God Does NOT Want You to Let that Person Go If . . .

ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger
30 Aug 202409:30

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the speaker discusses four signs that suggest God may be guiding you not to give up on a potential romantic relationship. These signs include not trying at all, not giving the other person enough time to respond, feeling ready for marriage but not with the current person, and having no logical reason to end the connection. The speaker also promotes their relationship training courses at AGW University, offering lifetime access to courses, email coaching, and a private study group, emphasizing the importance of understanding God's word on relationships.

Takeaways

  • πŸ’‘ The speaker suggests four signs that indicate God may be telling you not to let a potential romantic interest go.
  • πŸ€ 'You miss 100% of the shots you don't take' is used as a metaphor for not pursuing a relationship out of fear of failure.
  • πŸ™ If you're considering letting someone go without making an effort, it might be a sign that God wants you to pursue the relationship.
  • πŸ’­ The speaker proposes that God may want to spare you from confusion and regret by encouraging you to be proactive in relationships.
  • ⏳ Patience is key when waiting for responses or reflections from a potential partner, and the Golden Rule is advised for navigating such situations.
  • πŸ‘« The idea of not being ready for marriage is challenged, suggesting that one might be more prepared than they realize.
  • πŸ€” If there's no logical reason to let someone go, it's likely that God is not telling you to do so, and it's important to consider your feelings and actions.
  • 🌟 The speaker offers a course at AGW University that provides relationship training based on biblical teachings.
  • πŸ“š Enrolling in the course before the deadline provides lifetime access to seven relationship courses, a private study group, and email coaching.
  • πŸ’Œ Testimonials from past students are shared to vouch for the value of the courses offered at AGW University.

Q & A

  • What are the four signs discussed in the video that suggest God may be telling you not to let a person go?

    -The four signs are: 1) If you're about to let the person go without trying to be with them. 2) If you're about to let them go without giving them enough time to navigate the relationship situation. 3) If you feel like letting this person go because you're not ready to settle down, despite seeing a potential future with them. 4) If there's no logical reason to let this person go.

  • What is the significance of the phrase 'you miss 100% of the shots you don't take' in the context of the video?

    -This phrase is used to emphasize the importance of taking action in relationships. It suggests that if you don't make an effort to pursue a relationship, you are guaranteed to fail, but by trying, there is a chance of success.

  • What does the video suggest might happen if a woman starts showing more interest in a guy?

    -The video suggests that if a woman starts showing more interest in a guy, it may spark him to start pursuing her, and God may bless that relationship connection.

  • Why might God want to spare someone from confusion and regret in relationships according to the video?

    -God might want to spare someone from confusion and regret to teach them something through the experience or to provide clarity, so they don't have to wonder 'what if' about a relationship they didn't pursue.

  • What is the 'Golden Rule' in the context of the video, and how does it apply to relationships?

    -The 'Golden Rule' in the context of the video refers to treating others how you would want to be treated. It applies to relationships by encouraging individuals to give others the time and space they would need if they were in the same situation.

  • What does the video suggest about the readiness for marriage if someone sees a potential future with a person but feels unprepared?

    -The video suggests that if someone sees a potential future with a person but feels unprepared for marriage, they should reconsider their readiness. It proposes that they might be more ready than they realize and should not run from the calling just because they thought it wouldn't happen right now.

  • What is the significance of the deadline mentioned in the video for enrolling in AGW University?

    -The deadline signifies the last chance to enroll in AGW University with the current scholarship and bonuses, including lifetime access to relationship courses, bonus email coaching, and access to the private study group.

  • What is the purpose of the private Facebook group mentioned in the video?

    -The purpose of the private Facebook group is to provide a community where AGW University students can share their struggles, make new friends, and learn from each other.

  • What is the benefit of enrolling in AGW University before the deadline according to the video?

    -Enrolling before the deadline provides lifetime access to all seven relationship training courses, access to the private Facebook group, three months of bonus email coaching, and a $60 scholarship.

  • What is the video's stance on the idea that God always reveals the future in relationships?

    -The video suggests that God doesn't always reveal the future in relationships, but allows individuals to live their lives and find answers through their experiences, thus glorifying God.

Outlines

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πŸ’– Signs of Divine Guidance in Relationships

This paragraph discusses the potential spiritual guidance one might receive when considering letting go of a person they have strong feelings for. It suggests four signs that indicate God may be telling you not to give up on this person. The speaker also promotes an enrollment opportunity in AGW University, offering lifetime access to relationship courses, email coaching, and a private study group. The first sign is not to let go if you haven't made an effort to be with the person, as this could lead to missed opportunities and regrets. The speaker encourages taking initiative in relationships, as God may bless these efforts and provide clarity on the future of the relationship.

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πŸ“š Nurturing Relationships with Patience and Faith

The second paragraph delves into the importance of giving relationships time to develop and not rushing to conclusions. It emphasizes the Golden Rule in treating others as you would like to be treated, suggesting patience when waiting for responses or signs of interest. The speaker also addresses the fear of commitment and readiness for marriage, suggesting that one might be more prepared for it than they realize. The paragraph concludes by encouraging individuals to live their lives wisely and seek God's guidance without assuming every stress or confusion is a sign to move on. The speaker reiterates the enrollment opportunity in AGW University, highlighting the benefits of the courses and the community aspect of the program, and offers a money-back guarantee to assure potential students of the value of the training.

Mindmap

Keywords

πŸ’‘Hope

Hope in this context refers to the optimistic desire for a relationship to develop with someone. The video discusses whether one should let go of hope for a particular relationship or continue to hold onto it. It is a central theme as it drives the narrative of the video, encouraging viewers to consider whether their hope is aligned with God's will, as suggested by the four signs mentioned.

πŸ’‘Relationship

A relationship, in the video, is the interpersonal connection between two individuals, often with a romantic connotation. The script explores the dynamics of relationships, particularly from a Christian perspective, and how one might discern if God is guiding them to pursue or let go of a particular relationship.

πŸ’‘Fear

Fear is mentioned as a potential barrier to pursuing a relationship. The video suggests that fear of failure or rejection might prevent individuals from taking the initiative in relationships, which could be contrary to God's will. It is used to illustrate the importance of overcoming fear to potentially receive God's blessings.

πŸ’‘Singleness

Singleness is discussed as a valid choice in one's life, especially from a biblical standpoint. However, the video also points out that choosing singleness out of fear, rather than by personal conviction, might not be in line with God's intentions. It is used to emphasize the importance of making relationship decisions based on faith rather than fear.

πŸ’‘Biblical Choice

A biblical choice refers to a decision that aligns with the teachings of the Bible. In the context of the video, choosing to be single or to pursue a relationship is considered a biblical choice if it is made with a clear understanding and adherence to scriptural guidance. This concept is used to encourage viewers to base their relationship decisions on a solid theological foundation.

πŸ’‘Golden Rule

The Golden Rule, as mentioned in the script, is a moral principle found in many religions, which states that one should treat others as they would like to be treated. In the video, it is used as a guideline for how to give others the time and space they need in a relationship, emphasizing empathy and understanding.

πŸ’‘Settling Down

Settling down refers to the decision to enter into a long-term, committed relationship, often leading to marriage. The video discusses the idea that if one feels they could settle down with a particular person but are not ready, it might be a sign that they should not let that person go. It challenges the notion that readiness for commitment is always immediately apparent.

πŸ’‘Confusion and Regret

Confusion and regret are emotional states that can arise from inaction or poor decision-making in relationships. The video suggests that God might be guiding one to act in a relationship to avoid these feelings later on, indicating that taking action can lead to clarity and peace.

πŸ’‘AGW University

AGW University is mentioned as an online relationship training school. The video promotes enrollment in its courses, which are said to provide biblical guidance on relationships. It is used as a resource for those seeking to understand God's will in their romantic relationships more deeply.

πŸ’‘Scholarship

A scholarship, in this context, refers to a financial aid or discount offered to students enrolling in AGW University before a certain deadline. The video uses the scholarship as an incentive for viewers to take action and invest in their personal growth and understanding of relationships from a Christian perspective.

Highlights

Four signs that indicate God may be telling you not to let a person go in a relationship.

The importance of not letting fear dictate your decisions in relationships.

How God may bless your efforts if you take initiative in a relationship.

The potential for regret and confusion if you don't pursue a relationship.

The value of giving people time to respond and navigate relationship situations.

The Golden Rule as a guide for treating others in relationships.

The possibility that you might be ready for marriage even if you feel unprepared.

Why it's important not to let someone go just because you're not ready for commitment.

The role of living life wisely in discovering God's will for your relationships.

The deadline for enrolling in AGW University and the benefits it offers.

Lifetime access to seven relationship courses upon enrolling in AGW University.

Bonus one-on-one email coaching with the speaker for three months.

Access to a private study group with over 1,000 students as part of the enrollment.

The current scholarship offered for enrolling before the deadline.

A 14-day money-back guarantee for AGW University courses.

Testimonials and reviews from past students of AGW University.

The comprehensive nature of the courses, including 73 in-depth biblical classes.

The thriving community in the AGW University private Facebook group.

A $60 scholarship offered for enrolling before the deadline.

Transcripts

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do you have strong feelings for someone

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that you just don't know what to do with

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are you hoping that a man finally

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pursues you or that a woman finally

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shows interest in you should you let

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this hope go or keep hoping that this

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relationship eventually occurs one day

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in this video we're going to talk about

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four signs that mean God may be telling

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you not to let this person go and if you

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haven't heard the deadline to enroll in

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agw University closes tonight at 11:59

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p.m. if you enroll before the deadline

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you get lifetime access to all seven of

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my relationship courses 3 months of

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bonus one-on-one email coaching with me

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lifetime access to the private study

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group which has over 1,000 other

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students in it currently and you will

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get the current scholarship for more

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information feel free to watch to the

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end of this video where I'll share more

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details about this unique opportunity or

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you can just click the link in the

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description of this video to visit agw

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un number one if you're about to let

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this person go without even trying to be

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with them this could mean that God is

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saying don't let that person go as the

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old Sports cliche goes it says you miss

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100% of the shots you don't take in

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other words some people are so afraid of

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failing that they choose to just not

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play at all now when talking about

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relationships it's great if you decide

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to choose singleness for yourself that's

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a Biblical choice but what's not in

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scripture is choosing singleness out of

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fear so there's basically two likely

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reasons that God is probably telling you

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not to let that person go if you haven't

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even tried to be with them the first

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reason is that he may bless your efforts

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if you're a woman and you start showing

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more interest in a guy you start talking

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to him more maybe you invite him to a

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group activity to show him that you're

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thinking of him that may be the spark

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that he needs to start pursuing you and

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then God will bless that relationship

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connection or if you're a guy and you

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decide just to go for it you start

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talking to her more and eventually you

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ask her out God may just bless that and

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that may be your future wife who knows

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on the other hand the second reason God

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probably is telling you not to let that

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person go yet if you haven't even tried

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is because he may want to spare you of

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the confusion and regret that often

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occurs when we lack activity in

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relationships maybe it doesn't work out

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but God may want to teach you something

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through this or he may want to give you

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that Clarity so you don't have to wait

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waste months or maybe even years of

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saying something like I wonder if I

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could have been with that person if I

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just tried number two if you're about to

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let this person go without giving them

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enough time to navigate the relationship

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situation this could be a sign God is

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telling you not to let this person go

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when you've been vulnerable with

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somebody it's very hard to then wait to

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see how they respond so maybe you're a

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woman and you sent a guy a text and it's

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been 12 hours and he's not responded to

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you yet or maybe you're a man and you

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took a woman out on a date and

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now you're not sure if she likes you or

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not what are you going to do when you're

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just sitting there staring at the wall

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waiting for a response it can feel like

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a lot of time is going by but in reality

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often times that's not the case so give

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the guy a little more time to respond

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give the woman time to reflect on the

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date that just occurred now maybe you're

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wondering well how much is enough time

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you know how am I going to navigate this

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a great principle to remember is the

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Golden Rule in scripture and you you

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want to treat others how you would want

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to be treated so do your best to put

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yourself in their shoes and say would I

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need more time if I was in their

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situation to process the relationship

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facts here and if so then again treat

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that person how you would want to be

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treat it number three if you feel like

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letting this person go right now because

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you know this is the type of person you

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could probably settle down with but

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you're not ready to settle down that

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could be a sign that God is saying don't

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let them go ironically sometimes

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Christians want to let someone go not

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because they can't see marriage with

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this person but because they can see

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marriage with this person but they don't

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feel ready for marriage yet if that's

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happening to you I would just encourage

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you to reconsider that maybe you are are

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ready for marriage and you just don't

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realize it the biblical requirements for

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marriage aren't outlandish yes they are

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present and that's something I talk a

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lot about in my courses but they're not

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unachievable and sometimes people

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possess those qualities but they just

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possess them a lot faster than they

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realized and thus when they get

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confronted with a serious relationship

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opportunity they just assume that

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they're not ready so if you're able to

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fulfill the biblical role of a husband

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or wife don't run from that calling just

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because you thought it wouldn't happen

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right now and number four if there's no

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logical reason to let this person go

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it's likely that God is not telling you

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to let that person go sometimes people

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just want to move on and let them go

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because that's their default position

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when they don't know what to do when

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they have strong feelings about someone

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they get nervous and scared and they

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just feel like they have to do something

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and so again the default is well I'm

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just going to move on I'm just going to

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let let this go if there's any stress

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involved it must not be God and it's

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just an

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oversimplification to think that way yes

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God will bring peace yes God is not the

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author of confusion but life is

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confusing relationships can sometimes

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cause stress and you need God to bring

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that peace and to bring that Clarity but

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if those things are present don't

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automatically assume there's something

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wrong or that you're idolizing this

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person or that your motives aren't pure

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give your time give yourself the time to

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process your emotions and see what God

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wants to do with them of course God may

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be telling you just to move on certainly

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there are times where there's no sin

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problem and God's just like you know

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this isn't the right person for you and

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I'm letting you know through this prayer

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time you should just move on but more

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often than not he will allow you to live

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life in a wise way so that you naturally

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see the answers through the facts

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occurring in reality it's through living

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our lives that we glorify God thus God

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isn't going to rob us of living Our

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Lives by always telling us the future

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without having lived it and as I

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mentioned at the beginning of this video

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relationship training school closes

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tonight at 11:59 p.m. I'm not promising

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