Ric Elias: 3 cosas que aprendí mientras mi avión se estrellaba

Summary

In a life-changing experience, the speaker recalls a terrifying plane incident where everything seemed to go wrong. As the plane's engines fail and the pilot prepares for a crash, the speaker reflects on what truly matters in life: relationships, purpose, and being a great parent. Through this brush with death, they learn to prioritize connections with loved ones, eliminate negativity, and embrace life with urgency. The speaker challenges others to reconsider their own priorities and live with intention, urging them to focus on what truly matters before it's too late.

Takeaways

• 😀 Life can change in an instant, reminding us to live with urgency and purpose.
• 😀 Don't postpone important things in life—seize opportunities as they arise.
• 😀 Personal connections and relationships are paramount; don't neglect the people who matter.
• 😀 Negative energy should be eliminated from your life for greater peace and happiness.
• 😀 Let go of the need to always be right; choosing happiness can lead to stronger relationships.
• 😀 Facing mortality can bring clarity about what truly matters in life.
• 😀 Regret often arises from time wasted on things that don't matter with people who do.
• 😀 The importance of being a great parent is central to living a fulfilling life.
• 😀 Embrace your human imperfections and focus on improving where it matters most.
• 😀 A life-changing experience offers the opportunity to reshape priorities and live differently.

Q & A

What was the initial cause of the incident the speaker experienced during the flight?

The speaker mentions that the plane likely hit some birds, which led to the situation where the pilot turned the plane around.

How did the speaker feel when the pilot said, 'brace for impact'?

The speaker felt a sense of urgency and fear, as the flight attendant's expression revealed terror, and the speaker could see the reality of the situation.

What was the first major realization the speaker had during the flight?

The speaker realized that life can change in an instant, leading them to think about the things they had postponed and the people they had not reached out to.

What did the speaker decide to do after realizing the urgency of life?

The speaker decided to no longer postpone things in life, choosing to act with a sense of purpose, symbolized by collecting and opening fine wines in the moment.

What regret did the speaker feel when approaching the George Washington Bridge?

The speaker regretted the time they had wasted on things that did not matter, particularly with people who did matter, reflecting on their relationships and mistakes.

How did the speaker handle negative energy in their life after the experience?

The speaker made a conscious effort to eliminate negative energy from their life, leading to a significant improvement in their relationship, including not having fought with their spouse in two years.

What was the speaker’s biggest fear as the plane approached the water?

The speaker feared the plane breaking into many pieces upon impact, wishing for a quick and fatal explosion to avoid suffering.

How did the speaker feel about death during the incident?

The speaker realized that death itself wasn’t scary, but they felt sadness at the thought of leaving their loved ones, especially not being able to see their children grow up.

What pivotal moment helped the speaker realize the most important goal in life?

After reflecting on the experience and witnessing their daughter’s performance, the speaker realized that their most important role in life was to be a good father, above all else.

What challenge does the speaker pose to the audience at the end of the speech?

The speaker challenges the audience to imagine the same situation happening to them and consider how they would change their lives, relationships, and approach to being the best parents they can be.