3 Signs God Approves of a Relationship (Christian Relationship Advice)

Summary

This script discusses three signs indicating God's approval of a relationship. It emphasizes that a relationship should enhance one's motivation for ministry and align with general Christian values like servanthood and love for others. The purpose of Christian dating is to discern God's will for marriage, whether it leads to marriage or a breakup. Lastly, a relationship is approved by God if it is biblical, fulfilling both partners' desires, and does not violate any clear biblical commandments. The speaker, Marc, encourages viewers to subscribe for more Christian relationship advice.

Takeaways

• 📜 God's approval of a relationship can be seen if it increases one's motivation for ministry.
• 🛐 Understanding God's will for all Christians is foundational before discerning His will for an individual's specific relationship.
• 👣 Jesus' example in John 13:12-14 emphasizes the importance of servanthood and love for others as a Christian value.
• 💑 Christian dating is a process to determine if a relationship aligns with God's will for marriage, not just a path to marriage itself.
• 🚦 It's not inherently wrong to date with the purpose of discerning God's will, even if it leads to a breakup.
• 🔍 God's will in relationships can be revealed through the process of dating and life experiences together.
• 🚫 Relationships that involve sin without repentance or go against God's clear directives are not approved by God.
• 🤔 Uncertainty in a relationship's alignment with God's will is a valid reason to continue dating to seek clarity.
• 🔗 Biblical requirements for marriage include alignment with God's will and mutual desire between both parties.
• ❤️ Personal choice plays a role in marriage, as emphasized in 1 Corinthians 7:36, where desire is considered in making the decision to marry.
• 📈 Marc from apply God's Word encourages growth in Christ and offers daily Christian relationship advice for singles and couples.

Q & A

What are the three signs that God approves of a relationship according to the script?

The three signs are: 1) The relationship increases your motivation for ministry. 2) It fulfills the purpose of Christian dating, which is to discern whether a man and woman should become husband and wife. 3) The relationship is both biblical and desired by both the man and the woman.

What does the script suggest is the general will of God for all Christians?

The script suggests that the general will of God for all Christians is to be servant-minded and to show their love for God through their love for other people, as exemplified by Jesus washing the disciples' feet in John 13:12-14.

What is the purpose of Christian dating according to the script?

The purpose of Christian dating is not necessarily to marry the person you are dating, but to discern whether or not God wants you to become husband and wife with that person.

What does the script say about dating someone you don't end up marrying?

The script suggests that God is not displeased if you date someone you don't end up marrying, as wise Christian dating is a process to gauge God's will for marriage.

How does the script define a successful Christian dating season?

A successful Christian dating season is defined by either realizing that God wants you to marry the person or understanding that God does not want you to be with the person, thus fulfilling the purpose of discernment.

What does the script suggest about God's will being revealed in relationships?

The script suggests that God often reveals His will in relationships through the process of Christian dating, where interactions and experiences help in discerning His will.

What are the two biblical requirements for marriage mentioned in the script?

The two biblical requirements for marriage are: 1) Alignment with God's will as revealed in Scripture, and 2) Desire from both the man and the woman involved in the relationship.

What does the script say about relationships that are not biblical?

The script states that if a relationship is not in alignment with God's will as revealed in Scripture, then God does not want that marriage to take place.

How does the script address the importance of personal choice in marriage?

The script emphasizes personal choice in marriage by referencing 1 Corinthians 7:36, which suggests that if there is a strong desire and the relationship is biblical, then it is acceptable to marry.

What advice does the speaker give for those who are unsure about their relationship's standing with God?

The speaker advises that if you're unsure, you should continue dating in a healthy season of gauging, using Christian dating as a means to discern God's will for the relationship.

What does the script suggest for those who know they should either get married or break up?

The script suggests that if you know you should get married, you should do so, and if you know you should break up, you should do that. It emphasizes the importance of following God's guidance in such decisions.