AFRICAN HOME: NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS | 2024

SamSpedy
21 Jan 202419:24

Summary

TLDRفي هذا النص يتحدث الأب إلى ابنه عوجو حول التغييرات المطلوبة في سلوكه مع بداية العام الجديد. يقترح الأب على عوجو الذهاب إلى معسكر الجيش لتعزيز الانضباط، ولكن الابن يعارض ذلك ويفضل الذهاب إلى الجد الكبرى. يبدأ الأب بإعلان قرارات جديدة تشمل جميع الأفراد في العائلة، بما في ذلك الانضباط واحترام الوالدين، وزيادة الهدوء والنشاط، والتقليل من الضرب. يطالب الأب أيضًا ابنه بكتابة رسالة قبل دخول أي زائر للمنزل. يشير النص إلى تحديات العائلة العادية، مثل العلاقات مع الأصدقاء والعلاقات العاطفية، وكذلك التحديات في تطوير السلوك المناسب والالتزام بالقرارات المشتركة. يتضمن النص أيضًا مقاطع من الموسيقى والضحك والتصفيق، مما يضيف للنص جوًا من الترفيه والتفاعل.

Takeaways

  • 🎉 **新的一年,新的开始**: 家庭成员希望在新的一年中有所改变,特别是对儿子Ojo的行为有所期望。
  • 🤔 **纪律与教育**: 父亲考虑过严格的纪律措施,如将Ojo送去军营,但母亲提出了不同的意见。
  • 👵 **奶奶的角色**: 母亲建议让奶奶来管教Ojo,但父亲担心这会使情况变得更糟。
  • 📝 **新年决议**: 家庭成员被要求为彼此制定新年决议,而不是为自己,以促进家庭和谐。
  • 🚫 **尊重与服从**: Ojo被要求更加尊重和服从父母,减少顶撞和无礼的行为。
  • 🤗 **更多的爱与关怀**: 妈妈希望得到更多的关注和爱护,她对去年收到的关心和礼物数量不满。
  • 🙏 **信仰与祈祷**: 爸爸决定今年要增加祈祷,提高自己的信仰生活。
  • 🏡 **家庭规则**: 家里制定了严格的规则,比如不允许未经允许的访客进入,以及不允许带入不明物品。
  • 🚫 **禁止暴力**: Ojo请求父母今年不要对他使用暴力,他希望被更温柔地对待。
  • 🍲 **烹饪创新**: 爸爸希望妈妈在烹饪上能更有创意,去年的饮食中碳水化合物过多。
  • 🎉 **惊喜与约会**: 爸爸为妈妈安排了一个惊喜的约会,这是他们婚后第一次正式的约会。
  • 💑 **恋爱与成熟**: Ojo向父母介绍了他的女朋友,并表达了他对这段关系的认真态度。

Q & A

  • 新的一年,父亲想要对儿子Ojo采取什么措施来改变他的行为?

    -父亲考虑将Ojo送去军营接受纪律教育,希望通过这种方式改变他的行为。

  • 母亲对于将Ojo送去军营这个想法持什么态度?

    -母亲不同意将Ojo送去军营,她认为应该将他送到奶奶那里接受更好的管教。

  • Ojo的父亲在新年决议中要求他做出哪些改变?

    -Ojo的父亲要求他在新的一年里更加服从和尊重父母,减少在家中的不敬行为,并且要更加冷静,不要冲动行事。

  • Ojo的母亲希望在新的一年里,她的儿子有哪些变化?

    -Ojo的母亲希望他能够更加独立,不要总是待在家里,而是要开始自己的生意或找到一些有意义的事情去做。

  • Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些对Ojo的具体要求?

    -Ojo的父亲要求他不能带未经允许的访客进入家中,并且要求他在带访客回家之前,必须写一封包含个人信息和签名的信。

  • Ojo的母亲在新年决议中希望得到哪些改变?

    -Ojo的母亲希望她的丈夫能更加关心她,包括给她买更多的东西,带她出去约会,去度假,购物,甚至是去美发沙龙。

  • Ojo的父亲在新年决议中对自己的要求是什么?

    -Ojo的父亲决定在新的一年里更多地祈祷,因为他认为自己去年的祈祷生活很贫乏。

  • Ojo希望在新的一年里,他的父母如何对待他?

    -Ojo希望他的父母能更加关心他,他希望被送进培训院校学习,而不是待在家里无所事事。

  • Ojo的母亲在新年决议中希望在烹饪上有哪些改变?

    -Ojo的母亲被要求在烹饪上更有创意,减少碳水化合物的摄入,增加蛋白质,并且尝试不同的烹饪方式。

  • Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些关于Ojo的访客的规定?

    -Ojo的父亲规定,任何访客在进入家中之前,都必须提供详细的个人信息,包括姓名、年龄、地址、籍贯、家庭背景、医疗史、血型和基因型,以及日期和签名。

  • Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些关于家中不允许带入的物品的规定?

    -Ojo的父亲强调,新的一年中不允许带入任何陌生或不明来源的物品,以确保家中的安全和秩序。

Outlines

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😀 New Year's Discipline and Resolutions

The first paragraph introduces a family discussion about the new year's resolutions, focusing on the son, Ojo. The father wants to see a change in Ojo's behavior and considers sending him to the Army Barracks for discipline. The mother suggests involving Grandma instead. The father then sets out new rules for Ojo, including obedience, respect, and calmness, and mentions a business venture set up for him by a contact named K. The mother is also asked to reduce physical punishment.

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😌 Expectations of Care and Change

In the second paragraph, the mother expresses her dissatisfaction with the lack of attention and care she received the previous year, asking for more spoiling in the new year. She also requests that the father improve his prayer life. Ojo is told not to bring visitors home without providing extensive personal information. The father asks Ojo to find something productive to do, while Ojo requests more care from his parents. The mother is asked to improve her cooking, and Ojo pleads for less physical discipline and more emotional care.

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🎉 A Date to Remember

The third paragraph shows the family celebrating the new year with a meal and prayer. The mother is surprised when the father takes her on a date, which is a rare occasion for them. They discuss their comfort in being together and the importance of cherishing the moment, despite any outside opinions. The father reassures the mother about their attire and the propriety of their behavior on the date.

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😠 Confronting Change and Visitors

In the final paragraph, Ojo brings home his girlfriend, which leads to a tense situation as the mother had previously banned visitors. Ojo defends his actions, stating his love for his girlfriend and his intention to spend his life with her. The father, trying to remain calm as per his new resolution, insists that the girlfriend leave immediately. The situation ends with a warning to Ojo about not bringing anyone into the house without permission and a reflection on the inevitability of change.

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Keywords

💡New Year

عيد جديد يشير إلى بداية عام جديد ويتم الاحتفاء به وإعلان الأهداف الجديدة. في الفيديو، يتحدث الأفراد عن تغيير سلوكهم وأهدافهم الجديدة مع بدء العام الجديد.

💡Discipline

الانضباط يشير إلى الانضباط والانضباط في السلوك. يشير النص إلى الانضباط كوسيلة لتغيير سلوك الابن وتحسين السلوك في الأسرة.

💡Army Barracks

معسكر الجيش يشير إلى مكان تدريبية للجيش. في النص، يُشير إلى معسكر الجيش كمثال على مكان يمكن فيه تحسين الانضباط والسلوك، على الرغم من أن الشخصية某一 غير موافقة على هذا الأسلوب.

💡Grandma

الجديرة تشير إلى الشخص الأكبر في العائلة التي يمكن أن تؤثر بشكل سلبي أو إيجابي على السلوك. في النص، يُشير إلى الجديرة كشخص يمكن أن يساعد في تحسين السلوك الشخصي.

💡Resolutions

القرارات تشير إلى الأهداف الجديدة التي يريد الأفراد تحقيقها. في الفيديو، يتحدث الأفراد عن قراراتهم الجديدة للعام الجديد، والتي تشمل السلوك والعلاقات الشخصية.

💡Respect

احترام يشير إلى الاحترام المتبادل والاحترام بالشخص. يشير النص إلى احترام الوالدين من قبل الابن وأهمية تطوير السلوك المحترم.

💡Business

النشاط التجاري يشير إلى العمل الشخصي أو العمل الجماعي. في الفيديو، يُشير إلى بدء مشروع تجاري جديد كخطوة لتحسين السلوك وتحسين الدخل.

💡Emotional

العاطفي يشير إلى الشعور والعواطف. يشير النص إلى الشخصية某一 كشخص عاطفيًا للغاية وتحتاج إلى معاملة حذرة ولطفة.

💡Pampering

الهواة يشير إلى العناية والاهتمام. في الفيديو، يطلب الابن من والده أن يعامله ب更多的 العناية والاهتمام، مما يشير إلى الرغبة في تحسين العلاقات الشخصية.

💡Creativity

الإبداع يشير إلى القدرة على التفكير الخارجي من الصندوق وإيجاد الأفكار الجديدة. يشير النص إلى الرغبة في زيادة الإبداع في الطبخ وتحسين نوعية الطعام.

💡Date

الموعد يشير إلى الاجتماع الشخصي بين اثنين من الأشخاص. في الفيديو، يشير إلى الرغبة في الخروج على الموعد كمظهر لتحسين العلاقات الشخصية وتجربة المتعة.

Highlights

A new year brings a desire for change in the family dynamic, with the father expressing his wish for his son, Ojo, to change his ways.

The father suggests sending Ojo to the Army Barracks for discipline, a notion the mother strongly disagrees with.

The mother proposes sending Ojo to Grandma for proper discipline, but the father fears it might worsen Ojo's behavior.

Ojo returns home and the parents discuss his New Year's outfit and plans for a party, indicating a lack of maturity.

The father insists on Ojo's obedience and respect towards his parents as part of his New Year's resolution.

The father also wants Ojo to be more calm and less confrontational, questioning Ojo's understanding of 'labor'.

A business venture is introduced for Ojo by the father, in collaboration with someone named K, to keep him busy and focused.

The mother expresses her dissatisfaction with the father's lack of attention and care towards her during the past year.

The father commits to praying more and improving his prayer life, acknowledging it was poor the previous year.

Ojo is given strict rules about visitors, requiring detailed information before any guest can enter their home.

The father emphasizes the importance of not bringing strangers or strange things into the house, for safety and security reasons.

Ojo is encouraged to find something productive to do, to distract him from his unserious life.

Ojo requests more care and attention from his parents, expressing a desire to be pampered and shown more love.

The mother is asked to improve her cooking, with a call for more creativity and a better balance of nutrients.

Ojo pleads for a more gentle approach from his parents, asking not to be hit or shouted at.

The father surprises the mother with a date, showing a willingness to change and improve their relationship.

The mother expresses her shock and delight at the unexpected date, indicating a positive response to the father's efforts.

A humorous moment occurs when the mother serves a surprising dish, causing the father to question her understanding of creativity.

Ojo introduces his girlfriend to his parents, leading to a tense situation as the father struggles to accept the change.

The father ultimately allows Ojo's girlfriend to stay, demonstrating a step towards being more calm and understanding as per his resolution.

Transcripts

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Fe it's a new year and I want things to

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change in this house starting from your

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son Ojo what do you want me to do

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anything possible even if we have to

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send him to the Army Barracks as long as

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he changes his way this year you want me

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to send my son to the Army Barracks so

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they can beat him to sto everything is

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still part of discipline I do not agree

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with that so what should we do left for

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me I think we should send him to Grandma

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so she can discipline properly did you

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just say

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Grandma it's not possible you know

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Grandma SP Ojo and you want me to take

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him there so when he comes back you'll

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be two times worse no thank you so what

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should we

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do

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[Music]

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yes Daddy happy New Year happy New Year

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Mama

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happy New Year happy New Year does this

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shoe go with my

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outfit where are you going M that's not

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the answer to the question I asked I

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don't care about the question you asked

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when I ask you a question you answer me

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I'm going to my friend's New Year party

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you should be ashamed of yourself you

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are going to a friend's New Year party

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when you have not planned how your own

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New Year will be Mama the new year will

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sort itself out the new year will not

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sort itself out now go and drop those

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shoes take off this shirt and wait for

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your mom and I in the living room

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[Music]

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[Applause]

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[Music]

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now you see what I'm

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saying

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[Music]

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you and every time tell

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I it's a new year and as always we list

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our new resolutions for the

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year this time around you won't be

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listing the resolutions for yourself but

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for others

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Ojo meaning you won't be listing the

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resolutions for yourself but for your

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mom and I the same goes to you Mama Ojo

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and the same goes to

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me I am going to

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start

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Ojo your New Year resolution is to be

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more obedient to your mom and

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I when we say no it is no and when we

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say yes it is yes also you have to be

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more respectful to your mom and I you

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have no right to treat or talk to your

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mom in any disrespectful

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manner M this year try to be more calm

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eh do you want to die

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young don't you want to reap the fruit

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of your

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[Music]

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labor tell me

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what

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labor me I can't see any labor what

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Daddy what am i m this is what I mean

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try to be more calm this year but that's

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the truth Fe me I can't see any labor

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God have mercy upon us also I want you

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to get busy this year you're always at

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home for me where else do you want me to

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be what do you want me to do outside

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Hulk on the street or start a POS

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business relax I am not saying you

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should Hulk on the street or start a POS

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business so what do you want me to do I

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have linked up with K and we have set up

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a business for you to start this

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year eh you should have said that since

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now thank you

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sir also M MO

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I want you to reduce the way you beat

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your son when scolding him reduce

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what tell me does he reduce the way he

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disobeys me in this house does he reduce

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the way he disrespects me in this house

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and you want me to reduce my

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beating maybe you will join him this is

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nothing

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manoke

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possible I understand and that is why I

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told told him to be more respectful and

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obedient this year this is the only son

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we

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have over to you

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m thank you Fe your own is not

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much number one Fe me try and spoil me

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this

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year spoil me don't I deserve to be

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SPO I can count the number of things you

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bought for me last year you never took

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me on a date you never took me on a

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vacation you never took me shopping you

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never even took me to a salon uhuh Fe

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and you see all your colleagues at work

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do all these things for their wives ahuh

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relax so please try and change this year

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relax it's enough I

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will also try and pray more this year

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your prayer life last year was very poor

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so please pray more this

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year and as for you Ojo no visitor of

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yours will step foot into this house

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until you have written a letter

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indicating is your name age address

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state of origin local government area

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family background family medical history

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blood group and genotype date and

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signature failure to do this we need to

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immediate evacuation of your guest am I

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understood are you playing

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Daddy I said am I

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understood yes

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ma' good also just as you will will not

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bring strangers into this house you will

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not bring strange things into this house

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this year I don't know who you got it

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from where and how you got it you will

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not bring strange things into this house

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am I understood before you know it now

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it's Godzilla he will bring into this

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house last and not the least this year

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you will find something productive to do

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with your life something that will

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distract you from the wayward un serious

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life you lived last

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year I rest my

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case over to you

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Ojo thank you

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sir

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Daddy just like Mama said this year I

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want you to take more care of

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me you tried your best last year but

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your best was not good enough you can do

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better also this year I want you to

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register me in any training school I

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would rather go to school than stay in

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this house doing nothing like some

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people you better don't stay in this

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house you

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better and as for you mama first of

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all can you be more vle in your cooking

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we had way more carbohydrates than

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protein last year if it's not rice it's

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spaghetti do you want us to have quash

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ah

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please try and be more creative in your

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cooking this year or we better get a

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chair

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daddy Mama this year I do not want you

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to lay your hands on me because I am a

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very soft and tender being it cannot be

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me you are talking to Mama it's you I'm

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talking to oh do not hit me or slap me

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for any reason this

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year

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okay also

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Mama this year can you try not to raise

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your voice at me

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I am a very emotional being I said it

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cannot be me you are talking to it can't

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I don't like it when you shout when you

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shout it's like a vocanic eruption so

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please try not to erupt Me with Your

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Voice this

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year last and not the least Mama this

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year Papa me treat me like an

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egg don't I deserve to be pampered not

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only pamper Pampers show me more love

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this year mama show me more affection

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and

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compassion show me what it feels like to

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be the only son a precious

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stone mama show me more

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[Music]

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love no no no no no no no no no no

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nonsense you better show yourself more

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sense this year

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now that we have known our New Year

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resolutions for us to have a prosperous

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year we have to abide by the

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resolutions Ojo am I

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understood yes sir M Fe yes

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good have a wonderful

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[Music]

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year

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[Music]

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12:00

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[Music]

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midnight

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Jesus is

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[Applause]

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Lord next

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m

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let us

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pray Lord bless this food amen amen

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amen

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Jesus

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mama what is

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this

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Brin Mama this is not the kind of

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creativity I was talking about Lord have

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mercy B A

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[Music]

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[Applause]

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it

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mama is there rice or

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spaghetti

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[Music]

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find Mama please go and wear your shoes

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we are going out where are we going I'm

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taking you on a date eh what did you say

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I'm serious tell me you take me on a

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date what's today's date go and wear

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your shoes I already booked a

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reservation and we running late are you

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serious I'll be in the car

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[Laughter]

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eh you better pick the Beats before I

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come back I'm

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coming

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[Music]

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which kind boy this which kind be

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[Music]

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this

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[Music]

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mamao are you okay

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Fe how do you expect me to be okay

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what's wrong this is the first time you

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are taking me on a date since our

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wedding day I don't even know if I'm

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wearing the the proper outfit for this

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date I don't know if this is how I'm

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supposed to sit feel me I don't even

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know Jo

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relax okay of course you wearing the

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proper outfit for a date of course you

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sitting

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properly don't care about what anyone

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here thinks because this moment is for

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us to share so let's let's cherish it

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okay eat your food

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Mom everything

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okay sir everything okay thank

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you come

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on Tracy yeah relax

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okay you don't have to worry about my

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parents

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this moment is for us to

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share let's cherish it are you sure and

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set it okay all right you know you can

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be prosecuted for that Cheers

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[Music]

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[Applause]

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[Music]

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[Applause]

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[Music]

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Cheers

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oh

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oh now where drive with there you go

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find

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out

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[Music]

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what did I tell you about bringing

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visitors to this house this year mama

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you said

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visitor but this is no

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visitor this is my

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girlfriend your

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girlfriend let

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me mamao at some point we need to let go

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oo is no longer a child stop it tell me

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excuse

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Jus so you are now big enough to have a

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girlfriend this is how you want to start

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your year

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mama I love her and I would love to

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spend the rest of my life with

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her 16 years

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your father told me to be more calm this

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year and I am really really really

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trying to be calm but do not push me to

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the

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wall now tell your friend to leave this

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house this moment before I evacuate her

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from this house myself would you please

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let me just go let me just go please

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would you

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please let me know when you get home

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okay no

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problem

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I am going to let this one slide but let

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this be the last time you slide anyone

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into this house again this is your last

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warning you can never

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change

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yes I can never change do you know why

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because change they say is a constant

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thing and I

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M refuse to be

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[Music]

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constant

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I heard something wait hold on you huh

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don't leave me me I need your help I

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need your help there's nothing you can

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tell me there's some in this house

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I

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me I smell goodat

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[Music]

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meat

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