Can I correct people if they're doing smth wrong even if I don't have much knowledge Assim al hakeem

Summary

In this video script, the speaker reassures Nasra, who is concerned about offering advice on the importance of praying on time, despite feeling lacking in knowledge. The speaker emphasizes that anyone with knowledge on a subject, even if limited, can offer advice. However, they should do so with wisdom, ensuring that the timing and approach are appropriate. The speaker also stresses the need for tolerance when facing backlash, drawing inspiration from the Prophet Muhammad's example of patience in the face of ridicule. The overall message encourages giving guidance with empathy and perseverance, staying calm amidst criticism.

Takeaways

• 😀 People vary in their knowledge, so it's okay to give advice about topics you have knowledge of.
• 😀 It’s important to approach giving advice with wisdom and care, especially when addressing sensitive topics.
• 😀 Having the perseverance to tolerate potential backlash is essential when giving advice on sensitive issues.
• 😀 When advising others, be mindful of how they might react—avoid being confrontational or overly harsh.
• 😀 If someone is in a harmful or intoxicated state, don't address them with harsh criticisms about their actions.
• 😀 It's essential to have the right knowledge, especially on clear matters like the obligation to pray, which is universally known in Islam.
• 😀 Wisdom in delivery means avoiding timing your advice inappropriately, such as when someone is intoxicated or in an unstable condition.
• 😀 Don’t react negatively to insults or criticism when giving advice; remain patient and tolerant.
• 😀 The Prophet (PBUH) was abused while spreading the message of Islam, and his example should guide how to handle criticism.
• 😀 If you have the necessary knowledge, deliver your advice in a respectful and calm manner to ensure it is heard and understood.
• 😀 Your advice should be grounded in Islamic knowledge, not in personal judgment or extremism.

Q & A

Can someone with little knowledge of Islam advise others on matters like prayer?

Yes, as long as you have knowledge on the subject, you can offer advice, especially on well-known matters like the importance of prayer in Islam. However, it's crucial to present it wisely and with patience.

Is it acceptable to tell someone that not praying on time is a major sin?

Yes, not praying on time without a valid reason is considered a major sin in Islam. However, it's important to approach the conversation with wisdom, understanding, and tolerance.

What is the role of wisdom when advising others on religious matters?

Wisdom in delivering advice is key. You should avoid confronting people when they are in vulnerable or inappropriate states, and instead, approach them calmly and with a respectful tone.

Should advice be given in an aggressive or confrontational manner?

No, advice should not be aggressive or confrontational. Aggressive approaches will likely be rejected and can create unnecessary conflict. It's essential to be gentle and considerate.

How should one handle potential backlash when giving advice about prayer?

You should be prepared for possible backlash and respond with patience and tolerance. If someone reacts negatively, remember that the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) also faced abuse in the cause of Allah and remained patient.

What should be done if people reject the advice or react angrily?

If people reject the advice or react angrily, remain patient and do not retaliate. Keep in mind that Allah is the ultimate judge, and your responsibility is to deliver the message with wisdom and understanding.

Is it okay to tell someone they will go to hell for not praying?

It’s important to be cautious when using strong statements like threatening someone with hell. Such statements might not be well-received and should be avoided. Instead, emphasize the importance of prayer in a compassionate way.

How can one present advice about prayer in a way that is more likely to be accepted?

You should present the advice in a kind and respectful manner, focusing on the positive aspects of prayer and the rewards associated with it. Aim to help others understand its significance without making them feel judged.

What is the importance of having tolerance when giving religious advice?

Tolerance is essential because people may not always accept the advice right away. Being patient, not reacting with anger, and understanding their perspective allows you to maintain a constructive relationship and avoid creating unnecessary conflict.

Can knowledge alone be enough when advising others on religious matters?

No, knowledge alone is not enough. It’s important to pair knowledge with wisdom and patience. The way advice is delivered is just as important as the knowledge itself, especially in sensitive areas like religious practice.