“What if” Statements Are False

RealestBeing99
17 Jun 202405:27

Summary

TLDRThis transcript addresses the struggles of constant worry, anxiety, and overthinking, emphasizing that these negative thoughts, particularly those starting with 'what if,' are often baseless and harmful. It encourages letting go of such thoughts and focusing on the present reality rather than hypothetical scenarios. The message advocates for reducing stress and anxiety by avoiding overanalysis and not allowing fear to control one's life, ultimately leading to better mental health and well-being.

Takeaways

  • 😔 The script discusses the struggle with constant worrying and suicidal thoughts due to the brain's tendency to torture us with negative thoughts.
  • 🧠 The speaker suggests that our brains are wired to worry and make life harder, which is an inherent part of human nature.
  • 🤔 The idea is presented that overthinking and overanalyzing are detrimental to mental health, causing unnecessary anxiety and stress.
  • 🚫 The transcript emphasizes the importance of dismissing 'what if' thoughts as they are often baseless and only serve to increase worry.
  • 🌐 It is highlighted that everyone deals with anxiety and stress, regardless of how tough or cool they may appear to be.
  • 🙅‍♂️ The speaker advises against listening to 'what if' scenarios, as they are irrelevant and can harm mental well-being.
  • 🌟 The key to life, according to the script, is to avoid overthinking and not to overanalyze, which can help reduce anxiety and stress.
  • 🌱 The concept is introduced that humanity might be better off without the need for brains, as they often lead to overthinking and unnecessary worry.
  • 🔄 The speaker reflects on the idea that humanity is devolving rather than evolving due to the persistence of worry, stress, and anxiety.
  • 💪 The message encourages individuals to move on from negative thinking and to evolve as a species by letting go of worry and stress.
  • 🌈 The final takeaway is to focus on the present and what is likely to happen, rather than getting lost in unrealistic 'what if' scenarios.

Q & A

  • What is the primary concern expressed in the transcript?

    -The primary concern expressed in the transcript is the constant worry and overthinking that leads to mental distress and the idea that eliminating 'what if' thoughts can help alleviate this distress.

  • Why does the speaker believe that 'what if' thoughts are false and should be disregarded?

    -The speaker believes 'what if' thoughts are false because they often represent hypothetical scenarios that have not occurred and may never occur, causing unnecessary worry and stress.

  • According to the transcript, what is the role of the human brain in creating worry?

    -The transcript suggests that the human brain is naturally inclined to create worry by overthinking and overanalyzing situations, which can make life harder than it needs to be.

  • What does the speaker propose as a solution to reduce anxiety and stress?

    -The speaker proposes not overanalyzing or overthinking things as a solution to reduce anxiety and stress, emphasizing the importance of focusing on the present and what is likely to happen.

  • Why does the speaker argue that humans would be more advanced without the need for brains?

    -The speaker humorously argues that without the need for brains, humans would not be burdened by overthinking and overanalyzing, which they believe hinders human advancement.

  • What is the speaker's view on the universality of anxiety and stress?

    -The speaker believes that everyone deals with anxiety and stress regardless of how tough or cool they may appear to be, indicating that no one is immune to these feelings.

  • What is the main message the speaker wants to convey about 'what if' scenarios?

    -The main message is that 'what if' scenarios are often baseless and not grounded in reality, and that they should be ignored to prevent them from negatively affecting one's mental health.

  • How does the speaker describe the impact of constantly worrying on mental health?

    -The speaker describes the impact of constant worrying as harmful to mental health, contributing to a negative cycle of stress and anxiety that can be detrimental to well-being.

  • What advice does the speaker give to combat the tendency to overthink?

    -The speaker advises to avoid overthinking by not indulging in 'what if' scenarios, staying grounded in reality, and focusing on the present moment.

  • What does the speaker suggest about the evolution of humanity in relation to worry and stress?

    -The speaker suggests that humanity is devolving rather than evolving due to the increasing prevalence of worry, stress, and anxiety, and calls for a change in mindset to move away from these negative patterns.

  • What is the speaker's perspective on the relationship between the brain and the creation of worry?

    -The speaker's perspective is that the brain is responsible for creating worry by generating hypothetical 'what if' scenarios, which are often irrelevant and contribute to a state of constant worry.

Outlines

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🤯 Overcoming Overthinking and Anxiety

The speaker in Paragraph 1 emphasizes the struggle with constant worry and negative thoughts, suggesting that our brains are wired to create worry and make life more difficult than it needs to be. They argue that 'what if' thoughts are baseless and should be disregarded as they lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. The key message is to focus on the present and not overanalyze, which is crucial for mental health and well-being. Everyone faces anxiety and stress, but it's important to recognize that these feelings are universal and not to let hypothetical negative scenarios control one's life. The speaker encourages letting go of 'what if' thinking to evolve and improve mental health.

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🧠 The Illusion of 'What If' Scenarios

Paragraph 2 continues the discussion on the futility of 'what if' scenarios, urging the listener to focus on reality rather than imagined fears. The speaker asserts that these thoughts are often baseless and have no grounding in reality. They encourage the listener to let go of these hypothetical worries to become stronger and more resilient. The message is clear: do not be overwhelmed by these thoughts, as they only serve to create unnecessary stress and anxiety. By focusing on what is likely to happen and what is real, one can maintain a more grounded and positive outlook on life.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Worrying

Worrying refers to the act of experiencing anxiety or concern about something that may or may not happen. In the video's context, it is portrayed as a constant, negative mental state that the speaker is trying to overcome. The script repeatedly mentions 'worrying' to emphasize its detrimental effects on mental health and the importance of addressing it.

💡Overthinking

Overthinking is the process of excessively analyzing or pondering over a situation, often leading to unnecessary stress or anxiety. The video's theme centers around the idea that overthinking can exacerbate mental distress, and the speaker encourages the audience to avoid this behavior to improve mental well-being.

💡Mental Health

Mental health encompasses a person's emotional, psychological, and social well-being. The video addresses the impact of worrying and overthinking on mental health, suggesting that these behaviors can lead to negative outcomes and that it's crucial to manage them for a healthier state of mind.

💡Anxiety

Anxiety is a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, that can be mild or severe. The script discusses anxiety as a common experience that everyone faces and suggests that it feeds on the 'what if' thoughts, which the speaker advises to dismiss as irrelevant.

💡Stress

Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. The video mentions stress as a daily occurrence that affects everyone and is often a result of overthinking and worrying about hypothetical scenarios.

💡What if

The phrase 'what if' is used in the script to represent hypothetical scenarios that cause worry and anxiety. The speaker argues that any thought starting with 'what if' is false and should be disregarded to reduce mental distress and improve mental health.

💡Overanalyzing

Overanalyzing is the act of examining something in excessive detail, often to the point where it becomes counterproductive. The video's message includes the idea that overanalyzing situations contributes to unnecessary worry and should be avoided.

💡Mental Distress

Mental distress refers to a state of emotional suffering or psychological pain. The script implies that mental distress is a result of the constant worrying and overthinking, which the speaker is advocating to overcome.

💡Hypothetical Scenarios

Hypothetical scenarios are situations that are imagined or supposed but not necessarily real or true. The video discusses the tendency of the human mind to create these scenarios, which often lead to worry and anxiety, and the importance of not letting them affect one's mental state.

💡Mental Well-being

Mental well-being is the state of being in good mental health, characterized by a sense of contentment and the ability to cope with life's challenges. The script suggests that by not overthinking and worrying about hypothetical situations, one can improve their mental well-being.

💡Fear

Fear is an emotional response to a perceived threat or danger. In the context of the video, fear is mentioned as a negative emotion that can be irrational and is often a result of overthinking 'what if' scenarios. The speaker encourages the audience to let go of fear to enhance mental health.

Highlights

Recognizing the constant worry and the impact it has on mental health.

Understanding that 'what if' thoughts are often baseless and can be dismissed.

The brain's natural tendency to worry and the importance of managing this tendency.

The idea that overthinking and overanalyzing can detract from life's quality.

A hypothetical scenario where humans might be more advanced without the need for brains.

The suggestion that not overthinking or overanalyzing can improve mental health.

The omnipresence of anxiety and stress in the world and their effects on everyone.

The reminder that everyone deals with anxiety and stress, regardless of their outward appearance.

The notion that 'what if' scenarios are not worth our attention and can be disregarded.

The advice to focus on the present and avoid hypothetical negative situations.

The concept that worrying about potential negative events is more harmful than the events themselves.

The encouragement to let go of 'what if' thoughts to improve mental well-being.

The call to evolve as a humanity by moving away from worry, stress, and anxiety.

The observation that humanity may be devolving due to increasing worry and stress.

The importance of not letting worry, stress, and anxiety control one's life.

The advice to stay grounded and avoid levitating into unrealistic scenarios.

The reminder to avoid being overwhelmed by fear, worry, or anxiety as they are not real.

The final note on the importance of focusing on the present and what is likely to happen, rather than hypothetical situations.

Transcripts

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do you guys ever find yourselves just

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constantly worrying and wanting to kill

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yourself because your brain does not

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stop torturing you that's basically the

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situation I'm in

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so we always have to remember that if we

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think of any thought in our head that

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starts with the words what if then it's

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instantly false and it has no meaning

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and it does not matter at all you know

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our brains are made to made us worry our

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brains sorry our made our brains are

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made to make us worry

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and our brains are made to make our

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lives harder than it's supposed to be

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and that's the whole point you know if

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humans didn't have brains they would be

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so much more advanced than they are

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right now and yeah if humans didn't need

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brains to function we'd be much better

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off because we wouldn't be

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overthinking and overanalyzing every

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stupid thing for no reason and that's

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the key to life you know don't

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overanalyze things and don't overthink

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things you know those will be some of

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the best those will be some of the

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best things that you can do to help with

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your mental health and to help you know

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decrease your anxiety and stress because

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the world is full of anxiety and stress

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and basically both of those things just

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feed on everyone every day you know

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everyone deals with anxiety and stress

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no matter how how how tough you think

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they are or how cool you think they are

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it doesn't matter you know everyone

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deals with this and no one is

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immune to it and we all have to remind

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ourselves that if our brain always tells

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us something oh like you know like what

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is if this happens what if what if what

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if something bad happens or you know

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what if you get embarrassed or what if

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you get hurt or all this other stupid

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you know none of that talk that

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our brain is saying matters you know

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anytime you're thinking of something in

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your head of say a bad situation you

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know if you're say if you're have

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anxiety or you're overthinking and

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you're you're in a bad situation you

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know if you're just telling yourself all

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these what if you're just putting

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yourself in all these what if situations

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you know like what if this happens what

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if that happens oh what if what if

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something terrible happens oh you know

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like who the cares man you know

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your brain is just made to make you

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worry and any statement that starts with

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what if it's false and should be thrown

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out the window and we all have to

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remember this you know we all have to

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remind ourselves

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that any sentence that starts with what

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if is completely irrelevant you know it

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doesn't matter if it's good or bad you

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know you should not listen to it even if

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it's something good you know don't go by

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what if statements because if you if

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you're starting a sentence with what if

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you're making up a scenar that has not

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happened so what's the point you know if

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you're saying what if then you're

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talking about a scenario or situation

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that has not occurred and most likely

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will not occur and even if it does occur

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and you're wor making yourself worry

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more and more about it there's no point

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to it you know if if something bad

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what's going to happen to you it's

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better for it to just happen to you

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rather than for you to just keep

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worrying about it over and over again

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and then have it happen to you you know

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that's much worse than just having

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something bad happen to you so we have

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to remember that you know there's no

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point in killing our ourselves

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over all these stressful situations in

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life and asking ourselves oh what if

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something bad happens what if something

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terrible happens what if something

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horrible or terrifying occurs to me you

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know all this talk you know

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all this negative and we need

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to move on from this type of thinking

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and we need to evolve as human as a

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humanity and sadly we're on the opposite

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side you know we keep devolving more and

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more as time goes on but we have to not

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be like this we have to get rid of all

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worry Stress and Anxiety from our lives

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and we have to just stop overthinking

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and we have to stop putting our eles in

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what if situations and scenarios that

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only serve to harm our mental health and

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hurt our well-being you know that's all

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it does we have to remember this

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always for the rest of our sad pathetic

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lives we have to remember this you

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know with the way this shitty planet is

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and with the way this shitty world is

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that we're living in we have to remember

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to worry and stress as little as

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possible no matter what situation we're

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in you know and sadly most people I you

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know not most people everyone puts

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themselves in stressful situations just

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from overthinking and just from

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stressing about things that aren't worth

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it you know so we have to remember to

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just let this go and remind

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ourselves that we need to keep ourselves

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grounded and we need to stay on the

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ground and not levitate off into

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some fairy tale land where we're

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overthinking about a bunch of

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stupid that makes no sense and

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that has no touch with reality and we we

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have to remember this you know do not

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let this control you do not be

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overwhelmed by fear worry or anx anxiety

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you know none of that is real none

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of that is real and none of it has

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any positives that come out of it so

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fear stress anxiety

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all this stuff you know worrying

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all this stuff is only is all this stuff

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I just mentioned all this is

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nothing but Nega negative you know this

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is all just negativity spreading through

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humanity and through Earth and we have

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to stop this so remember never

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say what if ever in your life don't qu

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don't question things with the words

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what if none of this matters just

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focus on what is the present and focus

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on what is actually likely to happen not

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on some stupid thought that you

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made up in your head that is making you

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constantly worry and you know the

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thought is more is more than likely just

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something that you just made up in your

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head and that is not real at all and it

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has no base in reality you know we have

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to remember this do not do not be

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overwhelmed and we will become stronger

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once we let go of what ifs

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