Belajar Mencintai Diri Sendiri Bersama Psikolog | Belajar Tentang EP. 1: Self Love - Kognisi.id
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the concept of self-love, emphasizing its importance for personal development. Sha Putri Fajrianti, a psychologist at Universitas Multimedia Nusantara, explains that self-love involves actions that make us comfortable and happy, as well as those that may be challenging but contribute to our growth. She uses examples from students' lives, such as the hardships of finding resources for research or revising theses, to illustrate that self-love is not always easy but is crucial for achieving goals and preparing for future benefits. The script also touches on the idea that self-love is not about accepting flaws passively but about acknowledging and improving them, adapting to different life stages and needs.
Takeaways
- π Self-love is a multifaceted concept that involves actions to develop oneself in various aspects such as physical, emotional, psychological, academic, intellectual, and spiritual.
- π± Self-love is not always about immediate pleasure; it includes actions that may be difficult in the present but contribute to personal growth and development in the future.
- π The example of university students struggling with assignments, interviews, and thesis revisions illustrates that self-love can involve hard work and discipline for future benefits.
- πΌ Self-love is also about financial planning and understanding one's income, savings, and emergency funds, which may not be enjoyable but are crucial for long-term well-being.
- π€ Self-love is not egoism; it is about taking actions to develop oneself and can include both enjoyable activities and necessary but less pleasant tasks.
- π Self-love prepares individuals to face life's challenges with a lighter load and the ability to handle situations where expectations are not met.
- π‘ The importance of self-love is akin to refueling a car; it provides the energy needed to carry out daily obligations and responsibilities.
- π Happiness is personal and varies from person to person. While self-love does not guarantee happiness, it opens up the possibility for a lighter and more fulfilling life.
- π§ Self-love involves self-awareness and acceptance of one's strengths and weaknesses, and the willingness to improve areas that are lacking.
- π The needs and forms of self-love evolve with a person's growth and life stage, changing from childhood to adolescence, from being a student to entering the workforce, and beyond.
- π Self-love is essential for personal development and should be nurtured at every stage of life to ensure a balanced and healthy approach to self-improvement.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video script?
-The main topic discussed in the video script is the concept of self-love and its importance in personal development.
Who is Sha Putri Fajrianti and what is her role?
-Sha Putri Fajrianti is a psychologist working in the student support department at Universitas Multimedia Nusantara, providing psychological services to students.
What are some examples of self-love behaviors mentioned in the script?
-Examples of self-love behaviors mentioned include healing, going on vacation, meeting friends, and taking care of one's physical, emotional, psychological, intellectual, and spiritual aspects.
How does Sha Putri Fajrianti define self-love in the context of personal development?
-Sha Putri Fajrianti defines self-love as actions that make us comfortable and happy, as well as behaviors that may not feel good in the moment but contribute to our growth and development in the long term.
What is the relationship between self-love and the challenges faced by students, such as thesis revisions and finding interview subjects?
-The relationship is that self-love involves enduring temporary discomforts or challenges, like thesis revisions and finding interview subjects, for the sake of personal growth and future rewards such as academic achievements and personal satisfaction.
Is self-love considered egoistic according to the script?
-According to the script, self-love is not considered egoistic because it is about actions that develop and benefit the individual in various aspects of life.
What is the role of self-love in preparing individuals for life's ups and downs?
-Self-love prepares individuals to accept and deal with life's ups and downs by developing a strong sense of self-worth and the ability to take care of oneself emotionally and physically.
How does self-love relate to personal happiness?
-Self-love does not guarantee happiness but it opens up the possibility for individuals to live life more lightly and to be prepared to accept both the good and the bad experiences.
What are some misconceptions about self-love that the script aims to clarify?
-Some misconceptions include the belief that self-love is only about indulging in pleasurable activities or being self-centered. The script clarifies that self-love also involves accepting and working on one's imperfections.
How does the script suggest that the concept of self-love evolves with a person's life stages?
-The script suggests that self-love evolves with a person's life stages by adapting to the different needs and challenges at each stage, such as financial planning for a first jobber or career planning for a working professional.
What is the final message Sha Putri Fajrianti conveys about self-love in the script?
-The final message is that self-love is essential and should be adapted to the individual's current life stage and needs, and it plays a significant role in personal development and well-being.
Outlines
π Understanding Self-Love and Its Importance
The first paragraph introduces the concept of self-love as a multifaceted practice that involves actions to develop oneself in various aspects such as physical, emotional, psychological, academic, intellectual, and spiritual. Sha Putri Fajrianti, a psychologist at Student Support in Universitas Multimedia Nusantara, explains that self-love is not inherently selfish but is about nurturing oneself through activities that bring comfort and happiness, such as healing or going on vacation. The paragraph also highlights the importance of self-love in personal development, even when it involves challenging tasks like academic revisions or financial planning, which may not be pleasant in the moment but contribute to long-term growth and well-being.
π± The Evolution of Self-Love and Acceptance
The second paragraph delves into the idea that self-love is not a static concept and evolves with an individual's personal growth and life stage. It emphasizes that self-love involves acknowledging and accepting both the strengths and weaknesses within oneself. The speaker discusses how self-love plays a role in personal development, enabling individuals to recognize their imperfections and work towards self-improvement. The paragraph also touches on the varying forms self-love can take at different life stages, such as the exploration of identity during adolescence or financial planning as a new employee, illustrating that self-love is a dynamic and adaptable process that changes according to one's needs and circumstances.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Self-love
π‘Personal Development
π‘Egoism
π‘Happiness
π‘Psychological Health
π‘Student Support
π‘Self-Acceptance
π‘Financial Planning
π‘Career Planning
π‘Personal Growth
π‘Life Stages
Highlights
Self-love is not necessarily always enjoyable and can involve actions that may not feel good in the moment but benefit us in the long run, such as hard work on a thesis or job responsibilities.
Self-love is not selfish, as it is about developing oneself in various aspects like physical, emotional, psychological, academic, intellectual, and spiritual.
Self-love includes both enjoyable activities that make us happy and necessary actions that may be difficult but contribute to our growth and well-being.
Loving oneself can open up the possibility for a lighter, more fulfilling life, though it does not guarantee constant happiness due to the personal nature of what brings joy.
Self-love involves being aware of and accepting both the strengths and weaknesses in ourselves, rather than ignoring our flaws.
Self-love is important as it fuels us, similar to how we need sleep, exercise, and social interaction to recharge and have the energy to fulfill our daily obligations.
The concept of self-love and its importance can vary greatly among individuals, depending on their personal values and what brings them happiness.
Self-love is crucial during different life stages, evolving with a person's growth and changing needs, from childhood to adulthood and various milestones.
Self-love for teenagers may be closely tied to identity formation, self-acceptance, and social exploration, while for college students it might involve maximizing learning and academic success.
For recent graduates entering the workforce, self-love may focus on financial planning, career development, and setting long-term goals.
Sha Putri Fajrianti, a psychologist at Universitas Multimedia Nusantara, emphasizes the multifaceted nature of self-love and its significance in personal development.
Self-love is not just about enjoying the moment but also about making sacrifices and efforts that pay off in personal growth and achievements.
The importance of self-love is highlighted as a way to prepare oneself to face life's challenges and uncertainties with a stronger foundation.
Self-love can manifest in various forms depending on an individual's current life stage and needs, such as acceptance, exploration, social development, or financial planning.
The transcript discusses the potential reasons why some people may not practice self-love, possibly due to not coming from an environment that encourages self-appreciation.
Self-love is presented as a continuous process that evolves with a person's life experiences and personal development.
The transcript concludes with the message that self-love, while not always easy, is a vital aspect of personal growth and well-being.
Transcripts
Apakah ketika kita mencintai diri
sendiri pasti kita menjadi bahagia
Contoh teman-teman mahasiswa sekarang
gitu ya lagi susah-susah begadang lagi
susah-susah wah cari narasumber buat
wawancara gitu ya atau Wah begadang
bikin skripsi revisi-revisi Nah jadi
Apakah itu egois jawabannya enggak gitu
ya karena itu dilakukan untuk
mengembangkan siapa diri kita
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sendiri Halo semuanya perkenalkan saya
Sha Putri fajrianti salah satu psikolog
yang ada di bagian student support
Universitas Multimedia Nusantara studen
support itu adalah bagian dari
kemahasiswaan yang memberikan pelayanan
soal psikologis bagi mahasiswa-mahasiswi
aktif di Universitas Multimedia
Nusantara Mungkin kita bisa langsung aja
masuk ya ke pertanyaan yang pertama buat
hari ini yaitu Apakah self love itu nah
sederhananya self itu adalah eh satu
kondisi gitu ya Di mana a kita itu
melakukan serangkaian perilaku
serangkaian actions gitu ya untuk
mengembangkan diri kita sendiri berbagai
aspek gitu ya Mulai dari mungkin eh
secara fisik gitu atau secara emosional
secara psikologis secara akademis secara
intelektual eh spiritual juga mungkin ya
bisa jadi banyak banget aspek dalam diri
kita yang bisa kita tingkatkan Apakah
self love itu egois jawaban singkatnya
adalah enggak nah jawaban panjangnya
adalah Memang sih self love itu e
identik gitu ya dengan aksi-aksi dengan
perilaku-perilaku yang membuat kita
nyaman yang membuat kita senang ya
misalkan kita healing atau kita e pergi
liburan gitu ya atau lagi meettime
seperti itu itu bagian dari self love
Bagaimana kayak kita e merawat diri kita
sendiri tapi self love itu juga berisi
perilaku-perilaku atau action actions
yang mungkin saat ini enggak enak gitu
ya Tapi ke depannya itu bisa bikin kita
berkembang atau bisa kasih manfaat buat
kita
contoh teman-teman mahasiswa sekarang
gitu ya lagi susah-susah begadang lagi
susah-susah wah cari narasumber buat
wawancara gitu ya atau Wah begadang
bikin skripsi revisi-revisi Nah itu
enggak enak memang tapi reward-nya nanti
Oh kalian dapat nilai yang bagus dapat
ee gelar gitu ya bisa wisuda bisa
banggain orang tua banggain diri sendiri
bisa cari kerjaan nah itu juga self love
walaupun enggak enak gitu ya bentuknya
Aduh gadang sampai matanya hitam kayak
gitu ya Nah itu jadi enggak selamanya
self itu tuh enak-enakan terus gitu atau
bisa juga nih buat misalkan e
teman-teman yang first jober gitu ya
yang fresh grade baru keterima kerja
gitu ya pasti senang nih Wah dapat gaji
pertama dapat Akhirnya bisa menghasilkan
uang sendiri gitu ya rasanya pengen self
reward terus gitu Wah 6-6 kemarin nih
Wah check out check out check out at
jajan-jajan gofood segala macam gitu ya
Nah Memang sih itu salah satu hal yang
menyenangkan diri kita sendiri kita
rasanya berterima kasih buat diri kita
sendiri gitu ya tapi kadang-kadang self
love itu juga kita ngerem Wah harus
punya nih perencanaan finansial harus
tahu nih Wah gaji sekian nabung berapa
eh berapa untuk dana darurat berapa
untuk tabungan seperti itu memang enggak
enak gitu ya kayak membatasi diri tapi
itu juga bentuk dari self love kita
sendiri gitu Supaya apa supaya kita ke
depan bisa lebih ringan bisa lebih
dapetin manfaatnya kayak gitu Jadi
apakah itu egois jawabannya enggak gitu
ya Kak karena itu dilakukan untuk
mengembangkan siapa diri kita sendiri
sebenarnya pentingkah self love itu
kalau saya pribadi jawabnya penting self
love itu kayak kita kasih bensin ke diri
kita sendiri kita tidur kita olahraga
kita
e beribadah mungkin ya Salah satu bentuk
self love juga gitu atau kita pergi sama
teman-teman kita meet time Nah itu tuh
juga kayak bensin buat diri kita sendiri
kita jadi kerecharge kita punya bahan
bakar gitu untuk melakukan kewajiban
kita se hari-hari yang kuliah ya kuliah
yang kerja ya kerja yang lagi berjuang
skripsi ya berjuang skripsi Mengapa
orang tidak melakukan self love
jawabannya Mungkin cukup banyak ya dan
personal dari masing-masing orang tapi
mungkin kalau bisa kita tarik jadi eh
satu kesimpulan bisa jadi karena kita
tidak datang dari lingkungan yang
membiasakan diri kita untuk menghargai
diri kita sendiri Apakah ketika kita
mencintai diri sendiri pasti kita
menjadi bahagia sebenarnya kebahagiaan
itu kembali lagi Ya sifatnya
sangat-sangat personal bagi kita mungkin
ada yang bahagia
ketika mungkin ya bisa membahagiakan
orang tua atau bikin orang tua bangga
ada yang kebahagiaannya itu ketika
pacarnya senang gitu mungkin ada mungkin
yang sudah berkeluarga gitu ya wah asal
anak gue senang gue juga senang gitu
jadi bahagia untuk setiap orang itu
sifatnya sangat personal tapi ketika
kita mencintai diri kita sendiri kita
membuka luang ya untuk menjalani
kehidupan dengan lebih ringan kehidupan
itu kan enggak selamanya bahagia gitu ya
pasti ada aja saat-saat di mana kita
ngdown saat-saat di mana apa yang kita
harapkan tidak terjadi atau terjadi
sesuatu yang tidak kita harapkan nah
seperti itu ketika kita self love atau
kita e mencintai diri kita sendiri tidak
pasti serta-merta membuat kita bahagia
tapi mempersiapkan diri kita untuk bisa
menerima Adakah peran self love dalam
menjadi diri yang kita mau atau dalam
mengembangkan diri ada banget gitu self
love itu bukan berarti kita ee menerima
gitu ya kejelekan-kejelekan atau
kekurangan-kekurangan dalam diri terus
ya udah diam aja gitu tapi self love itu
menyadari dan pada akhirnya menerima
gitu semua part yang ada dalam diri kita
setiap orang kan punya ya bagian-bagian
yang Rasanya oke banget nih dalam diri
kita kita punya nih kelebihan gitu ya
self love di situ pentingnya ketika kita
menyadari oh ternyata ada loh part yang
masih kurang dalam diri saya ternyata
ada part yang
masih jauh dari kata sempurna dalam diri
kita nah di situlah self love mulai
bermain It's OK loh kalau punya part
yang masih buruk ini It's OK Punya part
yang belum sempurna ini nah self love
membuat kita bisa menerima dan pada
akhirnya berusaha meningkatkan apa yang
jadi kekurangan kita Apakah kebutuhan
self love setiap orang itu akan
berkembang dengan seiring perkembangan
orang tersebut jawabannya ee pasti akan
berubah gitu ya self love-nya anak umur
7 tahun gitu ya Eh anak SD mungkin akan
beda nih dengan teman-teman yang mungkin
usianya SMA gitu akan akan e berkembang
lagi akan beda lagi dengan teman-teman
mahasiswa akan berkembang lagi beda lagi
gitu ya dengan teman-teman mungkin yang
EE baru mulai masuk kerja gitu akan beda
juga dengan mungkin ee yang baru
berkeluarga yang baru punya anak gitu ya
atau baru pindah kerja nah self love-nya
pasti akan beda beda banget tuh
bentuknya tergantung dengan apa dengan
apa yang kita butuhkan di tahap
kehidupan kita saat itu mungkin
selfw-nya anak-anak remaja gitu ya Eh
karena erat banget kaitannya dengan
pembentukan identitas diri gitu atau
lagi mencari nih jati dirinya siapa maka
self love-nya bentuknya akan mungkin
lebih erat gitu ya dengan penerimaan
diri dengan eksplorasi dengan ee
perkembangan sosial gitu ya cari teman
sebanyak-banyaknya ee explore sana sini
minatnya apa kepenginnya apa gitu
mungkin untuk teman-teman eh mahasiswa
gitu Ya selfw-nya mulai naik lagi nih
tingkatannya yaitu dengan Gimana caranya
supaya Wah udah kuliah nih udah
susah-susah udah mahal-mahal masuk gitu
ya Gimana caranya bisa belajar maksimal
bisa dapetin nilai yang terbaik nah
selflog-nya akan beda lagi bentuknya
gitu mungkin tadi ya dengan teman-teman
yang first jober gitu self love-nya beda
lagi yaitu mulai menata finansialnya
Seperti apa mulai bikin eh planning atau
perencanaan karir 5 tahun ke depan mau
ngapain 7 tahun ke depan mau ngapain Oh
mau ngambil S2 kah Atau mau coba keah
perusahaan lain kayak gitu jadi bentuk
self love-nya memang akan beda-beda oke
sekian teman-teman bahasan kita hari ini
tentang self love nah Sekian dari saya
SH Putri fajrianti dari student support
Universitas Multimedia Nusantara Semoga
bisa bertemu di lain kesempatan thank
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you
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