3 Psychological Reasons Why Women Come Back After You've Give Her Distance!
Summary
TLDRApollonia Pointe, a dating and relationship coach, discusses the psychological reasons why creating distance can make a woman more interested in you. She explains the concepts of loss aversion, cognitive dissonance, and scarcity, which can trigger a desire to reconnect. Pointe advises using the time apart to improve oneself and live a more attractive life, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and positive energy in attracting a partner.
Takeaways
- 😎 Giving space to a relationship can trigger a person's desire and make them miss you, which can be beneficial if used correctly.
- 🧠 The human brain reacts to distance by activating psychological principles such as loss aversion, cognitive dissonance, and scarcity.
- 🚫 Loss aversion is the tendency to prefer avoiding losses over acquiring gains, which can motivate someone to seek to regain a lost relationship.
- 🤔 Cognitive dissonance occurs when there's a conflict between beliefs and attitudes, potentially leading to a desire to reconcile and regain what was lost.
- 💎 Scarcity makes something seem more valuable when it's rare or hard to obtain, so improving your life during distance can increase your perceived value.
- 🏋️♂️ Use the time apart wisely by focusing on personal goals, hobbies, and self-improvement to increase your attractiveness.
- 📸 It's important to show your positive life changes on social media and through mutual friends to demonstrate your value and progress.
- 🌟 The goal is to live a life that others would find attractive and desirable, which can make you seem more appealing and 'irresistible'.
- 🤗 The feeling of wanting something that's been taken away can be powerful, and if you've improved yourself, it can make you more desirable.
- 👥 Remember that distance gives people time to process emotions and can help them gain clarity and a new perspective on their feelings.
- 🚫 If a woman hasn't shown any signs of interest or intimacy, it might be an indication that she's not interested, despite any efforts made.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video by Apollonia Pointe?
-The main topic discussed is the psychological reasons why a woman might come back to a man after he has given her space, and how to use distance to rekindle interest in a relationship.
What is Apollonia Pointe's profession?
-Apollonia Pointe is a dating, relationship, and attraction coach for men, helping them master attraction skills and improve their lives with women.
Why might distance be a trigger for someone to miss another person?
-Distance can trigger a person to miss another because it can wake them up to the realization of what they have lost and give them a chance to see the other person in a new light.
What are the psychological principles behind the feeling of wanting something that has been taken away?
-The psychological principles include loss aversion, cognitive dissonance, and scarcity, which explain the desire for something perceived as lost, conflict between beliefs and behaviors, and the increased value of something perceived as rare or difficult to obtain.
What is loss aversion, and how does it relate to relationships?
-Loss aversion is the tendency for people to prefer avoiding losses over acquiring gains. In relationships, it can motivate a person to regain what was lost, especially if the loss is perceived as unfair or unexpected.
What is cognitive dissonance, and how can it affect a person's feelings towards a lost relationship?
-Cognitive dissonance is the psychological discomfort experienced when holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes. It can create a sense of conflict between the desire to regain what was lost and the belief that one should move on, motivating a person to reconcile these conflicting thoughts.
What is the concept of scarcity in the context of relationships, and how does it influence desire?
-Scarcity refers to the idea that something rare or difficult to obtain is perceived as more valuable. In relationships, when a person feels that they are losing something valuable, it can create a sense of scarcity, increasing their desire for it.
What should a person do during the time of distance to increase their attractiveness to their partner?
-A person should use the time to focus on their goals, live their best life, and improve their personal value. This includes engaging in activities like going to the gym, traveling, eating healthily, and picking up new hobbies.
What is the Alpha Magnet program mentioned in the video, and what does it offer?
-The Alpha Magnet program is a course offered by Apollonia Pointe that teaches men everything they need to know to become more attractive to women and have them 'crawling and begging for more.'
What is the advice given for using distance as a tool in a relationship?
-The advice is to use distance wisely, allowing the other person time to process their emotions and gain clarity on their feelings. It's also important to focus on personal growth and improvement during this time.
What should a person do if they believe a woman is not interested despite their efforts?
-If a person believes a woman is not interested, they should focus on their own purpose and goals, becoming a great man, as women are more likely to gravitate towards someone who is confident and self-improving.
Outlines
💭 Psychological Triggers for Attraction through Distance
Apollonia Pointe, a dating and relationship coach, introduces the concept of using distance to reignite interest in a relationship. She explains that the fear of losing someone can trigger a desire to reconnect, which is rooted in psychological principles such as loss aversion, cognitive dissonance, and scarcity. The video aims to teach men how to use space to their advantage, presenting themselves in a new light and allowing the woman to miss them. The importance of living a fulfilling life and showcasing personal growth during the period of distance is emphasized, as it can increase one's perceived value and attractiveness.
🌟 Enhancing Personal Value and Attraction
The second paragraph delves deeper into the psychological effects of distance and personal growth. It discusses how enhancing one's life and showcasing positive changes can make a person more desirable. The coach encourages viewers to focus on self-improvement and living a life that others would find attractive. She also mentions the Alpha Magnet program, which promises to teach men how to become irresistible to women. The video concludes by reminding viewers of the importance of using distance wisely to allow for emotional processing and a potential rekindling of the relationship, while also suggesting the next video in the series about intimacy and dealing with faked orgasms.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Distance
💡Attraction
💡Loss Aversion
💡Cognitive Dissonance
💡Scarcity
💡Desire
💡Emotional Processing
💡Reconciliation
💡Self-Improvement
💡Social Media
💡Intimacy
Highlights
The video discusses psychological reasons why giving a woman distance can lead her to come back to you.
The idea of putting space between you and someone you want can be scary, as you worry they might move on.
Distance can trigger a part of the brain linked to desire, which can change how she feels about you.
Creating distance allows for a fresh start and a new presentation of yourself.
Psychological principle of loss aversion is explained, where people prefer avoiding losses over gains.
Loss aversion can motivate a woman to regain a relationship she feels she has lost.
Cognitive dissonance is introduced as a theory where conflicting beliefs cause discomfort.
Cognitive dissonance can lead a woman to reconcile her beliefs and behaviors by wanting you back.
Scarcity principle suggests that when something is rare, it is perceived as more valuable.
Using time and space wisely is crucial to increase the value of your life and make yourself more attractive.
Encouragement to live your best life and showcase it on social media and through mutual friends.
Scarcity can make you more desirable when you appear to be living an attractive life.
The video offers a program called 'Alpha Magnet' to teach how to become irresistible to women.
Distance is a powerful tool that allows people to process their emotions and gain clarity.
If a woman has not shown any physical or emotional intimacy, she may not be interested.
Focusing on becoming a great man will naturally attract women.
An invitation to watch the next video about intimacy and handling a situation where a woman has faked an orgasm.
Transcripts
three psychological reasons why she
comes back to you after you've given a
woman distance did you start off on the
wrong foot with a girl you're dating are
things feeling tense maybe are you
feeling that she's slipping away or
maybe you've already broken up but you
want her back when it might be time for
some distance hi guys I'm Apollonia
Pointe I'm a dating relationship and
attraction coach for you men to master
attraction skills and really get the
lives that you want with women and I ask
you if this is your first time visiting
to click that subscribe button right now
before we move on in this video and to
all of my subscribers I want to thank
you for being here with me and being a
loyal subscriber and in this video I'm
going to talk to you about how to get a
girl to come back and be more interested
in you than ever by putting some
distance between you I know that for a
lot of people the idea of putting space
between you and the person you want is
literally scary because you're worried
that it'll give her the opportunity to
move on and forget about you but this is
not how human nature and human behavior
Works in this video I'm going to talk to
you about how people react to distance
and how it triggers a very interesting
part of the brain that is linked to
desire so if that sounds good let's
begin the thing about distance is that
it can serve a trigger as a trigger that
not only wakes her up and makes her miss
you but also gives you the opportunity
to make her see you in a new way
sometimes when problems and tensions are
piling up it can become really hard to
shift through it all and focus on what
attracted you to the other person in the
first place but if you put some space
between you it gives you a chance to
start fresh and present yourself in a
new light and it gives her a chance to
calm down and remember the good things
she experienced with you and in order
for that to happen though you need to be
very careful with how you use the
distance between you and I'll get to
that in just a moment but first I want
to talk about the psychological things
behind why distance can change the way
you feel or the way she feels about you
have you ever heard the expression you
don't know what you have until it's gone
well this is a very interesting thing
actually because this is precisely what
we're aiming for here the feeling of
wanting something that hasn't taken away
from you can be explained through
various psychological principles such as
number one loss aversion two cognitive
dissonance and three scarcity loss
aversion refers to the tendency for
people to strongly prefer avoiding
losses over acquired gains so when it
comes to love when we lose something
that we value such as a relationship we
may feel a sense of loss that motivates
us to regain what was loss this can be
particularly strong if the loss is
perceived as unfair or unexpected as we
may feel a sense of Injustice that
motivates us to seek out the Lost item
in the relationship so let's say maybe
you've decided you needed some space
from her because things were kind of
getting messy she might start to want
you back simply because she doesn't like
being in a position of losing something
that she subconsciously felt belonged to
her especially when it wasn't her choice
okay if she was the one who decided to
take distance from you she might
experience the desire to get you back
because of something called cognitive
dissonance now cognitive dissonance this
Theory suggests that people experience
psychological discomfort when they hold
conflicting beliefs or attitudes so when
they lose something that they value it
can create a sense of conflict between
their desires to regain what was lost
and their belief that they should move
on this is especially common when some
time has passed and the person has had
the opportunity to calm down release
anger or even think about you and begin
to remember the good times and if she's
experiencing this it's good news for you
this discomfort can then motivate her to
seek out ways to reconcile their beliefs
and behaviors by attempting to regain
what was lost AKA you
the third one is scarcity finally
scarcity refers to the idea that when
something is rare or difficult to obtain
it is perceived as more valuable
so this is where you need to make a
hundred percent sure that you are using
the time and space wisely using your
time and space wisely focusing on your
purpose goals all this stuff in other
words it is imperative that you use this
time to live your best life and don't be
afraid to post on social media about you
living your best life don't be afraid to
tell your mutual friends about it too go
to the gym go on the weekend trips with
your friends eat healthy pick up a new
hobby like cooking the sky is the limit
the goal is to increase the value of
your life so that anyone with a brain
would look at you and think wow I want
to spend my time with this person
because his life that he's created is
clearly attractive
and it's all a mindset right it's not
about acquiring a new sports car or a
flashing gold Rolex it's about having
positive energy about you
haven't you noticed how happy people
attract others like a moth to a flame so
when something is taken away from us it
can create a sense of scarcity that
makes us desire it more and what do you
think happens when the things you desire
looks a million times better than it did
when you had it it makes you
irresistible now if you want to know
more about how to become your best self
and totally irresistible to a woman or
you can watch this video but I also want
you to click the link below and sign up
for my Alpha magnet program this Alpha
magnet program is going to teach you
everything that you need to know in
order to literally have a woman crawling
and begging for more so going back to
the video I want to make sure that you
use this distance wisely so make sure
that you also continue to watch this
video and also make sure that you focus
on the relationship and remember that
distance is a powerful tool because
people need time to process their
emotions but if this girl has been
feeling overwhelmed or conflicted about
the situation with you she needs a
minute to process her emotions allowing
the emotions to settle
giving her space will let her gain
Clarity get a new perspective on her
feelings and even begin to remember the
good times with you people remember the
good things they had when they feel that
they're losing them and the psychology
of wanting something that was taken away
from you can be explained through
various psychological principles such as
loss aversion cognitive dissonance and
scarcity but here's the thing man if a
woman really hasn't given you an in
really hasn't really showed you any type
of physicality emotional communication
emotional intimacy and she is doing this
then maybe she's just not plain
interested I can't work magic but what I
can do is I can tell you that if you
focus on your purpose and your goals in
becoming a great man
women will gravitate towards you that's
the most important thing so if you want
more women to gravitate you you know
what to do click that link about my
Alpha magnet program you won't be
disappointed as always I want you to
watch this next video this next video is
all about intimacy and if a woman has
faked her orgasm what you should do
about it and I'm pretty sure you're
curious to know so go ahead and click
that video right over here in the watch
next playlist and I'll see you there and
remember you are always loved bye for
now
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