不是只关注当下。
- 🚫 追逐女性是一种浪费,如果她们对你不感兴趣,她们不会浪费时间让你追求。
- 🔍 如果你发现自己在追逐女性,应该反思并改变这种模式,寻找真正对你感兴趣的人。
- 🌟 遇到好女人时,你会发现建立关系变得容易,不需要使用任何策略或技巧。
Q & A
视频中提到的“追逐女性”是什么意思?
-视频中的“追逐女性”指的是男性在感情关系中不断追求女性,试图通过各种方式吸引女性的注意和兴趣,而女性并没有对这种追求给予相应的回应或投入。
为什么视频作者认为追逐女性是浪费时间?
-视频作者认为追逐女性是浪费时间,因为这种行为通常发生在女性只关注即时的快乐和满足,而不是真正考虑建立长期关系的情况下。追逐这样的女性往往不会有结果,因为她们可能并不真正关心与追求者建立深入的关系。
视频作者提到了“好女人”不会允许被追逐,这里的“好女人”指的是什么?
-在视频中,“好女人”指的是那些真正关心未来、愿意为建立长期关系投入时间和精力的女性。她们不会让男性单方面追求,而是会积极参与到相互了解和建立关系的过程中。
视频作者如何描述一个女性如果只追求即时的快乐?
-视频作者描述这样的女性通常会参与各种寻求即时快乐的活动,如外出聚会、喝酒、使用药物、购物等,而不会考虑这些行为对未来可能产生的影响。
为什么视频作者认为男性不应该追求那些只追求即时快乐的女性?
-视频作者认为追求只追求即时快乐的女性会导致男性浪费时间和情感,因为这样的女性可能不会对建立长期关系感兴趣,她们更关注于当前的快乐和满足。
视频中提到的“相互追求”是什么意思?
-“相互追求”指的是在感情关系中,男女双方都对对方感兴趣,并且愿意投入时间和精力去了解对方,共同建立关系,而不是单方面的追求。
视频作者建议男性在遇到什么样的女性时应该停止追求?
-视频作者建议男性在遇到那些只关注即时快乐、不考虑未来、不愿意为关系投入的女性时应该停止追求。
为什么视频作者认为好女人会考虑未来和后果?
-视频作者认为好女人会考虑未来和后果,因为她们真正关心建立长期稳定的关系,并且理解自己的行为对未来可能产生的影响。她们会为了共同的未来做出明智的决策。
视频作者提到了“manosphere”和“game”,这些是什么?
-“manosphere”是指男性主导的在线社区,通常讨论男性权益和恋爱关系策略。而“game”在这里指的是男性为了吸引女性而采取的各种策略和技巧。
视频作者建议男性如何识别和对待“好女人”?
-视频作者建议男性在遇到好女人时,应该认识到与她们建立关系的过程是自然和轻松的,不需要使用复杂的策略或技巧。好女人会愿意共同投资于未来,而不是仅仅寻求即时的快乐。
Outlines
🚫 停止追逐不重视你的女人
视频脚本的第一部分讨论了男性追求女性的行为,并指出这种行为通常发生在女性并不真心对待这段关系时。作者强调,他不是在宣扬厌女情绪,而是诚实地表达观点:如果一个女人需要被追求,那么她可能并不是一个好女人。他解释说,好女人不会让男人追求,因为追求是一种浪费时间的行为,除非男人只追求即时的快乐。作者描述了追求女性的男人通常会遇到的情境:他们对女性表达兴趣,女性也回应,但她们仍然忙于自己的社交活动,如外出、喝酒、购物等。男性发现自己总是在追逐女性,试图将她们从这些活动中拉出来,以便能与她们共度时光。这种行为在追求女性时非常普遍,但作者认为这不是好女人的行为。好女人会考虑未来,而不是只追求即时的快乐。
💡 识别并避免追求只追求快乐的女人
第二部分继续讨论追求女性的问题,并指出追求那些只追求快乐的女性是一种错误的行为。作者认为,当男性追求这样的女性时,实际上是在给她们提供一种快乐的形式,因为这让她们感到自信和被需要。然而,作者也指出,如果男性发现自己处于这种情况,并不意味着他们就是坏人,只是可能表现得有些愚蠢或天真。作者建议,当遇到好女人时,关系会自然发展,不需要使用任何策略或技巧。好女人会考虑与男性共同规划未来,如结婚、组建家庭等。她们不会浪费时间让不感兴趣的男人追求自己。最后,作者建议男性在追求女性时应该更加明智,快速做出决定,判断对方是否真正对共同的未来感兴趣,还是只关心眼前的快乐。作者鼓励男性控制自己的行为,不要陷入追求不值得的女人的境地。
Mindmap
Keywords
💡追逐
💡好女人
💡即时满足
💡后果
💡质量时间
💡未来
💡快感
💡相互追求
💡自我控制
💡愚蠢
Highlights
不要追逐那些不值得的女人,因为她们通常只追求即时的快乐。
好女人不会允许你追逐她,因为她会重视未来和后果。
追逐女人通常意味着浪费时间,除非你是一个只追求即时满足的人。
当你遇到一个好女人,她会立刻准备好与你共同规划未来。
好女人会寻求与你共度时光,而不是让你追逐她。
追逐女人往往是一种自我满足的行为,而不是真正的关系建立。
如果你发现自己在追逐一个女人,那么很可能她并不是一个好女人。
好女人会考虑婚姻、家庭和共同购买房子等未来计划。
不要浪费时间在那些只关心即时快乐的女人身上。
如果你在追逐一个女人,那么你应该停下来反思这段关系。
好女人会立刻与你建立联系,而不是让你感到需要追逐。
追逐女人的行为可能是一种自我验证,而不是真正的情感连接。
好女人会避免让你追逐她,因为这对她来说也是浪费时间。
你应该能够控制自己的行为,不要让自己陷入追逐不值得的女人的境地。
如果你发现自己在追逐一个女人,那么你应该重新评估这段关系的价值。
好女人会与你一起投资于未来,而不是仅仅寻求即时的快乐。
追逐女人可能是一种自我欺骗的行为,你需要认清现实。
好女人会与你共同规划未来,而不是让你追逐她。
Transcripts
[Music]
foreign
out there and you ever find yourself
chasing a woman
let me be the one to tell you
she's not a very good woman and you need
to stop chasing her
now I'm not trying to make this one of
those you know misogynistic manosphere
type videos I'm just being honest with
you
if you're chasing a woman she's not a
very good woman and you need to stop
now what do I mean by this well first of
all
I have never in my life seen or
experienced a good woman being chased
and that's because
chasing a woman or for a woman allowing
you to chase her is a big waste of time
that is unless you're a shitty person
that just seeks out
pleasure and instant gratification
and I can probably explain your
situation almost perfectly if you're out
there chasing a woman I bet you this is
what happened
you met a woman you were attracted to
you expressed interest in her she
expressed interest back in you
you started maybe texting each other
calling each other
social media maybe you got together a
few times
but she's still out doing her own thing
right she's still going out with her
girlfriends going out to clubs going out
getting drunk maybe doing drugs taking
trips going on vacations buying shoes
buying bags every time you look at what
she's doing it's always pleasure related
right she's just seeking out pleasure
and that's it
and you find yourself always chasing her
trying to pull her away from these vices
so you can spend time with her you know
so you can get a little bit of time with
her and
it's just not really working right
sometimes you get to see her but then
she goes right back to doing all that
other
that is what happens probably 99 of the
time when you're chasing a woman
now a woman that is allowing you to
chase her while she is doing all of
these other things
this is a woman that is all about
pleasure and that's it right
pleasure comes with consequences
and shitty people
don't think about consequences they
don't they have no foresight of what's
going to happen
so they just live in the moment they
want to have fun so the girl you're
chasing might just be getting by
a bunch of guys going out with their
girlfriends partying doing drugs you
know doing crazy stuff
and you're still chasing her because you
remember that moment when you met her
when you thought maybe there could be
something good there and you're always
trying to go back to that time period
but that time period is never coming
back because now you've seen who she
really is but yet you're still chasing
her
does that story sound familiar I mean
does that ring a Bell with you
is that like holy this guy just
explained my situation to a T
well you're not alone okay that's what
happens anytime a man chases a woman and
every man has chased a woman like it
happens
but that's not a good woman that you're
chasing and I'll explain why
a good woman isn't
you know she's not about seeking out
pleasure in the moment she's not
thinking about right now
a good woman
is seeking out a future
you know she wants a future so she
understands her decisions has
consequences
so
when you meet a good woman
and you express interest in her and she
expresses interest back into you
she will not even allow you to chase her
it'll either be a mutual Pursuit where
you're just doing normal things like
spending time together because when it
comes to relationships
the best way to create a future is just
to spend quality time together so
she'll want to go to the park with you
go to movies with you go out to eat with
you just basic things you'll want to do
these basic things with you because she
gets to spend time with you
so you'll realize this isn't a chase
this is like naturally getting to know
each other you know what I mean
and
um
you know there's there's no time being
wasted there she's investing in a future
with you
whereas the woman that's seeking out
pleasure
is just seeking out pleasure so when you
chase her that's actually a form of
pleasure she gets you're validating her
you're making her more confident making
her feel good about herself because she
just feels like all these guys want to
chase her
you know but
it doesn't make you a bad person if
you're in that situation it just makes
you stupid okay and we've all been
stupid before and somebody has to tell
you you're being stupid because you're
being naive
you know you're in some way getting
taken advantage of
but when you meet a good woman
and you realize wow like this this is so
easy
I never knew it could be this easy
you know you meet this woman and
it just naturally progresses
you know you don't have to apply any
strategies or tactics you don't have to
go to the manosphere and learn game
you know she's just instantly ready to
build a future with you
she's thinking about marriage family
buying a house together things like that
things in the immediate future
that will allow you guys to grow
together and create a good life together
[Music]
but she's not going to allow you to
chase her because that's a big waste of
time
because if she's not really interested
in you like that she's not going to
waste her own time by allowing simps to
chase her guys that she's not interested
in to chase her and she wants to keep
that slot available from a man that she
actually wants to be with
so
if you ever find yourself in a situation
where you're chasing a woman
think of it
you know sit back and think about what I
just said
and just ask yourself is that what's
going on here
and if it is
change it get rid of her
and the next time you meet a new woman
make the decision a lot quicker
you know is this somebody that's serious
about
you know doing whatever it is you want
to do about creating whatever type of
future you want to create
or is this somebody
that just has no foresight of tomorrow
all they can think about is having a
little bit of fun right now
they just don't seem to have any sort of
awareness
about the consequences to their actions
or maybe they just don't care
you know
maybe they're
just bird brains that we'll never
understand
but either way all you can control is
yourself
so don't put yourself in a situation
where you're chasing a bad woman
and you'll be all right
okay guys I don't want this one to be
too long it seems like the shorter these
videos are the more people we reach
and you know the more of an impact they
have so I'm gonna go ahead and cut this
one off but uh
I guess I'll see you guys next time
and I'm gonna bounce
see you
[Music]
the wall until the switch drops down my
balls until all you
[Music]
[Applause]
[Music]
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