How A Man Processes His Feelings And Realizes You're The One (Or Pulls Away).

Elliot Scott
24 Mar 202208:14

Summary

TLDRDating coach Elliot Scott debunks the myth that men pull away to process their feelings when they like someone. He explains that emotionally available men who desire a relationship won't retreat but will communicate openly. Pulling away is often a sign of emotional unavailability or fear of commitment. Scott advises that if a man truly likes a woman and wants a relationship, he will avoid risking losing her and will invest in the relationship rather than playing games.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Attraction is crucial in relationships; without it, a man might not commit or invest in the relationship.
  • 🔗 The link to an ebook is provided for maximizing attraction, which is essential for a man's commitment.
  • 🚫 Contrary to a common myth, emotionally available men who want a relationship won't pull away to process their feelings.
  • 🧠 It's counterintuitive for a man to pull away when he's emotionally available and wants a relationship; it's a risk to the connection.
  • 🤔 Men are risk-averse, and pulling away when things are going well can create uncertainty and jeopardize the relationship.
  • 🚷 When a man pulls away, it's often due to emotional unavailability rather than a lack of attraction.
  • 💭 Men who are unsure about a relationship might pull away to avoid the risk of commitment.
  • 🗣️ Communication is key; a man who is emotionally available and wants a relationship will communicate his intentions.
  • 🚨 Pulling away can be a sign of uncertainty about the relationship, not necessarily about the person.
  • 💔 If a man truly likes a woman and wants a relationship, he won't risk losing her by pulling away.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the video transcript?

    -The main topic of the video transcript is how men process their feelings when they like someone and the relationship is potentially becoming more serious.

  • What does Elliot Scott, the dating coach, believe about men pulling away to process their feelings?

    -Elliot Scott believes that emotionally available men who want a relationship will not pull away to process their feelings. He suggests that it's counterintuitive for a man to pull away when he wants a relationship.

  • According to the transcript, what is the role of attraction in a relationship?

    -Attraction is described as the foundation of a relationship. Without enough attraction, a man might not invest, initiate, or maintain contact.

  • What does the dating coach suggest is the real reason men pull away in relationships?

    -The dating coach suggests that men pull away due to a lack of attraction or emotional unavailability rather than to process their feelings.

  • What does the term 'context' refer to in the transcript?

    -In the transcript, 'context' refers to the things a couple does and says over time that creates an atmosphere of seriousness or a relationship vibe.

  • Why does the dating coach say it's risky for a man to pull away when things are going well?

    -The dating coach says it's risky because the masculine energy is about providing, satisfying, and protecting. Pulling away can risk all of that and create uncertainty.

  • What does the dating coach mean when he says men are 'risk-averse'?

    -The dating coach means that men typically avoid situations that could lead to loss or harm, such as pulling away from a relationship that is progressing well.

  • What advice does Elliot Scott give for women who think a man is pulling away to process his feelings?

    -Elliot Scott advises that if a man truly likes a woman and wants a relationship, he won't put himself in a position to lose her. He suggests that women should consider that he might not want the relationship rather than assuming he is processing his feelings.

  • What does the dating coach suggest is the key to understanding a man's behavior in a relationship?

    -The dating coach suggests that communication is key to understanding a man's behavior in a relationship. If a man is emotionally available and wants a relationship, he will communicate his intentions.

  • What does the dating coach imply about high-value men and their approach to relationships?

    -The dating coach implies that high-value men are more likely to communicate openly and invest reciprocally in a relationship without playing games or pulling away unnecessarily.

  • What is the final message from the dating coach to women in the transcript?

    -The final message is that if a man truly likes a woman and wants a relationship, he will not put himself in a position to lose her. Women should be cautious of making excuses for men who pull away and consider that they might not want a relationship.

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الوسوم ذات الصلة
Dating AdviceEmotional ProcessingAttractionRelationship CommitmentMen's PerspectiveAvoidance BehaviorCommunication SkillsEmotional AvailabilityRisk AssessmentDating Dynamics
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