how to radiate feminine energy - do nothing
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the concept of feminine energy, emphasizing traits like nurturing, love, and compassion. It encourages women to embrace their inherent worth and value by being rather than constantly doing. The speaker advises women to recognize their 'being' as valuable, to set boundaries by discarding tasks that aren't theirs, and to avoid the energy of proving oneself. The script also addresses the importance of gender roles in relationships and the need for men to fulfill their roles, such as providing, to allow women to fully embody their femininity. It concludes by highlighting that femininity is not about appearance but about self-acceptance and the inherent power women hold.
Takeaways
- 🌸 Feminine energy is characterized by traits such as nurturing, love, receptivity, compassion, and care, contrasting with masculine energy which is more focused on doing.
- 💡 Embracing feminine energy can lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling life, as it encourages being rather than constant doing.
- 📚 The script emphasizes the importance of recognizing and maintaining personal boundaries, exemplified by the phrase 'that is not my task', to avoid unnecessary burdens.
- 🚫 It challenges the misconception that embracing one's feminine energy equates to inactivity or passivity, asserting that being is an active state.
- 👫 The speaker discusses the importance of gender roles in relationships, suggesting that they provide a framework for managing interactions rather than restricting individual freedom.
- 💰 The script addresses the issue of men's roles in relationships, particularly the expectation that men should provide, which is crucial for women to fully embrace their femininity.
- 🤔 It encourages women to recognize their inherent worth and not to devalue themselves by constantly trying to prove their value to others.
- 🙅♀️ The speaker advises against taking on 'men's tasks' or other people's responsibilities, which can lead to feeling drained and undervalued.
- 💼 The transcript highlights the societal and dating implications of feminine energy, such as how women can confer status on men simply by their presence.
- 👗 Femininity is not about external appearances or costumes but is an internal state of being that includes creativity, chaos, and the ability to create.
Q & A
What is feminine energy according to the script?
-Feminine energy is characterized by traits such as nurturing, love, receptivity, compassion, and care. It is the polar opposite of masculine energy, which is focused on doing.
How does the script suggest one can get into their feminine energy?
-The script suggests getting into feminine energy by embodying peace, setting boundaries, and not taking on other people's tasks. It also encourages letting go of the need to prove oneself to others and recognizing one's inherent worth.
What is the significance of the phrase 'that is not my task' in the script?
-The phrase 'that is not my task' is used to emphasize the importance of setting boundaries and not taking on responsibilities that are not one's own, which can lead to a lighter load and a simpler life.
Why does the script argue against the elimination of gender roles in relationships?
-The script argues that without gender roles, women often end up taking on the tasks that men would typically handle, leading to an imbalance and additional burden on women.
What is considered the bare minimum task for a man in a relationship according to the script?
-The script suggests that the bare minimum task for a man in a relationship is to provide for his partner.
How does the script define the value women bring to relationships?
-The script defines the value women bring as their inherent worth and the status they confer upon men simply by existing and being in their presence.
What does the script suggest women should do instead of trying to prove their worth?
-The script suggests that women should exist authentically and let those who find value in them access them, rather than constantly trying to prove their worth to others.
Why does the script encourage women to stop proving themselves to others?
-The script encourages women to stop proving themselves to others to achieve a state of peace and to avoid being taken advantage of or feeling drained in relationships.
What is the script's stance on women paying for their own meals on dates?
-The script supports the idea that women can pay for their own meals on dates, but it also highlights that women bring inherent value and status to men just by agreeing to a date, which should be recognized.
How does the script differentiate between being feminine and wearing a costume?
-The script differentiates between being feminine and wearing a costume by stating that femininity is about embodying one's creativity, chaos, and multiplicity, rather than focusing on external appearances or dressing in a certain way.
Outlines
🌸 Embracing Feminine Energy and Its Value
The paragraph discusses the concept of feminine energy, which is associated with nurturing, love, receptivity, compassion, and care. It contrasts with masculine energy, which is more action-oriented. The speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing one's feminine energy for personal benefits and argues that women can achieve more by being in their feminine energy rather than constantly striving in masculine energy. The paragraph also touches on the idea that being feminine is not about inactivity but about the inherent value in simply being. It encourages women to find peace within themselves and to recognize that they are enough just as they are. The speaker advises women to set boundaries and to stop taking on tasks that are not theirs, which can lead to a lighter load and a simpler life. The importance of recognizing and valuing one's own worth without the need to prove it to others is highlighted.
💰 The Inherent Worth of Women and the Dangers of Devaluation
This paragraph delves into the societal expectations and the inherent worth that women bring to relationships and social interactions. It points out that by simply existing, women can confer status and opportunities to men, and that this should be recognized and valued. The speaker argues against the idea that women should feel obligated to pay their way in social situations, such as dating, when their presence alone provides value. The paragraph also addresses the issue of women being taken advantage of and the need for them to recognize their own worth and to stop devaluing themselves. It emphasizes the importance of women existing in their own power and not feeling the need to prove their value to others. The speaker encourages women to embrace their femininity and to act as the source of creation that they are, suggesting that this will lead to a more peaceful and fulfilling life.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Feminine Energy
💡Nurturing
💡Receptivity
💡Peace
💡Being vs. Doing
💡Gender Roles
💡Proving Oneself
💡Clout
💡Inherent Worth
💡Femininity
Highlights
Feminine energy is characterized by nurturing, love, receptivity, compassion, and care.
Feminine energy is the polar opposite of masculine energy, which is focused on doing.
Embodying feminine energy can lead to more benefits than focusing solely on masculine energy.
The concept of 'being' in feminine energy versus 'doing' in masculine energy.
Peace is the number one trait of a truly feminine woman.
The importance of setting boundaries to achieve peace and simplicity in life.
The concept of 'not my task' as a way to discard other people's responsibilities.
The dangers of eliminating gender roles and the potential for women to take on men's roles.
Gender roles as an outline for managing relationships, not a strict conformity.
The minimum task for a man in a relationship is to provide, which allows women to embody their femininity.
The idea that women have inherent worth and value just by existing.
The societal pressure on women to prove themselves and the importance of embracing femininity.
The concept of women conferring status on men simply by their presence.
The risks women incur by going on dates and the value they bring to the table.
The importance of not devaluing oneself and recognizing one's inherent worth.
Femininity is not about dressing a certain way but about how you are with yourself and your creativity.
Encouragement to embrace one's feminine energy and 'get that bag'.
Transcripts
bestie you need to start minding your
own business hey bestie let's talk about
how to get into your feminine energy but
first what is feminine energy feminine
energy traits are affiliated with
nurturing love receptivity compassion
and care this being energy is the polar
opposite of masculine energy which is
focused on doing so today we're going to
learn how to get into your feminine
energy and the benefits of being in your
feminine energy and how you can actually
get a lot more just by embodying your
feminine versus putting in all this work
into being in your masculine energy
because you feel like that's how you're
going to win in life when it's not okay
a lot of women perceive the being part
as doing nothing essentially it is
you're doing nothing but you're not
doing anything actively it's just that
you being is already doing something I
know that's as confusing right now
especially if you have not been
embodying your femininity the number one
trait that a truly feminine woman
embodies is peace she is at peace and so
she brings peace to others and I know a
lot of us are not yet at peace but
bestie I'm telling you
it's so worth it and here's how you're
gonna get there I'm going to read you a
quote from one of my favorite books the
courage to be disliked intervening in
other people's tasks and taking on other
people's tasks turns one's life into
something heavy and full of hardship if
you are leading a life of worry and
suffering which stems from interpersonal
relationships learn the boundary of from
here on that is not my task and discard
other people's tasks that is the first
step towards lightening the load and
making life simpler bestie you need to
start minding your own business okay I
need you to memorize this line that is
not my task whenever a man wants to
split the bill with you on a date that
he invited you on that is not my task
whenever a pikmi girlfriend wants your
opinion on some personal drama brought
on by her terrible choices in men
knowing that she will indeed ignore your
advice and keep dating the same below
bare mineral effort man in a different
font that is not my task whenever you
feel the need to fix the man like I can
fix it that is not my task whenever you
are confronted with things that are not
your tasks the things that are not your
business can you not can you not pick up
other people's tasks and here's the
thing too there are such things as men's
tasks a lot of the people who are so
against gender roles don't recognize the
dangers of not having gender roles and
we see this whenever a couple gets rid
of gender roles guess what the men's
roles also gets taken up by the woman
not everyone needs to conform to gender
roles they're simply an outline of how
you're going to manage your relationship
so if there's gender roles that you
don't want to fulfill then find a man
who shares similar values as you but can
we be for freaking real that whenever a
couple decides that they're going to be
Progressive they're going to be
egalitarian guess who picks up the slack
women so can we not there are such
things as men's tasks and the bare
minimum task that a man needs to be able
to do is to provide and if he can't do
that it'll be very hard for you to be in
your femininity in a relationship
whenever you drop the man's tasks of
providing whenever you drop everyone
else's tasks trying to fix them trying
to do the most so you can prove that
you're a good person you're a good
friend you're a good daughter you're a
good sister get out of this energy of
trying to prove yourself to people
because you are enough as is and the
moment you realize that you just feel so
at home in yourself so at home in your
body so at home in your femininity I'm
gonna need you to remember that part
that being in your feminine is less
about doing and more about being because
as a Woman by existing you have so much
inherent worth and value like you
existing is enough a lot of women have a
problem with understanding that they
think it's BS but it's because they
haven't embodied their femininity yet
because the moment you embody your
femininity and whatever femininity is to
you you you just feel like everything's
falling in the right place personally it
was the most difficult part for me to
accept that I'm enough as is I don't
need to do more like I'm already enough
as someone who has been in her masculine
thinking that that was going to give me
whatever I wanted it gave me the things
that I thought I wanted but when I got
it it wasn't really what I wanted I know
a lot of us girlies especially my high
achieving Highly Educated High earning
girlies you achieved whatever you have
right now by doing you were policed
whenever you didn't do much and the
productivity culture that we grew up
with it's a lot when you already have so
much to give and then you're doing extra
you're paying double
it doesn't feel good you feel drained
and you feel like you're being taken
advantage of and you feel those things
because that's the truth especially in
dating friendships family relationships
when you feel drained it's because you
are getting taken advantage of so I'm
gonna need you to remember that part
that being in your femininity is less
about doing and more about being you
know why it's because women are useful
without doing anything just by existing
around Men We confer a lot of status on
them and using that status that we have
conferred on them they can now access
more opportunities more money more women
let me give you a scenario where this
happens a lot so whenever you agree to
go on a date with a guy guess what he's
doing
he is passing around your picture to his
buddies telling them that hey I'm gonna
go on a date with this girl or oh I went
on a date with this girl you are giving
him clout simply by going on a date with
him and then you're gonna pay can we not
do that you are already paying just by
existing with a man like that's your
payment you gave him the opportunity to
access you that's your payment a lot of
people don't want to admit that to women
but I am Telling You bestie you have so
much inherent worth and value all you
have to do is exist and it's always the
men who want to exploit you and take
advantage of you that want you to
devalue yourself they're the ones who
tell you that you're not this enough
you're not that enough you are of no
worth you are of no consequence and it's
always the women who have devalued other
women because they have devalued
themselves that will tell other women
that they are of no worth of no
consequence that whenever you require a
man to invest in you to pay for a date
that you are looking at them as meal
tickets but what about the value we
bring what about the risks that you
incur simply by going on a date with
this guy the safety risk so it really
really saddens me to hear women say that
we're just looking for men as meal
tickets I can pay for my own meal on a
first date yeah pick Misha me too I too
can pay on a first date but I don't have
to and the moment you get out of this
energy of wanting to prove yourself to
people
okay bestie I need you to stop proving
yourself to people just exist and let
the people who find Value in you be the
ones to access you why are you
surrounding yourself with people who you
have to prove yourself to once you get
out of this proving yourself energy you
will just feel more at peace and lastly
I want to let you know that femininity
is not a costume being a feminine woman
is less about how you dress and more
about how you are with yourself it's
about embodying your creativity your
chaos your ability to multiply you are
the source you are creation itself and
you're gonna need to act like it now get
that bag bestie
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