FIRST DATE Tips For Men

Summary

In this video, Josh and J offer first date tips for men, emphasizing the importance of setting the right environment and being confident. They suggest avoiding restaurants for first dates, opting for places with music and dance floors to create a relaxed atmosphere. They also advise on how to assert oneself in a restaurant, the significance of not asking about a woman's past relationships, and the importance of being sexually compatible. The video concludes with a reminder to be masculine, not to bring flowers on the first date, and to avoid splitting the bill, ensuring a smooth dating experience.

Takeaways

• 📅 Always be clear and direct when inviting someone on a date, specifying the time and place.
• 💃 Choose a date location that allows for dancing and changing environments to keep the date dynamic and engaging.
• 🌳 Consider the environment and the interests of your date, such as nature or a nice view, to provide conversation topics.
• 🏨 When at a restaurant, assert yourself by confidently interacting with the staff and choosing a table for two.
• 🤵 Show confidence and self-assuredness to make a positive impression and make your date feel special.
• 📍 Give clear directions for the date, but be prepared for a potentially low-interest date if she resists or wants to change plans.
• 🙅 Avoid asking about her past relationships or 'body count'; let her share if she feels comfortable doing so.
• 💬 Encourage your date to talk about herself, giving only glimpses of your own life to keep her interested.
• 🔥 Be open to being sexual in your advances if she reciprocates, as this can indicate compatibility and interest.
• 💐 Avoid bringing flowers on the first date as it can come off as trying too hard or insincere.
• 💳 Do not split the bill on the first date; if you asked her out, take responsibility for the payment.
• 🕰 Be masculine and assertive about time and attention; if she's late or distracted, address it respectfully.

Q & A

What is the main topic of Josh and J's video?

The main topic of the video is first date tips for men.

What does Josh suggest for a first date invitation text?

Josh suggests texting the woman with a specific time and place, mentioning a spot in town with chill music, a dance floor, and good food.

Why does Josh recommend changing environments during a date?

Changing environments can create intrigue and keep the date interesting, allowing for different conversation topics and interactions.

What type of environment does Josh suggest for a first date if going to a restaurant?

Josh suggests a place where you can dance with her, possibly with a balcony or a back area for a more private conversation.

How should a man assert himself when entering a restaurant for a date?

He should introduce himself and the woman to the staff, and confidently request a table for two.

What is the importance of a man's posture and confidence during a date?

A man's posture and confidence can make him stand out and make the woman feel lucky to be with him, enhancing her experience.

Why should a man give directions for the first date?

Giving directions shows that the man is taking charge and planning the date, which can be attractive to women.

What does Josh advise against doing if a woman suggests changing the date location?

Josh advises against changing the date location if a woman resists, as it may indicate low interest and not a good first date experience.

Why should men avoid asking a woman about her ex on the first date?

Asking about her ex can create discomfort and is unnecessary; instead, let her share if she feels comfortable doing so.

What is Josh's advice on who should do the talking on the first date?

Josh advises that the woman should do most of the talking, with the man giving occasional glimpses into his life to keep her interested.

What is Josh's stance on showing up with flowers on the first date?

Josh advises against showing up with flowers on the first date as it can come off as trying too hard and may not be genuine.

How should a man handle a first date if the woman is late or constantly checking her phone?

A man should address the issue and if she has a problem with it, he should consider leaving, showing that he values respect and punctuality.

Why is it important for a man to be masculine during a date?

Being masculine shows leadership and sets boundaries, which can lead to a smoother and more respectful dating experience.

What should a man do regarding the bill at the end of the date?

If the man asked the woman out, he should pay the bill as a sign of being a stand-up guy and not expecting anything in return.