Your Questions Answered ❤
Summary
TLDRIn this heartfelt video, Tatiana Harvey addresses her audience with gratitude for their continued support despite her delayed uploads due to her busy schedule opening a business. She answers questions from her Q&A video, discussing her teeth whitening routine, her makeup, and her future plans, including her dream to visit Africa. Tatiana also shares deep insights on the lessons learned from her marriage, her current state of separation, and her evolving relationship with God, reflecting on forgiveness, selflessness, and the authenticity of her faith amidst life's trials.
Takeaways
- 🙏 Tatiana is currently in the process of opening a business and is focused on her personal growth and development.
- 📅 She apologizes for the delay in uploading videos due to her busy schedule and the inability to maintain a consistent schedule at the moment.
- 📺 The video is a response to a Q&A session held three weeks prior, indicating her commitment to engaging with her audience.
- 🦷 For teeth whitening, Tatiana uses a home remedy recommended by her friend Michelle, which involves baking soda and hydrogen peroxide.
- 💄 She expresses gratitude for compliments on her makeup and plans to do more makeup tutorials in the future.
- 🌍 Tatiana has no immediate plans to visit Africa due to the current global situation and her focus on her business.
- 💔 She shares lessons learned from her previous marriage, emphasizing the importance of selflessness, understanding, forgiveness, and compromise.
- 🔄 Tatiana is going through a divorce and is rediscovering herself, being unapologetic about her choices and enjoying the process.
- 🙏 She discusses her relationship with God, acknowledging the challenges of the past year and her belief in a forgiving and understanding God.
- 🎨 Tatiana reflects on her Christian upbringing and the pressures and expectations that come with it, advocating for authenticity in one's faith journey.
- 🌈 She concludes by expressing pride in her accomplishments during a difficult year and encourages viewers to ask questions for future videos.
Q & A
Why has Tatiana not been uploading videos consistently?
-Tatiana has been busy trying to open a business and focusing on personal matters, which has affected her ability to maintain a consistent video upload schedule.
What is Tatiana's method for teeth whitening?
-Tatiana uses a mixture of baking soda and hydrogen peroxide, a tip she got from her friend Michelle, and applies it on top of her toothpaste a few times a week.
Does Tatiana have any plans to visit Africa?
-Tatiana does not have any immediate plans to visit Africa due to the current global situation with COVID-19 and her focus on launching her business.
What lesson from her previous marriage has Tatiana found most valuable?
-Tatiana learned the importance of being selfless, understanding, forgiving, and compromising from her previous marriage.
How has Tatiana's relationship with God evolved during her separation and divorce process?
-Tatiana is going through a healing process and maintains a strong belief in God, acknowledging that her relationship with God is not cookie-cutter and that she is very realistic about her faith.
What is Tatiana's view on the Christian community's expectations?
-Tatiana feels there is a lot of pressure within the Christian community to conform to certain standards, but she believes it's okay to be human and have human experiences.
How does Tatiana handle her emotions during difficult times?
-Tatiana admits to having been angry and even cursing out her soon-to-be ex-husband, but she emphasizes that she does not hold any hatred towards him and believes in the importance of forgiveness.
What is Tatiana's current self-discovery journey like?
-Tatiana is rediscovering herself by doing things she wants to do and being unapologetically herself, enjoying the process of self-discovery.
What does Tatiana believe about God's understanding of human situations?
-Tatiana believes that God understands situations and the things people are going through, and that He is forgiving, loving, and compassionate.
How does Tatiana view the concept of grace in her life?
-Tatiana is a firm believer in grace but does not see it as a free-for-all to sin without consequences; she believes God understands and provides grace in different situations.
What is Tatiana's approach to handling the divorce process during the pandemic?
-Tatiana is focusing on her mental health and is proud of her accomplishments during this challenging time, acknowledging the trial as a significant part of her life.
Outlines
🙏 Apologies and Q&A Session
Tatiana begins by expressing gratitude for her audience's patience, acknowledging her delayed video uploads due to her busy schedule. She discusses her current focus on opening a business, which has affected her video upload consistency. The video is intended to answer questions from a Q&A session held three weeks prior. Tatiana answers a question about teeth whitening, recommending a method involving baking soda and hydrogen peroxide suggested by her friend Michelle. She also thanks a viewer for complimenting her makeup and expresses her intention to create more makeup tutorials.
🌍 Travel Plans and Personal Growth
Tatiana addresses a question about her plans to visit Africa, stating she has no immediate plans due to the ongoing pandemic and her focus on her business. She expresses a desire to visit Africa in the future. She then discusses lessons learned from her previous marriage, including selflessness, understanding, forgiveness, and compromise. She also touches on her current situation with her divorce and her rediscovery of self during this period. Tatiana reflects on her relationship with God, describing her faith as her foundation and expressing her belief in a realistic and authentic Christian journey that acknowledges human experiences and emotions.
💔 Divorce, Faith, and Personal Reflections
Continuing her discussion on her divorce, Tatiana shares her belief in unconditional love and selflessness, and how she has been trying to embody the qualities of a 'Proverbs 31' woman. She admits to losing some of her identity during her marriage and is now enjoying rediscovering herself. Tatiana also delves into her current relationship with God, emphasizing her belief in grace and understanding from God, and her acceptance of the human experience, including trials and emotions. She concludes by expressing pride in her accomplishments despite the challenges she has faced and invites viewers to ask more questions for future Q&A sessions.
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Keywords
💡Teeth Whitening
💡Baking Soda
💡Hydrogen Peroxide
💡Makeup Tutorials
💡Africa
💡Divorce
💡Selflessness
💡Compromise
💡Rediscovering Self
💡Grace
💡Authenticity
Highlights
Tatiana expresses gratitude for viewers tuning in despite the delayed video upload due to her busy schedule.
She is in the process of opening a business and is unable to maintain a consistent video upload schedule at the moment.
The video will answer questions from a Q&A session conducted three weeks prior.
Tatiana uses baking soda and hydrogen peroxide for teeth whitening, a tip from her friend Michelle.
She plans to do more makeup tutorials in response to positive feedback from viewers like Alexis H.
Tatiana has no immediate plans to visit Africa due to the ongoing pandemic and her focus on her business.
She shares lessons learned from her marriage, emphasizing the importance of being selfless, understanding, and forgiving.
Tatiana discusses the Christian values of forgiveness and compromise that she applied in her marriage.
She is currently going through a divorce but believes she did her best during the marriage.
Tatiana is rediscovering herself and enjoying being unapologetically herself post-separation.
She describes her current relationship with God as being in a healing process, maintaining her faith in Jesus.
Tatiana reflects on the pressures and expectations within the Christian community and her authentic response to them.
She acknowledges the human experience, including anger and frustration, as part of her journey.
Tatiana believes in God's understanding and forgiveness, recognizing that believers still face trials.
She takes pride in her accomplishments during the challenging year, including handling her mental health.
Tatiana invites viewers to leave comments for future Q&A and thanks them for watching.
She signs off with well-wishes for the holidays and an update on her social media activity.
Transcripts
hi guys it's me here tatiana
i just want to tell you thank you so
much for tuning in
i know this video is long overdue i've
been so busy
um this past month so i haven't had a
chance to actually upload like i said
that i would
i've been trying to open a business and
i'm just doing things for myself so i
apologize
and i can't even keep a schedule right
now like in regards to videos but once
i'm
able to i will upload consistently but
right now
i'm in crunch mode i'm on a grind so um
this video is pretty much going to be
the answers to the q a video
that i did about three weeks ago
so i'm just gonna turn the tv off
because this is kind of distracting me
there we go so
i didn't get much questions but i am
going to answer what i did get and i
think that they are
pretty uh good questions
so the first question is from sasha wise
she's all the way in the uk hi sasha
um the first question was what do i use
for teeth whitening um
my best friend michelle hi mimi
she uh recommended to me because she has
like
super pretty pearly white teeth and she
recommended to me using baking soda
and um hydrogen peroxide so
that's it i use that a few times a week
and so far so good
can't complain and i just like put it on
top of the toothpaste so that's like a
little hack from michelle thank you
michelle
and
up next we have this is not really a
question
but alexis h says
gorgeous love your makeup thank you
alexis
i'm gonna try to do some more makeup
tutorials let me know if you like the
ones that i have
uploaded so far then uh i have question
three
from
uh busy mikawena i'm not sure if i'm
saying the name correctly if i butchered
her name i'm really sorry
um plans of visiting africa
i don't have any plans right now of
visiting africa especially with
covet and all that stuff and i have like
my own thoughts on that
um but i would love to visit africa
someday in my future
you know um yeah but i don't have any
plans
any immediate plans or anything that i
foresee
right now because i am trying to open a
business and i do want to focus on that
and
just get my dream up and running the
next question is
also from you and it is can you speak
about the lessons you've got from your
previous marriage and where and where
are you now with god
so can i speak on the lessons that i've
learned
from my previous marriage
i will say one thing that being married
uh has taught me
is to be selfless to be um understanding
and forgiving and i think that i
i've always been forgiving because i
grew up christian and um that's just
something that my
my mom has instilled in me and just the
example of of god
you know jesus so there was that but
when you're married you're kind of stuck
with that person you sleep in the same
bed you do everything together in the
morning you wake up
and at the time when we were married we
did believe in not
going to bed angry with each other so um
we barely ever fought honestly but um
whenever we were not pleased with each
other we would try to talk about it and
and
try to not go to bed um angry because
that's biblical
and um yeah so also learn that
and that was a good thing um
putting someone else above myself you
know like
um you know sometimes you do things that
maybe you don't want to do because
you're
compromising and uh back in the day i
was not
necessarily the most compromising person
and previous relationships
so i definitely learned how to
compromise and um
what just happened ah
this is way too bright
i didn't expect this to happen maybe
i'll cut it out maybe i'll keep it i'm
like
what just happened i forgot i had this
in my lap
um gosh that was so bright
too bright all right i think
i think that's better anyway this is my
little glam core
uh remote thingy
that i didn't expect i forgot was in my
lap and that just happened
um what was i saying
yeah just taking care of someone else
you know putting someone else's feelings
above your own
compromising doing things that
you wouldn't normally want to do but
doing it for the sake of your partner
what other lessons have i learned
to love to love selflessly um
and in a sense of unconditionally yes i
am going through a divorce
but um i believe i did my very best that
i could
you know in my marriage when i was
married
um this year just
you know 2020 was quite a year for most
people and
that's that that was the beginning of my
um
separation and we've filed for divorce
and
here we are so um but yeah
what else did i learn
how to be a wife you know like i would i
used to always be like because i got
married so
soon so quickly um i didn't have any
like
marital experience before it was my
first marriage his first marriage
also i didn't grow up like seeing
marriages
you know um like a married household or
something
so i just had to learn everything as i
went and i was really trying to be like
a proverbs 31 kind of a woman
and um yeah um
with that you know sometimes like i did
lose a bit of myself
in some ways and so here i am now and
i'm
we are separated we have filed for
divorce we're going to that process
and waiting for the for it to finalize
um
but you know it is coveted so it takes
time
and i'm also at the same time i feel
like rediscovering myself i'm
doing things that i want to do and i'm
being myself
and i'm kind of unapologetic for it and
i'm really enjoying that
now to answer your question where i
where am i now with god um
i think i'm in a process i'm in a
healing process i love god and it always
will
there's like for me there's no other god
like he
is the one true god and um
i will always be a believer a follower
of jesus yeshua
whatever you want to call um
that's that's my faith that's you know
that's my
my solid rock that's my foundation so no
matter what i go through in life this
was the most traumatic year of my life
thus far
hopefully i don't have any more
traumatic years prayerfully
but my relationship with god right now
you know
i don't think i'm like cookie cutter
christian but who is you know
i think i'm very realistic about it um
i feel like i grew up in church my whole
life so since i was like four
four or five years old uh there's a lot
of pressure
you know even if it's not verbalized and
put upon you it's still a lot of
pressure in the christian community to
be a certain way
or if you're a wife to be a certain way
if you're not a wife
just christian fundamentals that are
are biblical but a lot of the times
there's a lot of things that are just
imposed upon us by other christians and
um that whole church body setting
that may not be so biblical and just
like extra forms of legalism
you know i think it's perfectly okay to
be human
and to have human experiences sometimes
we are human sometimes we get mad you
know like
i've barely but i've i've
cursed my husband out before my ex has
soon to be ex-husband
um and that's that's human you know uh
of course i apologize for it after
you know i i don't hold any uh uh hatred
of my heart towards him
but have i been pissed off heck yeah
i've been pissed off um
has he i'm sure you know um
do i what i'm trying to say is i don't
have a cookie-cutter relationship
right now i don't know if i ever will i
try to be as authentic
and i just feel like i go
this is a tough question because there's
so many different uh angles on this
but i'm a firm believer of grace and i
don't believe that grace is like
a free-for-all you can just do whatever
you want and you can sin all you want so
no
but i do believe that god understands
situations i believe that god
understands the things you're going
through like in my situation i may have
made
mistakes i may have not said the nicest
things
um you know i've tried to get along i've
tried all that stuff
and sometimes things get real sometimes
you're just like
you know you don't say the best things
or
you know you might post something online
the human experience is just that it's a
human experience you're always in
different stages of your life
you go through things you know and
i just realized i should have had the
camera the other way around
because this is going to come out odd
but whatever
um but yeah the human experience you
just go through different things you
you just i'm 31 right now i'm not going
to be
exactly the same with 32 and 33 and 34
and 35 et cetera
55 you know i was not the same person i
was when i was 21
10 years later here i am you know um
i believe that god is forgiving he's
loving he's compassionate he understands
us greater than we understand ourselves
um i
just because you believe in god it
doesn't mean that you won't go through
trials like
you know god never promises that you're
gonna go through trials and sometimes
it's going to make you stronger you know
um so this is a huge
trial for me gigantic trial and
so far i'm proud of myself i'm proud of
how what i'm accomplishing in short
periods of time
and covet and um you know
the levels that i try to take for my
mental health
you know it's a lot it's a lot to go
through a divorce in the middle of a
pandemic and
um yeah
when you you know you go through things
so
hopefully that answered your question
where i am with god um
i'm just myself i hope that answers that
um and the next thing is not
a question it is from jeffree and queen
and she says you're so gorgeous thank
you so that is all the questions i have
if you do have any other questions for
me leave a comment below
i'm so happy to answer them for you and
um
in my next video i will
do that i will answer so in the meantime
thank you so much for stopping by
checking out my video and listening to
me chat this is
oh my goodness this is a short video i
probably don't even have to edit it i'm
not going to edit it
anyway i love you guys so much don't
forget to follow me on all my social
media handles
i am tatiana harvey and um
see you later oh and happy holidays if i
don't upload before christmas
and i hope you guys had a good
thanksgiving let me know how your
thanksgiving was
happy holidays take care love you bye
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