Como sair da mediocridade | SejaUmaPessoaMelhor
Summary
TLDRThe script explores the hypothetical choice between two pills: one for entertainment and one for learning. It suggests that while most people would choose entertainment due to its ease, those who opt for learning face less competition and can excel. The speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing failure as a learning tool and personal growth. They also discuss the pursuit of success, the need for self-awareness, and the pitfalls of envy and misplaced values. The script concludes by advocating for taking full responsibility for one's life and success, encouraging viewers to become better individuals.
Takeaways
- đź Entertainment is often chosen over learning because it's easier and more enjoyable, whereas learning can be difficult and sometimes tedious.
- đĄ Choosing the 'learning pill' would mean facing less competition, as most people avoid the harder path.
- đ Success often requires leaving behind distractions and focusing on goals, even if it means sacrificing immediate pleasures.
- đ Failure is a part of growth; embracing it and learning from mistakes is essential for personal development.
- đ Avoiding criticism and only seeking praise can hinder progress; constructive criticism helps to adjust and improve.
- đïžââïž Achieving goals such as weight loss requires making better choices and taking action, not just wishing for results.
- đ€ Most people are unhappy because they are confused about what is truly valuable; they often chase after the wrong things.
- đ§ââïž Self-awareness and understanding one's values are crucial for aligning one's life with personal success.
- đŻ Identifying one's purpose and having a detailed behavioral profile can aid in self-improvement and goal achievement.
- đ€ Success often requires a willingness to help others succeed as well, even if it means they might benefit more.
- đ« Jealousy and excessive comparison with others can lead to unhappiness and distract from personal growth.
- đĄïž Taking full responsibility for one's life is the key to empowerment and the ability to change and succeed.
Q & A
If two pills were given to the population, one for entertainment and one for learning, which would most people choose and why?
-Most people would likely choose the entertainment pill because it's easy and enjoyable, whereas learning is often seen as difficult, boring, and tedious.
What is the advantage of choosing the learning pill despite its challenges?
-Choosing the learning pill would mean facing less competition, as fewer people would opt for it, potentially leading to greater mastery and success in one's chosen field.
Why do some people develop an aversion to failure and what impact does this have on their growth?
-People develop an aversion to failure because they equate it with inadequacy. This mindset prevents them from learning from their mistakes, which is essential for growth and development.
How did the speaker approach receiving criticism for improvement in their early video content?
-The speaker actively sought out harsh criticism from friends to learn from their mistakes, emphasizing the importance of feedback over praise for personal growth.
What is a common misconception about success that the speaker addresses in the script?
-The misconception is that success will come to people; however, the speaker points out that successful individuals are those who take the necessary steps and pay the required price to achieve their goals.
What is the speaker's view on the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's values?
-The speaker believes that self-awareness and understanding one's values are crucial for identifying what true success means to an individual and for aligning one's actions with their goals.
How does the speaker suggest one can deepen their self-awareness and identify their values and purpose?
-The speaker recommends taking a self-awareness course, which offers a detailed report on one's behavioral profile, among other things, to gain a deeper understanding of oneself.
What is the potential consequence of constantly comparing oneself to others and feeling envious of their success?
-Constant comparison and envy can lead to a focus on others' achievements rather than one's own values and behaviors, making life more difficult and unhappy.
Why does the speaker suggest that taking responsibility for everything in one's life is a pivotal moment?
-Taking responsibility signifies the moment when one reclaims the power to change anything in their life, which is essential for achieving one's aspirations.
What is the speaker's final advice to the audience regarding their path to a more fulfilling and better life?
-The speaker encourages the audience to believe in their total responsibility for their success, to let go of envy and comparison, and to embrace the journey to a more gratifying life that awaits them.
Outlines
đ€ The Choice Between Entertainment and Learning
The script begins with a hypothetical scenario where people are given two pills, one for entertainment and one for learning. It posits that most would choose entertainment due to its ease and pleasure, while learning is often seen as difficult and tedious. The speaker suggests that by choosing the path of learning, one faces less competition, which paradoxically leads to greater opportunities. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of embracing challenges and learning from failures as a means to personal growth and success.
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Keywords
đĄEntertainment
đĄLearning
đĄCompetition
đĄFailure
đĄSuccess
đĄSelf-improvement
đĄValues
đĄSelf-awareness
đĄResponsibility
đĄJealousy
đĄComparison
Highlights
The hypothetical scenario of choosing between a pill for entertainment and one for learning, with most people likely opting for the easier choice of entertainment.
The idea that learning is challenging and often perceived as tedious, which is why few people master any skill.
The suggestion that choosing the learning pill would mean less competition, as most people avoid the harder path.
The assertion that the majority of people do not value learning, which is why they remain in mediocrity.
The notion that an aversion to failure is ingrained in many people, leading them to believe they are not good enough when they fail.
The argument that avoiding failure prevents learning and growth, as people do not embrace the opportunity to learn from mistakes.
The personal anecdote of the speaker asking for harsh criticism to improve their work and learn from their mistakes.
The advice to seek criticism rather than praise to adjust one's path and progress.
The analogy of wanting to lose weight, which requires making better food choices and exercising, as applicable to other areas of life.
The speaker's personal experience of giving up gaming to focus on achieving their goal of getting into a public university.
The observation that most people expect success to come to them, while successful individuals actively pursue it.
The importance of self-awareness and understanding one's values to pursue the right goals in life.
The promotion of a self-awareness course with a discount for deeper understanding of one's behavioral profile and values.
The hypothetical question of accepting double the current earnings if it meant everyone around you would triple theirs, highlighting self-centeredness.
The discussion on the negative impacts of jealousy and excessive comparison, which detract from focusing on self-improvement.
The call to action to cut off envy and comparison to align one's values and behaviors for a happier and less difficult life.
The final point about the majority avoiding responsibility and the empowerment that comes from taking full responsibility for one's life.
The closing message encouraging the listener to believe in their total responsibility for success and to strive for a more fulfilling life.
Transcripts
Imagine que fosse dada à população uma
de duas pĂlulas a primeira seria o
entretenimento e a segunda a
aprendizagem Qual das pĂlulas a maioria
das pessoas escolheria Todos sabem a
resposta o entretenimento Ă© fĂĄcil a
aprendizagem Ă© difĂcil chata e Ă s vezes
tediosa e Ă© por isso que tĂŁo poucas
pessoas dominam qualquer coisa mas veja
ao escolher a pĂlula da aprendizagem a
concorrĂȘncia serĂĄ mais baixa Por
incrĂvel que pareça sĂŁo os cargos mais
baixos Onde existe a maior competição
por vaga mas nĂŁo me entenda mal nĂŁo
estou dizendo para vocĂȘ deixar de lado
todo o entretenimento mas de repensar
onde sua cabeça passa a maior parte do
tempo a maioria nĂŁo valoriza a
aprendizagem agora outro pensamento que
parece ter sido injetado na maioria das
pessoas Ă© a aversĂŁo ao fracasso elas
ficam felizes se estĂŁo indo bem mas se
falham em algo o pensamento que vem em
suas cabeças é que elas não são boas o
suficiente e Ă© exatamente por isso que
essas pessoas permanecem na mediocridade
a maioria foge das falhas e sem falhar
elas nĂŁo aprendem nada novo e sem
aprender nada nunca vĂŁo crescer e se
desenvolver antes de ser muito bom em
algo vocĂȘ precisa ser ruim precisa errar
bastante e aprender com seus erros
quando postei os primeiros vĂdeos aqui
nesse canal eu praticamente implorei
para que meus amigos fizessem A CrĂtica
mais dura que pudessem para que eu
pudesse aprender com as minhas falhas
nĂŁo busque elogios busque crĂticas Ă© com
elas que vocĂȘ Ajusta a rota e avança
ainda mais agora imagine que vocĂȘ queira
emagrecer para isso vocĂȘ vai ter que
fazer escolhas alimentares melhores e
fazer exercĂcios nĂŁo dĂĄ para emagrecer
primeiro e sĂł depois fazer essas coisas
parece Ăbvio certo mas o mesmo Ă© vĂĄlido
para outras ĂĄreas da vida eu sempre
joguei muito na minha adolescĂȘncia
cheguei até a ganhar alguns campeonatos
mas tudo mudou quando coloquei como
objetivo passar em uma faculdade pĂșblica
sem cursinho Tive que deixar de lado
tudo aquilo que nĂŁo agregava para minha
meta desde esse dia nĂŁo jogo mais jogos
foi muito difĂcil mas totalmente
recompensador a maioria espera que o
sucesso chegue até elas a minoria
bem-sucedida se torna quem elas
desejariam que fossem antes mesmo de
chegar lå pagando o preço necessårio
para isso jĂĄ vamos para o quarto PorquĂȘ
a maioria vive infeliz grande parte
porque estĂŁo confusas sobre o que Ă©
valioso ou nĂŁo elas nĂŁo vĂŁo atrĂĄs de
autoconhecimento e passam a vida toda
perseguindo as coisas erradas como
dinheiro pelo dinheiro afeto dos outros
ou reconhecimento passam a vida como
zumbis andando sem rumo sendo guiados
por entidades que nĂŁo querem o bem delas
antes de buscar o sucesso Ă© preciso ter
na sua cabeça o que Ă© sucesso para vocĂȘ
e para responder essa pergunta vocĂȘ
precisa também saber quais são os seus
valores e se quiser se aprofundar no
autoconhecimento saber como identificar
seus valores seu propĂłsito ter um
relatĂłrio detalhado sobre seu perfil
comportamental Entre vĂĄrias outras
coisas faça o curso de autoconhecimento
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a vocĂȘ a opção de ganhar duas vez ve o
que vocĂȘ ganha hoje vocĂȘ aceitaria certo
mas e se como condição para vocĂȘ ganhar
o dobro todas as pessoas Ă sua volta
teriam que receber o triplo como vocĂȘ
reagiria a essa notĂcia a maioria nĂŁo
concordaria a maioria olha mais para o
lado do que para si prĂłprio e o tempo
que vocĂȘ passa sentindo ciĂșmes do
sucesso dos outros Ă© o tempo que eles
gastam trabalhando Adivinha quem serĂĄ
mais valioso ao olhar para os outros
vocĂȘ passa a olhar menos para si mesmo
seus valores e comportamentos terĂŁo mais
dificuldade para se alinhar tornando sua
vida mais difĂcil e infeliz nĂŁo ser vocĂȘ
Ă© o que mais te destrĂłi corte a inveja e
a comparação
excessiva deixei por Ășltimo o que talvez
seja o mais importante a maioria foge
das responsabilidades desde AdĂŁo as
pessoas colocam a responsabilidade nos
outros porĂ©m o momento em que vocĂȘ
aceita a responsabilidade por tudo em
sua vida Ă© o momento em que vocĂȘ vocĂȘ
reinvidica o poder de mudar qualquer
coisa nela e Ă© difĂcil pensar assim
porque talvez isso nĂŁo seja nem 100%
verdade mas para conseguir alcançar as
coisas que vocĂȘ realmente almeja VocĂȘ
precisa acreditar nisso precisa
acreditar que vocĂȘ Ă© quem tem Total
responsabilidade pelo seu sucesso a
maioria das pessoas vai permanecer na
mediocridade Mas vocĂȘ nĂŁo precisa estar
nesse meio caminho que leva a uma vida
mais gratificante e melhor estĂĄ
esperando por vocĂȘ um grande abraço e
seja uma pessoa melhor
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