Self Awareness
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the concept of authenticity, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and the role of the 'Observer' within us. It discusses how societal influences shape our consciousness and how self-consciousness, driven by fear of rejection, can lead to negative self-talk. The script encourages viewers to recognize and control their self-critic, suggesting that by observing one's own thoughts and emotions from a distance, they can choose to be their authentic selves and avoid the pitfalls of self-consciousness.
Takeaways
- 🌟 Authenticity begins with self-awareness; it's the ability to observe one's own thoughts and actions as an outsider would.
- 🌱 Consciousness is a part of awareness that is shaped by various life influences, such as family, education, and society.
- 🔍 Self-consciousness often stems from fear of rejection and involves making negative judgments about oneself based on perceived social feedback.
- 🐒 The 'monkey mind' or internal dialogue can be a source of self-consciousness, characterized by negative self-talk and self-criticism.
- 🗣️ Negative self-talk can be a powerful force, often harsher than any external criticism, and can lead to self-doubt and anxiety.
- 🚫 When consumed by self-criticism, individuals may adopt protective measures to gain approval or avoid rejection, which can hinder authenticity.
- 💔 The fear of not being good enough can lead to a cycle of self-criticism that prevents individuals from being their true selves in relationships.
- 🛡️ The act of protecting one's self-image can prevent both the individual and others from showing up authentically in relationships.
- 👁️🗨️ By recognizing and observing one's self-consciousness, it is possible to make a conscious choice to be authentic.
- 📉 The self-critic can be a constant companion, but it is the individual who has the power to decide what to focus on and how to respond.
- 🌱 Developing an observer's perspective allows for greater self-awareness and the ability to choose authenticity over autopilot behavior.
Q & A
What is the significance of being a 'creative and conscious being' as mentioned in the script?
-Being a 'creative and conscious being' implies having the ability to create and express oneself while being aware of one's thoughts, feelings, and actions. It's about being able to observe oneself objectively, as if watching from an external perspective, which is a key aspect of self-awareness.
What does the script mean by 'created self awareness'?
-The 'created self awareness' refers to the development of self-awareness as we grow, which allows us to observe our internal processes at a deeper level. It's the part of us that can watch our own thoughts, emotions, and behaviors as if they were happening to someone else.
How does the script define 'consciousness' in relation to our everyday experiences?
-In the script, 'consciousness' is described as a part of our awareness that is shaped by various influences such as parents, teachers, peers, and society. It's how we normally perceive ourselves and how we believe we are perceived by the world around us.
What is the 'Observer' mentioned in the script, and why is it important?
-The 'Observer' is the part of us within that can objectively watch our internal processes. It is important because it allows us to be aware of our thoughts and emotions without being consumed by them, enabling us to make more authentic choices.
How does the script describe the experience of being self-conscious?
-Being self-conscious, as described in the script, is fueled by a fear of rejection and involves making judgments about ourselves based on our perceptions and how we think we are perceived by others. It is often characterized by negative self-talk or an internal dialogue that can be critical and harsh.
What is the 'monkey mind' mentioned in the script, and how does it relate to self-consciousness?
-The 'monkey mind' refers to the restless, chaotic, and often negative internal dialogue or self-talk that we experience when we are self-conscious. It can lead to thoughts like 'I'm not good enough' or 'I'm too this or too that,' which can hinder our ability to be authentic.
How does the script connect self-consciousness to the fear of rejection?
-The script suggests that self-consciousness is often a result of the fear of rejection. When we are self-conscious, we tend to judge ourselves harshly and worry about how others perceive us, which can lead to a cycle of negative self-talk and self-doubt.
What is the role of the 'self-critic' in the script, and how does it impact our behavior?
-The 'self-critic' in the script is the internal voice that repeats negative messages about ourselves, often harsher than we would ever be to others. It can convince us that we are less than worthwhile, leading us to take measures to protect ourselves, such as seeking approval and avoiding rejection.
How does the script suggest we can overcome the influence of the self-critic?
-The script suggests that by focusing on our awareness and the Observer within us, we can make observations about our current state, such as feeling anxious or calm. This awareness allows us to recognize when we are being self-conscious and choose to act authentically.
What does the script mean by 'bringing our true self into relationships with others'?
-The script implies that when we are not consumed by self-consciousness and the negative influence of the self-critic, we can be more authentic in our interactions with others. This means showing up as our genuine selves, rather than a version that is trying to protect or manage how we are perceived.
How does the script define authenticity, and what prevents us from being authentic?
-Authenticity, as described in the script, is about being true to who we really are and not being influenced by the fear of rejection or the need for approval. What prevents us from being authentic is the self-critic and self-consciousness, which can lead us to act in ways that are not genuine to protect ourselves from perceived judgment or rejection.
Outlines
🔍 The Observer Within: Self-Awareness and Consciousness
This paragraph delves into the concept of self-awareness, emphasizing the importance of being an 'Observer' to one's own thoughts and actions. It discusses how self-awareness develops as we grow and how it branches into consciousness, influenced by external factors like parents, teachers, and society. The script highlights the impact of self-consciousness, which can lead to negative self-talk and fear of rejection. It also touches on the internal dialogue or 'monkey mind' that can be critical and harsh, affecting how we perceive ourselves and how we believe others perceive us.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Authenticity
💡Self-awareness
💡Observer
💡Consciousness
💡Self-consciousness
💡Monkey mind
💡Self-critic
💡Perception
💡Fear of rejection
💡Approval seeking
💡Autopilot
Highlights
Authenticity requires self-awareness and the ability to observe oneself objectively.
Self-awareness develops as we grow, allowing us to observe our thoughts, feelings, words, and actions.
Consciousness is shaped by various influences, including parents, teachers, peers, and society.
Self-consciousness is often driven by the fear of rejection and involves negative self-judgment.
The 'monkey mind' refers to the internal dialogue and negative self-talk that can characterize self-consciousness.
Examples of negative self-talk include thoughts like 'I'm not good enough' or 'I'm too fat'.
Self-consciousness can lead to anxiety and stress in situations that make us nervous, such as public speaking.
The self-critic can be harsh, often repeating negative messages that affect our self-perception.
When we believe we are less than worthy, we may take measures to protect ourselves, such as seeking approval.
Protecting our self-image can prevent us from being authentic in relationships with others.
The self-critic is always present, but we have the power to decide what we focus on.
Focusing on our awareness and observing ourselves from a distance can help us make observations about our state.
Simple statements of observation, like 'I'm feeling calm and happy' or 'I'm experiencing anxiety', can help us choose authenticity.
Being authentic involves recognizing when we are self-conscious and making a conscious choice to be our true selves.
The transcript emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in overcoming self-consciousness and achieving authenticity.
Authenticity in relationships is hindered when we are preoccupied with how we are perceived by others.
The transcript suggests that by controlling our focus, we can overcome the influence of our self-critic.
Transcripts
[Music]
being authentic requires that you first
be aware that you are a creative and
conscious being a created self awareness
is observing it's being able to
objectively watch what's happening
inside of you as if it was happening to
someone else it is the Observer that is
in each of us we are all born aware as
we grow our sense of self-awareness
develops and allows us to observe at a
deeper level what we think what we feel
what we say and what we do Consciousness
is a part of your awareness that
eventually branches off as it becomes
shaped by the sources of influence in
our everyday lives parents teachers
peers and even society as a whole it is
how we normally experience ourselves and
how we think we are perceived by the
world around us
being self-conscious which is fueled by
a fear of rejection is when we make
judgments about ourselves based on our
own perceptions as well as how we think
we're being perceived by
others when we're being self-conscious
it's typically characterized by what we
call our monkey mind internal dialogue
or our negative selft talk I'm not as
smart as most people I'm not good enough
I'm too fat my knows is too big I'm to
this I'm too that I'm always I never
does any of this sound familiar have you
ever told yourself something along those
lines think about a situation that makes
you nervous maybe it's giving a
presentation and if you hate giving
presentations have you ever listened to
what you tell yourself before you gave
one maybe something along the lines of
I'm not funny or witty this is going to
be a train wreck
what if someone asks a question I can't
answer you know I'm going to look like a
complete idiot if I screw this up this
is our self-critic talking it repeats
its message over and over and it can
often be meaner and harsher toward us
than we've ever been towards anyone else
and once our self-critic has
successfully convinced us that we are
somehow subpar and less than worthwhile
we start to put measures into place to
protect ourselves to achieve to gain
approval to seek Applause and to avoid
rejection and painful
situations when we are consumed with
protecting defending and managing how
others perceive us it gets in the way we
get in our own way of being aware and
being who we really are this keeps us
from bringing our true self into
relationships with others and it keeps
others from doing the same with us the
result is that nobody authentically
shows up instead we continue to run on
autopilot and simply go through the
motions but really who's in control it's
you you are you might think it's your
self-critic but it's you and even though
your self-critic will always be with you
you are the decider and you get to
control what you focus on so by focusing
on your awareness on your Observer and
watching yourself from a distance you
can make some
observations I'm being self-conscious
right now I'm feeling calm and happy or
I'm experiencing anxiety and stress and
through these simple statements of
observation you are better equipped to
choose to be your authentic self
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