The Surprising Psychological Genius Of The Lion King
Summary
TLDRThis video script delves into the profound life lessons of 'The Lion King,' mapping out seven pivotal phases for personal growth. It explores the journey from innocence to self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of embracing one's inner kingdom—comprising feelings, dreams, and soul. The narrative illustrates how societal pressures can lead to self-abandonment, but ultimately, it's through reconnecting with our true selves that we can live authentically. The script serves as a guide to overcoming life's challenges, aligning our inner and outer worlds, and achieving personal sovereignty.
Takeaways
- 👑 The Lion King is a metaphor for personal growth, portraying the journey of an individual's development into a sovereign self.
- 🌱 Simba's story represents the stages of life, from innocence and self-discovery to taking responsibility for one's 'kingdom', which symbolizes one's inner self.
- 🏠 The 'kingdom' is a metaphor for one's inner world, encompassing feelings, dreams, body, heart, and soul, which one must rule with self-awareness.
- 👶 Childhood innocence is characterized by an uninhibited expression of self, which must be tempered as we learn to navigate social norms and expectations.
- 🚫 Socialization often involves suppressing natural responses to fit in, which can lead to a loss of authentic self-expression and a sense of belonging.
- 💔 Traumatic experiences can lead to a belief that we are the cause of negative events, fostering an inner critic that undermines self-worth.
- 🏃 The decision to abandon one's 'kingdom' is a common response to overwhelming consequences, leading to a period of self-imposed exile and a search for a new identity.
- 🤝 Social negotiation in exile involves adopting behaviors to fit in and meet needs, often at the cost of suppressing one's true feelings and dreams.
- 🔄 The 'all good' philosophy is a coping mechanism that helps avoid negative experiences but can lead to emotional detachment and internalized pain.
- 🔮 The 'Dark Night of the Soul' is a period of introspection and withdrawal, necessary for reconnecting with one's true self and preparing for transformation.
- 🌟 The process of remembering one's true self involves facing and accepting past pain and self-criticism, leading to a renewed sense of authenticity and purpose.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script about The Lion King?
-The main theme of the video script is the exploration of The Lion King as a metaphor for the development of a sovereign individual, going through various life phases and ultimately reconnecting with one's true self.
What does the 'kingdom' represent in the context of the video?
-In the video, the 'kingdom' represents an individual's inner world, including their feelings, dreams, body, heart, and soul, rather than a physical territory or inheritance.
Why do children initially express themselves without shame according to the script?
-Children express themselves without shame because they are born innocent and accept every part of themselves, acting out their feelings and dreams instinctively without concern for social judgment.
What is the significance of Simba's exile in the video script?
-Simba's exile symbolizes the process of individuals abandoning their true selves and entering a world of social negotiation, where they suppress their authentic feelings and dreams to fit in and avoid negative experiences.
How does the video describe the formation of life philosophies during the phase of social negotiation?
-The video describes the formation of life philosophies, such as people pleasing, achieving, or rebelling, as a coping mechanism to avoid negative experiences and to maintain social acceptance.
What is the 'Dark Night of the Soul' as mentioned in the script?
-The 'Dark Night of the Soul' refers to a period of withdrawal and introspection, where individuals confront their inner selves and the persona they have created to avoid their true feelings and experiences.
Why is the encounter with the 'self' or 'soul' significant in the transformation process?
-The encounter with the 'self' or 'soul' is significant because it marks the beginning of reconnecting with one's true identity and inner wisdom, leading to a transformation that aligns the individual's inner and outer worlds.
What does the video suggest as a way to deal with the inner critic during the transformation process?
-The video suggests embracing and accepting uncomfortable feelings, rather than running from or arguing with the inner critic, as a way to deal with it during the transformation process.
How does the video script connect the process of self-discovery with the story of The Lion King?
-The video script connects the process of self-discovery with The Lion King by mapping the character's journey, such as Simba's, to the seven pivotal life phases that individuals go through, from innocence to self-acceptance and transformation.
What is the role of 'truth' in the process of aligning one's inner and outer kingdoms according to the video?
-In the process of aligning one's inner and outer kingdoms, 'truth' plays a crucial role by encouraging individuals to acknowledge their true feelings, accept their innocence, and make authentic decisions that reflect their inner wisdom.
Outlines
🦁 The Lion King's Life Lessons
This paragraph introduces the concept that 'The Lion King' is not only an entertaining animated movie but also a profound guide to living a meaningful life. It outlines the movie's portrayal of the hero's journey, emphasizing the importance of personal growth and self-discovery. The narrative of Simba's life is used as a metaphor for the development of a sovereign individual, highlighting the stages of life from innocence to self-awareness and the challenges of socialization and self-expression. The paragraph discusses how societal expectations and the fear of consequences can lead to the suppression of one's true self, drawing parallels between Simba's experiences and the internal struggles many people face.
🌱 The 'All Good' Philosophy and Its Pitfalls
This section delves into the common life philosophy of avoiding discomfort by adopting an 'all good' attitude, which, while adaptive, can lead to the suppression of negative emotions. It discusses how this approach can result in emotional detachment and a lack of authenticity. The paragraph uses the example of men who might lose the ability to cry and women who might suppress their anger as a result of this philosophy. It also touches on how external factors, such as relationships or health issues, can disrupt this coping mechanism and force an individual to confront their repressed emotions, leading to a period of introspection and potential transformation.
🔍 The Journey to Self-Rediscovery
The final paragraph explores the process of reconnecting with one's true self, often facilitated by a period of withdrawal and introspection. It discusses the importance of facing and accepting one's inner critic and the uncomfortable feelings associated with self-abandonment and past betrayals. The paragraph emphasizes the realization that at the core, individuals are inherently good and innocent, and that accepting this truth is crucial for healing and personal growth. It concludes by highlighting the renewed sense of purpose and authenticity that comes from embracing one's inner wisdom and aligning one's outer life with one's inner values, suggesting that this alignment can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Sovereign Individual
💡Hero Archetype
💡Self-Expression
💡Socialization
💡Inner Critic
💡Self-Abandonment
💡Exile
💡All Good Philosophy
💡Dark Night of the Soul
💡Inner Wisdom
💡Authenticity
Highlights
The Lion King is a guide to a life well-lived, outlining seven pivotal life phases.
Simba's journey represents the development of a sovereign individual.
Your 'kingdom' is your inner self, including feelings, dreams, body, heart, and soul.
In childhood, we learn to fit in to meet our needs, which can lead to suppressing our true selves.
Socialization teaches us that there are consequences for not controlling our behavior.
Simba's guilt over Mufasa's death mirrors our own feelings of responsibility for negative life events.
We often vow to change our behavior to avoid negative consequences, leading to self-suppression.
Exile from our 'kingdom' involves adapting to social norms to fit in and meet our needs.
Adopting an 'all good' philosophy helps us avoid negative experiences but can lead to emotional detachment.
The 'Dark Knight of the soul' is a period of withdrawal and preparation for transformation.
During the dark night, we confront the death of our old persona and reconnect with our true self.
The process of transformation is often supported by an inner or outer wise guide.
Accepting our innocence and inherent goodness is a crucial step in the transformation process.
Reconnecting with our inner kingdom allows us to make authentic changes in our outer world.
Living with the authenticity of a child and the wisdom of an adult is a goal of this transformation.
The process of remembering who we are is ongoing and involves aligning our inner and outer kingdoms.
The video aims to stir something within the viewer and encourage continued self-discovery.
Transcripts
the original animated Lion King movie is
genius not just because of the fun
[Music]
songs but because it is literally a
prediction and guide to a life well-
lived it's a story of the development of
the sovereign individual it's a hero
archetype so in this video I'm going to
walk you through the seven pivotal life
phases The Lion King lays out how to
find out where you are in those phases
and how you can use that map to grow
faster than 99% of people and live up to
your full
potential Simba is born to rule a
kingdom so are you so is everyone on
this planet that Kingdom isn't Pride
Rock or any piece of land nor is it
whatever inheritance your parents leave
you your kingdom is your inner Kingdom
it's your feelings your dreams your body
your heart and your soul no consensus
vote is required for you to feel and
express these things because you are the
king going to be a mighty king enemies
bew and we act this out instinctively
when we're small we cry when we're sad
rage when we're upset we dance when we
hear music and we embrace our dreams of
being being an astronaut despite the
statistical improbability we don't ask
for permission or check if anyone rolls
their eyes when we say these things
because we're born without shame we
accept every part of ourselves but in
this innocent period we also have to
learn to fit in to get our needs met we
learn that hitting our sister to get the
toy that we want makes mom put us in
timeout and that throwing a tantrum
might be tolerated when we're two but by
the time we're in school that same
behavior will get us socially isolated
you don't belong here and through this
process of socialization sometimes it's
gentle sometimes very harsh we Stack Up
experiences that tell us that if we
don't control ourselves there is a price
to be
paid eventually our self-expression
brings down consequences that overwhelm
us they can be as common place as mom or
dad getting exasperated at a tantrum
that's it go to your
room
now or as severe as chronic neglect and
abuse these consequences aren't even
really caused by us they have much more
to do with the people that are around us
and what they're going through and
that's reflected in the case case of
Simba as he wasn't the one who really
caused his father's
death long live the
king but in our naive we believe
ourselves to be the cause of everything
that we live through we think I made Mom
and Dad break up I made dad angry at me
I'm the reason that bad things happen
and the dialogue between Simba and Scar
after Mufasa's death can be seen as the
dialogue between our innocence and our
developing inner critic what have you
done it was an accident I didn't mean
for it to happen but the king is
dead and if it weren't for you he'd
still be alive it's at this point that
each one of us makes a vow technically
there's several vows at many points in
our lives we vow to never again do the
thing that made us lose love and since
the loss of Love Came From innocently
being ourselves we've about to stop
doing that we start hiding ourselves
Because deep down we believe believe
that I'm broken I'm wrong and I am bad
and so we abandon our sense of self our
kingdom often with the encouragement of
those around us what am I going to do
run away
Simba Run run away and never
return when we leave our kingdom we
enter the world of social negotiation
I'll be whoever helps me to fit in and
get my needs met we stop singing or
dancing to avoid being laughed at we
stop saying that we want to be an
astronaut because people think that's
stupid and we become extra helpful
around the house to keep mom or dad
happy with us or just to give them less
reasons to argue with one another and
it's not only our dreams and actions
that we change but the entire feeling
that might give rise to those actions
like the feeling of sadness before
crying or the unchecked connection with
our gut when we're honest about our
dreams those things go mute so when did
you abandon yourself and if you're not
sure just sit with this question who did
I have to be for mom or dad what feeling
was not okay to feel
after the initial Terror of abandoning
ourselves Exile can be kind of great
sure we aren't really being ourselves
but we have a way to fit in and to avoid
getting hurt we just need to control our
self-expression we stop crying and we
stop getting bullied we stop getting
angry and Mom stops withdrawing from us
we learn to love the sport that our dad
loves and we Excel so that our peers
respect us and now we're well-liked we
might even be able to attract a date and
this drive to fit in is necessary in a
world full of different people but the
issue is that much of the fitting in
that we do happens unconsciously so we
aren't simply choosing to curb our
emotional expression we're actually
losing contact with the source of that
expression for instance many men lose
the ability to cry don't cry don't cry
don't cry don't cry don't cry and many
women lose the ability to get ragul mad
well that's not very nice to say is it
and it's at this point that we form our
life philosophies some people become the
people pleaser well that's me people
pleaser 24/7 others the achiever and
still others the rebel but one
philosophy that deserves special
recognition because it is so common so
subtle and it happens to be the one you
know best from The Lion King
is
a it means no worries for the rest of
your days that means rejecting or
immediately reframing anything that
makes us feel worried or uncomfortable
the modern name that I'd give to this
philosophy as I've heard it expressed by
many men is all good this philosophy is
highly adapted it helps us avoid
negative experiences and encourages
people to want to be around us but there
are downsides and they always show up in
time namely that the numb feelings of
hurt anger and shame don't actually
Disappear Completely they just build up
in our unconscious and we have no way of
releasing that and if you listen
carefully you can hear people give tells
of this unconscious buildup of negative
emotion they use phrases like I know I
shouldn't be angry but or I don't care
and of course all good followed by a
break and eye contact and a palpable
sense of emotional Detachment are you
crying
no yes people remain in this functional
yet detached state of the all good
philosophy
until I'm not certain about women but I
can say that for men that I know it's
almost always the feminine that shakes
them out of their coping patterns what's
happened to you you're not the Simba I
remember you're right I'm not now are
you satisfied no
just disappointed it can be a flesh and
blood girlfriend or a wife that
threatens to leave if we don't change I
hate you you were just some boy who made
me laugh at a party once and now I love
the side of you in my case it was the
pain of a breakup that felt way worse
than I imagined it should I stopped
really enjoying so many of the things in
my life that I used to enjoy and it can
also be a breaking down of the body
after driving oneself too hard or a
numbness in the heart that is no longer
tolerable either way the signal that we
can't keep running from ourselves gets
louder and louder and our heady
responses that worked for so long get
thinner and thinner listen you think you
can just show up and tell me how to live
my life you don't even know what I've
been through this is a difficult time
because our all good strategy isn't
working like it used to but we don't
have another way yet and this
begins The Dark Knight of the soul is a
period of withdrawal from the outer
World in preparation for a radical
transformation it's the beginning of
reconnecting with your true self except
it often doesn't feel so great it feels
like a for boing of the inevitable
encounter with the death of who we have
believed ourselves to be the death of
the Persona that has kept us safe
accepted and validated and we've become
so identified with that Persona the all
good guy that we feel this metaphorical
death as the end of everything and it
sucks well this sucks depending on when
I start counting I experienced somewhere
between 2 and six years of this for
boing that a dramatic transformation was
coming I'm tired of Charisma videos at
this point my life was going to change
and I couldn't use my old tricks to
bargain my way out of it it corresponds
with me stopping making videos and
retreating from responsibilities in my
life as a ton of my energy went to what
was occurring inside of me and many
times even though I'm not a Christian I
thought of Jesus in The Garden of
Gethsemane on the night before his
crucifixion and I thought about his
prayer
father if it is
possible may this cup be taken from me
and I wished for the same thing if this
doesn't have to happen please don't let
it happen and when we're in the Dark
Knight of the soul that option to keep
running away is always there we might
even take it a few times I know I did
but we will also be given as many
chances as we need to consciously face
what we've been avoiding in ourselves
and if you're in it now I hope that this
video Moves you one step closer to
leaning in so that you can emerge into
the next phase I'm done
running in The Lion King it's a short
scene but the Tangled Chase through the
unconscious can last a long time like I
said mine has been several years and I
don't even know that I can say I'm fully
through this process is often supported
by a wise one mainly it's your inner
wise one who knows the possibility of
transformation who can see past the fear
and the shame and who will help guide
you and if you're lucky you may also
receive outer support from a person who
has made this journey in their own life
and can help Orient you their support
will challenge you and facilitate this
process you can either run from it or
learn from it ah you see in modern times
this can be a therapist or a coach or
just someone older that has lived
through their own Dark Night of the soul
and come out the other side
do or do not there is no try they will
support you in developing Your Capacity
as a king by helping you to see what you
have avoided seeing that's not my father
it's just my reflection
no look
hard and this clear seeeing is one of
the primary activities of the king
archetype which you are becoming and as
you gain the courage to look more
steadily and unflinchingly at yourself
something arises there was no other
way Simba looks up and suddenly he's not
in a marsh and there's no Pond he's
standing in an open field this is
symbolically Simba encountering what has
many names cun called it the self I
prefer to call it your soul whatever
word you like it's your inner wisdom and
it speaks a very similar message to all
of us Simba you have forgotten me no how
could I you have forgotten who you are
and so forgotten
me look inside yourself Simba you are
more than what you have become we left
behind who we were we must return to our
kingdom and we must take ownership of
our divine right if we protest the
solution is simple how can I go back I'm
not who I used used to be remember who
you are so we begin to remember and in
this process we cannot go around but
must go through the worst things we have
learned to believe about ourselves now
this process is a bit counterintuitive
and it's not perfectly represented in
the Lion King as we take stock of our
inner World our inner critic will pile
onto us but we don't need to run from
argue with nor accept as true what that
critic says we embrace the incredibly
uncomfortable feelings and welcome them
with love so we're feeling The Emptiness
of self-abandonment for social gain the
grief for the dreams that we left behind
and the pain of the outer betrayals that
we said all good to we feel shame for
not having returned home sooner all of
this is felt accepted loved and moved
through tell them who is responsible for
Mufasa's
death I am and through this process we
learn an essential truth we are not
broken we're not wrong we're not bad bad
we never were the deepest part of us is
innocent and inherently good it's not
your fault deeply accepting your own
innocence is really hard it means
letting yourself feel waves of anger and
grief for the pain you didn't deserve
but are nonetheless responsible for
healing it means releasing control that
you've gained from hiding aspects of
yourself from your loved ones and the
world and it means acknowledging how
your coping mechanisms have negatively
impacted others I'm sorry
Anakin for all of it
but the payback for all of this
suffering and pain is that you get to
rest in the goodness of who you are at
your core it means that you can come
home to your inner Kingdom and begin to
live a life with the authenticity of a
child but the wisdom of an
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adult our renewed connection with the
inner Kingdom inspires us to make
changes in our outer world we might
leave a job that is contrary to our soul
draw boundaries on a relationship that
isn't right for us or start a side
project in line with our creativity and
our dreams we begin to act with
authority as kings of our own kingdom
and if we've gotten in the habit of
allowing others free reign of our
kingdom perhaps by denying our feelings
demanding our time or controlling how we
live this outer restoration may involve
conflict no
murderer no simple please tell them the
truth truth but truth is in the eye of
the B the good news is that the mature
options that weren't available to us at
earlier stages will start to present
themselves we can take a healthy
responsibility of our relationships and
reject the unhealthy responsibility of
totally managing someone else's feelings
we can feel what success really means to
our soul and live it without requiring
anyone else to sign on or to get it this
part of my
life this little part is called
Happiness we can create boundaries for
behavior that doesn't feel good to us
without losing touch with our love for
the people acting out those behaviors
these choices begin to bring our life
into alignment our inner and our outer
kingdoms start to reflect one another
more and more as we feel more secure in
who we truly are now to be clear life
and its problems don't just stop here I
still struggle with the tension between
responsibility to others and authentic
self-expression but as I become more
conscious of my inner Kingdom I see more
possibilities to satisfy both sides of
that tension for instance making this
video feels like a service to myself and
hopefully to you as well so I hope that
this video stirred something in you and
let me know if it did in the comments so
I know that I'm actually satisfying both
sides of that mention either way I hope
that you continue the process of
remembering who you are I hope that you
enjoyed this video and I'll see you in
the next one
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