HOW to START a conversation with her
Summary
TLDRIn this video, V, VT offers advice on initiating conversations with women, emphasizing that the approach is the easiest part of dating. He discusses the importance of recognizing 'choosing signals' from women, such as eye contact and smiles, as indicators of interest. V, VT advises against approaching women who show no signs of interest and suggests simple, non-intrusive ways to start a conversation. He also stresses the importance of confidence, personal grooming, and speaking clearly. The video concludes with a reminder to continue the conversation after the initial approach and to maintain a positive attitude.
Takeaways
- π Confidence is key when approaching someone you're interested in.
- π Pay attention to 'choosing signals' like eye contact and smiles to gauge interest.
- ποΈββοΈ Focus on personal grooming and fitness to improve your approach.
- π« Avoid approaching when someone is wearing headphones or seems uninterested.
- π Choose the right moment and place, like a grocery store, to start a conversation.
- πββοΈ Use simple and direct openers when initiating a conversation.
- π After getting a number, continue the conversation to build a connection.
- π£οΈ Speak clearly and properly to show you're articulate and sensible.
- π Always seek feedback and learn from your interactions to improve your approach.
- π Remember, one person can make a difference, and so can you.
Q & A
What is the main topic of V, VT's video?
-The main topic of V, VT's video is about how to start a conversation with a woman and the importance of understanding social cues, also known as 'choosing signals'.
What does V, VT suggest is the easiest part of dating?
-V, VT suggests that the approach, or the act of initiating contact, is the easiest part of dating.
What does V, VT mean by 'choosing signals'?
-V, VT refers to 'choosing signals' as the non-verbal cues or behaviors that indicate a woman is open to being approached or interested in conversation.
Why does V, VT say it's important to consider the context and environment when approaching a woman?
-V, VT emphasizes the importance of considering the context and environment because it affects whether it's appropriate to approach someone, such as not approaching a woman with headphones on or at the gym.
What are some examples of 'choosing signals' mentioned by V, VT?
-Some examples of 'choosing signals' mentioned by V, VT include a woman making eye contact, smiling, looking away, and then looking back, or a woman waving at the person interested in approaching her.
Why does V, VT advise against approaching a woman at the gym?
-V, VT advises against approaching a woman at the gym because the environment is focused on personal fitness and improvement, and he believes it's not the right setting to find a life partner.
What is V, VT's advice on how to start a conversation after making an approach?
-V, VT suggests keeping the approach simple and direct, such as complimenting the woman and asking for her name, and if she responds positively, suggesting a future meeting or activity.
What does V, VT say about the importance of confidence in approaching someone?
-V, VT stresses that confidence is key when approaching someone, and he recommends focusing on personal development, hygiene, and appearance to boost confidence.
Why does V, VT mention the importance of speaking properly and being concise?
-V, VT mentions the importance of speaking properly and being concise to ensure that the person you're talking to understands you and to project an image of intelligence and clarity.
What is V, VT's advice on what to do after getting a woman's number?
-After getting a woman's number, V, VT advises to continue the conversation to build a connection and not to leave immediately, as this can help solidify the initial approach.
Outlines
π£οΈ Approaching Women: Understanding the Basics
In this paragraph, the speaker, V, introduces the topic of the video, which is about how to start a conversation with a woman. He emphasizes that many men struggle with the approach, but he believes it's the easiest part of dating. V points out that it's crucial to consider the context, such as where the woman is and what she's doing, before approaching her. He mentions that women often send 'choosing signals' which are subtle indications of interest, such as making eye contact, smiling, or waving. V explains that if a woman is not giving any of these signals, it's not the right time to approach. He also advises against approaching women at the gym, unless they are showing clear signs of interest, and stresses the importance of understanding these signals to successfully start a conversation.
π¬ The Art of Conversation: Simplicity and Confidence
Paragraph 2 delves into the actual approach and conversation starters. V suggests that simplicity is key and dismisses the need for elaborate pick-up lines. He recommends starting with a simple compliment or a light, mysterious comment to pique a woman's interest. V provides examples of such openers and emphasizes the importance of reading social cues and the environment. He also talks about the importance of confidence and maintaining a conversation after the initial approach. V advises getting to know the woman a bit after getting her contact information to build a connection. He shares personal anecdotes and stresses the significance of speaking clearly and concisely, suggesting that one should work on their appearance, hygiene, and communication skills to improve their chances of success in social interactions.
π Closing Thoughts: Confidence and Self-Improvement
In the final paragraph, V wraps up the video with a brief closing remark. He reiterates the importance of confidence and self-improvement, encouraging viewers to work on their physical fitness, personal grooming, and communication skills. V also hints at future videos where he will discuss topics like masculine aura and maintaining a positive social presence. He ends the video on a motivational note, urging viewers to believe in their ability to make a difference in the world, and signs off with his signature, 'VT peace out.'
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Approach
π‘Choosing Signals
π‘Eye Contact
π‘Confidence
π‘Social Setting
π‘Conversation Starter
π‘Interest
π‘Aura
π‘Masculine Aura
π‘Personal Development
Highlights
The approach is the easiest part of dating and many women enjoy playing games.
When approaching a woman, consider the context and her current activity.
Headphones in can signal that it's not a good time to approach.
Making eye contact and receiving signals like looking away and back is a sign of interest.
A smile from a woman walking by can be a greeting, not necessarily an invitation to approach.
If a woman looks at you and makes eye contact, it can be a choosing signal.
Women may not be forthcoming with their interest, so it's important to interpret their signals.
A double tap of the eyes indicates a woman finds you attractive.
No eye contact from a woman usually means she's not interested.
Waving from a woman is a direct invitation to approach.
Approaching at the gym is generally not recommended unless there are clear signals.
A simple approach without a pick-up line can be effective.
In social settings, using a slick line can initiate a conversation.
After establishing initial contact, ask for her name to gauge interest.
If a woman doesn't ask for your name, she's likely not interested.
Suggesting a future meeting like getting drinks is a good next step after getting her number.
Continue the conversation after getting her number to build a connection.
Confidence is key, and improving physical appearance and hygiene can help.
Speaking clearly and properly is important for effective communication.
The speaker will make a separate video on masculine aura and the importance of aura in dating.
Feedback and self-improvement are crucial for success in dating.
Transcripts
what's good with YouTube it's your boy V
VT we back with another video If you
haven't not already TI today's video we
going to start with some juicy [Β __Β ] bro
for y'all today today is how to start a
conversation with her now listen man I
see a lot of you guys man a lot of you
guys don't know how to approach bro and
I would talk [Β __Β ] I wouldn't even be
like oh yeah you know oh my God
you I'm not doing that man I'm going put
y'all on game bro the approach is
actually the easiest part of dating bro
I'm be real because a lot of women love
to play games also ignore my cat in the
background bro she she going crazy but
listen though a lot of women love to
play games bro playing games is their
Forte but the approach is not the issue
it's how you do after that which I will
make a separate video on in the future
now it's been a minute since I made a
long format video but I'm going tell
y'all the nitty-gritty on how to
approach first things first when you're
approaching a woman bro you have to
remember where you're at
where she's at and what she's doing
right so she got her headphones
in not a good time to approach if you
guys make eye contact and you see her
and and she's giving you signals like
she looks at you and looks away and
looks back at you or she looks at you
and smiles and then looks back away you
know what I mean and then that doesn't
always mean an approach so if she she
looks at you and smiles that's that's a
way of greeting right she's walking by
and then if you happen to see like let's
say you're in a grocery store setting
and you happen to see each other again
right right because she walks by and you
she smiles at you you know I'm saying
you keep going you keep pushing it smile
back whatever you Circle back around she
sees you again and you say damn she's
cute then there's a time to approach but
she got her headphones and she's not
worried about you because women will
give choosing signals if she's not
giving you choosing signals
then don't approach it's not a time to
approach it's not a time to approach so
if she's not giving you any choosing
signal she's not trying to like you know
what I'm saying start some [Β __Β ] up bro
I'm talking like and let me explain what
choosing signals are cuz I see a lot of
these YouTubers oh choosing signals
choosing signals but they don't say [Β __Β ]
about it they don't say what they are
what they mean most guys actually don't
know what choosing signals mean and
being as one of those guys that used to
not know what choosing signals mean I
will tell you what they mean so choosing
signals right choosing signals women
will not be come like forthcoming
I'mma I'mma just put that out there
women will not be
forthcoming so you have to play their
game a little bit to really guess what
they're thinking what they're saying
right so if a woman is let's say looking
at you and smiling and look if they do a
double tap one choosing Sim if they do a
double
tap they clearly think you're attractive
because women are not going to look at
something that they don't think
attractive twice if women do not look at
you at all I'm talking at
all that's not a Ching signal now if a
woman looks at you and y'all make eye
contact right and then and then she she
make eye contact when she looks away
that is also a children signal that's
because she thinks you're attracted
right because she's looking at you now
if you're sitting there staring like
this that's creepy don't do that but you
want to make eye contact you know what
I'm saying wait till she looks away just
just just make eye contact like
this that's nothing too crazy like like
you you look at but you see her and
you're like
some some some little
like and she looks away she's like oh oh
those are choosing signals so she she's
basically telling you like come talk to
me I want you to talk to me you know
what I mean and that's what they are
choosing signals that's what they are so
if they're looking at you if you know
what I mean or even some women will be
more direct and then they'll wave right
if they wave and you wave back then
that's that's the time it's comfortable
it's okay for me to approach if women do
not do any of that if any of those
choosing signals they're not [Β __Β ]
interested don't try don't don't sit
there and try to make an excuse to come
approach especially especially at the
gym
bro especially at the gym I see look I'm
a good-looking guy I would not approach
women at the gym number one I come near
the train I'm not I'm really not trying
to find a life partner at the gym now
granted it would be nice because at the
gym you know what I'm saying that's
that's my forte like you know what I
mean we're we're in the same type of uh
space same type of mindset we're we're
trying to better ourselves we're trying
to work on ourselves we're trying to
improve then
yes uh maybe if she's she's shooting
those shooting signals which I'll make a
separate video on on how to approach at
the gym but we're not talking about that
we're talking about like if she's not
giving you any leg room at all don't
come for the approach now the
approach let me give you all the
nitty-gritty on the approach the
approach is what matters bro right so
the
approach you can keep it simple most
guys think oh you have to come up with
some crazy pick a line no no you don't
you don't have to come with some crazy
crazy [Β __Β ] you know what I mean unless
you're in a social setting if you're in
a social setting then you can say some
slick [Β __Β ] you can say some cool [Β __Β ]
like
uh like like I see you out here all by
yourself or some [Β __Β ] like that like
like like was a girl like you doing a
place like this you know what I mean or
[Β __Β ] or or or even just start up or just
wonder about like just just say some
slick [Β __Β ] like she don't know cuz girls
like a mystery I I I say like be like
man I see somebody who looked like you
before or like U or some [Β __Β ] or
like I feel like I feel like I heard
about you you know what I'm saying I
feel like I heard about you heard you
heard about me from where from where
where you he about I don't know just
around and she be like oh what do you
mean around I don't know I just heard
about you you know what I mean she she's
like and then and then the start
conversation cuz it will peek her
interest cuz she's going to be like what
the [Β __Β ] you talking about even if it's
nothing bro that's how you that's how
you start a conversation in a social
setting right when you're out you're out
dancing with friends or some [Β __Β ] or
drinks whatever the case may be whatever
y'all do I don't know I don't drink so I
I you know what I'm saying I'm not
really in that type of
scene but uh but let's say grocery store
right see this
Shorty just be like and mind you this is
after she's giving me choosing signals
is after I've already locked eye contact
even even this is after after I've
already talked to her a couple times
little little pieces you know what I'm
saying little little uh little I guess
little greets or whatever just be like
I'm sorry I know you get this all the
time but I just want to say you're
absolutely beautiful I just I don't want
to I don't want to be like get in
between or whatever you're doing I don't
know why I'm slurring my words right
now but just be like I'm not trying to
I'm not trying to interrupt what you're
doing but I would just want to say
you're absolutely beautiful and she like
thank you thank you thank you and then I
just be like what's your name just ask
her for her name and she'll be like
she'll tell you her name now she doesn't
ask you for her name she is not
interested if she doesn't ask you for
her name she's not
interested because cuz she's like oh
thank you thank you thank you okay cool
cool cool right but if she doesn't ask
you for your name her name she's she's
not she's not interested
that's now she does ask you for a name
you're in the green
you're in the
green and since you've made it like past
past the first base Zone just say
hey if you're cool or if you if you want
again I'm slurring my words I'm not
going to edit any of this though but
like hey if you want maybe we can go get
drinks some time or hey if you want I
know this one place down the street
sells the best X Y and Z uh maybe we can
go there sometime you know what I mean
just start a little something like that
you know what I mean or maybe we can
hang out sometime and then she says yes
after after getting the number you know
what I'm saying keep talking to her cuz
after the approach and this is something
that I failed on personally you want to
make that connection so after you
approach after you get the number don't
just leave that is a big misconception
that most people make don't just leave
after you get the number after you make
the approach after then you talk to her
for a bit get to know her for a bit
little you know what I'm saying because
that will that will season that will
marinate the approach she'll be like
okay I'm feeling this guy whatever the
case may be and then you move on you
just keep it pushing now if she doesn't
ask me your name just just tell her like
I I didn't want to bother you she oh no
no it's no bother thank you cuz that
what what is the worst they're going to
say they're not going to be completely
rude unless they are and if they are you
don't want to be around with somebody
like that anyway but you make the
approach and then they say thank you
they're not interested okay you keep it
pushing and don't don't R let it ruin
your day none of that [Β __Β ] so yeah guys
um that is literally how you approach a
girl or how to start a conversation with
her it's not very hard what you need to
have is confidence and in doing that is
getting in the gym focusing on your
grind getting in shape I mean get like I
said getting in shape focusing on your
grind uh focus on your hygiene your
appearance Etc and also watch back I I
watch back every video I make just so I
understand how I speak you know what I
mean and I'll make a separate video on
Aura in the future on masculine aura but
you always you want to speak proper you
want to speak like you speak The King's
English okay you want to speak like you
have sense you want to be concise you
want to be you want people to understand
you so make sure that you feedback
feedback is the key but anyway anyway
guys um I appreciate y'all for watching
this all I have for today's video please
remember like comment share subscribe
remember one thing one man can change
the world but more importantly you can
change the world everybody watching can
change the damn world all right man it's
your boy V
VT peace out
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