The Winner's Mindset That Guarantees Success
Summary
TLDRIn this motivational video, the speaker recounts his son Dylan's soccer championship loss and uses it as a teaching moment about the importance of being a 'playmaker' in life. He contrasts passive waiting with proactive behavior, drawing parallels to success in sports, work, and personal life. The story emphasizes the value of initiative, effort, and continuous improvement, ultimately urging viewers to take charge and create opportunities rather than waiting for them to arise.
Takeaways
- 🏆 Dylan's soccer team lost the championship game, which led to a discussion about the importance of being proactive and taking initiative.
- 😔 The team was disappointed with their second-place finish and the coach's insistence on accepting the trophy despite the loss.
- 👨👦 The father-son relationship is highlighted as the father uses the game to teach Dylan about the value of feedback and learning from experiences.
- 🎯 The father emphasizes the difference between being a 'spot up shooter' and a 'playmaker,' using the Curry family as an example of success through initiative and creativity.
- 🏃♂️ The story illustrates the importance of not waiting for opportunities but actively seeking them out, as demonstrated by Dylan's persistence in meeting Messi.
- 💼 The concept of being a 'playmaker' is extended to various aspects of life, including work ethic and personal development.
- 🔑 The speaker identifies five qualities valued in employees: great attitude, effort, being a team player, constant innovation, and providing results.
- 🚀 The message encourages viewers to be proactive and take the initiative in all areas of life, from family to finances.
- 🤔 The father uses the game and the encounter with Messi to teach Dylan about the consequences of waiting for opportunities versus creating them.
- 🌟 The story of meeting Messi serves as a metaphor for the power of persistence and the rewards of taking action.
- 👍 The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to adopt a 'playmaker' mindset in order to achieve success and fulfillment in life.
Q & A
What significant event did Dylan participate in recently?
-Dylan participated in a soccer championship game in a league he is a part of.
How did Dylan's team perform in the game prior to the championship?
-In the game before the championship, Dylan's team won with Dylan scoring a goal, but they also received their first yellow card.
What was the outcome of the championship game for Dylan's team?
-Dylan's team lost the championship game with a score of 0 to 3.
How did Dylan and his team react to the loss in the championship game?
-The kids on the team were crying, and they were not enthusiastic about receiving a second-place trophy.
What lesson did the speaker try to teach Dylan about being a playmaker?
-The speaker taught Dylan that being a playmaker means taking initiative and not just waiting for opportunities, but actively creating them.
Who is Steph Curry and what is the difference between his playing style and his father's?
-Steph Curry is a professional basketball player and a four-time NBA champion. The difference is that while his father, Dell Curry, was a spot-up shooter, Steph Curry is known for his movement and playmaking abilities on the court.
What qualities does the speaker value in an employee?
-The speaker values qualities such as a great attitude, effort, being a team player, constant innovation, and providing results.
What was the situation with Dylan's persistence at the tennis tournament?
-Dylan insisted on staying at the tennis tournament until he met Messi, using his charm to persuade the staff to introduce him, which eventually happened.
What advice does the speaker give about taking initiative in life?
-The speaker advises to be proactive and take the initiative in various aspects of life, such as with family, finances, and career, to increase the chances of success.
What is the main message of the video script?
-The main message is to encourage being a 'playmaker' in life, taking initiative, and making things happen rather than waiting for opportunities to come.
What did the speaker do after the championship game to help Dylan improve?
-The speaker took Dylan to the field to practice and discuss what he could do differently, focusing on not just waiting for the perfect pass but being more proactive.
Outlines
🏆 The Championship Experience and Life Lessons
This paragraph recounts the author's son Dylan's soccer championship game experience. Dylan's team loses 0-3, and despite the disappointment, the coach emphasizes the importance of receiving the second place trophy. The author uses this moment to teach Dylan about the difference between being a spot-up shooter like Del Curry and being a playmaker like his son, Steph Curry. The author explains that playmakers are proactive and innovative, which are qualities he values in employees and advises Dylan to adopt in life. The story concludes with Dylan's persistence in meeting Messi, demonstrating the playmaker mindset.
🚀 Becoming a Playmaker: The Mindset for Success
The second paragraph focuses on the importance of adopting a playmaker mindset in various aspects of life. The author emphasizes that being a playmaker is not limited to sports but applies to personal and professional growth. He encourages viewers to be proactive, seize opportunities, and make things happen within their companies and communities. The author also mentions a related video about the mindset of a dominator, suggesting viewers watch it for further inspiration.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Championship
💡Yellow Card
💡Playmaker
💡Feedback
💡Perfect Pass
💡Hall of Famer
💡Initiative
💡Determination
💡Proactive
💡Motivation
💡Legacy
Highlights
Dylan's soccer team made it to the championship game but lost 0 to 3, leading to a lesson about not waiting for the perfect opportunity.
Coach emphasizes the importance of claiming the second place trophy despite the defeat.
Dylan values his father's feedback after games, indicating the significance of parental involvement.
The father uses the example of Steph Curry's playmaking to teach Dylan about seizing opportunities.
A comparison between Del Curry and Steph Curry to illustrate the difference between waiting and creating opportunities.
The concept of being a playmaker extends beyond sports to life and work ethic.
Five qualities valued for job security: great attitude, effort, teamwork, innovation, and providing results.
The importance of taking initiative in various aspects of life, including family, finances, and career.
Dylan's persistence in meeting Messi demonstrates the power of being proactive and a playmaker.
The father's role in allowing Dylan to experience rejection and persuasion to achieve his goal.
Dylan successfully meets Messi, showcasing the outcome of a playmaker's mindset.
The broader message of being a playmaker in all areas of life for personal and professional growth.
Encouragement to share the video's lessons with children for future guidance and motivation.
A call to action for viewers to be playmakers in their own lives and to make things happen.
Invitation to engage with the channel through likes and subscriptions for more motivational content.
A teaser for another video on the mindset of a dominator and its impact on success.
Transcripts
so this past Sunday night my youngest
son Dylan made it to the championship
game in a league that he's a part of and
he's excited the game prior to that he
scores a win and goal he gets his first
yellow card they're excited the team
they're facing they lost to them 0o to
one which means they can beat him
there's 200 people there parents we're
lining up it's 7:15 game's about to
start boom they start the game and they
end up losing 0 to3 the game ends kids
are crying they go up on stage and
everybody wants to leave and the coach
is like no no no we got to go get our
trophy like nobody wants a second place
trophy like okay let's walk up now at
this point it's like 9 9:30 Sunday night
I got to put him to sleep but we go up
there first team goes up and they get
this big plaque and the coach says say
you're a champion champion say you're a
champion champion and Dylan's standing
right there hearing this coach telling
your champion champion champion and then
they go up and you see them go up with a
defeated face couple of the kids are
crying they come down coach has a
conversation with them so I take him to
the field and I started doing a couple
things with him that he wasn't doing and
I'm talking to this kid I'm like why
don't you do this you typically do this
typically do that so we get get in the
car I said Dylan I want to talk to you
about something he says what's that dad
cuz he says he says Dad I like for you
to be there when we leave games I said
tell me why he says because I like the
feedback you give me I love the fact
that this is what he's telling me so
we're driving home and I said Dilly you
know what I noticed about you in the
championship game I said you were
waiting for perfect pass to score a goal
he says what do you mean I said you know
D Curry is the father of Steph Curry D
Curry was known as one of the greatest
Shooters of all all time during his time
he may have been the best shooter and
his son duplicated him the difference
Del curri was a spot up shooter which
means you gave him the ball he hit the
shot right Steph Curry they did a study
on how many miles he runs in an average
NBA game he runs 2.3 miles in an average
NBA game and a Defender if they look
away for two seconds he's gone okay
that's what the scientists looked at how
Steph Curry place I said the difference
why Steph Curry the son will be a Hall
of Famer he's a four-time champion is
because Steph Curry is a playmaker
[Applause]
Jord ready to take off and sna has won
the jubilant team Del Curry just waited
to shoot the shot he says where are you
going with this Dad I said you weren't
playing like a playmaker you were
playing like hey I'm open give me I'm
open give I'm open you hustle you don't
play like a playmaker he says I don't
understand that he I said in life you
have to realize how this thing works
what's that employees in a company will
wait till somebody tells them what to do
you know what they are they're like the
guy that's just waiting for somebody to
give them a pass to make a shot they're
not going to move up in any company and
by the way they can go from company to
another company to another company to
another company about the previous
company I and they'll go five companies
10 companies 20 companies thinking it's
the company you're not a playmaker but
Playmakers always move up we had a
meeting earlier this year in January and
I said there's five qualities that I
value that you will always have a job
with me always have a job with me great
attitude effort you're a team player
you're constantly Innovative and
thinking about ideas and you provide
results now if you want to get major
raises then it's you know specialized
skill leadership you know you know how
to deal with people conflict resolution
but those five I value a lot so going
back to you watching this video this is
the old school motivation Monday videos
for you are you a playmaker is that what
you do or do you wait till somebody
tells you what to do in your family with
your kids are you a playmaker or do you
wait for them to come to you with a
problem and you tell them what to do do
you take the initiative to have
conversations with them and be proactive
before something happens to them with
your finances are you a playmaker or do
you wait till God forbid something
happens to your family I wish we had a
life insurance policy I wish I had
health insurance I wish I had auto
insurance you take initiative the
concept of a playmaker isn't about being
a soccer player or Sports this past
weekend I took Dylan my dad's birthday
my dad's turning 82 years old tomorrow
he's born in 1942 and I took my dad to a
tennis tournament fastest tournament
I've been to an hour and 13 seconds
game's over but I take Dylan to the
quarterfinals of inner Miami is playing
monay and while we're at the game Dylan
his persistence he wouldn't leave it's a
school night he we did not leave till
11: o00 he made every single one of the
employees at in on Miami told everyone
I'm not leaving here tonight until you
introduce me to Messi I'm like Dylan
these people don't owe you nothing I'm
not leaving and he's using his charm I'm
not leaving I'm not leaving I'm not
leaving I'm like Oh my and you know what
I'm doing I'm not getting in the way I'm
allowing him to be rejected or to close
and persuade right and finally I'm just
kind of like staying here and fin like
okay just do me a favor go in the sweet
7 and just wait and I'm going to tell
you but when you do you have to listen
to me no problem game's been over with
for an hour and a half we're sitting in
seven Vinnie and my dad are like we're
going to go send the car man we're not
going to see Messi tonight all of a
sudden the girl comes okay come on come
on come on oh my God where's grab the
phone grab the phone grab the phone walk
outside walks up to Messi he's talking
to Messi and you know the famous
legendary security guard that Messi has
that is always pushing people around he
lets Dylan in Dylan a mess you're
talking takes a picture we get in the
car we leave he's on fire what's the
point got to be a playmaker he was a
playmaker in the area of getting the
picture for Messi but in the
championship game then one day you're
going to watch this video you're going
to be so upset at me why would you make
this video because one day you can share
this video with your kids when daddy's
no longer around and tell the story in
life our job my job your job all of our
jobs is to be the best playm we can be
for ourselves for the company we work
with for our community for our
background for our church for our
country for whatever you do your job is
to be a playmaker your job is not to sit
around with opportunities coming your
way go within the company and make
things happen that mindset will give you
higher odds of moving up in any company
and having your dreams becoming a
reality if you got value out of this
video give it a thumbs up and subscribe
to the channel if you enjoyed this video
I got another video I want you to watch
ready called the mindset of a dominator
and why the rest of the world feared
them if you've never seen it click here
to watch it take care everybody bye-bye
bye-bye a
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