Olivia Wilde USED Jordan Peterson and Shia LaBeouf

Summary

The video script discusses the film 'Don't Worry Darling' directed by Olivia Wilde, highlighting the film's aesthetic appeal but criticizing its narrative and character portrayals. It delves into the controversy surrounding the film, including Shia LaBeouf's departure and Wilde's alleged misrepresentation of Jordan Peterson as a villainous figure. The critique also touches on the film's exploration of societal expectations and the complexities of happiness within a simulated reality.

Takeaways

• 🎬 The film 'Don't Worry Darling' directed by Olivia Wilde has been surrounded by behind-the-scenes drama that has overshadowed the movie itself.
• 👗 Positive aspects of the film include its music, outfits, and 1950s setting, which are particularly appealing and evoke a sense of desire to live in Palm Springs.
• 🙄 Criticisms of the film focus on the insufferable portrayal of Harry Styles and Chris Pine's character, which seems to be filled with regret for his involvement in the movie.
• 🔍 The film's message is questioned, with the main character Alice discovering she's in a simulation and the real world revealing a less-than-ideal relationship dynamic.
• 💊 The plot involves a simulation where women are drugged and brainwashed into traditional roles, reflecting a commentary on societal expectations and gender roles.
• 🤔 Olivia Wilde's comparison of the film's villain to Jordan Peterson is disputed, as Peterson's philosophy is misrepresented in the movie's narrative.
• 📚 Jordan Peterson's work is about encouraging men to improve themselves and not about forcing women into traditional roles, contrary to the film's depiction.
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Peterson emphasizes the importance of men being good partners, parents, and members of society, advocating for self-improvement rather than resentment or entitlement.
• 💔 The film's portrayal of 'incels' or involuntary celibates is used to criticize a group of men who feel entitled to sex and blame women and society for their issues.
• 📢 Olivia Wilde's use of Jordan Peterson in the film's narrative is seen as a misrepresentation and a way to generate controversy and publicity for the movie.
• 🚫 The script discusses the controversy surrounding Shia LaBeouf's departure from the film and Olivia Wilde's handling of the situation, suggesting a lack of empathy and a rush to judgment.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video script?

The main topic of the video script is a critique of the film 'Don't Worry Darling' directed by Olivia Wilde, discussing its behind-the-scenes drama, the movie's message, and the controversy surrounding its director's portrayal of certain characters and real-life figures.

What is the significance of the baggage claim merch mentioned at the beginning of the script?

The significance of the baggage claim merch is not directly explained in the script, but it seems to be a promotional item or a product related to the video content, which the viewers are encouraged to check out through a link in the description.

What is the viewer's opinion on the film 'Don't Worry Darling'?

The viewer has mixed opinions on the film. They appreciate the music, outfits, and 1950s setting but criticize the performances of Harry Styles and Chris Pine, as well as the movie's messaging and handling of behind-the-scenes issues.

What controversy is mentioned regarding Shia LaBeouf's departure from the film?

The controversy mentioned is that Shia LaBeouf was reportedly replaced due to his on-set behavior, but he contradicted this narrative by stating that he was not fired and provided evidence of communication with Olivia Wilde indicating that he quit due to scheduling conflicts around rehearsals.

How does the viewer interpret Olivia Wilde's portrayal of the villain in 'Don't Worry Darling'?

The viewer interprets Olivia Wilde's portrayal of the villain as being based on Jordan Peterson, which they find to be a misrepresentation, as they believe Peterson's work encourages men to improve themselves rather than suppressing women.

What is the viewer's stance on Jordan Peterson's work and its relation to the film's message?

The viewer believes that Jordan Peterson's work is misrepresented in the film. They argue that Peterson's actual message is about self-improvement and addressing men's issues, rather than the film's portrayal of a system that drugs and enslaves women.

What is the term 'incel' as mentioned in the script, and how is it related to the film?

The term 'incel' stands for 'involuntary celibate' and refers to individuals, usually men, who feel entitled to sex and blame society or women for their lack of romantic or sexual relationships. The film is criticized for portraying the main villain as an 'incel' leader, which the viewer finds to be a misrepresentation.

What is the synopsis of 'Don't Worry Darling' provided in the script?

The synopsis describes 'Don't Worry Darling' as a film set in a 1950s-style town called Victory, where the protagonist Alice lives a seemingly perfect life until she starts noticing strange occurrences. The twist is revealed when it's shown that Alice is in a simulation, and in reality, she is a successful surgeon in a troubled marriage.

What is the viewer's critique of Olivia Wilde's handling of the film's promotion and behind-the-scenes issues?

The viewer criticizes Olivia Wilde for using the controversy surrounding Shia LaBeouf's departure and the portrayal of Jordan Peterson to promote the film. They argue that Wilde's actions appear to be more about virtue signaling and self-promotion rather than focusing on the quality of the film or supporting her cast.

What is the viewer's opinion on the film's exploration of the idea of happiness in a simulation?

The viewer acknowledges the film's exploration of whether a person can be happy in a simulation even if it's not real. However, they find the execution of this concept lacking, as the film's messaging and character portrayals are seen as problematic and misrepresentative.

How does the viewer connect the film's message to the current social landscape and Olivia Wilde's statements?

The viewer connects the film's message to the social landscape by discussing how Wilde's portrayal of characters and real-life figures like Jordan Peterson is used to make a statement about gender roles and societal expectations. They critique Wilde's approach as being more about promoting her own image rather than accurately representing the complexities of the issues at hand.

Outlines

00:00

🎬 'Don't Worry Darling' Film Critique and Behind-the-Scenes Drama

This paragraph delves into the release of the Olivia Wilde-directed film 'Don't Worry Darling', highlighting the film's appealing aspects such as its music, costumes, and 1950s setting, which contrasts with the negative reviews it received. The critique points out the film's lackluster performances, particularly of Harry Styles and Chris Pine, and discusses the intriguing premise of a simulated reality versus real-life dissatisfaction. The paragraph also touches on the film's controversial messaging regarding traditional gender roles and the influence of Jordan Peterson's philosophies, which the director claimed to have used as inspiration for the film's villain.

05:01

🤔 Misrepresentation of Jordan Peterson and Incel Culture in 'Don't Worry Darling'

The speaker challenges the film's portrayal of its villain as inspired by Jordan Peterson, arguing that Peterson's actual views are misrepresented. They clarify that Peterson advocates for personal growth and responsibility, rather than the enforced subjugation of women as depicted in the film. The paragraph addresses common misconceptions about Peterson's stance on monogamy, his male-dominated audience, and his views on feminism, emphasizing that Peterson's message is about self-improvement for men rather than reinforcing patriarchal structures.

10:03

🧐 Critique of Modern Dating Culture and its Impact on Gender Relations

This paragraph critiques the modern dating culture, particularly the impact of hookup culture and dating apps, which are argued to favor men and contribute to the rise of the 'incel' subculture. It discusses the societal shift towards casual sex and the different implications this has for men and women, suggesting that the sexual revolution has been more beneficial for men than for women. The speaker also touches on the negative effects of pornography and the challenges women face in a culture that encourages casual sex but simultaneously pressures them to suppress their natural instincts towards emotional bonding.

15:03

💔 The Disadvantages of Hookup Culture and the Need for Meaningful Relationships

The speaker continues the discussion on hookup culture, emphasizing its detrimental effects on women and the advantages it provides to a select group of men. They argue that this culture discourages meaningful relationships and fosters a sense of entitlement among men, leading to a rise in 'psychopathic' behavior. The paragraph also addresses the societal norms that encourage men to grow and evolve, suggesting that the current dating landscape undermines this process by rewarding short-term sexual gratification over long-term emotional connections.

20:04

🎥 Olivia Wilde's Controversial Casting Decisions and On-set Dynamics

This paragraph focuses on the controversy surrounding Olivia Wilde's casting decisions for 'Don't Worry Darling', particularly the dismissal of Shia LaBeouf and the subsequent fallout with actress Florence Pugh. It discusses the conflicting narratives between Wilde and LaBeouf, with LaBeouf providing evidence that he was not fired but chose to leave the project. The paragraph also hints at tensions between Wilde and Pugh, suggesting that Pugh felt unsupported during the filming process and was frustrated with Wilde's directorial approach.

25:06

📣 Critique of Olivia Wilde's Public Image and the Film's Promotional Tactics

The final paragraph criticizes Olivia Wilde for her handling of the behind-the-scenes drama of 'Don't Worry Darling', accusing her of exploiting the situation for promotional purposes. It argues that Wilde's portrayal of herself as a feminist and her use of Jordan Peterson's philosophy in the film are contradictory to her actions, particularly her treatment of Shia LaBeouf. The speaker also addresses Wilde's complaints about the focus on the film's drama, suggesting that her own actions contributed to this scrutiny.

Keywords

💡Don't Worry Darling

Don't Worry Darling is a film directed by Olivia Wilde, which serves as a central point of discussion in the video. The movie is set in the 1950s and explores themes of illusion versus reality, gender roles, and societal expectations. The script discusses the film's plot, the behind-the-scenes drama, and its controversial reception.

💡Olivia Wilde

Olivia Wilde is a filmmaker and actress who directed 'Don't Worry Darling.' In the video, she is discussed in relation to the film's production, her decisions as a director, and the controversies surrounding the film. Wilde's portrayal of the villain based on Jordan Peterson is a key point of critique in the video.

💡Simulation

The concept of a 'simulation' in the video refers to the plot of 'Don't Worry Darling,' where the protagonist, Alice, discovers that her seemingly perfect life is actually a fabricated reality. The term is used to explore the philosophical question of whether one can be happy in a simulated environment that appears to fulfill all desires but is not real.

💡Incels

Incels, or 'involuntary celibates,' are individuals, often men, who feel entitled to sex and blame societal structures or women for their lack of romantic or sexual relationships. In the video, the term is used to describe a group that the film's villain is said to represent, suggesting a critique of this mindset.

💡Jordan Peterson

Jordan Peterson is a Canadian psychologist and professor known for his views on cultural and political issues. In the video, Peterson is discussed as the supposed inspiration for the film's villain, which the video argues is a misrepresentation of his actual beliefs and work.

💡Feminism

Feminism is a social and political movement advocating for women's rights and equality. The video discusses feminism in the context of the film's narrative and the societal changes it has influenced, such as the hookup culture and the impact on gender roles.

💡Shia LaBeouf

Shia LaBeouf is an actor who was initially attached to a role in 'Don't Worry Darling' but later departed from the project. The video discusses the controversy surrounding his exit, with Olivia Wilde claiming he was fired due to his behavior, while LaBeouf disputes this narrative.

💡Hookup Culture

The term 'hookup culture' refers to casual sexual encounters that prioritize short-term pleasure over long-term commitment. In the video, it is discussed as a societal trend that has emerged from the sexual revolution and is critiqued for its impact on relationships and gender dynamics.

💡Florence Pugh

Florence Pugh is an actress who stars in 'Don't Worry Darling' and is praised in the video for her performance. The script also mentions a falling out between Pugh and Olivia Wilde, suggesting tensions on set and during the film's promotion.

💡Virtue Signaling

Virtue signaling is the act of expressing opinions or sentiments that demonstrate one's good character or moral stance, often for the purpose of gaining social approval. In the video, Olivia Wilde is accused of virtue signaling by firing Shia LaBeouf and aligning herself with feminist causes to promote her film.

Highlights

The film 'Don't Worry Darling' directed by Olivia Wilde has behind-the-scenes drama that is more interesting than the movie itself.

The movie features great music, incredible outfits, and a 1950s setting that evokes Palm Springs.

The film's protagonist Alice, played by Florence Pugh, is portrayed as extremely happy and in love with her husband Jack.

Alice begins to notice strange occurrences in the seemingly perfect town of Victory, leading to a twist revealing a simulation.

In reality, Alice is a successful surgeon and Jack is an unemployed and resentful husband.

The movie explores the dark side of a simulated utopia where women are drugged and brainwashed into traditional roles.

The character Frank, played by Chris Pine, is revealed as the architect behind the simulation, influenced by the ideas of Jordan Peterson.

Olivia Wilde's portrayal of the villain is criticized for misrepresenting Jordan Peterson's views on societal roles and gender.

Dr. Peterson's actual views encourage men to seek self-improvement and healthy relationships, contrary to the film's narrative.

The film's message is questioned, as it seems to argue against the idea of men helping other men become better partners.

Dr. Peterson discusses the negative impacts of the hookup culture and the advantages it gives to men over women.

The transcript examines the misrepresentation of Dr. Peterson's views on monogamy and his actual advocacy for meaningful relationships.

Shia LaBeouf's departure from the film and the controversy surrounding it are discussed, with LaBeouf claiming he was not fired.

Florence Pugh's falling out with Olivia Wilde is hinted at, possibly due to a lack of support during filming.

Olivia Wilde is criticized for using Jordan Peterson's name to promote her film without understanding his actual work.

The video concludes with Jordan Peterson's response to Olivia Wilde's comments, defending his work with disaffected young men.

Transcripts

baggage claim merch is officially live

so go check it out link is in the

description a week ago I couldn't help

but sit down to watch the Olivia Wilde

directed film don't worry darling and as

many people have already reviewed it on

YouTube you're probably aware that the

behind the scenes drama was a lot more

interesting than the actual movie itself

the film had some great aspects to it

like the music the incredible outfits

and the 1950s setting I mean it

definitely made me want to move to Palm

Springs and immediately start working on

my drinking problem and forget about

Meghan Markle because this is clearly

the Florence Pew moment beyond that

however I don't have a lot of positive

things to say about the movie since

Harry Styles is insufferable in it and

the ones incredibly handsome Chris Pine

seems to be contemplating what

ill-advised decisions he has made in his

life that have led him to this fresh new

health my favorite thing about the movie

is like it feels like a

it feels like a real life

so let's get into it let's talk about

everything wrong with the messaging of

the movie all the behind the scenes

nonsense like Shia LaBeouf's departure

and most importantly why Olivia Wilde

decided to base her villain on Jordan

Peterson who apparently is the hero of

incels now did you know that more on

that later if you haven't watched don't

worry darling well don't worry darling

here's a quick synopsis so spoiler alert

the movie is based in the 1950s Palm

spring-esque Oasis town called Victory

where everyone is stylish the parties

are wild the women are super into their

housework and the men perform a daily

synchronized drive to work our

protagonist Alice is extremely happy and

madly in love with her husband Jack

they're so Amorous in fact that I really

had to resist the urge to throw cold

water at the TV oh my God stop it move

the plot forward tell us something why

were the eggs empty I'm so confused

anyway the 5 min it's a day Alice is not

having sex with Jack she starts to

notice some wild things happening and

after what felt like hours of very weird

things happening with no explanation nor

any hints only Chris Pine's character

Frank giving some vague speeches we

choose to stand our ground to mine

that pure

unbridled

we're finally told that Alice is in fact

in a simulation real Alice and real Jack

live in current times where Alice works

all the time as a successful surgeon and

Jack is a resentful unemployed piece of

garbage who can't even decide on what to

order for dinner without guidance from

his mother I mean sorry his wife well

I'm starving I haven't eaten why not I

wasn't sure what you wanted and you

never text me back I don't have my phone

in the OR Jack

would it be nice to know that does he

not know that she's not just standing

around at work that being a surgeon

she's in surgery and can't check her

text messages well we did see earlier

that he doesn't know potatoes need to be

boiled before they can be mashed dear

God anyway in the real world Alice is

unhappy and so is Jack thankfully Jack

has been listening to a podcast by Frank

where he helps him to realize that the

only answer to the modern man's troubles

is to drug and brainwash women into

re-embodying their traditional roles in

the home while the men go out to work

upon discovering all this Alice kills

Jack Frank's wife kills him and says

this it's my turn now what does that

mean who knows no one knows what it

means but it's provocative and at the

end after quite the car chase Alice

escapes and that's it that's the end of

the movie The Meta question that Olivia

Wilde is asking with this movie is that

can a person be happy in a simulation

even if they have everything they want

but find out it's not real who is

actually brave enough to question A

system that really works for them in a

really amazing way a comfortable World

we're all really good at being

comfortable in bubbles and that's what

we were trying to kind of unpack well

Florence Pugh's character who Escapes Me

Alice Alice Alice goes down the rabbit

hole shall we say and she she questions

it she does brilliant performance she's

Sensational in this film and she is the

one who's brave enough to dismantle the

system that serves her and the main

message of the film is that the true

male fantasy is to put women back in the

kitchen where they can make the roasts

and hand them a drink when they come

home and toss said roast aside because

there's something else on the menu you

get to stay here

and you're happy

you happy now you know who the main

villain of Peace truly is it's the

incels or involuntary celibates I.E

heterosexual men who blame women and the

current structure of society for their

miseries and general sexual failure with

women which is why they have to drug

them to get them to play out the roles

that feel more natural thanks to the

influence of their cultish leader Frank

Frank is the architect behind this new

Utopia and yes the character that Olivia

Wilde said she modeled after Jordan

Peterson after calling Peterson a hero

to incel community wild described

insults as disenfranchised mostly white

men who believe they are entitled to sex

from women and they believe that Society

has now robbed them but the idea of

feminism is working against nature and

that we must be put back into the

correct place now if you're familiar

with Dr Peterson's work then you know

that he is far from an insult hero so

you're a young man and all the women are

rejecting you

who's got the problem

it's not all the women

that's a bad road to go down if all the

women are rejecting you it's you that

doesn't sound very pro-incile to me so

why would Olivia Wilde compare Frank who

is literally arguing for female

drug-induced enslavement to Jordan

Peterson it's clear that Olivia Wilde is

not familiar with his work what she

seems to be familiar with however is the

work of his self-proclaimed enemies that

have very intensely misinterpreted and

misrepresented his beliefs and in

relation to the topics covered in don't

worry darling there are three specific

ways that Dr Peterson is misrepresented

number one his comments on enforced

monogamy number two his audience being

comprised primarily of men number three

his comments about the feminist movement

if we look at the phrase enforce

monogamy without any context that sounds

like exactly the type of force coercion

of women that don't worry darling

portrays but what does it actually mean

and what does it have to do with Dr

Peterson you know I was pilloried a few

years back from my comments about

enforced monogamy because they were

taken out of context and twisted in

exactly the way that things like that

get twisted now but every what did you

mean by that

I mean that one of the one human

Universal is the construction of

societies to

both mandate and reward monogamy and

there's all sorts of reasons for that

it's because it's the best long-term

solution fundamentally but one of the

reasons for that is that when women are

scarce men get violent

now you know that was read to say well I

thought that this Society should be

Distributing women to undeserving men

which is of course absolutely is an

utterly preposterous and bears no

relationship whatsoever to anything I

ever said or thought or anything anyone

saying would ever think or say or has

ever thought or said because I don't

know anyone politically ever who was

insane enough to think that the state

should distribute women to men like

that's just never happened so to be

accused of that belief and then for that

too you know be put forward as a

credible representation of what I

thought was just one of the Preposterous

things that has happened to me it's an

unfortunate name enforced monogamy

because it's a term from anthropology

right but it what you mean is culturally

celebrated monogamy culturally and Norms

that are supporting people and raising

that ability supporting and punishing

both but mostly supporting I mean the

punishing is that there's there's a

moral uh disapproval

applied to say cheating

right to adultery to especially running

around behind your partner's back if

you're married particularly that but

even if you're even if you're in a

long-term stable relationship it's like

well that's all enforcement in his

comments about monogamy Dr Peterson is

not talking about forcing women but more

so encouraging men to seek out proper

long-term relationships and focus on

self-improvement why are weak men such a

problem

what weak people are a problem in

general and I don't mean physically weak

I mean cowardly let's say and deceitful

because I'm thinking it more in terms of

moral weakness well there's a variety of

reasons is first of all if you can't

support your own weight let's say

then someone else has to do it and

that's not good and then if you don't

make your pathway if you don't pick a

forthright and useful and Noble pathway

through life then you'll become bitter

and and and too hurt by the tragedy of

existence and then you tend to seek your

revenge wherever you can get it and

that's not good

so it's a it's a mistake on all fronts

it's not good for you it's not good for

your family it's not good for the

community let me ask for some dating

advice from Jordan Peterson how do you

find on that topic the love of your life

that's a good question

I was asked that multiple times but I

did to have a good answer and then I

thought

why don't I have a good answer

I thought oh I know why because that's a

stupid question

so so why yeah why

because it's it's putting the cart

before the horse here's the right

question

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how do I make myself into the perfect

date

you answer that question and you will

not have any problem answering the

previous question it's like

what I want in a partner mm-hmm

if I offered everything I could to a

partner who would I be the harder you

work on

offering other people what they need and

want

the more people will line up to play

with you so it's the wrong question it's

like how can I be the best partner

possible so you can see that Dr

Peterson's primary messaging is to push

men to evolve beyond their insecurities

resentments and weaknesses and become

better members of their society and this

brings me to the second point that

Peterson is often misrepresented or

attacked for the fact that he draws a

large male audience he used to often

feel defensive of this fact but in

recent years has come to wonder what

exactly is wrong with it why why do you

think so many young men are following

you because you you have you have a lot

of yours because I want your best for

them

genuinely

that I'm encouraging more than you do

for young women no no no why do you

think so many are young men I think that

young women are encouraged a lot which

is fine as far as I'm concerned but I

think that that's less true uh for young

men now because we believe that there's

something pernicious about male

competence and activity it's part of a I

suppose it's part of the notion that the

best way to characterize Western Society

is as a tyrannical patriarchy which is a

appalling Doctrine as far as I'm

concerned isn't it good that he is

speaking to disaffected men who are

generally growing up without any

encouragement or positive male role

models and his messaging to them isn't

that they should continue to be

resentful and angry or feel entitled to

women just for existing rather he takes

them to task aiming to encourage men to

be better better Sons to their parents

Partners to their women parents to their

children and better members of society

because truly Partnerships with weak men

make women deep unhappy as the movie

clearly showcases the impact of this

advice is incredible perfectly showcased

in the comments section of his videos

where men share their experiences of how

Dr Peterson helped them work on

themselves and improve their lives and

relationships and that's exactly what Dr

Peterson's two books 12 rules for life

and Beyond order are designed for to

give people a rubric for how to improve

their lives so to summarize Dr Peterson

is clearly identifying an important fact

weak men make for terrible partners and

create deep unhappiness for the women

they are attached to and that these men

need to look within and aim to earn the

trust and love of their Partners so

what's so wrong with that well a lot of

people feel that these men don't deserve

to be saved or helped since they are men

or as people would call them the enemy

so why should Jordan Peterson be helping

them and that's the question doesn't

incel deserve to be helped to be

encouraged to be better my guests here

from the tone of don't worry darling as

well as the Press interviews during the

promotions is that Olivia Wilde would

say no but I'll come back to this point

because we need to talk about the Third

Way that Dr Peterson is misrepresented

if Dr Peterson is insisting on talking

to and aiming to help struggling men

then that must mean that he is against

women at least that's the stance that a

lot of journalists have taken against

him trying to paint him as the ultimate

chauvinist out to bind women to their

kitchen stoves and restore men to their

rightful place but never once has Dr

Peterson made any such statement instead

I would argue that he is one of the few

voices that accurately articulates the

struggles that women are having with

modern men who are completely

ill-equipped for long-term relationships

our society has seen a massive rise in

hookup culture fueled by the

proliferation of dating apps as well as

the feminist movement attempts to break

down the stigmas of female promiscuity

but the truth is that hookup culture

hurts women and rewards men because it

gives men a free pass to use women

sexually and then move on to their next

Conquest meanwhile thanks to the sexual

Revolution women are told that they too

should be able to view sex just as

casually as men some something that as

the author Louise Perry discussed on

Chris Williamson's podcast is not

actually feasible what's wrong with this

sexual Revolution then

so my argument in the book is basically

that there are some really important

ways in which men and women are

different from one another one of those

differences for instance is that male

sexuality is different from female

sexuality on average that men are more

likely to be into things like casual sex

watching porn buying sex

um all things that have become much more

socially acceptable post-sexual

Revolution and my argument basically is

that

the sex Revolution was kicked off by the

pill and the which which did a pretty

good job of severing the link between

sex and reproduction and kind of gave

the impression that sex could just be a

Leisure activity that it didn't have to

mean anything it could just be sort of a

bit of fun and my argument is actually

that that idea that sex is just just a

bit of fun doesn't really mean anything

suit male interests much more than it

does female because casual sex in

particular is just one one men wanting

all the women do and two women carry all

of the risks associated with it like

physical risks like pregnancy and

violence and so on

um so Margaret basically is it's a bad

deal I'm a concerned for women I'm also

concerned for men I mean there's a lot

in the book about for instance the

really malign influence of porn on young

men like

that's in it superficial and short-term

way

great to be a really attractive man in

this sexual culture right you can

basically attract as many partners as

you like

you know consequence free sex is freely

available to you but I think actually in

the long run that's not a very

that's not a happy way to live your life

there's a whole genre of

um articles in women's in women's media

about encouraging women not to catch

feelings or I mean the way that it's

phrased is

um how anyone of any gender can not

catch feelings when they're having

casual sex and how to have casual sex in

like a fun feminist way etc etc but like

we know that women are much more likely

to bond quickly with their sexual

partners we know that they just much

less likely to like casual sex

um something that's a really interesting

and really marked difference between men

and women on average on in um sexuality

is women sexual disgust threshold is a

lot lot lower so women will get the ick

much easier than men will

but if you're going to participate if

you're going to have sex like a man you

have to overcome all of those instincts

right and so there's a this whole genre

of women's bags that will basically

like instructs their young readers

in how to suppress

their instincts and have sex that

actually they kind of know deep down

they shouldn't be having by the way if

you haven't watched this podcast please

do it's fascinating I will link it in

the description what's also interesting

about hookup culture especially through

dating apps is that it skews heavily in

favor of a small subset of men here's

Rob Henderson a PhD student in

evolutionary and Social Psychology

laying out the numbers so there's

there's three search basically showing

this so on Tinder uh women are they they

like you know swipe right they like the

profiles of only four percent of the men

that they see on the app whereas for for

uh men when they see female profiles

they swipe right or like more than 60

percent that's six zero sixty percent

many people have made the argument that

by loosening the Norms around marriage

it's actually been to the benefit of of

men in some sense you know to be able to

have lots of promiscuous partners with

many different women and perhaps

impregnate some of them and not have to

stick around there's no obligation to

them Beyond

that means that it's advantageous to

Psychopathic men

right dark Triad types well exactly

because you know the the Hallmark of

psychopathy is

short-term advantage taken by a given

individual without care for anyone else

and it certainly seems to me like dating

apps like Tinder now I don't I don't

want to call every male who's successful

on Tinder a psychopath I'm not saying

that but I would say that it isn't

obvious to me at all that

if you're a successful polyamorous male

on Tinder and so that's going to be a

very tiny subset of man

they're hyper selected by women a tiny

subset of men who re who receive almost

no rejection

they're set up to learn to be

Psychopathic because

all their interactions with other people

can be devoted to short-term sexual

gratification with no emotional intimacy

or long-term commitment and that's a

hell of a training ground this means

that the men who are highly desired by

women don't have the incentive to settle

down since they have unlimited options

thanks to the apps and the women get

fewer opportunities to engage in

meaningful relationships with men while

also being told that they shouldn't need

to or want to have meaningful emotional

connections meanwhile the rest of the

men who get rejected by the women on the

apps fall into the incel category and

people might say good that's what they

deserve why do they deserve a long-term

relationship with a woman if they don't

have anything to offer and that is

exactly the point that Jordan Peterson

is making with his comments about what

we're now going to Rebrand as Chris

Williamson put it as celebrated monogamy

where we as a society should push people

to engage not in Shallow hookups that

lead to all sorts of misery but

meaningful long-term relationships

precisely because of the positive impact

they have on individual growth we often

talk about the male gaze which is prone

to over sexualizing women but we never

talk about the female gays even though

it is the foundation for almost all

romantic films it has the power to make

a man incredibly self-conscious women

are the Discerning picky party we aren't

willing to just be with anyone men have

to earn our affections and this

gatekeeping that we do often as the very

positive effect of forcing men to grow

up and evolve from resentful immature

boys to competent confident men

ultimately giving men a focal point in

their journey of redemption a tale as

old as time so coming back to don't

worry darling here's why I would argue

that Olivia Wilde doesn't really believe

in the story of male Redemption and

that's because of how she used Shia

LaBeouf to Virtue signal during the

promotion of her film here's what she

had to say back in August during an

interview with variety I say this as

someone who is such an admirer of his

work she said his process was not

conducive to the ethos that I demand in

my Productions he has a process that in

some ways seems to require combative

energy and I don't personally believe

that that is conducive to the best

performances she continued I believe

that creating a safe trusting

environment is the best way to get

people to do their best work ultimately

my responsibility is to the production

and to the cast to protect them that was

my job Shia LaBeouf came out to

contradict the story stating that he was

absolutely not fired and even showed

proof of a video sent to him by wild

where she asked him to try to make it

work

reach out because

I'm not ready to give up on this yet and

I too am heartbroken and I want

out and

you know I think this might be a bit of

a wake-up call for Miss Flo and I want

to know if you're open to giving this a

shot with me

with us if she really commits if she

really puts her her mind and heart into

it at this point

and if you guys can make peace and I

respect your point of view I respect

hers but if you guys can do it what do

you think

is there hope is there hope you let me

know

he also shared a letter that he wrote to

Wild in an effort to clear up the

situation and for the sake of full

context I'm going to read out the entire

letter Olivia I hope this finds you

inspired purposeful fulfilled and well I

pray every night that you and your

family have health happiness and

everything God would give me no joke

every night before I sleep I have a

little girl Isabelle she is five months

old and just beginning to develop the

last half of her laugh it's amazing Mia

my wife and I have found each other

again and are journeying towards a

healthy family with love and mutual

respect I have embarked on a journey

that feels Redemptive and righteous

dirty word but fitting right to you now

with 627 days of sobriety and a moral

compass that never existed before my

great humbling that was the last year

and a quarter of my life I reached out

to you a few months ago to make amends

and I still pray one day that you can

find space in your heart to forgive me

for the failed collaboration we shared

what inspired this email today is your

latest variety story I am greatly

honored by your words on my work thank

you that felt good to read I am a little

confused about the narrative that I was

fired however you and I both know the

reasons for my exit I quit your film

because your actors and I couldn't find

time to rehearse I have included as a

reminder the screenshots of our text

exchange on that day and my text to Toby

I know that you are beginning your press

run for don't worry darling and that the

news of my firing is attractive

clickbait and I am still persona non

grata and may remain as such for the

rest of my life but speaking of my

daughter I often think about the news

articles she will read when she is

literate and though I O and will owe for

the rest of my life I only owe for my

actions my feelings with Twigs are

fundamental and real but they are not

the narrative that has been represented

there is a time and a place to deal with

such things and I'm trying to navigate a

nuanced situation with respect for her

and the truth hence my silence but this

situation with your film and my firing

will never have a court date with which

to deal with the facts if lies are

repeated enough in the public they

become truth and so it makes it that

much harder for me to crawl out of the

hole that I have dug with my behaviors

to be able to provide for my family

firing me never took place Olivia and

while I fully understand stand the

attractiveness of pushing that story

because of the current social landscape

the social currency that brings it is

not the truth so I am humbly asking as a

person with an eye towards making things

right that you correct the narrative as

best you can I hope none of this

negatively affects you and that your

film is successful in all the ways you

want it to be every blessing to you Shia

but while continued to stick by The

Narrative that she had fired Le buff and

being forced to choose her actress

repeatedly indicating that it was his

onset behavior that led to this fire

once it became clear that it was not a

tenable working relationship I was given

an ultimatum I chose my actress which

I'm very happy I did at the time was I

bummed that we weren't able to make it

work sure did information about him come

to light later that made me confident we

made the right decision absolutely but

text between Le buff and Pugh confirmed

that Florence P was never uncomfortable

with him but it simply came down to

availability to rehearse together

meanwhile wild complained that there

shouldn't be such a fixation on the

behind the scenes drama I don't feel

like my male directing colleagues are

answering questions about their cat I

would agree with you when in fact she

was the one who started up in the first

place by bringing up the fact that she

had to fire Le buff due to his onset

Behavior and the real irony of it is

that wild had a falling out with

Florence Pew with Pew making it very

clear that she would not be

participating in any of the promotions

for the movie the rumor is that the

reason for the falling out is that Pugh

did not feel supported when she asked

for resources during filming of intimate

scenes and was generally frustrated that

wild and Harry Styles who started dating

during the production would allegedly

run off together leaving Pew to manage

as the pseudo director so as much as I

understand Wild's frustration that her

male directors don't face the sword of

scrutiny I would argue that it's not

because of her gender but her blatant

ill use of people like Jordan Peterson

and child above in order to shamelessly

promote her film and that despite

knowing Shia and working closely with

him instead of having any empathy for

him or belief in his ability to redeem

himself she chose to stand on top of his

tattered reputation in in order to

Virtue signal and bolster her position

as the ultimate feminist and for that

she definitely deserves to be criticized

in closing I leave you with this clip of

Jordan Peterson sit down with Piers

Morgan where he was asked about Olivia

Wilde's comments the film director

Olivia Wilde has a new movie out which

yeah she says it's based on you this

insane man this pseudo-intellectual hero

to the in-cell community in cell being

these weirdo loner men uh who are

despicable in many ways is that you are

you the intellectual hero to these

people

sure why not you know

um

people have been after me for a long

time by because I've been speaking to

disaffected young men you know what a

terrible thing to do that is

thought the marginalized we're supposed

to have a voice

is making emotional talk about it well

God you know

it's very difficult to understand

how demoralized people are

and certainly many young men are in that

category and you get these casual

insults these these in cells is what

does it mean it's like well these men

they're they don't know how to make

themselves attractive to women who are

very picky and good for them women like

be picky that's that's your gift man

demand high standards from your man fair

enough but all these men who are

alienated it's like

they're Lonesome and and and they don't

know what to do and everyone piles abuse

on them

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