Video Simulasi M 5 KB 1 Terapi Konseling Person Centered

Summary

Max is struggling with escalating issues in his marriage to Angelina, where her volatile anger and controlling behavior are affecting their family life. The situation has become more intense, especially with their children witnessing the emotional turmoil. Max is deeply concerned about the impact on their kids and has even considered leaving to reduce the tension. However, he is committed to preserving the family structure and working toward restoring peace. The session explores his emotional turmoil, his desire for a peaceful home, and his willingness to seek external support to resolve the conflict.

Takeaways

• 😀 Max feels uncomfortable discussing personal issues with a stranger but acknowledges the need for help due to the severity of his relationship problems.
• 😀 Max usually tries to solve problems on his own but recognizes that seeking an outside perspective could be beneficial.
• 😀 Max is deeply concerned about the impact of his troubled relationship with Angelina on their children, especially Jackie.
• 😀 The conflict in Max's marriage with Angelina has escalated recently, with her behavior becoming more volatile and unpredictable.
• 😀 Max feels that the constant tension in the home is negatively affecting his children, particularly Jackie, who seems more sensitive to the stress.
• 😀 Max describes walking on eggshells at home, trying to avoid triggering any outbursts from Angelina, which has created a tense and unhealthy environment.
• 😀 The anger and volatility in the relationship have begun to affect Max's work, as he finds himself preoccupied with home life during work hours.
• 😀 Max has considered leaving the relationship to protect the children from the volatile environment, but he finds this to be a difficult and threatening option.
• 😀 Despite his frustrations, Max is committed to doing what he can to restore peace and harmony in the family for the sake of the children.
• 😀 The therapist listens empathetically to Max's concerns, acknowledges his devotion to his children, and offers continued support in working through the relationship challenges.

Q & A

What is Max's primary concern in his relationship with Angelina?

Max's primary concern is the increasing volatility and anger in his relationship with Angelina, particularly how it negatively impacts their children, especially Jackie.

How does Max feel about discussing his relationship problems with a stranger?

Max feels uncomfortable and embarrassed discussing such personal issues with someone he perceives as a stranger, which makes it difficult for him to open up.

Why did Max decide to seek counseling despite initially preferring to handle things on his own?

Max realized that the problems in his relationship with Angelina had escalated beyond what he could handle alone, and he needed an outside perspective to find solutions.

What role do the children play in Max's decision to seek help?

Max is deeply concerned about the emotional impact of the volatile relationship on their children, especially Jackie, and is motivated to seek help to provide a stable and peaceful environment for them.

How has Angelina's behavior changed over time, according to Max?

Max describes that Angelina's behavior has become more volatile and explosive over time. She used to be able to control her anger, but now it has become more frequent and intense, leading to increased conflict.

How does Max describe the atmosphere at home due to the tension in his relationship with Angelina?

Max describes the home environment as tense, with the family walking on eggshells, constantly anticipating another emotional outburst from Angelina, creating a very unhealthy atmosphere for the children.

What incident made Max especially concerned about the impact on the children?

Max recalls an incident when he came home late, and Angelina erupted in a tirade of abuse, with both children being present. He was particularly concerned about the negative effect this outburst had on Jackie.

How does Max feel about the possibility of leaving the relationship?

Max has thought about leaving the relationship as a potential solution to stop the emotional chaos, but he is unsure, as he feels it would be a drastic step that might disrupt the children's lives even more.

How has the ongoing conflict between Max and Angelina affected Max's work life?

Max mentions that the conflict at home has started to affect his work performance, as he often finds himself distracted by thoughts about how to fix things at home, leading to difficulties in focusing on his job.

What does the counselor say about the common experience of discomfort when seeking therapy?

The counselor reassures Max that it is normal to feel uncomfortable when discussing personal issues with a therapist, as many people initially feel uneasy but often find relief as they continue to talk and work through their problems.