Handsome Men’s Game | Things You Will Experience As A Handsome/Select Man
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Josh discusses the unique experiences of being a 'select' man, emphasizing the impact of physical attractiveness and self-improvement on social interactions. He highlights how women and even other men react differently to handsome and well-groomed men, often leading to nervousness, flattery, or competition. Josh advises staying self-sufficient and not being overly excited by attention, as it can attract both admiration and games from others. His message encourages embracing one's attractiveness while maintaining self-awareness and confidence.
Takeaways
- 😎 Being 'select' or handsome can lead to different social experiences, including attracting attention from both men and women.
- 💪 Physical fitness and personal grooming play a significant role in how one is perceived, especially in terms of attractiveness.
- 👥 People may act differently around those who are physically attractive, including nervousness or attempts to gain validation.
- 🤔 Attractive individuals may notice that women act nervous or give off signals of interest without much effort on their part.
- 👀 Women might position themselves to be noticed or engage in behaviors to attract attention when they find someone attractive.
- 🚫 Attractive men may receive negative or 'hater' vibes from other men who feel insecure or threatened.
- 👋 It's important for attractive individuals to be aware of social dynamics and not to give unnecessary attention or validation to those seeking it.
- 🤷♀️ Some women may play games or seek validation, even if they're not genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship.
- 💡 Being attractive can lead to a sense of being 'different' and standing out from the crowd, which can be both a blessing and a challenge.
- 🛡️ Attractive individuals should be prepared to handle negative energy or aggression from others due to jealousy or insecurity.
- 🏋️♂️ The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-improvement, suggesting that focusing on personal growth can lead to a more fulfilling life.
Q & A
What is the main theme of Josh and J's car video?
-The main theme of the video is the experience of being a 'select' or attractive man and how it affects interactions with women and other men.
What does Josh suggest is the effect of a man's improved physical appearance on women's behavior?
-Josh suggests that when a man improves his physical appearance and becomes more attractive, women may act differently around him, often becoming nervous or seeking his attention.
According to the video, how do women react when they are attracted to a quiet and self-aware man?
-The video suggests that women may become more sexual in their body language, position themselves in front of the man, and act in ways that are out of the ordinary to get his attention.
What does Josh describe as a common behavior of women when they are attracted to a man who is not giving them extra attention?
-Josh describes that women may become confused and start to give compliments or act in a way that seeks to get validation or attention from the man.
Why does Josh believe that some women may act nervous or give compliments when they are around attractive men?
-Josh believes that women may act this way because they are trying to get the man's attention or validation, and they may feel insecure or competitive with other women who are also attracted to him.
What does Josh suggest is the reaction of other men to a man who has improved his physical appearance?
-Josh suggests that other men may feel threatened or insecure, leading to them giving off 'hater vibes' or engaging in behaviors like 'mate guarding' their women around the attractive man.
How does Josh describe the workplace dynamics when a man is physically attractive?
-Josh describes that in the workplace, attractive men may receive unusual or nervous behavior from women, such as unnecessary comments or attempts to position themselves near the man.
What is Josh's advice for men who are experiencing women trying to steal validation from them?
-Josh advises men not to participate in the game and to back away, as they will get attention and move on anyway, and not to give in to women who are trying to use them for validation.
How does Josh explain the concept of 'select' in the context of attractiveness and self-improvement?
-Josh explains 'select' as a state of being an attractive man who has worked on his appearance and aura, making him stand out and become a target of attention and sometimes games from others.
What does Josh recommend for men who want to avoid negative interactions with others due to their attractiveness?
-Josh recommends that men should focus on doing something they love, like fitness or a hobby, to build their brand and not take care of their skin or physical appearance, which can help them stand out positively.
Outlines
😎 The Select Man's Experience
Josh discusses the unique experiences of being a 'select man,' someone who has worked on their appearance and aura to the point where they are in the top 10 percent of attractiveness. He explains how women and even men react differently to such men, with women showing nervousness and men exhibiting 'hater vibes' or mate guarding. Josh provides examples from his workplace, illustrating how women act around him, such as taking condiments when none were needed, just to initiate interaction. He emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and how it changes the dynamics of social interactions.
👀 Women's Behavior Around Attractive Men
This paragraph delves into the behaviors women exhibit when they are attracted to a man who is aware of his attractiveness and does not seek validation from others. Josh describes how women will position themselves in his path, make nervous eye contact, and even play games to get his attention. He highlights that while some women may try to hide their attraction, others will be more obvious, especially those who feel they are not on the same 'level' as him. Josh advises not to engage with women who play games and to recognize that being attractive can attract attention from both desirable and undesirable sources.
💪 Dealing with Envy and Insecurity
Josh addresses the negative reactions from both men and women due to his attractiveness and self-improvement. He talks about how men may feel threatened and act out with aggressive energy or try to undermine him, while women may seek validation or play games. He emphasizes the importance of not being passive and knowing how to handle such situations, whether it's through assertive energy or understanding that their behavior is a reflection of their own insecurities. Josh encourages embracing the status of being a 'select man' and not letting the negativity of others affect him.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Self-improvement
💡Aura
💡Mate guarding
💡Selective
💡Validation
💡Body language
💡Insecurity
💡Player
💡Stereotyping
💡Hater Vibes
💡Social dynamics
Highlights
Being a 'select' man involves a complete package of physical attractiveness and personal aura.
Women and even men notice and react differently to a man who has improved his appearance and presence.
The self-improvement journey can lead to a point where one doesn't have to try as hard to attract attention.
Women may act nervous or make nonsensical comments when extremely attracted to a 'select' man.
A 'select' man's quiet and observant demeanor can lead to unusual and revealing behavior from women.
Women may position themselves in front of a 'select' man to seek attention.
Attractive men may notice women acting sexual or changing their appearance when in their presence.
Men who are unaware of their worth can give away attention, unlike 'select' men who understand their value.
Women may play games or seek validation from attractive men, even if they don't intend to pursue a relationship.
A 'select' man should not be overly excited by compliments, maintaining a sense of self-worth.
Unattractive women may pine for attention from a 'select' man, despite not being on the same level.
Attractive men may face jealousy and negative energy from other men, leading to standoffish behavior.
A 'select' man should not engage in games and should recognize when to disengage from unproductive interactions.
Self-improvement and becoming a 'select' man can lead to being treated differently in various social settings.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of being genuine and not playing games in social interactions.
Men should focus on self-improvement and becoming a brand, leveraging their attractiveness and skills.
The speaker discusses the psychological impact of being a 'select' man and the reactions it elicits from others.
The video concludes with advice to stay true to oneself and not be affected by the negative energy from others.
Transcripts
what's good guys it's your boy Josh and
J coming to another car video listen
this is what it's like to be a select
man this is things that you will
experience as a handsome man as a select
man and pay attention guys it's a
complete package thing and you know you
could either be a very attractive dude
like you've worked on your look your
face but this is what I'm talking about
right now guys when you've got your body
into the best shape you can or your body
is just in the top 10 percent of men you
know what I mean and you've worked on
your your just your whole Aura guys
women notice women notice
you know dudes notice but they're gonna
bring you like hater Vibes they're gonna
be mate guarding their women all types
of things women are just gonna start
acting completely different if you do a
self you know Improvement Journey guys
once you reach
like the other side they're gonna notice
hey I don't have to try as hard I don't
have to even pay attention to chicks
I don't even have to really you know I
just act as if and you just see women
acting just all types of ways you know
what I mean here's here's an example
guys
when women act extremely nervous around
you guys it's almost as if
you're not even trying hard they're
going to come to you and just say things
that make absolutely no sense like for
instance at my job you know there's
condiments on the side like ketchup hot
sauce mayonnaise you can just take it
and guys this you know I've been there
for almost a year I'm pretty sure these
people have been working there you know
longer than that so you know that you
could take the ketchup but they'll come
up to me and be like hey I'm taking some
ketchup
okay to be like you sure it's okay
I'm like it's okay thank you so much
sweetie smiling and stuff and I'm just
like
no no see that's not regular but for any
other person they would think oh she's
just being polite it's like no no no no
no guys when you're very quiet
when you go to your job when you're out
and about right
not that you're looking standoffish but
when you're very very quiet and
observant self-aware you speak when
spoken to but you never make it a big
deal like you're never oh super excited
to see a female she's looking at you
like what the hell is wrong with you
because you're attractive but get it
like this women have no choice but to
categorize you into every other dude
because a lot of men act the same so
where you would think like
you know she should know I'm him yeah
she knows you're him but she needs it to
be confirmed so when you're not giving
women this extra attention this extra
validation they're going to look at you
like what the hell is wrong with you she
knows but she still confused like
because here's the thing she might
interact with another handsome man that
doesn't know his worth guys
this is what I mean there's a lot of
dudes who you know will play the part
but not have everything going on so they
don't even realize their worth so
they're giving away free attention but
when you're a select dude and you're
very self-sufficient you might be a
heart I said this in my last video guys
you're gonna be a hard worker so I
notice these interactions I get at work
I'm very hard working I focus on the job
I try to get in and out but women are
always trying to position themselves in
front of me
you know what I mean or I'll walk past
and stay in a certain area on purpose
and just observe women start getting
extremely sexual with their body they
start contorting they start arching
their back you know putting their hair
up all of a sudden their hair was
perfectly fine now they're putting it up
arching their back doing all this stuff
right guys here's another example so I'm
coming in to my job and I have to stock
things in the stock room so the
bathrooms are on this side right so as
I'm walking to this side I peep this
this is the lady I was probably talking
about my other video BBL body BBL body
like this is the the type of chick that
dudes or the passport Bros are like
going to Dominican Republic for like to
try to marry like this right so I go I
come I come out the room she's going
into the bathroom but like walking past
with a chick and she bumps her like she
bumps her like but like smiling and you
know what's funny about that story this
lady is married with kids like this [ __ ]
don't stop guys when you're select and
attractive like women can't help it it
doesn't matter it does not even really
matter the Dynamics what they got going
no nothing it doesn't matter guys
so after that scenario I'm coming out
the bathroom today at my job tell me how
she is perfectly positioned in front of
the bathroom door hand on hip ass poking
out with her girl but like talking to
her acting like guys why would you stand
right there in front of the men's
bathroom to talk and have a conversation
because women are always watching you
even when you think they're not so
they'll be plotting to put themselves in
front of you they'll be literally
waiting till you're by yourself guys pay
attention you could be you know with a
group of people or you could be moving
they will literally wait for you to be
stopped to make their move guys that's a
couple of things like You're Gonna
experience women position themselves and
they make it extremely easy for you
right
and when you're trying to get out of
female guys you do not have to do too
much remember that you never have to do
too much when you're handsome to select
you're gonna notice women falling on
themselves or you're going to catch
women looking at you
either Look Away nervously like oh Shane
caught me or this is when you know no
guys when you look like when you're just
minding your business and you'll just
lock eyes with a chick and she won't
look away like it'll take two seconds
she'll look away and then look back at
you again guys you are you're select
there's no other way to put it here
select because a woman is not looking at
a man like yo he's ugly as hell I want
this ugly ass dude to come approach me
like or it's something about this ugly
dude no you ugly she don't want to look
at you just know that guys and here's
another thing right
women are gonna try to come up to you
and give you hella compliments right but
here's the thing there's female players
too always remember that that's a big
indicator but when a woman is constantly
complimenting you and you're not
overly excited about you like you're not
overly excited about our compliment but
you know you're not being an [ __ ]
either like you're taking it but when
she just keeps coming and coming and
coming and coming to the point where
you're like you know what this don't
even make me feel good about myself
because listen
you're gonna make women extremely
nervous so a lot of women who are like
the nines eights and sevens they will be
attracted to you but they're gonna have
a good poker face but you're gonna have
to read between lines but here's another
thing the ones that are gonna make it
obvious as hell are women that have no
business even looking at you like that
women that should know like oh he's not
even in my you know he's not even in my
atmosphere like we're not on the same
wavelength like no these women are going
to be extremely delusional and you're
gonna be like what
what you think
hold on let me try to figure this out
right guys it's not like it's not gonna
make you feel good about yourself but at
the same time you
here's the thing right you want to be
standoffish about it but you don't want
to be an [ __ ] you know because
it's really nothing to gain there but
you want to be Stern there's this one
woman that I see in passing all day and
she cannot help but give me the eyes and
I do everything to throw signals at her
like you're tripping you are tripping
like do not do that because guys it just
it's mind-boggling to me how you can
self-improve and get yourself to this
level of being select being a handsome
ass dude right
and women who do not put in the same
work will look at you and think that
they deserve you guys you're gonna go
through this but it's not really a big
deal but I just wanted to throw that out
there like a lot of unattractive women
are going to be pining for your
attention they're going to be making it
obvious while the sevens the eights the
nines right they're going to literally
be you know positioning themselves or
trying to act like you're not a big deal
Trust and Believe women find you
attractive even when they're trying to
act like you're a ghost that's why they
do it guys because they don't want to
give you that attention because women
are very insecure so when you're a
select handsome man in the spot she
knows that like her number one way to
compete and get by in life like to get
ahead is with her looks
you understand that guy so when you're a
man who is attractive to her she knows
like okay
I gotta compete with this man I I gotta
compete for this man I gotta compete to
get his attention because obviously a
lot of dudes don't walk around like this
so if he even if he's not aware of his
own worth I'm pretty sure this guy
catches a lot of attention you know what
I mean so you always got to remember
that they're gonna act like you're not
there sometimes like women are going to
be high interest and then still try to
act like they're not high interest I'm
gonna put this in another video but
here's another thing you're going to
experience women will actually play
games with you women will purposely try
to come steal validation off of you or
you might make a cold approach you might
or you might make an approach right a
chick is really acting like she's
feeling you but the whole time in her
head she just wants to get the attention
of like yo I can pull a dude like this
but I don't want to really give in to
this dude because a he's gonna turn me
out
you know B he's gonna turn out to be
like every other guy like that I've
dealt with like a liar but in this case
I'm gonna be sprung so imma get double
[ __ ] over or three I'm just not ready
and equipped to deal with this type of
dude because this type of dude guys if
you open your mouth
and your words match your look in your
very dominant very masculine
she's gonna be like yo I can't play with
this dude she's gonna eliminate herself
but still Pride herself off like yo I
got the attention and I know I could
pull a dude like that so guys never try
too hard if a woman wants to play games
with you like that
just back away because guys as a
handsome man she knows it's a rap
because she knows you're gonna get
attention you're gonna move on anyway so
you know Larry get off her little game
but don't even participate let her play
with herself remember that guys they're
gonna try to steal validation off of you
because
guys you shine like a celebrity there's
no other way to put it honestly and when
you're a handsome select dude unless
you're doing something that you love
guys that's why I started this channel
like you know what I mean get on Fitness
get on something do something that you
can make money off of like being
yourself because you're literally a
whole brand guys look around when you
look around guys don't take care of
their skin guys don't take care of their
Fitness like their physical guys don't
really take care of their mental
everybody's pretty much for the most
part doing the same thing so when a
woman sees you
she's like yo this dude is different you
get what I'm saying guys and Men even be
like men know you're the [ __ ] men hate
you like the men will other men will
hate on you because guys you stand out
it's straight up like guys insecurities
come up if you ever be in a spot right
and like you just come in and a guy
instantly start hugging on his girl
instantly put his hands around his girl
and you're like
why'd you do that because I'm not even
looking at her like you know I'm not
even trying to entertain anything you
like give off any signals and you will
see guys literally going out their way
to you know either cover their girl's
ass in the gym just doing weird ass
goofy [ __ ] to the point where you're
like yo I must be him
I must be him because I'm not even
throwing signals that I'm interested
right
and he still feels like I could take his
girl or he still feels like his girl's
looking at me you understand guys and
guys are gonna bring you weird energy
like aggressive energy like you know
like this or like looking at you like
mean mugging but here's the part guys
this is why I say every man gotta you
know know how to defend himself and
never be passive because I'll be
checking a lot of that [ __ ] and it's
funny
these dudes are not even tough these
dudes are not tough because they're
looking at you like okay he must think
he's a [ __ ] pretty boy and they will
still try you even when you're ripped up
and cut up guys so you gotta make it
known like nah this ain't that and this
is not what you want
and you don't even really have to say it
you just throw energy back guys they're
gonna get the gist of it and if it has
to get physical it's never going to get
physical because like yo bro you
bringing energy to me
and I don't know you so like get the
[ __ ] out my face or like yeah we could
do that but like for what you know what
I mean like dudes are weird as hell you
could just be minding your own business
and do just come and bring you this
energy as if like
you know I know that you're cold I want
to come over here and ask you how you
got so cold
here it is it's really
it's really out right now so I'm gonna
just bring this weird ass energy to you
like I know you from somewhere like you
did something wrong to me here's the
thing about them too they think that you
think that you're better than them or
you're walking around like you're cocky
and you're the [ __ ] no no my physique
makes like lets me walk like this bro
this isn't an act and if you worked on
your physique you will understand that
so it's like the psychology of it you
just gotta let haters hate but that's
the [ __ ] you're gonna experience like
you're gonna experience and even in the
workplace like you might have a boss
right you might have a co-worker
colleague something even your friends
can be haters right but like they'll say
things to you like oh what's that shirt
a size medium Knowing damn well you look
good in the shirt but they just got to
get that little [ __ ] off like you know
what I mean like
oh [ __ ] what's up bro like you doing 100
push-ups today or what like it's like
it's kind of it makes no sense they'll
try to like come at you for bettering
yourself but
that's just what you're gonna experience
because they know that you're him always
remember that guys when people bring you
weird energy they know that you're him
it's your boy Justin J get with you boys
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