FIRST DATE Tips For Men
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Josh and J offer first date tips for men, emphasizing the importance of setting the right environment and being confident. They suggest avoiding restaurants for first dates, opting for places with music and dance floors to create a relaxed atmosphere. They also advise on how to assert oneself in a restaurant, the significance of not asking about a woman's past relationships, and the importance of being sexually compatible. The video concludes with a reminder to be masculine, not to bring flowers on the first date, and to avoid splitting the bill, ensuring a smooth dating experience.
Takeaways
- 📅 Always be clear and direct when inviting someone on a date, specifying the time and place.
- 💃 Choose a date location that allows for dancing and changing environments to keep the date dynamic and engaging.
- 🌳 Consider the environment and the interests of your date, such as nature or a nice view, to provide conversation topics.
- 🏨 When at a restaurant, assert yourself by confidently interacting with the staff and choosing a table for two.
- 🤵 Show confidence and self-assuredness to make a positive impression and make your date feel special.
- 📍 Give clear directions for the date, but be prepared for a potentially low-interest date if she resists or wants to change plans.
- 🙅 Avoid asking about her past relationships or 'body count'; let her share if she feels comfortable doing so.
- 💬 Encourage your date to talk about herself, giving only glimpses of your own life to keep her interested.
- 🔥 Be open to being sexual in your advances if she reciprocates, as this can indicate compatibility and interest.
- 💐 Avoid bringing flowers on the first date as it can come off as trying too hard or insincere.
- 💳 Do not split the bill on the first date; if you asked her out, take responsibility for the payment.
- 🕰 Be masculine and assertive about time and attention; if she's late or distracted, address it respectfully.
Q & A
What is the main topic of Josh and J's video?
-The main topic of the video is first date tips for men.
What does Josh suggest for a first date invitation text?
-Josh suggests texting the woman with a specific time and place, mentioning a spot in town with chill music, a dance floor, and good food.
Why does Josh recommend changing environments during a date?
-Changing environments can create intrigue and keep the date interesting, allowing for different conversation topics and interactions.
What type of environment does Josh suggest for a first date if going to a restaurant?
-Josh suggests a place where you can dance with her, possibly with a balcony or a back area for a more private conversation.
How should a man assert himself when entering a restaurant for a date?
-He should introduce himself and the woman to the staff, and confidently request a table for two.
What is the importance of a man's posture and confidence during a date?
-A man's posture and confidence can make him stand out and make the woman feel lucky to be with him, enhancing her experience.
Why should a man give directions for the first date?
-Giving directions shows that the man is taking charge and planning the date, which can be attractive to women.
What does Josh advise against doing if a woman suggests changing the date location?
-Josh advises against changing the date location if a woman resists, as it may indicate low interest and not a good first date experience.
Why should men avoid asking a woman about her ex on the first date?
-Asking about her ex can create discomfort and is unnecessary; instead, let her share if she feels comfortable doing so.
What is Josh's advice on who should do the talking on the first date?
-Josh advises that the woman should do most of the talking, with the man giving occasional glimpses into his life to keep her interested.
What is Josh's stance on showing up with flowers on the first date?
-Josh advises against showing up with flowers on the first date as it can come off as trying too hard and may not be genuine.
How should a man handle a first date if the woman is late or constantly checking her phone?
-A man should address the issue and if she has a problem with it, he should consider leaving, showing that he values respect and punctuality.
Why is it important for a man to be masculine during a date?
-Being masculine shows leadership and sets boundaries, which can lead to a smoother and more respectful dating experience.
What should a man do regarding the bill at the end of the date?
-If the man asked the woman out, he should pay the bill as a sign of being a stand-up guy and not expecting anything in return.
Outlines
🤓 First Date Tips for Men: Environment and Confidence
In this paragraph, Josh and J offer advice for men on how to plan and execute a successful first date. The focus is on choosing the right environment, such as a place with music, dancing, and good food, to create a relaxed and engaging atmosphere. They suggest changing environments during the date to keep things interesting and to facilitate conversation. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being assertive and articulate when entering a restaurant or any establishment, as this can impress a woman and make her feel special. The paragraph also advises men to avoid asking a woman about her past relationships and instead let her lead the conversation, which can reveal more about her dating experiences and personality.
💪 Masculine Behavior and Sexual Tension on First Dates
This paragraph delves into the importance of being masculine and taking the lead on a first date. It suggests that men should be direct with their intentions and not be afraid to introduce sexual elements into the date if the woman reciprocates. The speaker argues against the notion that a friendship must be established before a romantic relationship can develop, stating that sexual compatibility is a strong foundation for a relationship. Additionally, the paragraph advises against bringing flowers on the first date as it can come off as trying too hard. It also touches on the importance of paying the bill if the man initiated the date, as a sign of being a stand-up guy. Lastly, it addresses the issue of dealing with disrespectful behavior, such as a woman being late or constantly checking her phone, and suggests that men should not tolerate such behavior and should be willing to leave if necessary.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡First Date Tips
💡Environment
💡Confidence
💡Resistance
💡Sexual Compatibility
💡Non-Judgmental
💡Body Count
💡Dominant
💡Tryhard
💡Masculine
💡Split the Bill
Highlights
Invite a woman on a date by suggesting a specific time and place with a relaxed atmosphere.
Choose a date location where you can dance and change environments to keep the interaction dynamic.
When planning a date, consider the environment and choose a setting that provides conversation topics.
If taking her to a restaurant, assert yourself and show confidence when interacting with staff.
Real women appreciate a man who can control the room and articulate himself smoothly.
Give clear directions for the date and set expectations for attire to show leadership.
Be prepared to handle resistance from a woman as it may indicate a lack of interest in the date.
Avoid asking about her ex and let her share her dating experiences if she feels comfortable.
Encourage her to do most of the talking on the first date to let her open up and share about herself.
Get sexual if she reciprocates your advances, as it can be a sign of compatibility.
Don't show up with flowers on the first date as it may come off as trying too hard.
If you ask her out, be prepared to pay the bill as a sign of being a stand-up guy.
Be masculine and address any disrespectful behavior, such as being late or constantly on the phone.
The video emphasizes the importance of a man's confidence and leadership in dating.
Transcripts
what's good guys it's your boy Josh and
J coming to you with another video do me
a favor hit that subscribe button and
let's get straight into the video boys
okay first date tips for men guys I know
it can be kind of awkward on the first
date if you don't know the right things
to say you don't know how to plan the
day guys I got it covered here we go so
if I want to invite a woman on a date
with me I would just text her hey
Thursday at eight o'clock I know there's
a little spot in town we can go to
there's chill music there's a dance
floor and there's really good food if
you have to go to a restaurant if you're
really dying to do it like that guys
bring her somewhere where you can dance
with her where there might be somewhere
where you can step out maybe like a
balcony maybe in the back and you talk
there you bring her inside you change
environments so you give her some gentle
conversation that intrigues her right
then you bring her back in you spin her
around a bunch of times and you dip and
then you give her a drink and somehow
she's gonna be like I had a really good
time tonight and it almost sucks that we
didn't have as much time to talk because
we were just dancing the whole time and
vibing you know what I mean environment
is key when planning a date when you're
in a different environment you might
take her to a site where you can see
water there's a nice view that's
something to talk about environment
nature maybe she's big into nature take
her on a hike then you start talking
about hiking you start talking about
animals you start talking about trees
you start talking about different
categories of trees leaves the girl
could be a complete nerd you do not know
but if you do bring her to a restaurant
right you bring her to an establishment
assert yourself when you walk in the
room the closest workers towards you
guys you go up to them introduce
yourself halfway introduce her and then
you say I'd like a table for two guys
real women real women are going to
appreciate this they're going to be
looking at you as you're just
controlling the room they're going to be
seeing how you articulate yourself
you're gonna see if you're that dominant
guy in the space but just comes off
smooth everybody is going to be paying
attention but solely she will be paying
attention guys think about it like this
if you walked into a date right clean
cut presentable you're just very sure of
yourself your posture is right right
everyone in the room is going to be like
who's that guy when they see her with
you it's going to be like okay well who
is she she is lucky to be with this guy
right now that's exactly what's going to
be going on guys you're not crazy people
are going to see this and it's going to
make her Shine the woman does not Shine
without the manner remember that guys
another tip but guys this is kind of
leading into the first day right like
when you're planning
guys you want to give her directions hey
I want you to meet me here at eight
o'clock wear something red see you there
and if she says something like well I
don't really like that spot can we go
here instead when a woman gives you any
resistance like that it's not going to
be a good first date trust and believe
it's not going to be a good first date
because a woman that really is into you
that likes what she sees and likes what
she's hearing guys you can take her
anywhere you can take her anywhere she
is going to be down guys it's not about
the date it's not about any of that
that's the quickest way to weed out a
woman and know that you're just gonna
know I'm not gonna have the experience
that I want on this first date I'm
already getting resistance before I'm on
the date and guys we do not want to deal
with girls who are low interest we want
to deal with girls who are high interest
we don't want to deal with low interest
women I know a lot of guys have this
misconception in their head of we want
to take a low interest woman and turn it
into a high interest woman no guys
because you have to add on a bunch of
things you have to go where she wants to
go no it is about you it's not about her
remember she does not shine unless you
shine okay guys another tip guys do not
ask her about her ex let her ask you
about your ex or let it just come up or
here's a good one I love to use it
because it really exposes females dating
experiences out here they're not as good
as you would come to believe guys trust
and believe when you're a very
non-judgmental guy and you know how to
articulate yourself and make a woman
feel comfortable she is going going to
tell you her dating experiences and be
completely honest and not that she's
going to be honest about her body count
remember that and do not ask that guys
do not ask about her body count what are
you trying to do get hitched guys look
at it like this right if you ask a woman
about her dating experiences on the
dating apps especially she is going to
give you War Stories she's going to give
you sad stories and you're just gonna
laugh and you're actually gonna feel
more comfortable like wow she's really
nothing to me I'm out here catching
great experiences while she's out here
stepping on land months guys pay
attention all right guys please let her
do all of the talking on the first date
guys it should get to a point where
she's like well geez I'm over here just
rambling on enough about me what about
you what do you like to do what are your
hobbies where are you from let her do
all the talking guys because when it
comes to you now you can give out little
doses little doses while she continues
to flip it again because women can never
keep the focus on you she's going to
talk about herself again and that is
what you want you give her a glimpse you
give her a glimpse she starts talking
about herself oh well I remember when I
used to do this we kind of have a
similar thing going on let her yeah yeah
yeah yeah guys then give her another
Glimpse give her another glimpse into
your life let her see how much of a dope
dude you are right but don't say too
much alright guys another tip get sexual
get sexual I know you're gonna be afraid
and most guys don't have the confidence
but guys it starts here if she
reciprocates energy to your advances
saying like sexual innuendos or maybe a
little joke you know what I mean guys
you're in there because no woman is
going to reciprocate energy she's going
to instantly act uncomfortable if she
does not like you like that if she has
low interest and a lot of guys think
that you need to be friends with a woman
first that's the best way to build a
relationship when they go after the guy
that they really want to go after it's
completely reversed it's completely
backwards because guys if you're
sexually compatible everything else will
follow after
think about it guys when a woman gets
with a guy who she's highly sexually
attracted to there's always something
about him that she can't change and it
drives her crazy and she is on a mission
to change it but the perfect guy who was
attentive and willing to do whatever she
wants to do and as a solid dude
punishes him she does not really respect
him that much pay attention guys and I
know it's backwards but it is what it is
all right Brothers do not show up with
flowers do not show up with flowers guys
that is the easiest way to turn a woman
off but I know they say that they like
flowers guys do not believe it if this
is the initial first date and you show
up with flowers guys
where's the buzzer at because this can't
be real guys do it if you want to by all
means go for it but guys never show up
with flowers on the first date she's
gonna know that you're a tryhard she's
gonna know that your intentions aren't
even really that genuine because why is
this guy giving me flowers
why we're supposed to get to know each
other right now so how much does he know
and he's giving me flowers
Mark guys do not split the bill if you
asked her out be a man just pay the bill
don't be like these guys in the videos
talking about am I getting any tonight
oh no all right well can you split the
bill yeah it's funny for those videos
the the shock value but guys really
being a stand-up dude you asked her out
just because things didn't go your way
that shows your lack of game last tip
and then we're out of here guys be
masculine if a woman just keeps
constantly checking her phone right or
maybe she strolls into the date 20
minutes late do not sit there and
continue the day you check her on it you
say something and if she has a problem
get up pay the bill or whatever just get
up leave charge it to the game but if
she really respects you she'll respect
the fact that you checked her and she'll
be like wow I never even saw this as a
problem so many other men just let it
slide guys this will make a first date
go so smooth it's your boy Justin J get
with you boys in the next video like
comment and subscribe love y'all boys
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