7 (small) Changes To Appear More Attractive
Summary
TLDRThis video script offers seven transformative tips to enhance personal attractiveness. It begins with power priming to boost confidence, followed by aligning facial features with the golden ratio using glasses. The script then advises on using jewelry to convey status and attraction, utilizing personal scent to influence heart rate, and embracing 'quiet luxury' in fashion. Additionally, it highlights the importance of non-verbal cues like walking with confidence and nodding in conversations. Finally, it underscores altruism as a key trait for desirability, showing that small changes can significantly impact one's appearance and appeal.
Takeaways
- 💪 Power Priming: Recalling a moment of power can increase confidence and improve non-verbal behavior, making you appear more attractive.
- 👓 Golden Ratio: Aligning your facial features with the golden ratio (1:1.618) can enhance attractiveness; this can be achieved with the right pair of glasses.
- 💍 Jewelry as Status Symbol: Wearing the right jewelry can convey wealth, status, and attraction, with necklaces, watches, bracelets, and rings being key pieces.
- 🌟 Personal Scent: Using fragrances that complement your natural scent can change a woman's heart rate and make you more attractive.
- 🎩 Quiet Luxury: Investing in high-quality, understated clothing without obvious logos can project wealth and sophistication.
- 🚶♂️ Walking with Swagger: Increasing shoulder sway when walking can double the perception of attractiveness.
- 🤗 Nodding in Conversation: Nodding more frequently during conversations can increase likability and perceived attractiveness by up to 40%.
- 💰 Altruism: Acts of kindness, such as helping the homeless, are seen as highly attractive traits, especially when combined with good looks.
- 📝 Keep a Record: Maintain a record of compliments, accomplishments, and powerful moments to recall and boost confidence when needed.
- 🕶️ Blue Light Blocking Glasses: A practical and stylish choice that can help achieve the golden ratio for your face while protecting your eyes.
- 👕 Stacking Necklaces: A unique way to stand out by wearing multiple necklaces of the same metal but with different designs.
Q & A
What is the first change suggested to appear more attractive?
-The first change suggested is to manipulate power to increase confidence. This can be achieved by recalling a recent event where you felt powerful, which can help control momentary shifts in power and increase confidence levels.
How does power priming work in the context of the script?
-Power priming involves recalling a moment where you felt powerful. This technique was examined in two trials by Harvard researchers, who found that participants who recalled such events were perceived as more confident in both written applications and face-to-face interviews.
What is the significance of the golden ratio in the context of physical attractiveness?
-The golden ratio, with a mathematical value of 1.618, is considered to create ideal beauty and balance. The most attractive people are said to have this ratio in their physical features. The script suggests using glasses to adjust the perceived ratio of one's face to this ideal.
How should one measure their face to determine if it fits the golden ratio?
-To determine if one's face fits the golden ratio, measure the length of the face from the top of the head to the bottom of the chin and the width from cheekbone to cheekbone. If the length is 1.6 times longer than the width, the face is in the golden ratio.
What is the role of jewelry in enhancing attractiveness according to the script?
-Jewelry can convey a message of wealth, status, and attraction. Historically, men have used jewelry to elevate their status. The script suggests that wearing jewelry, such as necklaces, watches, bracelets, and rings, can increase attractiveness and status.
Why is wearing a watch considered a status symbol?
-Watches are considered a status symbol because they can show off social status. The script mentions that wearing an expensive watch can be a good way to set the tone in any room and can lead to networking opportunities.
What is the concept of 'quiet luxury' as described in the script?
-Quiet luxury, as described by an NYU professor of business, involves using expensive materials and muted tones without logos. This approach is meant to make one appear wealthy without being ostentatious.
How can one's personal scent affect attractiveness?
-One's personal scent can significantly affect attractiveness. The script mentions that fragrances can change a woman's heart rate and that a natural masculine scent, such as androstenon, is preferred by women.
What are the two non-verbal behaviors suggested to enhance in the script?
-The two non-verbal behaviors suggested to enhance are walking with increased shoulder sway and nodding the head more frequently during conversations. These behaviors can increase perceived attractiveness and likability.
Why is altruism considered a desirable trait in the script?
-Altruism, or the selfless act of helping others without expecting anything in return, is considered a desirable trait because it is highly valued by women. The script mentions a study where women preferred men who showed high levels of altruism, even if they were less physically attractive.
Outlines
🌟 Boosting Confidence and Attractiveness
The first paragraph discusses the concept of 'Power priming', a psychological technique to increase confidence. It suggests recalling a moment of personal power to enhance self-assurance, as demonstrated in a Harvard study. The summary also covers the idea of manipulating power to improve nonverbal behavior and appearance, recommending the habit of noting down compliments and accomplishments. Additionally, it introduces the concept of the golden ratio in facial attractiveness and suggests using glasses to create the illusion of this ratio, with a pro tip to consider blue light blocking glasses for constant wear.
💎 Leveraging Jewelry and Scent for Enhanced Attraction
The second paragraph delves into the use of jewelry to convey messages of wealth, status, and attraction. It references historical practices and a Tinder study to highlight the impact of jewelry on increasing matches. The summary includes advice on specific jewelry types like necklaces, watches, bracelets, and rings, and emphasizes the importance of choosing the right pieces to elevate one's status. Furthermore, it discusses the power of personal scent to influence heart rate and attraction, recommending the use of fragrances with 'iso-e super' to create a unique signature scent. The concept of 'quiet luxury' is introduced as a way to appear wealthy without ostentatious branding, and the importance of fit and subtlety in clothing is stressed. The paragraph concludes with tips on enhancing non-verbal behaviors like walking and nodding to appear more attractive and likable.
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Keywords
💡Confidence
💡Golden Ratio
💡Jewelry
💡Fragrance
💡Quiet Luxury
💡Non-verbal Behavior
💡Altruism
💡Personal Scent
💡Appearance
💡Physical Features
💡Attraction
Highlights
Modify a few things about yourself to appear more attractive.
Power priming can increase confidence during moments of low confidence.
Harvard researchers found recalling a powerful event can change behavior in real-world scenarios.
Write down compliments, accomplishments, or moments of power to enhance nonverbal behavior.
The golden ratio of 1:1.618 is considered ideal for beauty and balance.
Measure your face to see if it fits within the golden ratio of beauty.
Use glasses to create the illusion of a face that fits the golden ratio.
Wearing the right jewelry can convey messages of wealth, status, and attraction.
Men wearing jewelry in profile pictures landed 56 more matches on Tinder.
Necklaces, watches, bracelets, and rings are jewelry pieces that can enhance attractiveness and status.
Fragrances can change a woman's heart rate and are linked to attraction.
Invest in skin cells with iso-e super for a unique signature scent.
Quiet luxury, characterized by expensive materials and muted tones without logos, can appear wealthy.
Avoid big branding or graphics and focus on fit to make clothes look more expensive.
Enhance clothes with nice jewelry for a luxurious look without high prices.
Improve non-verbal behaviors like walking and nodding to appear more attractive.
Increasing shoulder sway in walking can double the perception of attractiveness.
Nodding head more frequently in a conversation can increase perceived attractiveness by up to 40%.
Altruism, the selfless act of helping others, is a highly desired trait and can make one more desirable.
Altruistic actions can make an unattractive man more appealing than a less altruistic attractive man.
Combining attractiveness with altruism makes one insanely desirable.
Transcripts
most of you are more attractive than you
think and all you got to do is modify a
few things about yourself I'll show you
seven small changes you can make to
appear more attractive these are so
effective that you can do them as I do
them and see just how good you look
afterward one manipulate power to
increase confidence and moments of low
confidence you can control momentary
shifts in power at will this is called
Power priming just recalling a recent
event where you feel powerful in can
increase your levels of confidence this
was examined in two trials by Harvard
researchers they asked participants to
recall the period where they either
lacked or had power they repeated that
but this time it was for a face-to-face
meeting the judges in both situations
were not aware of the experiment in both
situations the judges preferred the
written application and the face-to-face
interview of applicants who recalled
events where they felt powerful just
asking participants to recall an event
where they felt powerful it was enough
to significantly change how they acted
in the real world they were more
confident this is how you use it to look
better start by making it a habit to
always write down a compliment and
accomplishment or a moment in time where
you felt powerful then before you do
anything that makes you feel nervous I
want you to recall a situation where you
felt powerful this will reduce your
anxiety and enhance your nonverbal
behavior that small change will make you
more attractive I've just changed how
you look by manipulating power Now tips
two to five will involve physical
changes to your style that will make
this previous tip 10 times more
effective two change your face to the
golden ratio the golden ratio is a
mathematical concept that suggests that
the ratio of one to
1.618 creates ideal beauty and balance
the most attractive people in the world
have a one to 1.618 ratio to their
physical features which is what makes
them attractive this is also the ratio
of plastic surgeons used to achieve a
desired outcome you are going to make
your face fit into that ratio but not
with surgery you're going to do it with
a pair of glasses first you need to
measure your face correctly to see if
you fall within the golden ratio of
beauty Dr Schmidt a biostatistics
professor shows us exactly how to do it
you want to start by measuring the
length of your face from the top of your
head all the way to the bottom of your
chin then measure the width of your face
from the cheekbone to cheekbone if your
length is 1.6 times longer than your
width you have the perfect golden ratio
if you don't then you need to identify
which of those two numbers you need to
fix if your face is too wide then you
need to buy frames that are the exact
width of your head but are shorter in
length this will create the illusion
that your face looks longer and not as
wide if your face is too long then you
should buy glasses that are shorter in
height and a bit more narrow than the
width of your face this will give the
illusion that the width of your face is
a bit larger balancing out your ratio
here's a pro tip I suggest you buy blue
light blocking glasses that way when you
find the perfect pair you can wear them
24 7. three use jewelry to send a
message wearing the right jewelry can
convey a message of wealth status and
attraction historically men have always
used jewelry to elevate their status and
their appearance Aztec Warlords would
wear colorful beads to show dominant
Kings and Emperors would wear necklaces
and Pearls to show their great wealth
the key here is to know what jewelry to
wear to show status wealth and
attraction according to a Tinder study a
guy wearing jewelry and his profile
picture landed 56 more matches than the
guy that was not wearing jewelry these
are the only jewelry pieces a man can
wear to convey a message the first one
are necklaces to increase attraction
these are great to admire the body as it
draws attention to sexual areas jewelry
is made to make the wear feel more
elegant and attractive as it adds an
element to the body for people to admire
I like to stack my necklaces as this is
an extra step that most men don't know
how to do correctly it sets you apart
the Brand number wearing right now is a
brand called Mansion they make it easy
and affordable by already selling you
stacked necklace sets so all you do is
buy and put on now if you want to learn
how to stack with necklaces you already
own there's only one rule to follow when
you stack do so with the same color
metal but different design here's an
example I have a silver rope design from
Mansion paired with the silver Cuban
link design same metal color different
design if you just want to wear one
necklace one trick you can do is add a
pendant so this adds weight to the chain
which brings it down in between your
chest drawing the other person's
attention to a sexual area another
jewelry piece are watches to increase
status people buy watches to show off
their social status I've randomly
started networking with other men solely
based on the watch that I was wearing
it's a good way to set the tone into any
room you walk into there are only two
rules to follow first one is always wear
your watch on your non-dominant hand the
second buy the most expensive watch you
can comfortably afford I recommend you
save up as much as you can don't be
cheap here a good watch is an investment
piece and a networking hack the third
jewelry piece are bracelets to show off
your wealth out of all bracelet designs
cuff designs look expensive as popular
brands sell well into the thousands you
don't have to spend thousands this is a
gold-plated cable bracelet from Mansion
it's affordable and looks just as
expensive or if you want something more
Timeless you can switch to a Cuban link
bracelet like this one the final jewelry
piece are rings to establish memories
great thing with jewelry is that it
connects us with memory rings are a
great example of this for example a
wedding band you're connected to the
love that you have for your wife or a
Signet ring can be a family crest that
you can hand down the point is jewelry
can make you look attractive and
increase your status Mansion has amazing
pieces that are affordable and if you
guys want to check them out they're
going to be linked down below you're
gonna see all the jewelry that I
personally wear like this one plus
there's going to be a special code down
below four control her heart rate with
your personal scent fragrances have the
power to change a woman's heart rate
researchers took three groups of people
that smelled good neutral and bad then
they asked participants to rate neutral
faces the heart rate of Raiders changed
based on scent without them realizing it
then a follow-up study found that women
preferred a natural masculine set on a
man which was the sex hormone called
androstenon what does this mean to you I
want you to grab both of those to
manipulate her heart rate you do this by
investing in skin cells these are
fragrances that use something called
iso-e super a woody note that enhances
your natural skin Aroma giving you a
true signature scent unlike anything
she's ever smelled 5. rich people don't
buy luxury brand want to appear wealthy
invest in something called quiet luxury
the NYU professor of business describes
this as expensive materials and muted
tones and no logos that those in low
income inequality areas have higher
search results for low luxury goods you
cannot afford to look low income it's
harder to get a job and a partner if you
look broke this is where quiet luxury
comes in go to a brand that sells
premium based avoid any big branding or
graphics and just focus on fit this will
make your clothes look more expensive
then you can enhance that clothes with
nice jewelry a good example of this is
that Mansion gold cuff versus a luxury
brand name one one has big logos the
other one doesn't one costs 10 times the
price but they both look equally as
expensive that's quiet luxury I just
showed you how to manipulate power how
to restructure your face with the golden
ratio how to wear the right jewelry find
your unique scent and what brands you
need to buy these last two are small
changes that have a huge impact on your
behavior six enhance these two
non-verbal behavior that everyone that's
watching does daily incorrectly I'm
going to show you how to do them better
to appear more attract this is because
attractiveness is not just facial
features and body shape it's also how
you moon and the first movement you need
to fix is how you walk look at these two
guys walking can you notice why one
looks more confident than the other it's
subtle but it's all in the shoulder you
want to increase your shoulder sway men
who have Swagger and their shoulder
movement more than double the perception
of their attractiveness the second
movement you want to fix is to nod your
head just nodding your head more
frequently in a conversation can
increase your perceived attractiveness
by up to 40 percent people will rate you
as more likable as nodding your head
sends information to them that you're
approachable seven give money to
homeless people this is called altruism
which is the selfless Act of helping
others without expecting anything in
return when it comes to women's
preferences the most desired trait that
they look for is altruism this is more
powerful than just looking attractive in
this study researchers grabbed an
attractive man and an unattractive man
and ran them through altruistic
scenarios for example two people walk
through a busy town and notice a
homeless person sitting next to a cafe
then they had 202 female participants
raped images of those two men with
different behaviors within that scenario
for example the ugly guy went inside
bought him a cup of tea and gave it to
him the attractive guy acted busy on his
phone and walked right past the homeless
person they found that the less
attractive man with high altruism rated
better than the more attractive man with
low altruists here's where it gets
better for those of you watch if you are
already attractive plus altruistic you
become insanely desirable and look you
don't need a reason to be a nice guy but
an added benefit of helping other people
that you become more desirable and
that's it for me today seven small
changes to better your appearance I'm
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