How to Not Lose Confidence if She Doesn’t Show Interest
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the challenge of interacting with women who don't display clear signs of interest. It explains why women may withhold such signals, including avoiding appearing 'easy' or coping with negative social media interactions. The script advises men not to rely on women for reassurance but to focus on their own confidence and behavior, which can naturally increase a woman's interest. It emphasizes that women are a natural challenge for men, and embracing this can lead to personal growth and attraction, both from women and in social settings.
Takeaways
- 😌 Confidence is crucial when interacting with women who don't show obvious interest, as it demonstrates a man's self-assurance and can attract them.
- 🤔 Women may not display reassuring body language to avoid attracting nervous or insecure men, preferring those who approach them with confidence regardless.
- 📱 On social media, women might not smile or appear friendly in photos due to negative comments from other women or to emulate the serious demeanor of models.
- 👥 Women want to see if a man is genuinely interested and confident enough to continue engaging with them without needing constant reassurance.
- 🚫 Relying on a woman's reassurance for confidence is a sign of weakness and can be unattractive; men should exhibit emotional intelligence and self-assurance.
- 💪 A man's confidence in social situations, like a restaurant, can make a woman feel safe and respected, as opposed to nervousness which can be off-putting.
- 😉 If a woman isn't showing interest, a man should focus on behaving in an attractive way to naturally increase her attraction and interest.
- 🛑 Men cannot control a woman's behavior but can control their own attractiveness; reacting with confidence rather than insecurity can influence her interest.
- 💡 Understanding that women are a natural challenge for men can help build confidence and strength, rather than viewing their behavior as a problem.
- 📚 The script suggests 'The Flow' as a resource for men to learn how to confidently navigate interactions with women and improve their dating success.
Q & A
Why might a woman not show interest in a man even if she likes him?
-A woman might not show interest to test a man's confidence and to see if he is genuinely interested and will pursue her despite not receiving obvious signs of interest.
What are some reasons women may not display reassuring body language in person?
-Women may not display reassuring body language to avoid attracting nervous or insecure men who might misinterpret friendliness as romantic interest.
How do women's experiences with negative comments on social media affect their online behavior?
-Negative comments from other women on social media platforms like Instagram can lead women to adopt a more serious or distant demeanor in their photos to avoid further negative feedback.
Why do some women mimic the behavior of models in their social media photos?
-Some women mimic model behavior to appear cool, high status, and independent, as these are qualities often associated with attractiveness and confidence.
What is the importance of a man not relying on a woman's reassurance for his confidence?
-A man who doesn't rely on a woman's reassurance is seen as emotionally intelligent and strong, which is attractive to women and translates into a more confident and secure demeanor in all aspects of life.
How can a man's behavior influence a woman's level of interest in him?
-A man's confident, masculine, charming, and funny behavior can naturally increase a woman's attraction to him, leading her to express more interest.
What should a man focus on when interacting with a woman who is not showing interest?
-A man should focus on controlling his own behavior to ensure it is attractive and not rely on the woman to validate his confidence.
Why is it beneficial for men to view women as a natural challenge rather than a problem?
-Viewing women as a natural challenge helps men become more confident and strong, as it encourages them to develop their own confidence rather than seeking external validation.
How can a man's independent confidence impact his interactions with women and other people?
-A man's independent confidence can make him more attractive to women, earn him respect from other men, and improve his social standing among friends and in the workplace.
What is the significance of the book 'The Flow' mentioned in the script?
-The book 'The Flow' is described as a guide to help men feel confident around women and attract them through confidence, providing a step-by-step approach to building relationships.
Outlines
😌 Understanding Women's Subtle Interests
The paragraph discusses the challenge of reading women's interest, especially when they do not display obvious signs of attraction. It explains that women may withhold positive body language to avoid attracting nervous or less confident men, preferring men who are naturally confident. Online, women may appear less friendly due to negative experiences with other women, such as receiving hurtful comments. The paragraph advises men not to rely on women for reassurance but to demonstrate confidence and genuine interest, which can encourage women to reciprocate.
💪 Attracting Women Through Confidence
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of a man's confidence in attracting women. It suggests that a man's behavior, such as being confident, masculine, charming, and funny, can naturally increase a woman's interest. The level of interest a woman shows can vary based on her personality and past experiences. The key is for men to focus on controlling their own attractiveness rather than trying to control a woman's behavior. By doing so, men can become more confident and strengthen their relationships with women.
🚀 Embracing the Challenge of Women's Behavior
The final paragraph highlights the idea that women can be a natural challenge for men, which, when understood and accepted, can lead to increased confidence and strength. It contrasts the negative perspective of viewing women's behavior as a problem with the positive outlook of seeing it as an opportunity for personal growth. The paragraph concludes by encouraging men to be independently confident, which not only attracts women but also garners respect from peers and enhances overall self-esteem.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Confidence
💡Body Language
💡Interest
💡Reassurance
💡Attraction
💡Insecurity
💡Emotional Intelligence
💡Independence
💡Resilience
💡Authenticity
Highlights
Understanding why women may not show interest is key to maintaining confidence.
Women may avoid friendly body language to filter out less confident suitors.
Online, women's expressions can be influenced by negative comments and the desire to appear model-like.
In-person, women may test a man's confidence by not showing immediate interest.
Men should not rely on women for reassurance of their interest.
Confidence in social interactions is attractive and reflects well in relationships.
Women are drawn to men who display emotional intelligence and self-assurance.
A man's behavior can naturally increase a woman's interest through his confidence and charm.
The level of interest a woman shows can vary based on her personality and past experiences.
Men should focus on controlling their own behavior rather than trying to control a woman's reactions.
Remaining confident in the face of a woman's lack of interest can actually increase her attraction.
Insecurity in men can lead to negative reactions from women, affecting the relationship dynamics.
Accepting women as a natural challenge can strengthen a man's confidence and desirability.
Men who are independently confident are respected by others and attract women more effectively.
The ebook 'The Flow' offers techniques for men to feel confident and attract women.
Women present an opportunity for men to grow stronger, rather than being a source of frustration.
Transcripts
so it's very easy to feel confident if
you meet a woman and she's showing you
lots of Interest right she's making it
obvious that she likes you yet what do
you do if you come across a woman that
you like and want to be with but she's
not showing you interest how can you be
confident in that situation and interact
with her attractor and make a move you
know move in for a kiss or ask for a
phone number or ask her out set up a
date how can you feel confident enough
to do that when she's not making it
clear that she likes you number one
understand why women don't always use
reassuring body language so there are
different reasons why women won't show
reassuring body language in person and
on social media so in person if she goes
around displaying a lot of reassuring
body language and seeming friendly and
open and approachable to anyone then it
can sometimes result in nervous guys who
aren't confident feeling like they could
have a chance with her because she seems
easy friendly and open so the nervous
Guy starts talking to her and hopes that
she likes him yet if she's like most
women she wants a guy who is more
confident than her and therefore she
doesn't want to go around making it easy
for guys to talk to her she wants to go
who has the confidence to talk to her
regardless of him not getting open warm
green light signals from her to come
over and talk to her now online it's a
different thing altogether right if
you've ever looked at Instagram you'll
notice that a lot of women don't smile
in their photos on Instagram and they
tend to look a bit sad or a little bit
Stern or distant or disinterested one of
the main reasons why women do that on
Instagram is because of other women most
women who have an Instagram have
received negative DMS so private
messages or negative comments from women
saying you're not pretty you need to put
on weight you need to lose weight or
that dress looks horrible or you have no
fashion sense and so on which then
results in some women posting things
like this where they wear t-shirts
saying that they're cuter than you and
you know some guys who see that will
think that the woman saying it to their
guys who are following her but she's
saying that to the women she's annoyed
with the comments that she's getting
from women and with the one on the right
there she's saying being jealous is a
broke [ __ ] activity so she's got to the
point where she's annoyed with the
negative comments that she's getting
from women to the point where she wants
to say something back to those women who
are trying to bring her down and here's
a video from a girl on Instagram who is
beautiful but she will be getting a lot
of negative comments to the point where
she's felt the need to reply back and
make a video like this additionally when
it comes to Instagram a lot of women try
to emulate the models that they see in
advertising and on catwalks and those
sort of models don't smile they tend to
look Fierce and look independent and
disinterested and even sad at times so
women who are trying to seem like a
model and seem cool and high status and
so forth will often copy the body
language and behavior of paid models now
back to a woman in person where she's
not showing reassuring body language to
a guy who likes her there are reasons
why women do that they want to see if
the guy is confident enough to continue
interacting with them even though
they're not being reassuring they want
to see if the guy is genuinely
interested to the point where if she's
not being reassuring she's not showing
lots of interest in him is he going to
continue interacting with her or is he
another guy that just wants to sleep
with her once or wants to get some
interest from her to feel good about
himself but then he's not even going to
pursue her right he's just gonna see
that she likes him and he's going to say
yep cool she likes me and then he's not
going to do anything about it right so
she wants to go who is genuinely
interested in her and is going to pursue
her and make something happen even
though she's not making it obvious that
she likes him number two don't rely on a
woman to reassure you of her interest so
this applies to approaching women being
on dates having sex with a woman and
being in a relationship if a man is
relying on a woman to be encouraging she
will see him as weak insecure and needy
which are all turn-offs for a woman
women and want to go who has the
emotional intelligence to be confident
even if people aren't being reassuring
women would much prefer to be with a guy
like that because it transfers over into
their everyday life as a couple right so
if he and her go into a restaurant and
he is insecure and he can't be confident
if people aren't being reassuring then
she's going to see him interacting with
waiters and being nervous and unassuming
and waiting to get some reassurance from
the waiter that he's okay before he
feels confident in that moment and he's
going to be displaying nervousness and
she's not going to feel safe with him
because he seems too weak too reliant on
other people to make him feel confident
in the moment whereas a guy who doesn't
need reassurance is going to walk in and
interact with the waiter and have a chat
and feel worthy feel good about himself
talk to the waiter in a confident way
arrange a table sit down and she's going
to feel like okay this guy's in control
he's going through his life with
confidence people are respecting him
because of his confidence evidence he is
most likely not going to be picked on
compared to the insecure guys so
therefore she feels more safe with him
she feels like she's with a man now of
course if a woman isn't showing interest
it doesn't mean that she can't show
interest and won't show interest no
matter what instead if a man wants a
woman to show more interest then he
needs to behave in a more attractive way
and she will then naturally Express more
interest because of her increased
attraction for him so if he's being
confident rather than insecure if he's
being masculine in his behavior rather
than neutral or feminine if he's being
Charming rather than awkward or weird or
rude if he's being funny rather than
neutral and so forth the woman's gonna
be feeling more attracted to him and as
a result she is naturally going to show
more interest in him it's going to be an
instinctive reaction for her to smile
and laugh and show more interest in him
yet how much interest the woman shows in
the moment will depend on the woman
right some women don't want to show a
lot of interest because they want to
confident guy some women feel awkward
about showing a lot of interest because
they're shy some women have a thing that
they've been doing ever since they've
been a teen where if they like a guy
then they stop showing interest they
play hard to get and so forth that's
just her approach to dating and that's
what has worked for her in the past so
she keeps doing it some women will show
lots of obvious interests and other
women will show subtle interest right
it's always going to be different
depending on the woman which is why you
need to do number three and that is
focus on what you can control you can't
ever control a woman's Behavior 24 7 or
get her to be a certain way 24 7. the
only thing that you can control is how
attractive or unattractive you are being
for example if a guy is interacting with
a woman he likes who isn't showing
enough interest for him to feel assured
that she likes him and wants him he then
has a choice on how he is going to react
and behave he is in control of that if
he reacts with insecurity for example he
becomes hesitant around her he seems
confused and lost he seems nervous or
frustrated then she will naturally feel
turned off by his lack of confidence and
will assume that he might become an
emotionally sensitive needy kind of
boyfriend if she got involved with him
on the other hand if he reacts with
confidence for example he maintains his
belief in himself and his ability to
make her feel attracted he knows that
she's feeling attracted but isn't
showing it for various reasons he seems
totally fine without her reassurance he
loves her and accepts her as she is in
the moment then she will feel as though
he would most likely be a confident
attractive boyfriend who she wouldn't
have to put on a fake act around of
always being reassuring the irony is
that if a woman isn't showing a lot of
interest in a guy and he remains
confident in himself and just loves her
and accepts her for who she is in the
moment
then it actually results in her showing
more interest in him than she would show
to a guy who reacts with insecurity and
he starts being hesitant and timid
around her he starts seeking pity with
what he's saying he starts asking if
he's done something wrong and seems
confused and sad and rejected and so
forth the way that it works is that your
behavior will bring out a certain side
of a woman right so if you're in a
relationship with a woman for example
and you become insecure and needy it's
going to bring out a bad side of her
she's going to start being distant she's
going to start rejecting you she's not
going to treat you as well as she used
to treat you and so forth versus if
you're in a relationship with her and
you remain confident in yourself and you
believe in yourself then she's going to
remain attracted to you and therefore
her behavior towards you is going to be
more positive she's going to be showing
you signs of Interest she's going to be
happy to be around you she's not going
to be rejecting you so with women you
need to focus on what you can control
and that is your behavior whether it's
attractive or unattractive you can't
rely on a woman to always show you
interest to make you feel reassured so
at the end of the day it always comes
back to the man needing to be confident
and not relying on a woman to guide him
through the process because the thing is
you'll sometimes come across women who
are confident and they want a man who's
more confident than them so they won't
show a lot of interest you'll also come
across women who are shy and they
struggle to show interest they feel
awkward doing it and therefore they
don't show interest and they hope that
you're confident enough to interact with
them and move things forward then you'll
come across women who are insecure and
worried about being rejected so she's
worried that if she shows you interest
you might reject her and then she's
going to feel horrible about herself but
the thing is she really likes you so
she's hoping that you're going to be
confident enough to interact with her
show some interest make her feel
attracted and move things forward by the
way before I give you a final insight
about women which is a really cool thing
to know that boosts your confidence I
just want to point out that my best ever
technique for feeling 100 and confident
around women and attracting women with
your confidence is at the start of the
section on confidence in my ebook the
flow which you can also listen to as an
audio book The Flow is the easiest way
to get laid or get a girlfriend it's how
to flow from one step to the next with a
woman that you find attractive so one
final Insight that I want to give you is
that women are a natural challenge for
us men and when you understand that and
you accept it and you work with it it
makes you become more confident and
strong as a man you don't see it as a
problem whereas if a man doesn't
understand it and he sees women's
Behavior as being annoying frustrating
wrong you know women should be more
reassuring there should be you know
chasing me and you're pursuing me and
telling me that they like me and so
forth when he has that sort of mindset
he remains weak he remains reliant on
women to hopefully guide him through the
process which rarely if ever happens yet
when you understand that women represent
and a natural challenge for us men and
they actually make men Stronger by
behaving in the ways that they do you
don't see it as a problem instead you
interact with a woman and if she's being
a little bit hard to get or she's not
making it totally obvious that she likes
you and so forth and you're able to
remain confident in that situation it
actually makes you stronger as a man you
level up as a man you become a man who
is more independently confident you're
not relying on women to be patting you
on the back and reassuring you and being
really nice and making everything
obvious in order for you to feel
confident you're confident regardless of
how the woman's behaving and that makes
you stronger not only with women but
around people in general and what you'll
find is that Men start to respect you
more people in the workplace start to
respect your more friends do and in most
cases family members do as well it's not
always possible to get all family
members to respect you and be good
towards you and so forth family is a
little bit different but in terms of
women they will feel attracted to you
because you're independently confident
that men will see that you're a
confident man and they'll give you that
respect and friends will feel more
respect for you as well because you're
independently confident right so it's
important to understand that women
present an opportunity for us men to
become stronger it's not something to be
angry about you know and women they need
to be more reassuring they need to tell
me that they like me just tell me that
you like me because I'm an insecure
sensitive man and I need reassurance no
you're a confident strong man right you
can remain confident regardless of how a
woman is behaving and when you can do
that you'll see that women feel
naturally attracted to you you feel so
much better about yourself and you get
the results that you want with women
Weitere ähnliche Videos ansehen
Women Want You Sexually When You Do This (Most Men Don't Know)
WOMEN only LOVE men who make them NEVER FEEL GOOD ENOUGH emotionally - Hypergamy EXPOSED
WOMEN with HIGH INTEREST PUNISH Men Who Reciprocate CARE (Dark Hypergamy Secrets)
This Makes Women Want You Sexually (Works Every Time)
MEN with CHARM and Charisma can SLEEP with WOMEN but NEVER keep them in relationships (Casey Zander)
WOMEN are only TURNED ON by OFFENSIVE MEN WHO DO NOT CARE about them (Cold Seduction Secrets)
5.0 / 5 (0 votes)