How to make someone obsessed with you
Summary
TLDRIn this video script, Liz addresses the question of how to make someone obsessed with you. She emphasizes that the focus should be on self-love and self-improvement. By investing in oneself, pursuing passions, and maintaining a positive mindset, one naturally attracts others. Liz advises on improving physical attractiveness, mental health, and finding fulfilling activities. She stresses that confidence and a high vibrational energy are key to attracting people who are also high-vibrating. The ultimate goal is to love oneself so much that others are drawn to that energy.
Takeaways
- 🌟 The goal should be self-obsession, not making others obsessed with you.
- 💸 People are drawn to those who invest time and money in themselves.
- ❤️ Self-love and confidence naturally attract others.
- 🚫 You can't force obsession; it comes from a high self-vibration.
- 🌈 High self-vibration attracts high-vibrational people.
- 🌞 Positivity and a clear vision of oneself can help attract the right people.
- 🏋️♀️ Physical and mental self-improvement can increase attractiveness.
- 💡 Having a clear vision of your ideal self can help you become that person.
- 🎯 Pursuing passions and goals can make you more attractive to others.
- 🤗 Confidence and a positive mindset are key to attracting people.
Q & A
What is the main goal according to Liz in the Snapchat question?
-The main goal should be to be obsessed with yourself, investing time and money in yourself and loving yourself.
Why do people become obsessed with others according to the script?
-People become obsessed with others because they see that the person is investing in themselves, has self-love, and confidence, which many people lack.
What is the relationship between self-improvement and attracting high-vibrating people?
-When you are improving yourself, taking care of your passions, and leveling up in life, you naturally attract high-vibrating people who are also positive and focused on self-improvement.
How does one's mindset affect their ability to attract others?
-A positive mindset and high vibration are key to attracting others. If you're negative or in a poor state of mind, you won't attract high-vibrating people.
What does Liz suggest to develop a clear vision of oneself?
-Liz suggests thinking about what the best version of yourself would look like, including aspects like appearance, habits, and social interactions.
Why does focusing on oneself reduce the need for others to be obsessed with you?
-When you are focused on yourself, your passions, and your goals, you naturally become content and fulfilled, reducing the need for external validation or obsession.
How does changing one's lifestyle after a breakup relate to self-obsession in the script?
-After a breakup, when people change their lifestyle, look better, and feel better, they become more self-obsessed in a positive way, which makes them less concerned about their ex and more attractive to others.
What is the importance of confidence and energy in attracting others, as per the script?
-Confident energy is attractive because it shows that a person is happy and content with themselves, which is a desirable trait that others want to be around.
What steps does Liz recommend to become more physically attractive?
-Liz recommends focusing on physical aspects like hair color, facial features, and body shape, and considering activities that can help achieve the desired physical appearance.
How does therapy and journaling play a role in self-improvement according to Liz?
-Therapy and journaling help in getting the mind right, building confidence, and improving one's mental state, which are essential for self-improvement.
Why is it important to have a community that uplifts you, as mentioned in the script?
-A supportive community helps in maintaining a positive mindset and provides an environment for personal growth and fun, which is crucial for self-improvement and attracting others.
Outlines
💡 Self-Obsession as a Magnet for Others
The speaker, Liz, addresses a question about how to make someone obsessed with you. She emphasizes that the goal should not be to make someone obsessed with you, but rather to be obsessed with yourself. By investing time and money in oneself and fostering self-love, others will naturally be drawn to you. People are attracted to confidence and self-assurance, which they may lack themselves. Liz advises focusing on personal growth, pursuing passions, and improving oneself in all areas of life. She stresses that high-vibrating, positive people are attracted to others who are also vibrating at a high level, and that a negative mindset will not attract the desired outcomes. The key is to have a clear vision of the best version of oneself and to start living like that person, even if you haven't fully reached that point yet.
🌟 Becoming Attractive by Cultivating Positivity
Liz continues by discussing how to make others want to be a part of your life by focusing on self-improvement. She suggests physical attractiveness is just one aspect; mental and emotional well-being are equally important. The speaker advises seeking therapy or journaling to improve mental health and confidence. Finding an activity that makes you want to get up in the morning is crucial, as is surrounding yourself with positive influences. Listening to affirmations can help rewire the mind towards positivity. Liz encourages going out for fun rather than to impress others, as this genuine enjoyment of life is attractive. She concludes by saying that when you live a confident, positive life, others will want to be a part of it, and you won't need to seek their obsession.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Obsessed
💡Self-love
💡Investing in oneself
💡Confidence
💡Vibrating high
💡Passion
💡Leveling up
💡Mindset
💡Therapy
💡Affirmations
💡Community
Highlights
The goal should be to be obsessed with yourself, not to make others obsessed with you.
People become obsessed with you when they see you investing in yourself.
Lack of self-love and confidence in others makes them attracted to those who have it.
To make people obsessed with you, focus on your passions and self-improvement.
High-vibrating people are attracted to those who are also vibrating high.
A positive mindset and high vibration can attract high-vibrating people.
If you're negative or in a poor state of mind, you won't attract what you desire.
Having a clear vision of yourself is essential for attracting the right people.
When you're invested in yourself, you don't need others to be obsessed with you.
People go through changes and stop caring about their exes when they start loving themselves.
Confident people who are there to have a great time are the most attractive.
The key to everything you want is you; realizing this can change your life.
Focus on becoming physically attractive by envisioning the best version of yourself.
Improve your mindset through therapy, journaling, or other confidence-boosting activities.
Find an activity that makes you want to get up in the morning.
Listen to affirmations to rewire your mind and boost your self-esteem.
Surround yourself with a community and friends who uplift you.
Go out to have fun, not to impress or find someone, and your energy will attract people.
Understanding that everything in life is about energy can completely change your life.
When you live a confident and amazing life, others will want to be a part of it.
Transcripts
okay so the other day I got a question
on Snapchat and someone asked me like
hey Liz how did I make this guy obsessed
with me and then I was like you know
what I'm going to make a YouTube video
about this because the goal shouldn't be
that this guy is obsessed with you the
goal should be that you are obsessed
with yourself when you are obsessed with
yourself other people naturally become
obsessed with you it is how it is the
thing here is you can't make people
obsessed with you the only way people
become obsessed with you is because they
see that you are investing time in
yourself they see that you're investing
money in yourself they see that you are
loving yourself and because people lack
that people lack self-love people lack
that confidence in themselves so when
they look at you they want to be around
you they want to be with you or be you
because you are what they don't have if
you really want to know how to make
people obsessed with you it's all about
you it's about you honey about no one
else like the minute people see that you
are going after your passions that you
are taking care of yourself that you are
literally leveling up in every area of
your life that's the minute that people
will gravitate towards you that's the
minute that people on a higher vibration
will also gravitate towards you you
cannot attract High vibrating people
when you're vibrating low it's not even
about your circumstances you you know
maybe you are at a lower position than
that person but your vibration is high
you're positive you you're visualizing
things for yourself then you're also
vibing high and then you can attract
those High vibrational people but if
you're negative if you're in a poor
state of mind and you think oh nothing
is working out for me I can't have that
that's for lucky people that's for
people that can have it blah blah blah
you will also not attract that so first
of all you need to get that mindset
right you want to you want to be someone
that people are obsessed why would they
be obsessed with you if you're
constantly sitting in your bedroom being
sad all day listening to sad music
watching sad shows then you're like oh
people should be obsessed obsessed with
what with what honey what is there to be
obsessed about see once you get that
Clear Vision of yourself right that
vision of what you feel like you know
what if I was this kind of person of
myself I would be so obsessed with
myself if you get that Clear Vision like
what does she do how does she act where
does she go does she go to the gym or
does she not go to the gym what does she
eat how is her hairstyle uh what clothes
does she wear how does she act who does
she hang around with once you get that
Clear Vision in your head and you start
behaving like this person even though
you're not there yet that's when you
will attract the people that will help
you get to that level and the people
that will be quote unquote obsessed with
you the thing is once you are so
invested vested in yourself and once you
are so focused on your passions your
goals and yourself and you're doing the
things that you love so much I promise
you you you don't even want people to be
obsessed with you you don't need that
you literally start to become like I
really love life and I love myself you
see this when like uh women or men they
go through a breakup and they start like
changing their lifestyle they start
going to the gym they start looking
better they start feeling better they
make new friends then you see all of the
sudden these people they don't care
about their ex anymore and they're like
you know what I don't even want the them
anymore because the person that we
actually want is ourselves it's all
about energy right like for example a
girl that walks into a room and is not
caring about who she's going to
impressed but she just cares about oh
I'm going to have a lovely time with my
friends those are the most attractive
people they are vibrating on a confident
level their energy is confident they're
just there to be happy have a great time
and and you will see that most people
will go to her instead of other people
that are desperate and looking around
like oh my God I hope someone likes me
no the key to all your dreams the key to
everything you want is you and once you
start realizing this the faster you
realizes the faster your life will start
to fall into place I don't go into
places thinking oh my God I hope they
will like me whatever I don't care I
don't care I like myself everywhere I
walk into I like myself you have to be
happy to get up in the morning like you
have to find something that fulfills you
like whether it's a passion whatever for
me it's obviously like content it's like
making YouTube videos these type of
stuff that fulfills me that makes me
happy or waking up in the morning going
to the gym making sure I look good like
anything that makes me look good makes
me happier makes me money that makes me
happy that gives me passion for life so
you have to find that as well because
when you have no passions when you have
nothing to lit L get up for in the
morning obviously you will not be
attracted to attractive to other people
if you want other people to be obsessed
with you then they should think oh my
God like I want to be a part of her life
her life seems so much fun she seems so
happy I want to be happy too like I want
to get close to her so I can experience
whatever she's experiencing but my love
I promise you you being sad all day you
not doing anything will not make anyone
want to be a part of your life or want
to
with you attracted to you obsessed with
you it will not happen so honey what you
should do now okay what we're going to
do you're going to focus on becoming
physically more attractive like whatever
that is for you like literally think
about okay what would the best version
of me look like like think about that
what is her best like hair color what is
like how does her face look like what is
it you know how does her body look look
at the things that you can change second
we need to get that mind right so we
need to get some therapy we need to
start journaling whatever you need to do
to get that mind D and to get that
confidence up because that's Al all a
mental thing being hot is a mentality
third we start looking for an activity
that makes us want to get up in the
morning you know like okay for example
you go to work you hate your job
whatever you can't fix it blah blah
after your job what do you do what do
you do for fun huh what do you do
something like what is fun for you maybe
you join a sport and you like that Sport
and then also that sport will help you
to get your dream body so like oh my God
that is two uh stones or something in
one I don't know what that means then my
baby girl we also start listening to
affirmations that every day say oh my
God you're beautiful you're attractive
everyone wants you blah blah blah you
start listening to these things we start
rewiring our mind and you also make sure
you have a community you have friends
that uplift you that make you feel
better about yourself you go out with
them and then you go out to actually
have fun go out to have have fun don't
go out to impress people don't go out to
find someone go out to have fun and then
you will see everyone will radiate
towards you cuz your energy is
different if you guys start to
understand that everything in life is
about energy I'm telling you your life
will completely change and then my love
at the end the guy will be sending me a
message asking me hi Liz how do I make
this girl obsessed with me is he can see
oh my God this girl is literally so
confident she's looking so amazing she
literally is living the best life ever I
want to be a part of that I want I want
her I want her and I will do everything
I can to get her so yeah my love this is
my answer to your question I hope you
liked it and I love you guys I love you
guys so much and yeah I see you in the
next video love you bye-bye
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