Future Thinking | Jim Davies | TEDxCarletonUniversity

TEDx Talks
7 May 201513:41

Summary

TLDRIn this talk, the speaker explores the concept of future thinking and how humans often make errors when predicting future events. They discuss how people imagine the future with fewer details than the past and how this leads to biases, like overcommitting or underestimating challenges. The speaker also highlights how we overestimate future emotional responses, and how much of our happiness is genetically determined, not situational. The talk concludes by encouraging people to focus on what they can control and take better care of their future selves.

Takeaways

  • 💭 Humans have the unique ability to imagine future events, a skill not found in other animals.
  • ⏳ People perceive time differently. Some feel like they move through time, while others see time moving past them.
  • 🔍 We tend to remember past events with more detail than we imagine future events, which often appear more generic and vague.
  • ⛺ When we imagine future activities like camping, we often overlook the less pleasant details or challenges that may arise.
  • 📅 We chronically underestimate how long tasks will take in the future, a phenomenon known as the 'planning bias'.
  • 📈 Future-oriented individuals are more likely to take care of their future selves, such as by saving money and making healthier choices.
  • 🔮 People often overestimate the emotional impact of future events, whether good or bad, and don't anticipate how quickly they'll adjust.
  • 🌞 Factors like weather don't have a significant long-term impact on happiness, and much of our happiness is genetically predetermined.
  • 🧘 Focusing on material or external factors like weight or promotions doesn't contribute as much to happiness as activities like exercise, meditation, and social interactions.
  • 🙌 Your future self is still you, so it's important to plan and take care of yourself in a realistic and thoughtful way.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of the speaker's presentation?

    -The speaker's presentation is focused on future thinking, how humans think about the future, and the common mistakes we make when planning or predicting future events.

  • How do people generally imagine the future compared to the past?

    -People tend to imagine the future in a more vague and generic way, while they recall the past with more specific details. Even when imagining a future event like a car accident, people include fewer details than when imagining a similar event that happened in the past.

  • What is the planning bias, and how does it affect people's time management?

    -The planning bias refers to the tendency to underestimate how long tasks will take because people don't imagine all the potential obstacles. This leads to overcommitment and unrealistic expectations about time.

  • Why do people tend to overcommit when planning for the distant future?

    -People overcommit to future tasks because the distant future often appears empty in their minds, leading them to think they will have more free time than they actually will. They fail to anticipate that they will be just as busy in the future as they are now.

  • How do people typically treat their future selves, and what are the consequences?

    -People often treat their future selves as separate individuals, leading them to compromise their future well-being by overcommitting, overspending, or engaging in unhealthy behaviors, assuming their future selves will handle the consequences.

  • What is one way people can become more future-oriented and improve their decision-making?

    -One way to become more future-oriented is to vividly imagine what your life will be like in 20 or 30 years, considering aspects like your appearance, finances, and job. This helps create a stronger connection with your future self and encourages better decisions in the present.

  • What is the 'focus effect' when predicting future emotions, and how does it impact decision-making?

    -The 'focus effect' refers to how people tend to overestimate the emotional impact of future events by focusing on the most salient aspect, like weather when considering a move to California. This leads to inaccurate predictions of future happiness or sadness.

  • What does research suggest about the role of genetics in happiness?

    -Research suggests that 60% of a person's happiness is determined by genetics and is largely out of their control. External factors like location or life changes have less impact on long-term happiness than people often believe.

  • How does the speaker illustrate the impact of time on emotional responses to events?

    -The speaker explains that after major life events, such as winning the lottery or experiencing a serious accident, people experience emotional changes for about three months before returning to their baseline level of happiness.

  • What practical advice does the speaker give for managing expectations about future happiness?

    -The speaker advises focusing less on material goals like losing weight or getting a raise and more on proven ways to improve well-being, such as exercising, meditating, and engaging in social interaction, which affect the 40% of happiness that people can control.

Outlines

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🌟 Imagining the Future: California and the Power of Future Thinking

The speaker introduces the concept of future thinking by asking the audience to imagine moving to California. He highlights the uniqueness of human ability to imagine future scenarios and contrasts it with how we view the past. A brief experiment about moving a meeting demonstrates that people have different relationships with time. This leads to a broader discussion about how humans often make systematic errors when thinking about the future, a central theme that will be explored throughout the talk.

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🎂 Recalling the Past vs. Imagining the Future: A Detail Disparity

The speaker contrasts how we vividly recall past events, like a birthday party, with how we imagine future events, which tend to be more generic and lacking in detail. This pattern holds true even in experiments where people imagine both past and future events, like a car accident, suggesting that our brain's tendency to omit future details can hinder accurate planning. This lack of detail in future thinking can lead to poor planning and unrealistic expectations.

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⛺ The Planning Bias: Why We Underestimate Future Tasks

By guiding the audience through an imagination exercise about camping, the speaker highlights how we often fail to account for the complexities and difficulties of future tasks. This leads to what is known as the 'planning bias,' where people underestimate how long tasks will take. The speaker discusses how we gloss over potential problems, resulting in overcommitment. An example from computer programming, Hofstadter's Law, shows how even with awareness, people tend to underestimate time for future projects.

📅 The Empty Future: How We Misjudge Long-Term Commitments

The speaker explains how people tend to think their future schedule is more open than it actually will be, leading them to overcommit. This issue arises because we don't account for the fact that we will be just as busy in the future as we are now. The speaker touches on how we often treat our future selves as separate entities, passing on responsibilities we don’t want to deal with in the present. This mindset leads to decisions that negatively impact our future selves, such as overcommitting or procrastination.

👤 Your Future Self: How to Treat Them Better

The speaker discusses how being future-oriented correlates with better decision-making, such as saving money and making environmentally-friendly choices. By encouraging the audience to vividly imagine their future selves, the speaker suggests that this exercise can help bridge the disconnect between present and future selves. By seeing the connection between present actions and future consequences, people can make better decisions about health, finances, and long-term happiness.

🍽️ The Fallacy of Variety: Misjudging Long-Term Enjoyment

In a hypothetical scenario where someone wins multiple free meals at their favorite restaurant, the speaker demonstrates how people tend to insert unnecessary variety when choosing meals for the future. This is due to a misunderstanding of how infrequent events, such as eating a favorite dish every three months, do not require variety in the same way closely packed events do. This mistake reflects how people misjudge what will bring them long-term happiness.

📈 Emotional Forecasting: Overestimating Future Feelings

The speaker explains that humans often overestimate how bad negative events will feel or how good positive events will feel in the future. This tendency is linked to a focus on salient factors, like weather in the case of moving to California, while neglecting other important elements like relationships and health. The speaker shares that 60% of happiness is genetic, which challenges the common belief that external factors heavily influence happiness. The tendency to misjudge emotional outcomes affects decisions and creates a false sense of control over long-term happiness.

💡 The Happiness Thermostat: How External Events Affect Us Less Than We Think

The speaker delves into the idea that people have a 'happiness thermostat' that regulates their long-term happiness. Events like winning the lottery or suffering a life-altering injury may change happiness levels temporarily, but people tend to return to their baseline. This is because, over time, we adapt to new circumstances. He emphasizes that focusing on external achievements or changes, like weight loss or promotions, often leads to misplaced efforts when trying to increase happiness, while investing in relationships, exercise, and mindfulness has a more lasting effect.

🧘 Take Care of Your Future Self: The Science of Real Happiness

In conclusion, the speaker encourages the audience to shift their focus from material or superficial goals to practices that have proven benefits, such as social interaction, exercise, and meditation. He reminds the audience that their future selves will still be them, so taking care of their current selves directly benefits their future. Finally, he dismisses the idea that a move to sunny California, or similar life changes, will drastically improve happiness, emphasizing instead the importance of internal factors and personal responsibility.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Future Thinking

Future thinking refers to the human ability to imagine and predict potential outcomes or scenarios that may happen in the future. In the video, this concept is central as the speaker discusses how people visualize their futures, often inaccurately. An example is when the speaker asks the audience to imagine moving to California and how their expectations of future happiness are often based on simplified and idealized images.

💡Planning Bias

Planning bias is the cognitive tendency to underestimate the time and resources required to complete a task. The speaker mentions this in the context of how people don't account for unforeseen complications when imagining future tasks, like printing a document, leading to overcommitting themselves. This bias is an example of how our future thinking can lead to practical challenges.

💡Imagination

Imagination is the mental ability to create scenarios or visualize things that are not present or have not occurred. The speaker contrasts how people imagine the future versus how they recall the past, noting that future scenarios are often generic and lack detail, unlike memories, which tend to be rich with specifics. This distinction is key in explaining why people fail to plan for the future realistically.

💡Future Self

Future self refers to the version of oneself that exists at a later time. The speaker discusses how people often think of their future selves as different from their current selves, leading them to make decisions that burden their future self, such as overcommitting or overspending. This detachment from the future self contributes to poor decision-making regarding long-term well-being.

💡Emotional Forecasting

Emotional forecasting is the act of predicting how one will feel in the future based on certain events or circumstances. The video explains how people tend to overestimate the emotional impact of both positive and negative future events, leading to inaccurate expectations of happiness or sadness. The example of imagining happiness from moving to California illustrates this concept.

💡Genetic Happiness

Genetic happiness refers to the idea that a significant portion (60%) of a person's happiness is predetermined by genetics and not influenced by external circumstances. The speaker highlights this to challenge the assumption that life changes, like moving to a different place, will significantly alter one's happiness, reinforcing the theme that our expectations for future emotions are often flawed.

💡Vivid Imagining

Vivid imagining is the practice of mentally picturing future events or oneself in a highly detailed and realistic manner. The speaker suggests that this technique can help people develop a stronger connection with their future selves, leading to better decisions, such as saving money or exercising more. By vividly imagining themselves 20 or 30 years from now, people may be more motivated to take care of their future selves.

💡Hoff's Law

Hoff's Law is a humorous principle from computer programming that states any task, particularly programming projects, will take three times longer than expected, even when factoring in Hoff's Law. This concept is used to explain how people underestimate the time needed for future tasks, demonstrating how we are often overly optimistic about the future.

💡Variety Seeking

Variety seeking is the tendency to choose diverse options when faced with decisions about future experiences. The speaker gives an example of someone choosing a variety of meals at their favorite restaurant rather than sticking to their favorite dish, even though they would likely enjoy their favorite more if they spaced the meals out. This highlights how people misjudge their future desires and satisfaction.

💡Social Interaction

Social interaction refers to the engagement between individuals, which is cited as one of the most effective ways to increase happiness. The speaker mentions this in the context of focusing on things that can truly affect happiness, contrasting it with superficial changes like losing weight or getting a promotion, which have less impact than people expect on their future well-being.

Highlights

The speaker introduces the concept of future thinking and how humans have the unique ability to imagine possible futures, a skill that differentiates us from animals.

People often differ in their perception of time: some see themselves moving through time, while others view time as something moving over them.

Humans tend to remember past events in more detail than they imagine future events, even when both are hypothetical.

An experiment showed that people add more details when imagining a past car accident compared to a future one, even though both are equally hypothetical.

People often fail to consider specific details when imagining future events, leading to overcommitting and misjudging how long tasks will take, known as the 'planning bias.'

Hofstadter's Law in computer programming states that tasks will always take longer than anticipated, even when factoring in Hofstadter's Law itself.

The speaker discusses how people often overcommit to future obligations because their future schedule appears empty, forgetting that it will inevitably fill up with tasks.

The future self is treated like a separate person, and people are more willing to burden their future selves with difficult tasks, which contributes to overspending and overeating.

Future-oriented people feel more connected to their future selves, which leads to better decisions regarding health, savings, and pro-environmental behavior.

A vivid visualization of one's future self can lead to more future-oriented behavior, like saving money and improving health habits.

People tend to misjudge how future events will make them feel, often overestimating both positive and negative emotional impacts.

When asked to predict how they'd feel after winning a prize to eat at their favorite restaurant, people often mistakenly introduce unnecessary variety, underestimating their enjoyment of consistency over time.

People tend to focus on specific factors, like weather, when imagining life changes (such as moving to California), while neglecting other important aspects like relationships and health.

Research shows that 60% of happiness is determined by genetics, and changes in external circumstances like moving or gaining wealth have little long-term effect on overall happiness.

The speaker highlights that traumatic events, such as accidents or imprisonment, often do not affect long-term happiness as much as people think, with some individuals even reporting personal growth after such experiences.

Transcripts

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okay I want everybody in the room to

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imagine that next year you move to

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California okay I want everybody to

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picture that in your heads oh we got

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some Applause already okay now how would

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you feel in California would it make you

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happy do you think you might be happier

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in

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California now I want want you to hold

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on to that thought because I'm going to

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talk to you today about future thinking

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how we think about the future and what

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that means and how we sometimes screw it

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up so hold on to that thought because

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we're going to return to

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it um what I just asked you to do is to

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think about a possible future now one of

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the amazing things about being a human

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being is that we can do this at all okay

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no other animals that we know of can

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really think about and picture something

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happening in the future we can also

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think about things in the

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past now I'm a professor and um I've got

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a meeting next week on Wednesday I just

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got an email that says that the

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meeting's been pushed forward two

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days now I want you to raise your hand

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if you think the meeting is now on

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Friday now raise your hand if you think

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the meetings on

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Monday okay so we see that people differ

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about this right we and it turns out

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that the answer that you give depends on

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your relationship that you with time

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that you have so the people who say that

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the meeting pushed Wednesday meeting

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push forward two days is on Friday they

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tend to see themselves as moving through

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time as though time were sort of a

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static air or something that they're

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moving through and people who say that

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the meeting is on Monday see themselves

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as more stationary with time flowing

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over them okay

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um so when we think about things in

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time when we think about the past we

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know we can make mistakes with that so

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you might have U experienced something

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with a friend and you differ on what

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happened so we're all pretty familiar

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with that well we don't think about a

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lot is how we make mistakes about

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thinking about the future but the

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science of psychology has shown that we

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actually are pretty systematic in the

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ways that we screw up thinking about the

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future so today I'm going to tell you

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about what those screw-ups are so that

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you when you think about your own future

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world you can be uh better about

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thinking about it now the first thing

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I'm going to go over is that um when you

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think about the past you put yourself

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into the past you put in a lot more

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details than when you think about the

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future so this uh next picture here is

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my birthday party and uh my last

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birthday party and so I can remember um

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there were 43 candles on the cake and

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and uh you can't see it from the picture

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but uh inscribed on it was light years

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and light years try not to shed no tears

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so I I can remember things about my

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birthday party details about it and

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likewise if I were to ask you about your

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last birthday party you might remember

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where it is or who was there you might

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remember your fear that people would

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think that you're the kind of person who

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wouldn't wear a green suit you know all

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these details of the birthday party now

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if I imagine you to uh if I ask you to

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imagine your birthday party 2 years from

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now okay if you're like most people it

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it ends up being pretty generic and

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stereotypical when we think about things

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in the future we remove details and we

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tend to think about more generic and

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stereotypical ways that lack those

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details now you might think well of

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course how would we know those details

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they haven't happened yet right but it's

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deeper than that because they've done an

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experiment where they ask people to

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imagine a car accident okay and some

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people were asked to imagine a car

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accident that had already happened and

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other people were asked to imagine a car

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accident that would happen

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and even in this condition people put

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more detail into the imagined car

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accident in the past than in the future

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that's weird right they're both

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completely imaginary they're not

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happening or going to happen but just

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the very suggestion that it's going to

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be in the future makes it more vague to

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people now once an uh event already

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happens then we can put in those details

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but since we don't imagine them when we

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picture the future we don't plan for

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them and that can be problem all right

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next imagination exercise I want you to

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imagine going camping everybody imagine

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going camping okay I'm a scientist who

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studies imagination but I cannot go into

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the audience and tell you what you're

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imagining but I will Hazard to guess at

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some of the things that you are probably

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very likely not to imagine so first

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you're not imagining wondering where

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that sleeping mat was and you lent it to

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that girl and did she ever return it

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you're not imagining sitting in front of

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a half packed trunk and shouting up to

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your girlfriend on the second floor

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asking if she'd already packed the

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lantern you're not picturing trying to

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grill chicken in the

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rain and nobody is probably imagining

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all the dishes you have to do once you

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get back now is it that when we imagine

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something in the future we're not

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picturing the bad things no that's not

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quite it either if you think camping is

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an overall positive experience when you

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think about it doing it in the future

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you tend to think about the good things

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and you gloss everything with goodness

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and we do the opposite with bad things

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so something that you just think is bad

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I'll thr maybe doing laundry you don't

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like doing laundry when you think about

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doing laundry in the future you don't

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think about any of the good things in

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fact some of you are probably thinking

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what are the good things about doing

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laundry but what about the nice the feel

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of the sheets when you pull them out of

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the dryer or the smell of your clothes

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as you're putting them away you know

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there are some neutral and positive

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parts of doing laundry but we don't

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think of those

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things now the problem with this is that

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if we don't imagine details we are very

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bad at imagining how long it's going to

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take us to do something this is called

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the planning bias okay so let's say that

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you got to print out a document I

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emailed you a document you print it out

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how much time you allow yourself to do

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that like think that's easy just open it

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hit print pull it out of the printer

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that's always that easy right well

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sometimes it is and sometimes it

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isn't

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um what you're not thinking about is um

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how uh the printers on the fritz and uh

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the toner's out and then there's another

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piece of there's another toner package

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in your but is that one empty were you

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supposed to return that to recycling or

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is that one actually full or oh it's in

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Open Office and I can't open it in word

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or I need to edit it but then I need to

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change the permissions first because I

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can't edit it the way it is so I need to

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figure now I got to Google how to right

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those things could happen but we never

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think about it and so we end up

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chronically overcommit ourselves okay

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that's one way that we overcommit

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ourselves that's the planning bias now

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um in computer programming there's this

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idea of Hoff's law and Hoff's law is

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that any computer programming project

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will take three times as long as you

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think it

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will even if you take into account

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Hoff's

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law now planning for the future is also

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a problem because our schedules look

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really clear in the future so think

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about next week what you're doing next

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week okay probably pretty busy right

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what about a year from now there's

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nothing calendar is totally free so if

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somebody asks you would you do something

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would you uh host the next tedex a year

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for now you're like oh sure I'm not

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doing anything we forget that we are

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we're going to be just as busy with a

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zillion things that are inevitably going

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to come up then and then we're gonna be

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why did I ever commit to this does this

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happen to anybody this happens to me you

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commit to something right so what's

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going on here um we end up chronically

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overcommitted and we're in a way

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compromising our future self okay uh in

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many ways we think of our future selves

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as different people and we don't care

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about them as much as we care about

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ourselves and we're will willing to put

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uh the onus on them right and this is

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why we overspend and why we overeat and

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we do things like this let the future

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self worry about the weight gain that's

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what way that's what goes through our

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heads uh in one study people were asked

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would you rather go see a a kind of a

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dull lecture across the hall or really

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interesting lecture across town you'd

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have to go all the way across town

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whatever now people gave different

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answers if it was about tomorrow or if

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it was about a year from now if it was

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tomorrow they're like oh God I don't

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have time to I don't have time to go

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I'll watch the dull lecture across the

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hall tomorrow but for the future self

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they're like oh yeah let's go to the

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interesting lecture right let the future

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self do the commute right this is how we

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we make these problems now some people

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differ in this now some people are very

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future oriented and others are more past

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oriented and the more future oriented

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people feel more of a kinship with their

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future selves and they treat them better

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okay they're more likely to um exercise

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uh they save more money and uh even

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future oriented people even make more

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pro- environmental choices right because

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they're they're sacrificing themselves a

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little bit now for something good in the

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future now how can you make yourself

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more future oriented well there is one

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concrete way to do that and that is to

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very vividly picture what you're going

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to be like in 20 or 30 years okay what

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are you going to be like what's your

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what are you going to weigh what's your

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face going to look like uh how much

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money are you going to have in the bank

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where are you going to be working right

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all these and then try to see the

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connection between that and the and the

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soda pop you're drinking or the or the

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you know the money you're spending that

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kind of

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thing now another way that we mess up

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thinking about the future is that we

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tend to um make mistakes about how we're

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going to feel we have these predictions

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about how we're going to feel that we

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don't get them quite right so I want you

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to think again think of restaurant you

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love and your favorite dish there and

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you're eating your favorite dish and the

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magic comes over and says for whatever

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reason hey you've won a prize you're

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going to have 10 meals here free oh

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great right okay but you got to pick

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them all now I want you to choose what

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you're going to eat for all those meals

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right now now most people in the room

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would be like well I don't want to have

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my favorite dish every time right so

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I'll pick a variety I'll have maybe the

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dish a few times but I'll sprinkle it in

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with some other things

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wrong people will put in

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variety whether they're going to have

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those meals in the next 10 days or

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whether they're going to have one meal

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every 3 months it makes sense in the

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next 10 days but not in every 3 months

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because what happens is if you have it

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every three months by the time the three

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months is up you're going to be ready

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for your favorite dish again right you

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so you need variety only if the the

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they're packed in with time okay and

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people don't really understand this so

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they make some bad choices because they

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don't understand the relationship

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between infrequency um and and uh

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novelty and their own happiness

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so that's one way that we um get

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emotions wrong in the future we also

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tend to overestimate the emotional

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impact of future events and what this

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means is that um we tend to think bad

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things in the future are going to feel

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way worse than they do and we also tend

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to think future uh future good things

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are going to feel way better than they

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do we overestimate

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that part of this is because of focus

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now when I ask you uh how happy you'd be

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if you moved to California most people

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think yeah I'd be really happy if I

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moved to California and I'll tell you

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what's going on they think of the one

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most Salient thing that's different

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between where they are living now in

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California and what is that the weather

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the weather right so they picture

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themselves oh I'm on Venice Beach and

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it's sunny and I'm happy yes I would be

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much happier in California right wrong

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again

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okay you neglect all of the other things

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that make you happy or sad your friends

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and uh your your health and your

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relationship with your spouse and all

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this in fact I'll let you in on a secret

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60% of your happiness is

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genetic you have no control over 60% of

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your happiness has nothing to do with it

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okay it turns out that weather actually

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has very very little effect on your

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happiness so you're very likely to be

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just as happy or just as miserable as

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you are right now if you were to move to

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California it's just it's still you

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after

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all now I know some of you are thinking

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that can't be right 60% give me a break

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right but even the Skeptics in the

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audience probably know somebody who's

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got the greatest life in the world

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nothing wrong and they're always

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grumping and moaning miserable people

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and you might also know some people

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who've got terrible Lives full of

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hardship and they're just always chipper

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and happy okay it is just part of our

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cultural belief that your happiness is

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caused by what happens to you and it's

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just not true it's just not true in fact

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they've done studies of people who win

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the lottery and people get hurt badly

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and need to be in a wheelchair the rest

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of their life and it doesn't affect

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their long-term happiness three months

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they get a boost or a downward slope for

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3 months and then what happens they

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return to the level of happiness that

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they always were at it's as though each

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of us has a thermostat for happiness

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that we return to when we habituate to

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whatever our new lifestyle is and people

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don't people don't realize that in fact

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some a significant portion of people who

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have trauma go to prison have terrible

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accidents they actually claim that It

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ultimately made them happier people

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reconstruct their happiness in their own

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lives and it's a very alluring thought

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it affects your thinking about the

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future though because sometimes when

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you're feeling down you might try to

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figure out what's wrong why am I feeling

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so down well maybe I need to lose 10

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pounds maybe I need a a ra I need that

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promotion or I need a raise or something

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like that and you how many people know

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somebody or maybe you you're five pounds

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away from happiness all the time right

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so you lose those five pounds people

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tend to focus on these material things

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that just don't work and there's a cost

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there because they're not focusing on

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the things that do work like exercise

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and meditation and especially social

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interaction are things those are things

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you can do to actually affect the 40% of

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things that you have any control over

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right so in summary I want you to

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remember things take longer in the

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future than you think they're going to

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things are not nearly as happy or as

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awful as they're going to be as they're

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going to feel in the future your future

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self is still you so please take good

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care of her and finally you're just as

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ha you'd be just as happy in sunny

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California As You Are where you live

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right now thank you

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