DISABILITY | How You See Me
Summary
TLDRThe speaker, born with spina bifida and paralyzed, shares a powerful narrative of embracing difference and living a life of confidence. Despite initial insecurities and societal misconceptions about disability and attractiveness, she thrives, launching a jean line and dancing in clubs, receiving compliments on her beauty. She emphasizes the importance of focusing on the positive and being proud of one's life, showcasing that beauty and style transcend physical limitations.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Gratitude for life and inspiring others is a central theme in the transcript.
- 🚶♂️ The individual has a spinal cord injury and was born with spina bifida, leading to lifelong paralysis.
- 🌱 Growing into the realization of being different and learning to embrace it is a significant part of the person's journey.
- 👖 Turning insecurity into empowerment by starting a jean line that focuses on legs, including those of others.
- 🔄 Embracing differences leads to a life-changing perspective that promotes self-acceptance.
- 🏙️ Encounters with people who may be scared or unsure how to interact due to the individual's disability.
- 💃 The joy of being out in public with friends who also use wheelchairs, and the pride in turning heads.
- 🌟 Challenging societal norms that do not equate disability with attractiveness, asserting that people with disabilities can be stylish and fabulous.
- 💃♂️ The persistence of a dancer's spirit, continuing to enjoy dancing and social life despite physical limitations.
- 👦 Positive experiences with men who find the individual attractive without focusing on the disability.
- 🌈 Focusing on the good aspects of life allows the negative to fade away, promoting a positive outlook.
- 💯 The importance of living life to the fullest and taking pride in one's own journey.
Q & A
How does the speaker feel about their life and the impact on others?
-The speaker feels blessed to live their life and have people be motivated by it, despite their spinal cord injury.
What was the speaker's initial reaction to seeing others with similar conditions?
-The speaker was amazed and realized that's what they would look like, indicating an early acceptance of their condition.
What is the speaker's condition and how has it affected their life?
-The speaker was born with spina bifida, resulting in lifelong paralysis, which they've had to grow into and learn to embrace as part of their identity.
How did the speaker address their insecurity about their legs?
-The speaker decided to start a jean line, focusing on their legs and others' legs in the pictures, as a way to embrace their insecurity and show it's okay to be different.
What challenges has the speaker faced in terms of social interaction?
-The speaker has experienced being treated as if they weren't there or being avoided, possibly due to others' fear or lack of understanding.
What does the speaker enjoy about being out in public with their friends who also use wheelchairs?
-The speaker enjoys the attention they receive when they're out with their friends, especially when they notice heads turning, indicating a sense of pride and empowerment.
How does the speaker challenge societal perceptions about disability and attractiveness?
-The speaker asserts that people with disabilities can also be stylish, gorgeous, stunning, and fabulous, challenging the societal notion that disability is not correlated with attractiveness.
What is the speaker's experience as a dancer and how has it continued despite their disability?
-The speaker maintains their identity as a dancer, continuing to go out and dance, and has been pleasantly surprised by the positive attention they receive.
How does the speaker handle the dichotomy between the bad and the good aspects of life?
-The speaker focuses on the good, allowing the bad to seem less significant, suggesting a positive outlook on life.
What is the speaker's philosophy on life and pride in one's own life?
-The speaker believes in being proud of the life one has, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and living life to the fullest.
What playful moment is captured in the script regarding the speaker's dancing?
-The script ends with a light-hearted moment where the speaker is asked to 'bust a couple of moves', followed by laughter and the director calling for a cut, showing a fun and dynamic personality.
Outlines
🙏 Feeling Blessed and Embracing Life
The speaker expresses deep gratitude for their life, recognizing the inspiration they provide to others. They reflect on their experience with a spinal cord injury and how seeing others in wheelchairs provided a glimpse into their future. Despite their challenges, they remain optimistic and thankful.
👶 Living with Spina Bifida
The speaker was born with spina bifida and has been paralyzed their entire life. This lifelong condition shaped their experience, but since it’s the only life they’ve known, they learned to accept and grow from their differences. This journey of self-awareness and acceptance helped them understand that they were unique.
👖 Turning Insecurities into Strength
Overcoming insecurities about their legs, the speaker decided to launch a jean line. This entrepreneurial move focused on celebrating their legs and those of others. By embracing their biggest insecurity, they found strength and realized that embracing their uniqueness transforms their outlook on life.
😶 Facing Misunderstanding and Fear
The speaker shares difficult experiences of being treated as invisible or unimportant by others, possibly due to fear or a lack of understanding. This highlights the discomfort and lack of knowledge many people feel when encountering those with disabilities.
💁♀️ Loving Attention with My Girls
One of the speaker's favorite moments is going out in public with their friends, all of whom are wheelchair users and beautiful. They enjoy the attention they receive, watching people turn their heads in admiration and surprise.
💄 Redefining Beauty with Disability
The speaker challenges societal perceptions by asserting that disability and attractiveness are not mutually exclusive. They emphasize that people with disabilities can be stylish, gorgeous, and fabulous, encouraging others to embrace their own beauty and confidence.
💃 Owning the Dance Floor
As a former dancer, the speaker never gave up their passion. They continued to go out to clubs, dance, and be approached by men who found them attractive without qualifiers. This experience was empowering and reaffirmed their self-worth.
⚖️ Choosing to Focus on the Positive
The speaker highlights the importance of focusing on the good in life. Although there are both positive and negative aspects, centering attention on the good makes the bad seem less significant, leading to a more fulfilling life.
🌟 Be Proud of the Life You Have
Reminding others that life is precious, the speaker encourages embracing and being proud of the life you are given. It’s a powerful message of acceptance, self-love, and celebration of life’s uniqueness.
🎉 Ending with Fun and Laughter
The speaker ends on a playful note, showing off a few dance moves with a lighthearted spirit. This joyful moment wraps up the video with laughter and a positive energy, demonstrating their love for life.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Spinal cord injury
💡Spina bifida
💡Paralysis
💡Insecurity
💡Embrace
💡Stigma
💡Self-acceptance
💡Dancer
💡Attraction
💡Fabulous
💡Pride
Highlights
Feeling blessed to live life and inspire others despite physical challenges.
Experiencing a spinal cord injury and adjusting to the new reality of using a wheelchair.
Born with spina bifida and growing up paralyzed, learning to embrace the difference.
Turning insecurity about legs into motivation to start a jean line, showcasing legs in photos.
Realization that embracing differences can change one's world for the better.
Encountering people who act as if the individual isn't there or avoid interaction due to fear or ignorance.
Enjoying public outings with friends in wheelchairs, drawing attention and admiration.
Challenging societal perceptions that disability and attractiveness are mutually exclusive.
Embracing self-worth and beauty, regardless of disability, and inspiring others to do the same.
Continuing to dance and enjoy social life, surprising people with the vibrancy of life despite physical limitations.
Receiving compliments on attractiveness without qualifiers, affirming self-worth and attractiveness.
Focusing on the positive aspects of life to overshadow the negative experiences.
Emphasizing the importance of being proud of one's life, regardless of circumstances.
Lighthearted moment of offering to show off dance moves, adding a touch of humor to the narrative.
Director's instruction to get a cut, indicating a wrap-up of the recording session.
Transcripts
- I feel so blessed to be able to
just live my life and have people be motivated by it.
- I have a spinal cord injury
and so when I was seeing people roll by
I was like wow, so that's what I'm gonna look like
- I was born paralyzed.
I was born with spina bifida,
so I've been paralyzed my whole life
and it's the only life I know.
So I had to kinda grow into learning I was different.
- My biggest insecurity is my legs,
so I decided hey if that's my biggest insecurity
then I'm gonna start a jean line.
And all of the pictures are based around my jeans
and my legs and other people's legs.
And that's where I realized that it's okay to be different
because once you embrace it your entire world changes.
- I would have people treat me as if I wasn't really there
and I would have people treat me
like they didn't want anything to do with me.
And perhaps it was because they were scared
and they didn't know any other response.
- One of my favorite things is when I'm out in public
and I have all my girls with me who are all in chairs
who are all gorgeous and we literally love
when we see heads just turn.
- Society doesn't correlate disability and being attractive.
We are beautiful people.
Everyone's beautiful in their own way
but we can be stylish, we can be gorgeous
and stunning and fabulous as I like to say
because yes I see myself as being fabulous.
- Being a dancer you know once a dancer always a dancer
I didn't stop so I would go out to the clubs
and I would get my boogie on
and I was surprised by how guys would approach me
and be like "hey you're hot".
And they wouldn't say "you're still hot",
they would say, "you're hot".
- There is the black and white
there's the bad and there's the good,
so as long as your focusing on the good
then the bad just seems to melt away.
- We're only given one life
and you gotta be proud of it.
- You want me to bust a couple of moves?
What? Oh, oh, oh, oh.
(laughs)
- [Director] Perfect, let's get a cut.
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