Handsome Men’s Game | Why Some Handsome Men Think They Are Exempt From Rejection

JostenJ
8 Jul 202318:12

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Justin J addresses the misconception that good-looking men are immune to rejection. He emphasizes that attractiveness doesn't guarantee acceptance and encourages men not to take rejection personally. Justin shares insights on how women's emotional thinking can lead to rejection for reasons that may seem illogical to men. He advises maintaining confidence and not letting rejection affect one's self-worth, highlighting the importance of actions and behaviors over looks in building genuine connections.

Takeaways

  • 😎 Attraction is not solely about looks; actions and self-confidence play a significant role in how one is perceived by others.
  • 🚫 Rejection is a part of life and should not be taken personally, as it is a normal part of social interactions and dating.
  • 💼 Success with women is not guaranteed by good looks alone; it requires a balance of appearance, behavior, and communication.
  • 🤔 Women may reject attractive men due to various reasons, including intimidation or their own insecurities, which are not always logical to men.
  • 👥 It's important to approach dating with a mindset of abundance rather than scarcity, understanding that not every interaction will lead to a relationship.
  • 💬 Communication is key; being direct and honest with intentions can help build trust and reduce misunderstandings in dating scenarios.
  • 🙅‍♂️ Men should avoid acting emotionally or 'butt hurt' when faced with rejection, as it can be perceived as unattractive and counterproductive.
  • 💪 Confidence and resilience in the face of rejection can make a person more attractive, showing they are not overly reliant on external validation.
  • 🤷‍♀️ Women, like men, have their preferences and may not always choose partners based on conventional attractiveness.
  • 👀 Being attractive can sometimes lead to women feeling insecure, as they may worry about the potential for competition or being replaced.
  • 🔄 Rejection can sometimes be a temporary response, with some women potentially 'doubling back' if they initially felt intimidated or unsure.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic discussed in Justin J's car video?

    -The main topic discussed in Justin J's car video is the 'Pretty Boy Complex' and why good-looking men are not exempt from rejection.

  • According to Justin J, why do some women reject good-looking men?

    -Justin J suggests that women reject good-looking men because their actions and words might not align, or the women themselves have certain preferences and standards that the men do not meet.

  • What does Justin J say about the role of looks in attracting women?

    -Justin J emphasizes that looks alone do not guarantee attraction; actions and behaviors play a significant role in how women perceive men.

  • Why does Justin J believe that handsome men should not be intimidated by rejection?

    -He believes that rejection is a part of the dating game and that handsome men should not let it affect their self-esteem or confidence.

  • What example does Justin J give to illustrate how some men handle rejection well?

    -Justin J recounts a story about a man named Greg who, despite facing rejection, continued to approach different groups of women without letting it affect him.

  • What advice does Justin J offer to men who are good-looking and facing rejection?

    -Justin J advises them to develop emotional discipline, not to react negatively to rejection, and to continue pursuing opportunities without getting discouraged.

  • How does Justin J describe the mindset of a man who is not affected by rejection?

    -He describes such a man as having a stoic mindset, being indifferent to rejection, and not letting it dictate his self-worth or actions.

  • What does Justin J suggest is a common misconception among attractive men about their interactions with women?

    -Justin J suggests that a common misconception is that attractive men believe they should be pursued by women or that their looks should guarantee success in dating.

  • What does Justin J mean by 'Pretty Boy complex'?

    -The 'Pretty Boy complex' refers to the mindset where good-looking men believe they are exempt from rejection and may become insecure or upset when they face it.

  • How does Justin J recommend men should approach women they are interested in?

    -He recommends being direct, honest, and straightforward, making it clear that they are genuinely interested and not playing games.

  • What does Justin J say about the importance of self-love and confidence for attractive men?

    -Justin J stresses that self-love and confidence are crucial, as they transform perceived flaws into positives and make a man more attractive to women.

Outlines

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🤔 The Pretty Boy Complex and Rejection

In this paragraph, Justin J addresses the misconception that good-looking men are immune to rejection. He emphasizes that attractiveness doesn't guarantee success with women and that actions and words must align. Justin points out that women have standards and preferences that go beyond looks, and that even 'handsome men' can be intimidating. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how rejection is a normal part of the dating game and encourages men to not take it personally but to learn from it.

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💪 Overcoming Rejection with Confidence

Justin J discusses the importance of handling rejection with confidence rather than acting emotionally. He argues that men should not let rejection affect their self-esteem and should continue to pursue their interests. The paragraph highlights the idea that attractive men may receive a lot of attention but should not be disheartened by occasional rejections. Justin also talks about the 'Pretty Boy complex,' where men feel entitled to attention and are unprepared to handle rejection, which is counterproductive to their dating success.

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😮 Attraction and the Intimidation Factor

This paragraph delves into the psychological aspects of dating, particularly how being attractive can sometimes work against a man in attracting a partner. Justin explains that women might feel intimidated by a man's looks and may choose to pursue someone who they perceive as less threatening. He suggests that some women might eliminate themselves from the running due to insecurities, even if they are attracted. The paragraph also touches on the idea that women might 'double back' after an initial rejection if they find the man's confidence appealing.

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👥 Understanding Women's Perspective on Attraction

Justin J explores the complexities of how women perceive attractive men and the reasons behind their decisions to reject or pursue them. He discusses the idea that women are emotional thinkers and may reject good-looking men for reasons that seem illogical to men, who tend to be more logical. The paragraph also addresses the importance of self-love and self-acceptance for men, turning perceived flaws into positives. Justin advises men not to take rejection personally and to maintain a positive outlook, using it as a catalyst for self-improvement.

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Keywords

💡Pretty Boy Complex

The 'Pretty Boy Complex' refers to the mindset where good-looking men believe they are immune to rejection due to their physical attractiveness. In the video, Justin J addresses this concept, explaining that rejection is a normal part of social interactions, regardless of one's looks, and that handsome men should not expect to be exempt from it. The script mentions this complex as a barrier to approaching women and handling rejection maturely.

💡Rejection

Rejection is the act of refusing or dismissing someone's advances or proposals. The video emphasizes that rejection is a common experience that everyone faces, including attractive individuals. Justin J uses the script to normalize rejection and advises viewers not to take it personally, but rather to use it as a learning experience and to grow from it.

💡Attraction

Attraction in this context is the appeal or desirability one person has for another, often based on physical appearance. The video discusses how being attractive can sometimes lead to a 'Pretty Boy Complex,' where men assume their looks will guarantee success in social or romantic interactions. However, Justin J points out that attraction alone does not ensure a positive outcome in dating or relationships.

💡Actions and Words

The alignment of one's actions with their words is highlighted as crucial in the video. Justin J suggests that no matter how good-looking a man is, if his actions do not match his words, his attractiveness means nothing. This concept is used to emphasize the importance of sincerity and authenticity in interactions with women.

💡Qualification

Qualification, in the context of the video, refers to what women perceive they deserve or are capable of attracting in a partner. Justin J mentions that women may have standards such as height or income, but they often end up with men who do not meet these criteria, indicating that qualification is subjective and can be influenced by personal feelings and chemistry.

💡Intimidation

Intimidation is the feeling of being less confident or fearful due to the perceived superiority of another. In the video, Justin J talks about how being attractive can intimidate women, making them feel insecure or inadequate. He advises men to be aware of this and to approach women with confidence and reassurance to alleviate such feelings.

💡Confidence

Confidence is a belief in one's own abilities and self-assurance. The video stresses the importance of maintaining confidence, especially when facing rejection. Justin J encourages men to be secure in themselves, not to let rejection affect their self-worth, and to approach social situations with a positive and assertive attitude.

💡Game

In the context of the video, 'game' refers to the strategies and tactics used in social interactions, particularly in attracting romantic or sexual partners. Justin J criticizes manipulative 'game' and suggests that straightforwardness and honesty are more effective and respectful ways to interact with women.

💡Stoicism

Stoicism is a philosophy that teaches the control of one's emotions and indifference to external events. The video script mentions stoicism as a way for men to handle rejection without being emotionally affected. Justin J advises viewers to be indifferent to rejection and to maintain their composure and dignity.

💡Hunter

The term 'hunter' is used metaphorically in the video to describe the proactive and assertive role men should take in pursuing what they want, including romantic interests. Justin J encourages men to adopt a hunter's mindset, being active and decisive in their approaches rather than passively waiting for opportunities.

💡Insecurities

Insecurities are feelings of doubt, anxiety, or uncertainty, often about one's own worth or abilities. The video discusses how women may feel insecure when faced with an attractive man, fearing they cannot 'measure up.' Justin J advises men to be aware of these potential insecurities and to approach women in a way that is reassuring and genuine.

Highlights

Handsome men's game and the misconception that they are exempt from rejection.

Women have free will to choose their partners, and good looks don't guarantee acceptance.

Actions and words alignment is more important than looks in relationships.

Women's preferences are diverse, including for 'medium ugly' or 'cute ugly' guys.

Women often know what they qualify for and may choose partners opposite to their stated preferences.

Attractive men may intimidate women, leading to rejection as a defense mechanism.

Attractive men should not be overly affected by rejection, as it's a part of the dating game.

Story of Greg at Seaside Heights, demonstrating resilience to rejection.

The importance of maintaining confidence and not being deterred by rejection.

Attractive men should not expect to get every woman they pursue.

The Pretty Boy complex and its negative impact on men's approach to dating.

Men should not act emotionally vulnerable or seek validation from women post-rejection.

The role of self-confidence and self-love in overcoming rejection.

Attractive men should not lead with their looks but with their actions and behaviors.

The idea that rejection can be a result of a woman's insecurity rather than a man's fault.

Attractive men should not give up on approaching due to fear of rejection.

The importance of being emotionally disciplined and stoic in the face of rejection.

The notion that some women may double back after rejection due to intimidation.

Attractive men should not take rejection personally and should continue pursuing opportunities.

The Pretty Boy complex can hinder a man's ability to approach and connect with women.

Men should love themselves and their flaws, turning negatives into positives.

Attractive men should be straightforward and direct with women to build trust.

The video's call to action for men to overcome the Pretty Boy complex and thrive despite rejection.

Transcripts

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what's good guys it's your boy Justin J

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coming to you with another car video

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Let's cook boys let's cook all right

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handsome men's game and why a lot of

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handsome men have a pretty boy complex

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and think they're exempt from rejection

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so you know I seen in the comment

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section you know

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um you know why do women reject you know

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good looking guys like this is this is

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an issue this is a topic that needs to

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be discussed no no no no there is no

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issue women have like a choice women

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have free will to choose whoever they

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want to do it with and whoever they

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don't want to do it with your good looks

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they don't really play a role in

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anything

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because you have to remember if your

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actions don't align with your words it

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just doesn't mean anything your looks

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don't mean anything so it's probably

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something that you're doing wrong and

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even if it's nothing that you're doing

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wrong women they have sayings they like

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medium ugly guys handsome ugly guys cute

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ugly guys like women are going to go to

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what they qualify for it's the same way

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how women say I want to go six foot one

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six foot four six foot six if he's not

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that he can't talk to me I want a guy

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who makes over a hundred thousand

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dollars a year I want a guy who makes

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over a quarter million dollars a year

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but then they end up getting with some

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guy that's completely the opposite you

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guys have to remember women know exactly

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what they qualify for so you are going

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to intimidate a lot of women that you

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like like that you want to go after

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especially if you're a guy that you like

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Plain Jane women like you like women

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that have that look to them that makes

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them look different you're not really

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chasing like baddies all the time and

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look when you're chasing baddies they

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love to reject you as a good [ __ ] guy

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because look he looks good you know

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they're even intimidated a little bit

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because it's like damn he's beating me

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at my own game you know what let me size

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them up and bring and like chop them

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down a little bit you know so you always

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have to remember and look guys

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here's the part of it too

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you're gonna be used to getting a lot of

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women because you're actually an

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attractive guy so you can get with eight

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women in a row and then one rejects you

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one tells you like you're not that guy

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and now you're all in your feelings

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kind of doesn't make sense because

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you're having your way for the most part

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do you understand and see the thing is

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guys think that you're supposed to get

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every woman that you go after but that's

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not really the truth because all the

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guys myself included that are good with

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women are like we don't care about

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rejection you have to get used to it

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it's a part of the game real life story

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right I'll never forget the first time

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we went to Seaside Heights and there was

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this kid Greg and he went to every girl

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on the boardwalk like straight B-Line

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for every girl hey you trying to hook up

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I'm watching it in 4k a girl would hook

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up with him just start tunging him down

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making out with him he would go to the

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next group of girls hey what's up girls

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like I'm trying to hook up who's trying

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to kiss and the girl's like ew no he was

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just like okay and then went on to the

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next group of girls hooked up with a

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girl I saw him hook up with a white

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chick and an Asian Asian chick in the

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same friend group then just kept going

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on about his business then we went to

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the Aztec and you know what I mean like

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[ __ ] got popping after that and and that

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was the first time I saw it like damn

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bro like rejection doesn't even face

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certain dudes like you know why don't I

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have that energy see at that time I

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didn't have that energy see it's the

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same way how you can go outside of your

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house and make five approaches and if

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you feel like you're an attractive guy

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like that you will at least get one

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number and be able to set one date to

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see a girl later in the week you might

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take four rejections but you still got

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one girl now let's up the Annie if you

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flip that from five approaches to ten

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approaches you would get two numbers

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guys can only hope to get two numbers in

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the same day I'm telling you right now a

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lot of this stuff about being attractive

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look being handsome is cool you know

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you're genetically gifted or you worked

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on your looks and now you're handsome

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but you know the other half of that

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being attractive is it starts in your

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mind bro like when you wake up and look

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in the mirror you're like I'm that dude

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like what

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and then after that comes what females

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think about you like so when you think

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away about yourself and then you see a

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lot of females like that you interact

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with or when you go outside you will see

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the way they act it lets you know like

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okay they see what I see you know it

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comes it starts first with what you see

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and then the women confirmed what you

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see but when you don't feel like that

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off rip you're going to be you know

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like doubting yourself second guessing

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yourself I just don't understand how a

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guy can have sex with multiple women and

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then one woman doesn't want to have sex

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with them and it just [ __ ] up his whole

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like the way he thinks his whole

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mentality that's not the way things are

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supposed to be and honestly it's going

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to ruin your experiences with women

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because then you're gonna have like this

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sour taste in your mouth all right and I

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really want to go over uh the Pretty Boy

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complex

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guys you act like a woman when you can't

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handle rejection women can't handle

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rejection why do you think they have no

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game and they don't approach men like

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that why

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why and yes some women do approach men

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but those are women who are bold or

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they're nine times out of ten you know

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they're not attractive like that I'm

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telling you right now but yes there are

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attractive women that will start talking

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to you but I mean approaching you even

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that is having no game because they'll

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make side conversation ask you to open

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up a water bottle ask you to crack a

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soda for them because their fingers are

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so weak and no that's not game so you

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act like a woman listen I'm gonna tell

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you right now

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when you act like a when you act butt

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hurt or you act like getting rejected is

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a problem that's female Behavior you as

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a man you you counteract that with the

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opposite of that confidence you take the

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rejection you thrive off of it and I

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said this in a short

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I've taken so many rejections where I

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was just like okay well you got my

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number hit me up or you know or like

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that was a rejection to my advances but

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then there's sometimes where a chick

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will reject you in public when you shoot

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your shot and you're just like all right

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well you have a nice day and you just

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keep it pushing with a smile like that

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like all right have a nice day keep it

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pushing their face if you pay attention

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from your peripheral their face is like

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they're so confused they're in their

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head like what like that was so weird

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because that I make a mistake because

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guys don't act like that especially when

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guys you know can't have their way with

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a woman like now let's bring it back to

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when you already have a woman's number

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or you might have taken her out or

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whatever and she rejects your advances

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so when you don't act all like you know

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damn that's messed up and this [ __ ] is

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a hoe and that don't make no sense

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because how she a hoe she didn't get

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with you so it's like you know oh um and

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then you act all mad right that's what

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women do when they can't have their way

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or manipulate them in

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so it kind of comes off across to the

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woman like well you were just trying to

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manipulate me because if you weren't why

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are you getting so mad I'ma help a lot

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of guys out with this video because your

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actions and behaviors are what make you

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a man you you get me guys like a lot of

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this [ __ ] where guys think oh high value

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man and high value man is looks money

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status no no no no it's your actions

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your behaviors and your boundaries do

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you understand so you really don't stand

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on anything if a chicken knock you off

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your Square by telling you not today oh

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I don't know

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I'm I'm sorry I'm just not feeling the

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vibe you know I.E she's not feeling you

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like that so what you do now is you say

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okay not a problem you know have a nice

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day because that shows that you have

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other options you have other things

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going on and even if you don't

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that's what it signals off in her mind

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but the whole like that pretty boy

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complex it's just it's not a good look

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I'm telling you right now and I used to

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be the same way that will literally stop

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you from making approaches because

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you'll have the mindset of well I look

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good she should come over here and

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approach me no remember your actions

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behaviors and boundaries so as a man

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what else comes with being a man what

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else is a part of being a man

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being a hunter going after what you want

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being sure of yourself

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you know not being indecisive not

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getting butt hurt not thinking that the

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world is out to get you because this one

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chick doesn't want you you will

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literally stay up at night like yo why

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why'd she do that why'd she do that why

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doesn't she want me you know girls

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usually want me and that's just not the

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right mindset to have because listen

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women are not meant to stay in your life

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women come and women go so the same way

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that you will understand that you will

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understand that some women are going to

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get on your program some women are not

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they're going to give you resistance but

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half the game is knowing how to deal

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with the resistance and not dealing with

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it at all is how you deal with the

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resistance and a lot of these videos I

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give you guys Solutions you know I this

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is not a place to complain and stay the

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same no so the same way how like when a

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woman gives you resistance you just

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scrap it you get rid of her like you

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know and you do it cool calm and

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collected you don't make like a big

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scene or get all in your feelings and

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get in your head because that's just

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what women are going to do a lot of the

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stuff women do it's just what they're

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gonna do what's in their nature so you

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as a man need to understand your nature

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so you do what's in your nature but

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acting like a pretty boy acting like

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you're exempt from rejection who acts

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like that who can't take rejection who

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gets all insecure when the person they

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like doesn't like them back who

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a woman

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you need to understand this is like

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making money and losing money money

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coming in money going out you might not

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get that job you know it might take you

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a little bit longer but then you know

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you'll be like I don't even want that

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job I'm gonna go get a better job it's

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the same way everything how you lead

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your life it's gonna be like that

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everywhere so if you have discipline in

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your life you're going to be disciplined

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everywhere so you're going to be

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emotionally disciplined

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not to react to certain things to be

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indifferent stoicism just be stoic I'm

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telling you women like a guy who they

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cannot knock off their Square to be

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honest a woman can reject you and then

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like double back around for you but see

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that's the thing I don't give those

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Second Chances but I'm telling you there

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is a small percentage of the time where

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a woman rejects you because she's that

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intimidated by you and like she might

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actually double back around depending on

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how you react to it and what I mean by

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double back around is try to come around

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and make small talk and that might just

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blurt it out like listen I messed up

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like I didn't mean to do that it's just

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that you make me feel nervous and listen

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you will take a chick out on a date she

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will really be feeling you and I know

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guys I don't want you to get confused

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when I say when a woman really likes you

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she's going to go after you yes that is

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very true but when a woman likes you

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it's going to almost feel like you're in

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the car with her and she's nervous like

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when you're looking at her she's nervous

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you make women like you intimidate them

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and some women are going to eliminate

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themselves and go deal with a less

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attractive dude I know it sounds crazy

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but that's just what it is a woman

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doesn't really want to be with the guy

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that looks better than her there's a

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percentage of women out there that do

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want a guy that you know other women

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look at when they're in public I set

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that in a short like if your woman loves

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the fact that other girls check you out

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that's a that's a good woman I'm telling

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you right there

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um to keep around you know because she's

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not going to be all jealous and you know

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making a fuss whenever you leave the

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house or whenever she sees a girl

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checking you out and then you look back

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at the girl she ain't gonna be smacking

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you on the shoulder like you'll keep

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your eyes in your head she's gonna be

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like nah that's my man that's that dude

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she's just doing what she's supposed to

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do you know just but like guys you gotta

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understand being attractive half the

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battle is knowing that you're going to

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get rejected for reasons that don't even

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make any sense don't make any sense to

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you because you're a logical thinker but

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they make perfect sense to women because

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they're emotional thinkers so when

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you're in your head thinking like why

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doesn't this chick like me and she's

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supposed to like me and I didn't even do

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anything wrong I thought I was being

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like a proper gentleman you have to

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understand man women reject good-looking

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guys because listen they know that they

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have to like get like boost themselves

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up they have to work for you that's

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another part of it like a woman could

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really like you and eliminate herself

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because she knows that she can't measure

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up to you but for you to have this

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complex of like well what did I do wrong

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and this this chick should know what it

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is no no see you're leading off of your

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looks the chick should know who you are

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offer your actions like she should be

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getting in line because you're a leader

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because you know where to go you know

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that like all of that stuff it's not

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just like oh I look good so because if

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you think like that you're acting like a

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woman so when you go out with a pretty

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woman in public right it's eye candy it

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attracts other women right but

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like you know that as a man you know but

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women don't typically think like that

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it's like you know I got this attractive

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ass dude I want him all to myself and

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women do know that but it's intimidating

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because they know that at any moment

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when you get tired or maybe you guys

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take a break you know they'll try like

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you might tell her like you might kick

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her to the curb she's gonna be worse

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that's what she's worried about she's

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worried about you kicking her to the

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curb and then like you having better

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options because women know when you

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either you know tell them like yo I need

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some space they know that you ain't

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going nowhere if you're like some dude

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who's average looking and your behaviors

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aren't manly they know that they're

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going to be able to run game or they

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know that you guys are going to go

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through some sort of split and you ain't

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gonna be getting it popping like that so

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when you're attractive they know that

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you're gonna have the even if you're not

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getting it popping like that they know

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that you have the ability to and that

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scares a lot of women women want to be

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able to trust you especially like in a

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relationship and have that open line of

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communication but even when you're

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you're having that open line of

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communication you still have the looks

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you still have the Swagger you still

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have the Charisma and that scares a lot

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of women I'm telling you especially like

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this this is why you could be trying to

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take a chick long term you could be

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vetting a chick you're like damn I

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really want this to go well and then you

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see you bring out a lot of her

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insecurities

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that happens because she knows that you

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know especially if you're leading with

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your intentions and you're making them

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clear she knows like okay this guy wants

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to take me serious but how can I take

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him serious because other women see what

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I see I'm telling you women are very

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insecure on that level so don't take it

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personal and if a chick is straight up

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rejecting you just know she don't like

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you like that and sometimes they do

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double back around

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because a woman doesn't meet attractive

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dudes every day especially okay a woman

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doesn't meet an attractive sexually

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attractive guy who gets it every day and

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when I say gets it I mean makes her feel

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think like you know a guy that's just

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like here with it with her they don't

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meet those guys so when she does meet

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that guy you know a lot of the times

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it's gonna be like holy [ __ ] and it's

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gonna be scary to her but you know a

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woman that you know knows what she wants

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and she's at a stage in her life where

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she doesn't have any time to waste yeah

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best belief she's gonna get with you but

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I'm talking about this is gonna happen a

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lot with younger chicks too

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I'm telling you you're a very attractive

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dude and then here's another thing about

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younger chicks when a chick is in her

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younger years like 18 19 21 22 23 24

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they're not really looking for

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relationships so you have to be able to

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you can actually have a lot of sex with

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women that have no relationship like

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interest in you they don't want to be in

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a relationship and it has nothing to do

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with you it's nothing to take personal

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they're just not looking for a

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relationship they're out here having fun

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there's so many things that go into why

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you get rejected as a good looking dude

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I'm telling you but the last thing that

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you need to do is get in your feelings

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and get in your head because that is

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going to stop you from you know going

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after other opportunities because you're

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like damn I remember how that felt don't

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want it to happen again but see when you

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identify that feeling with thriving

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with you know bigging yourself up

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boosting yourself up it almost becomes

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like a positive like how I say look in

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the mirror pick every flaw you have and

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say I love myself I'm that dude those

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flaws suddenly start turning into

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positives instead of negatives to you

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when you love yourself and you know who

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you are every part of yourself becomes

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beautiful I'm telling you a part of that

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beautiful mind bro so never let a

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rejection

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get you down get out of this whole like

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Pretty Boy complex because it's not a

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good look and it it's gonna rub off in

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your actions like you're gonna be like

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guys think that you don't have to

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validate women or give women compliments

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if you don't do that as a good looking

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guy women actually get more intimidated

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because you're not letting her know the

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real deal like you're not letting her

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know like yo I'm really into you I'm not

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trying to play any type of games with

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you I'm serious I want you you have to

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talk to women like that especially as a

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good looking guy because when you

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approach women they're like it's the

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celebrity energy like what me who me

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they don't believe it half the time you

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know so you have to let them know like

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you know me and you will go good

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together me and you will look good

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together I like you I'm not trying to

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play any games I'm not trying to waste

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none of your time

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you got to be like that and women are

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slowly but surely going to be like you

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know what maybe I could take this guy

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seriously so then when you lead with

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your actions and she sees that you're

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really that dude and you that's why I

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tell guys tell women the truth don't

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manipulate women because imagine you're

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a good looking on top of you're coming

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straight forward and direct

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women don't experience guys anyway who

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come straight forward and direct they

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meet a lot of guys who use their game

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manipulation tactics shaming language

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shaming tactics you know when when I'm

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telling you when a woman rejects a guy

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it's like oh well I never liked you

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anyway and you were you were this that

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in the third you a hoe and that's why my

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boy hit it anyway and all this other

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goofy [ __ ] like you know that just

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exposes your hand it's the same way how

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a woman will try to shame you like well

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you're not a real man if you don't do

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this and you know a real man what that's

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the same equivalent

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just remember

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man female

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you know man woman differentiate the

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Sexes and the behaviors the patterns the

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actions there is no reason why you

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should be acting like a woman as a man

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and I'm telling you when you're in your

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emotional and you're in your emotions

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you're acting like a woman on my channel

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I'm talking to you like a man that's

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this is how men talk to each other guys

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snap out of that pretty boy complex

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please because you are not exempt from

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rejection

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and rejections actually make you more

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cold

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so don't get in your feelings get out

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there make [ __ ] happen and use the

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rejection to thrive it's your boy Justin

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J get with you boys in the next video

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like comment subscribe let's go boys

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let's go

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