How to Understand MEN

Summary

In this humorous and insightful class on 'How to Understand Men,' Rizz 103 dives into the often cryptic behavior of men in relationships. From decoding phrases like 'I'm fine' and 'I'm not looking for a relationship' to understanding male body language and subtle hints, the class reveals that many male actions and words often boil down to one thing: sex. With light-hearted humor and a mix of 50/50 truths, this guide helps unpack the underlying meanings in men's words and actions, offering a fresh perspective on romantic dynamics and communication between the sexes.

Takeaways

• 😀 Men may say 'I'm not looking for a relationship' to keep their options open, while still engaging in casual sex.
• 😀 When men say 'I'm fine,' it usually means they are not fine but prefer to deal with issues privately rather than talking about them.
• 😀 If a man says 'I'm sorry' during an argument, it often means he's just tired of the conflict and not genuinely apologetic.
• 😀 Compliments from men like 'Nice jeans' or 'Nice shirt' often carry a hidden sexual meaning, such as appreciation for physical attractiveness.
• 😀 When a man says 'I'm kidding,' it likely means he was serious, but he's trying to downplay his statement because the woman overreacted.
• 😀 Men who prefer women with little or no makeup are likely appreciating natural beauty and want someone who still looks good without makeup.
• 😀 A question like 'How do you know that guy?' may indicate jealousy or insecurity, with an underlying concern about romantic history.
• 😀 If a man offers a massage when saying 'My body is stiff,' it often leads to sexual intentions, as it's seen as an excuse to get closer.
• 😀 When men ask 'What's wrong?' it could be genuine concern, but also a subtle expression of disappointment about the lack of sex in the situation.
• 😀 Men often say 'Nothing' when asked 'What are you thinking?' because they are either genuinely thinking of nothing or something they don’t want to share, like inappropriate thoughts.
• 😀 When a man says 'She's just a friend,' it could mean he has romantic interest in her but isn't pursuing it right now, or that they are genuinely just friends.
• 😀 'Let's take things slow' from a man often signals a desire to keep things casual, avoid exclusivity, but still enjoy sex without commitment.

Q & A

What does it mean when a man says, 'I'm not looking for a relationship'?

It typically means that the man does not want to commit exclusively, but may still be open to dating or having sex with others while keeping his options open.

How should a woman interpret when a man says, 'I'm fine' but appears troubled?

It often means that the man is not fine, but he doesn’t want to talk about it and prefers to sort it out on his own. He may want space to deal with his emotions.

When a man says 'I'm sorry' during an argument, what does it really mean?

It usually means that the man is tired of the argument and wants it to end, rather than genuinely expressing regret.

Why might a man compliment a woman's outfit with a phrase like 'nice jeans'?

This could be a subtle way of complimenting a woman's appearance, specifically focusing on her body, such as her ass or cleavage, with a hidden meaning related to attraction.

What does it signify when a man says, 'I'm kidding' after making a controversial comment?

It often means that the man actually meant what he said but is trying to downplay the seriousness of his statement, suggesting that the woman is overreacting.

What does a man's preference for women with 'less makeup or no makeup' typically indicate?

It suggests that the man values a natural, effortless beauty and is attracted to women who look good without the need for heavy makeup.

What is the possible meaning behind the question, 'How do you know that guy?'?

This question could indicate a mix of curiosity and insecurity. The man may be asking whether there was any romantic or sexual involvement with the person, and he may be feeling a bit jealous.

When a man offers a massage, what is often the underlying motive?

In many cases, the massage may serve as a prelude to sex. The man may initially offer a massage but gradually try to make it more intimate with the goal of sex.

What does it mean when a man asks, 'What's wrong?'

While it can genuinely show concern for the woman’s well-being, it may also suggest that the man is disappointed or resigned to the fact that sex is off the table for the night.

What does it imply when a man says 'Let's take things slow'?

It often means that the man is not looking for an exclusive relationship and wants to keep his options open, while still being interested in maintaining a sexual relationship.