This Might Be the Creepiest Stalker Ever

Summary

Скрипт видео рассказывает о событиях, когда мать вызвала полицию из-за мужчины, который преследовал её дочь. Мужчина, по его словам, получил 'сигналы' от девушки, которая работала в тренажёрном зале, где он был членом. Он приехал из Нью-Джерси в Флориду, веря в свою интуицию и 'знания' от Вселенной. Полиция арестовала его по подозрению в киберпреследовании и киберхарассменте. Девушка утверждает, что не была в отношениях с ним и блокировала его в социальных сетях, но он продолжал следить и отправлять ненормальные сообщения.

Takeaways

• 👮‍♂️ В скрипте рассказывается о том, как полицейские прибыли на место после вызова от матери, которая сообщила о том, что мужчина преследует её дочь.
• 🚔 Мужчина, обвиняемый в преследовании, утверждает, что его привлекательность к дочери родилась из их взаимодействия в тренажерном зале, где она работала и он посещал.
• 🤔 Мужчина испытывает заблуждение, считая, что получал поддержку от девушки через социальные сети, включая интуитивные подсказки от Вселенной.
• 🔄 Он отмечает, что девушка блокировала его в социальных сетях, но он продолжал следить за ней через альтернативные аккаунты и сайты для просмотра истории.
• 🚗 Мужчина путешествовал 25 часов на машине из Нью-Джерси в Флориду, убегаясь в предположение, что девушка была там и что ему даны знаки.
• 👁️ Мужчина утверждает, что следил за историями девушки и её матери на Facebook и Instagram, что позволило ему знать о их путешествии в Флориду.
• 📱 Он сообщил, что его аккаунты были заблокированы, но он продолжал получать сообщения и следить за девушкой через общедоступные истории и специальные веб-сайты.
• 👁️‍🗨️ Мужчина рассказывает о том, что он видел сообщения, которые, по его мнению, подтверждают его теории о связи с девушкой, включая посты с птицами и других символами.
• 👩‍👧 Девушка утверждает, что не была в отношениях с мужчиной, что их взаимодействие было ограничено общением в тренажерном зале, и она считает его поведение угрожающим и нежелательным.
• 🚨 В результате обсуждения с полицейскими, мужчина был арестован по подозрению в киберпреследовании и кибер-характерном.
• 🏢 Мужчина признал свои действия и попытки убедиться в том, что его поведение было безобидным, несмотря на то, что полицейские указали на то, что это вызывало дискомфорт и страх у девушки и её матери.

Q & A

Что произошло 30 декабря 2022 года?

Депутаты откликнулись на звонок от матери, которая сообщила о мужчине, который следил за ее дочерью.

Какое поведение мужчины было рассмотрено как угрозы?

Мужчина начал следить за 19-летней дочерью матери, что было рассмотрено как поведение угрозы и преследования.

Что такое 'гаслигтинг', к которому отсылается в скрипте?

Гаслигтинг - это манипулятивное поведение, при котором человек вводит сомнение в собственные воспоминания или восприятие реальности, часто используемое в манипуляции и психологическом насилии.

Как мужчина познакомился с девушкой?

Он познакомился с ней в тренажерном зале, где она работала, и попросил у неё Instagram.

Какие действия мужчины после познакомства с девушкой вызвали обеспокоенность?

Он начал отправлять ей сообщения в Instagram, в которых выражал свои чувства и предположительно следил за ее активностью в социальных сетях.

Какие действия со стороны мужчины были расценены как преследование?

Он вел себя в социальных сетях, как если бы у него существовал романтический оттенок взаимодействия с девушкой, который она отрицала, и отправил ей сообщения, которые она рассматривала как неприемлемые.

Какие действия были предприняты матерью и дочерью после того, как мужчина начал преследовать их?

Мать и дочь обратились в полицию, и мужчину обвинили в кибер-преследовании и кибер-характерном общении.

Что такое 'кибер-преследование' и 'кибер-характерное общение'?

Кибер-преследование - это действия в интернете, направленные на психологическое давление или угрозу безопасности. Кибер-характерное общение - это общение в интернете, которое может быть оскорбительным или неприемлемым.

Какие действия со стороны мужчины были расценены как нарушение?

Он был задержан и обвинен в кибер-преследовании и кибер-характерном общении, что является нарушением закона.

Какие последствия ожидает мужчина из-за его действий?

Он может столкнуться с юридическими последствиями, включая арест и возможное судебное разбирательство.

Какие действия со стороны полицейских были предприняты после обращения матери и дочери?

Полиция начала расследование, вызвала мужчину на допрос и в конечном итоге арестовала его.

Outlines

00:00

👮‍♂️ Обращение в полицию о преследовании

В параграфе 1 описывается ситуация, когда мать обращается в полицию из-за мужчины, который преследует ее дочь. Мужчина, который считал, что девушка была заинтересована в нем, получил от неё 'сигналы' и отправился к ней на автомобиле из-за предположений, что у них есть некая связь. Он утверждает, что они встретились в тренажёрном зале, где она работала, и обменивались Instagram-аккаунтами. Мать утверждает, что между ними не было никакой связи, и его поведение было вызвано его собственными иллюзиями.

05:02

🚔 Продолжение расследования и обвинения в преследовании

В параграфе 2 рассматривается дальнейшее расследование ситуации с преследованием. Мужчина утверждает, что понимал, что девушка находится в Флориде благодаря её Instagram-историям, и решил приехать туда, почувствовав поддержку 'универсума'. Он обвиняется в кибер-преследовании и кибер-хулиганстве, и его аккаунт был заблокирован девушкой, но он продолжал следить за ней через другие аккаунты и интернет-сайты. Полиция рассматривает возможность получения судебного приказа о предупреждении.

10:04

🏋️‍♀️ Сотрудничество в тренажёрном зале и последующие события

В параграфе 3 рассказывается о том, как мужчина встретился с девушкой, которая работала в тренажёрном зале, и о том, как их взаимодействие развилось. Девушка утверждает, что они не общались, кроме приветствий, но мужчина начал отправлять ей странные сообщения и создавать образы в своем воображении. Он начал следить за ней в социальных сетях, включая аккаунты её друзей и её мамы на Facebook. Полиция обсуждает, как действия мужчины могут быть оценены с точки зрения закона о преследовании.

15:06

📱 Кибер-преследование и его последствия

В параграфе 4 подробно рассматривается кибер-преследование со стороны мужчины, который отправил девушке фотографию с ее лицом на экране своего телефона. Он признаёт, что понимал, что его действия могут быть рассмотрены как преследование, но продолжил их. Полиция обсуждает, как собирать доказательства и обращаться к прокуратуре для решения о возбуждении уголовного дела. Мужчина признаёт свои поступки, но считает себя безобидным.

20:13

🚓 Арест и последующие действия

В заключительном параграфе описывается арест мужчины и последующие действия со стороны полиции. Он был задержан по подозрению в кибер-хулиганстве и преследовании. Полиция собирается изучить его имущество, находящееся в автомобиле, и обсуждает, как следует действовать дальше. Мужчина предлагает вернуться домой, но полиция продолжает расследование.

Keywords

💡стalking

Стalking - это обычная практика преследования или наблюдения за кем-либо, часто без их согласия или в их отсутствие. В контексте видео, это понятие связано с мужчиной, которая преследует дочь матери, которая звонит в полицию, и показывает, как один персонаж путешествовал на автомобиле, чтобы увидеть девушку, которую он считает своей музой, несмотря на отсутствие реального отношения между ними.

💡gaslighting

Gaslighting - это психологическая манипуляция, которая включает в себя ввод в заблуждение или заблуждение другого человека, часто для контроля над ними. В видео персонаж рассматривает свои взаимодействия с девушкой как подтверждение своих чувств, что может быть интерпретировано как форма gaslighting, где он убеждает себя в существовании отношений, которые на самом деле не существуют.

💡intuition

Интуиция - это способность понимать или почувствовать что-то без явных доказательств или рассуждений. В видео персонаж ссылается на свою интуицию, чтобы обосновать свое поведение, утверждая, что чувствовал поддержку и признания от девушки через посты в социальных сетях, несмотря на отсутствие реального общения.

💡социальные сети

Социальные сети - это платформы, где люди могут общаться и делиться информацией. В видео социальные сети являются основным каналом коммуникации между персонажами, где один из них следит за аккаунтом девушки, чтобы получить подтверждение своих чувств, и где происходит большая часть взаимодействий.

💡цибер-харассмент

Цибер-харассмент - это угроза, оскорбление или нападение на человека в интернете. В видео один персонаж обвиняется в цибер-харассменте, отправляя сообщения и публикуя посты о девушке, которую он преследует, что является нарушением ее личной жизни и спокойствия.

💡арест

Арест - это законное задержание и удерживание человека, обычно подозреваемого в преступлении. В видео персонаж был арестован полицейскими после того, как он путешествовал на автомобиле на большом расстоянии, чтобы увидеть девушку, которую он преследует.

💡музой

Музой - это вдохновляющая личность, которая служит источником вдохновения для художника или автора. В контексте видео, один персонаж считает девушку своей музой, несмотря на отсутствие реального отношения, что демонстрирует его утопическое восприятие ситуации.

💡игнорирование

Игнорирование - это отсутствие внимания или признания, часто в общественных или социальных ситуациях. В видео девушка блокирует персонажа в социальных сетях, что является формой игнорирования его попыток связи и взаимодействия.

💡полицейский участковый

Полицейский участковый - это отделение полиции, ответственное за определенный район. В видео полицейские участковые вовлечены в расследование и арест персонажа, который обвиняется в преследовании девушки.

💡цифровая угроза

Цифровая угроза - это любая угроза, представленная через электронные средства связи, такие как сообщения или публикации в интернете. В видео персонаж создает цифровую угрозу, путем публикации постов и сообщений о девушке, что является нарушением ее безопасности.

Highlights

Deputies responded to a call regarding a man stalking a woman's daughter.

The man, referred to as 'JY', drove for 25 hours to follow the woman.

JY claims to have been 'gaslighting' himself, believing the woman was interested in him.

JY met the woman at a gym where she worked, and asked for her Instagram.

There was no physical relationship between JY and the woman; interactions were limited to the gym.

JY believed he received signs from the universe about the woman's interest.

The woman blocked JY on Instagram, but he continued to follow her on other platforms.

JY used third-party websites to view the woman's Instagram stories anonymously.

The woman's mother was also aware of JY's behavior and had taken steps to protect her daughter.

JY was arrested for cyber harassment and cyber stalking.

The police discussed the possibility of using incidents from New Jersey in the case.

JY's behavior escalated to the point of driving 22 hours to find the woman in Florida.

The woman had no verbal communication with JY, only interactions through social media.

JY's perception of the situation was vastly different from the reality and the woman's experience.

The police are considering the legal implications of JY's actions across state lines.

JY's arrest raises questions about jurisdiction and the application of stalking laws.

The woman and her family are seeking a court order for protection against JY.

JY's actions have caused significant distress and fear for the woman and her family.

Transcripts

on December 30th 2022 deputies responded

to a call from a mother regarding a man

who was stalking her

daughter I'm going to

run where did

you JY drove down for good that's a

bro like 25

hours why are you

hours I

was apparently gaslighting

s

gaslighting you

you were you like invited

here I'm trying to understand I don't

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understand gaslighting yourself into

what I

I thought

that there

was I had believed in certain

things and uh

it I thought that this woman this girl

was into

me and soon about a girl came to for a

girl

okay and I thought that I was getting

signs

that to come out and come

down okay so you were you listen to

intuition from the

Universe I was hearing sence when years

I had thought that I had found a

playist from her about me because of the

poem I wrote about her okay

do you know this person in New Jersey

like is this somebody else from New

Jersey yes okay how do you know like how

long have you known

them I knew them

from uh June since June how did you meet

at gym at the gym yeah and how tell me

about that like you were at the gym and

you just I mean what how did that

conversation work

I

I sorry I could yourself so you said

that you met this person at the gym how

so like were you guys you guys just

happened to work out at the same gym and

then did you she worked there and I

asked her for her

Instagram okay so she was working at

this gym you were just you go work out

at this gym yes okay so then you asked

her for her Instagram and then what did

she say

then um originally I wanted to invite

her to my birthday and it didn't end up

happening what do you mean it didn't end

up happening like did you did you invite

her did you ask her um I invited her and

so I found out that she was left old

enough to go to a bar

and then

I had sent her the message on Instagram

I'm still down to hang if you

want

and I mean I if if you'd like I can pull

up all the messages when did you guys

meet uh the 15th of June 15th of June

did you guys carry on a relationship at

all or no there was nothing physical or

anything nothing physical did you guys

ever hang out or talk in person ever

just at the gym and originally I was

going and talk to

right she never

invited you say you found a playlist

that What did the what did

face um all right so the the quick

synopsis is uh the RP is the mother

mother of the 19-year-old her daughter

is 19 uh anyway her 19-year-old daughter

worked at a gym where he was a member of

and that's how they knew each other

um only speaking to the mother I haven't

uh I haven't confirmed this with the

19-year-old but speaking with the mother

um the there was no relationship it was

just you know

business he's sick and he needs help

he telling me he got mixed signals I

said from who and he said from my

intuition so how did you know she was in

Florida

I I

was want her stories on Instagram yeah

and when did you see that she wasn't

filled um few days ago you saw she was

in Florida three days ago and when did

you get

here so you was she like Tagg her

location or

whatever huh no I whenever I posted a

story yeah she would post a story like a

minute after minutes after okay so it's

km by the universe just signed a lot of

city that I was thinking that was design

from the univers you just should get you

should get your also getting likes about

what I was posting from her or from

other people from Bots okay from Spy box

basically and so I had thought that it

might have

Ed influencing them right so you just

decided to get in your car and drugs for

them

right I don't want to I don't know if he

asked you this already but are you guys

friends on social media uh we were you

were and now you're not did she block

you or did you block her she block me

when was that um a while ago how did you

see her story

um same way that it felt to me like she

was watching my stories so you so you

have like fake accounts your your

friends were uh Anonymous she had made

her she had switched her account from

private to public okay so

you're you're still using your own

account not you went through the process

of creating another account under that

name I

uh I would open

up I open

up I

would you open up social media is that

that uh there's a lot of online websites

that you can easily watch other people's

stories without an account oh okay that

I've never heard that either the first

that we want to do is the court order if

uh if we can get that and we're going to

check and I'll just wait for your your

daughter to come here with her

information uh but we'll check both of

you's information make sure that there's

a uh a qu order on file we'll check with

uh his information in the system see if

there's a court order on file there my

fear is if it just happened last Friday

it may not be in the system uh it should

be it was Monday the um I'm not sure of

the date we went in on Saturday the day

after it's not like there's a time limit

where it has to where it doesn't get you

know Nationwide for a certain 19th that

he we we went into the police department

17th here's her license is your your

daughter getting her license yeah I'm

here I would feel a little bit more

comfortable if we were at of eyesight of

him yeah we were over there if I showed

you some of the messages he sent to my

daughter you'd have him at the site

board right now like come over I'd like

to see the the stalking P paperwork okay

they told me the police department told

me I reached out to them we went there

on Monday um we went there on the 17th

which was a Saturday and then Monday the

19th they said they brought him in for

fingerprinting and took all the

information down and everything and they

were charging him with cyber harassment

cyber stalking so they arrested him yes

and and harassment and against her and

then against me they charged with cyber

stalking and cyber harassment and they

said that guy right there it's that guy

right there he came up I went to the

bathroom and my daughter said came in

screaming I'm like what happened and she

said Will's here and I said what did you

guys ever carry on any type of messaging

relationship where you guys were talking

back and forth no no so you just met her

at the gym one day she worked at the gym

that you went to you met her you asked

her for your for

Instagram and you just developed this

relationship in your mind not really

there was never one in real life

basically and you wanted to invite her

to your birthday but you never did or

you

didn't when I was at the gym there well

my okay so you just like she was being

nice to you she was she was a nice

person she was attractive is what you're

saying you were attracted to it you felt

there was something in between the two

let me just ask you a few quick

questions and and the other officer is

going to talk to you as well but your

mom was telling us but I want to be able

to also hear from you um your what's

your relationship with him no

relationship I worked at a gym in New

Jersey and he went to the gym and the

only really conversations we would have

like a paid membership yes the only

conversations we would have is hello

have a good workout I blocked him on

like Instagram he found like my other

social media started messaging me really

weird things telling me for um my sority

that I'm in we have an Alzheimer's

philanthropy and we had a walk rested

and fingerprinted yes and he was saying

that he was going to come to my school

to participate in the walk he has like

reached out to my friend at school to

ask him a good place to stay where my

school is at so he could go to the walk

he like messages her he he was posting

pictures of us yeah posting pictures of

me saying I was his Muse never had any

relationship with him I just saw him at

the gym I thought you guys didn't really

have like conversation it was through

conversations through messages like

through pictures images art okay so like

her stories your stories but you guys

never actually communicated anything

nothing verbal nothing verbal just like

you're just thinking in your mind and

maybe I don't know but you guys were

posting similar things at the time so

for example I

would call myself a void or

zero and she made a post

of like because I Whistle a lot and I

talk and like I like showing pictures of

birds and whatnot I saw a post of a bird

house mile zero Key West and a musty

beer like perfect like it started

getting weirder and weirder and like

confessing his love for me and then I

would block him on one account he'd find

the other one I would block him on that

he would find like my friends they filed

so you're using some back Channel

website to look at her Instagram and you

see a story that she's in qest well I

knew that they were going to be going to

Q West for a long time were they moving

here or no vacation how did you know

that they were coming on

vacation location her mom post stories

on Facebook so you're friends with her

mom also on

Facebook how she keeps her she made the

stories public okay so you're also not

only are you

she is aware of our

of I've messaged her mom in

Facebook

but nothing ever really like crazy that

she is well aware of my account your M

her mom knows who you are you guys you

guys talk she's messaged you back she's

talked to you no we've just kept it to

like story watching or okay so you just

watch each other's stories I well you're

not friends on Facebook I can't say that

I know for sure that she watched my

stories but she watched hers her mom's

how do you know her mom does her mom go

to the same gym or how do okay so that's

how you know her mom too we're going to

do everything in our power within the

within the

law to do what we can to make sure that

he gets held accountable for this if we

can so so basically when it boils down

to it you knew they were coming to us

for a couple weeks now at least you've

been basically following her stories on

Instagram you saw that she posted a bird

house in Key West and a musty we on so

you and Milo so that's Q it's pretty

famous Milo is a cat fat Milo or mile it

says mile zero so if

you that it all together you could think

of it as my

okay and Milo is a cat that I I

nicknamed Martian okay and

so it felt to me like that was a call

out to me okay so and then you sit at

home up in Jersey it's cold you just

decided to jump in your car there was

around the corner and you drove 25 hours

to Q

West in the State of Florida and that's

where we're at that's the rules that we

have to go by it defines stalking as uh

a repeated thing multiple times and

although I'm sure there has been

multiple repeated things back in New

Jersey I'm not sure that legally we can

use any of those things in conjunction

with this one thing MH um again mine's

not the final say or the interpretation

of the law uh the sergeant onene who

used to be a major crimes detective so

she'll be able to interpret that and see

what we can do I hope we can but I think

that the way the law is worded might

work against us and I had sent out a

message saying like I wanted to be by

your side you messag her or you like

sent it

out on Twitter okay and because Twitter

was the last location in Earths yeah so

I got you makes sense that's what I'm

thinking you know like I got you if I'm

going to be playing with The Meta

I would play with the meta and so it

felt to me like she was playing with the

meta as

well and

so I had took that picture of me and his

son and like moments after she post a

picture of the sun like a sunrise and

saying good morning feel a little bit

better hi wellc scary I completely

understand absolutely and I really I

thought it was going to be

over mom had posted a location yesterday

and so I was at that

location

Florida I mean it's just like a

jurisdiction thing that's the only thing

I mean we're just going to have to

confer with s what she's she's waiting

on cuz I told I asked her they do have

an injunction that she filed it's not

confirmed whether a sign and approved by

the judge yet but she did turn in the

documents and then he he sent her a

picture he had her P her face on his uh

phone screen saber and sent her a

picture of

it oh

boy crazy movie this some my crazy

movie yeah so they start looking it up

and and let us know what's up I'm ready

I mean honestly like feel like

well were you charting

it

stting but that that's the thing is it's

two it's a repeated Behavior I mean you

have to talk to Deb should probably have

to talk to the state attorney to see if

you can use something that they're

alleging happened in New Jersey

especially if there's no documentation

of it you know what I mean it's just

kind

of we'll

see okay we're taking them G okay

and then after I just got off the phone

with our um assistant State Attorney

she's on the same page as me that if

just based upon his statement along the

fact that he's here we're going to go

ahead and we're going to take him for

stalking and then we're going to dig and

see if we can get him for some type of

violation and that's when I'll I'll call

um your chief of police up there okay

okay I do not feel comfortable which is

why why I called her I can't say that

he's not going to follow you like I have

chill bumps just thinking about it like

this as a female is scary yeah sit there

for

me you can face me all

right see I'm going to drop this leave

that right there

okay am I under

arrest yes yeah you can't I'm taking off

your watch and I'm remember when we have

reasonable people and make people

uncomfortable right

did you did you honestly did you think

there was

anything I think that I'm harmless I

know I'm harmless MH do you think that

perception people think you they

perceive your as hormon that's

unfortunate cuz I mean like I'll be

honest with you if you follow me 22

hours I

wouldn't if you if you drove a cross the

Eastern Seaboard I would not think you

like you literally almost can't get

higher than New Jersey there's maybe

what three states higher than New Jersey

and you drove all the way you got about

40 miles to the end of the

road that means you drove the entire

Eastern Seaboard of the United States to

come see a girl they blocked you 6

months

ago is this all you have uh or do you

have other property somewhere in beach

in the car in the

car what are we what are we going to do

with that

up to do I mean I probably

can I mean I can just I can leave you

could leave where were you going to go

back home Jersey Jersey yeah you just

thinks okay now we can just let you get

back in the par and go home I mean I

don't know if it's okay so you already

got yeah but no no you already got so

just so I may I'm understanding you knew

right from wrong because you got in the

car you drove to a police station where

they told you you were under arrest for

cyber harassment

but you still decided to drive 22 hours

to the

4 and you want us to let you go

now man we kind to pass that

point is your car far from here yes yeah

you saw

it okay I could tell the city about it I

am

do you have anything on

here my C's right there you want to put

them in my car real quick I'll be right

there

just wait with his cell

phone you already told them that yeah

you have one yeah what is this water

yeah it should be

open right here

watch your hand than we'll turn the AC 4

you you turn the AC up Diaz