Body Language of Narcissistic and Psychopathic Abuser
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the subtle yet observable signs of narcissistic abuse. It highlights behaviors such as haughty body language, entitlement, idealization followed by devaluation, and a facade of membership. Abusers are characterized by their excessive self-importance, manipulative tendencies, and lack of empathy. The script emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signals to avoid the emotional turmoil and hurt caused by such individuals. It also touches on the abuser's self-deprecating humor, grandiosity, impatience, and their tendency to mistreat those closest to them while maintaining a composed facade to the outside world.
Takeaways
- 🧐 Abusers often exhibit haughty and arrogant body language, implying superiority and maintaining a distance from others.
- 🤔 Abusers tend to show entitlement, demanding special treatment and showing impatience when not immediately gratified.
- 🎭 They frequently shift responsibility for their failures and choices onto others, avoiding accountability for their actions.
- 🌟 Abusers idealize and then devalue others, using flattery and admiration to manipulate and control interactions.
- 🔍 They often adopt a 'membership posture,' seeking admiration for their perceived uniqueness while maintaining an outsider stance.
- 💬 Abusers prefer superficial showmanship over substance, often exaggerating their intelligence or accomplishments.
- 🗣️ Their speech is characterized by high pronoun density, with excessive self-reference and boastful descriptions.
- 🤷♂️ Abusers are often uninterested in others, showing disdain or anger if they feel their time is being wasted.
- 😡 They react with rage or detachment when confronted with their emotions or required to delve into their motives and needs.
- 🕊️ Despite a serious demeanor, abusers may possess a sharp sense of humor, but it is rarely self-deprecating or empathetic.
- 🏆 Abusers view themselves as on a grand mission with cosmic importance, often inflating their achievements and fantasies.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is identifying and understanding the behavior and characteristics of narcissistic abusers.
What are the subtle signals that narcissistic abusers emit according to the script?
-Narcissistic abusers emit subtle signals through their body language, such as haughty and arrogant postures, maintaining piercing eye contact, and keeping personal territory around them.
How do narcissistic abusers behave in social interactions?
-In social interactions, narcissistic abusers often adopt a condescending attitude, prefer to remain observers or 'lone wolves,' and may feign gregariousness without genuine social mingling.
What is an entitlement marker according to the script?
-An entitlement marker is a behavior where abusers immediately ask for special treatment, such as not waiting their turn, wanting to talk directly to authority figures, and expecting custom-tailored arrangements.
How do narcissistic abusers handle responsibility for their actions?
-Narcissistic abusers tend to shift responsibility for their own needs, failures, and choices onto others or the world at large, often using sentences like 'you made me do it.'
What is the pattern of idealization followed by devaluation as described in the script?
-The pattern of idealization followed by devaluation refers to the behavior where abusers excessively flatter, admire, or applaud their targets, and when rebuffed, they sulk, abuse, and humiliate the same targets.
How do abusers maintain their stance as outsiders while trying to belong?
-Abusers maintain their stance as outsiders by seeking admiration for their disability to integrate, using obscure professional terms to show off their intelligence, and preferring show-off to substance.
What is meant by the term 'pronoun density' in the context of the script?
-Pronoun density refers to the excessive use of the pronouns 'I' and 'mine' by abusers in their speech, indicating self-focus and a tendency to describe themselves as extraordinarily intelligent, rich, or creative.
How do narcissistic abusers use language to distance themselves from others?
-Narcissistic abusers use emotion-free language, talk excessively about themselves, and show little interest or reciprocity in others' lives, often acting disdainful or angry if they feel their time is being intruded upon.
What are some common behaviors of abusers when they feel their weaknesses are exposed?
-When abusers feel their weaknesses are exposed, they may react with rage, detachment, or sadistic humor, and they often distance themselves from their emotions and loved ones by alienating and hurting them.
How do narcissistic abusers perceive their own importance and mission in life?
-Narcissistic abusers perceive themselves as being on a constant mission of cosmic importance and global consequence, often having grandiose fantasies and impossible schemes that they believe are of great significance.
How do abusers treat those who are not intimately close to them compared to their nearest and dearest?
-Abusers mistreat their closest and nearest, such as family members and children, while appearing composed, rational, and functioning to the rest of the world, effectively casting a veil of secrecy over their dysfunction and misbehavior.
Outlines
👑 Narcissistic Abusers' Behavior and Tactics
This paragraph discusses the subtle and observable signs of narcissistic abusers. It highlights their haughty and arrogant body language, which includes a posture that exudes superiority and a tendency to maintain piercing eye contact while keeping personal space. Abusers often demand special treatment and show entitlement, expecting preferential arrangements and showing disdain for those they deem inferior. They may idealize or devalue others, and their politeness is often superficial, only present when seeking a new victim or collaborator. Abusers also adopt a membership posture, seeking admiration for their supposed uniqueness while maintaining an outsider stance. They prefer showmanship over substance and are often shallow, pretending to be knowledgeable in various fields without genuine expertise.
🎭 The Facade of the Narcissistic Abuser
The second paragraph delves into the exaggerated self-image of narcissistic abusers, who constantly brag and boast about their intelligence, wealth, and success, often using a high pronoun density in their speech. Their biographies are filled with grand but implausible achievements that do not align with their actual conditions. Abusers are prone to name-dropping and appropriating others' experiences as their own. They tend to be self-focused, using emotion-free language and showing little interest in others unless it serves their narrative. Abusers are impatient and easily bored, requiring constant attention and often intellectualizing or rationalizing their actions. They may react violently when challenged and distance themselves from their emotions and loved ones, often using humor that is scathing and cynical but never self-deprecating. Abusers perceive themselves as on a mission of cosmic importance and are easily insulted, interpreting even innocuous remarks as belittling or coercive.
🤔 The Abuser's Social Disguise and Dysfunction
The final paragraph examines the social behavior of abusers, who, despite their lack of empathy and sense of entitlement, do not appear as social misfits due to their selective mistreatment of close ones. Abusers are adept at maintaining a facade of secrecy, often with the help of their victims, who may cover up their dysfunction and misbehavior. They are skilled at deception, portraying themselves as composed and rational to the outside world. Abusers may engage in reckless and self-destructive behaviors, such as substance abuse or reckless driving, and often have an inappropriate sense of humor, finding obnoxious or heinous acts funny or gratifying. They may also be sexually deviant, enjoying torment and hurting others, often with a sadistic twist.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Narcissism
💡Abuser
💡Body Language
💡Entitlement
💡Idealization and Devaluation
💡Membership Posture
💡Pronoun Density
💡Emotion-Free Language
💡Impatience
💡Sadism
💡Grandiosity
Highlights
Abusers emit subtle, almost subliminal signals in their body language.
Narcissists adopt a haughty and arrogant body language, implying superiority.
Abusers maintain piercing eye contact but avoid physical proximity.
Narcissists seek special treatment and avoid waiting their turn.
Abusers display entitlement and expect custom tailored arrangements.
Narcissists shift responsibility for their failures onto others.
Abusers idealize or devalue others based on their own needs.
Narcissists are polite only in the presence of potential victims.
Abusers try to belong while maintaining an outsider stance.
Narcissists use obscure professional terms to appear intelligent.
Abusers prefer showmanship over substance.
Narcissists never admit to ignorance despite being typically ignorant.
Abusers brag incessantly, using a high pronoun density in their speech.
Narcissists' biographies are filled with exaggerated achievements.
Abusers name-drop and appropriate others' experiences as their own.
Narcissists use emotion-free language and talk only about themselves.
Abusers are impatient and easily bored, seeking constant attention.
Narcissists intellectualize and rationalize, often speaking in third person.
Abusers get enraged when required to delve into their emotions.
Narcissists regard themselves as on a constant mission of cosmic importance.
Abusers are easily insulted and interpret remarks as belittling.
Narcissists believe their time is more valuable than others'.
Abusers find the obnoxious, heinous, or shocking funny or gratifying.
Narcissists are sexually set up as mystics, deviants, or with alter erotic interests.
Abusers mistreat only their closest and dearest, appearing composed to others.
Narcissists are adept at casting a veil of secrecy over their dysfunction.
Transcripts
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author of malignant self-love narcissism
revisited abuses emit subtle almost
subliminal signals in their body
language but these are observable
indiscernible learn to read the abusers
body language serve yourself a world of
trouble and of hurt the first time is a
haughty arrogant body language the
abuser adopts a physical posture which
implies and exudes an air of superiority
seniority hidden powers mysteriousness
unused indifference though the abuser
usually maintains sustained and piercing
eye contact he often refrains from
physical proximity he keeps a personal
territory around him abusers take part
in social interactions even near banter
but they do so condescendingly
from a position of supremacy and fault
magnanimity enlarges even when the
abuser feigns gregariousness he rarely
mingles socially he prefers to remain
the observer or the lone wolf the second
sign is entitlement marker abusers
immediately ask for special treatment
they don't want to wait their turn they
want to have a longer or shorter for a
creative session they want to talk
directly to authority figures and no two
assistants or secretaries they want to
be granted special payment terms they
want to enjoy a custom tailored
arrangements this goes well with the
abuses I love plastic defenses his
tendency to shift responsibility to
others or to the world at large for his
own needs failures heavier CH choices
mishaps missteps
the sentence must be landed on abusers
is not what you made me do the abuser is
the one who vocally in Tim in a
demonstratively demands the undivided
attention of the head waiter in a
restaurant monopolizes the hostess or
latches on to celebrities in a party the
abuser reacts with ragin indignantly
when denied his wishes and when treated
the same as others whom he always deemed
inferior have users frequently and
embarrassingly dressed down service
providers such as cab drivers the next
sign is idealization followed by
devaluation abusers instantly idealize
or devalue their interlocutors they
flatter add or admire and applaud the
target in an embarrassingly exaggerated
and profuse manner or when rebuffed they
sulk the abused and humiliated abuses
are polite only the presence of a
potential would-be victim and made
collaborator in other words the source
of law statistics of life but they are
unable to sustain even perfect or a
civility in very fast deteriorate to
Barb's and Feeny evaders Timothy to
verbal or other violent displays of
abuses rage attacks or old detachment or
to sadistic humor then there is the
membership posture abusers always try to
belong
yet at the very same time the abuser
maintains his stance is an outsider the
abuser seeks to be admired for
disability to integrate and ingratiate
himself but without investing the
efforts which are commensurate with such
undertaking for instance if the abuser
talks to a psychologist or therapist the
abuser first states emphatically that he
never studied psychology but then
to make seemingly effortless use of
obscure professional terms thus
demonstrating that he mustered the
discipline all the same and this is
supposed to prove that he is
exceptionally exceptionally intelligent
or introspective in other ways superior
in general abusers always prefer
show-off to substance one of the most
effective methods of exposing an abuser
is by trying to delve deeper the abuser
is shallow he is a pond pretending to be
an ocean he likes to think of himself as
a Renaissance man a jack-of-all-trades
or a genius abusers never admit to
ignorant all true failure in anything
yet typically they are ignorant and they
are losers
it is surprisingly easy to penetrate the
gloss in the veneer of the abusers
self-proclaimed omniscience success
wealth and omnipotence abusers brag and
boast they do so incessantly an abusive
speech is peppered with I mind myself
and mine this is called pronoun density
abusers describe themselves as
intelligent of rich or modest or
intuitive or creative but always
excessively always implausibly always
extraordinarily so the abuses biography
summons you unusually rich and complex
these achievements are in commensurate
with his age with his education or
Wheatley's renown yet his actual
condition is evidently and demonstrably
incompatible with his claims very often
the abusers lives of fantasies are
easily discernible he always named drops
that appropriates other people's
experiences and accomplishments as his
own abusers use emotion free language
they like to talk about themselves and
only about themselves if the abuser is
not interested in others or
they have to say he shows it he's never
reciprocal he acts disdainful even angry
if he feels an intrusion on his precious
time in general abusers are very
impatient
easily bored with strong attention
deficits unless and until they become
the topic of discussion one can dissect
all aspects of the intimate life of the
abuser providing the discourse is not
emotionally tainted if us to relate
directly to his emotion the abuser
intellectualize rationalizes speaks
about himself in the third person in a
detached scientific tone or composes a
narrative with a fictitious character in
it suspiciously autobiographical most
abusers get enraged when required to
deliver deeper into their motives fears
hopes wishes and needs they use violence
to cover up their perceived weaknesses
in sentimentality they distance
themselves from their own emotions and
from their loved ones by alienating and
hurting them finally abusers are serious
if they are dead serious about
themselves the abuser may possess a
fabulous sense of humor scathing and
cynical but rarely is his
self-deprecating the abuser regard
himself as being on a constant mission
whose importance is cosmic and whose
consequence is a global if the abuser is
aside this is always in the throes of
revolutionary insights if he's a
journalist is in the middle of the
greatest story ever if he's an aspiring
businessman he's on the way to
concluding the deal of the century woe
betide those who doubt his grandiose
fantasies and impossible schemes and
claims this self misperception is not a
minimal to lightheadedness or
self-effacement
the abuser is easily parrot and insulted
even the most innocuous remark or act
are interpreted by the abuser as
belittling intruding or coercive slicin
demands
the abusers time is more valuable than
other people's therefore it cannot be
wasted on highly important methods such
as social intercourse family obligations
household chores inevitably the abuser
fields constantly misunderstood in
underestimate any suggested help advice
or concerned inquiry are immediately
Catford the abuser is intentional
humiliation implying that the abuser is
in need of help and counsel and
therefore imperfect any attempt to set
an agenda is to the abuser and
intimidating act of enslavement in this
sense the abuser is both Skiz rates
avoid company impairment abuses are
sometimes statistic and they have
inappropriate effect in other words they
find the obnoxious the he heinous the
shocking funny or even gratifying they
are sexually set up as a mystic or
deviant or alter erotic they like to
talk to torment and to hurt people treat
people's feelings they are they do it
sometimes humorous or with bursting
honesty but it stays sadistic while some
abuses are stable and conventionals
other er are antisocial the impulse
control is called
they are very reckless self-destructive
simply fitting and just plain
destructive the engaging war communism
alcoholism drug abuse ethological
gambling compulsory shopping or reckless
driving in this the lack of empathy the
aloofness disdain the sense of
entitlement the restricted application
of humor the unequal treatment the
sadism and the paranoia do not render
the abuser a social misfit this is
because the abuser mistreats only his
closest his nearest and supposedly
dearest he abuses his fellows his
children or more rarely colleagues
friends and neighbors to the rest of the
world those who don't know him
intimately the abuser appears to be
composed rational and functioning abuses
a very adept at casting a veil of
secrecy often with the
debate of the ratings over there
dysfunction and misbehavior the great
actors and they succeeded in deceiving
the entire world or people all the time
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