Mel Robbins-How to Stop Screwing Yourself Over-TEDx SF Talk-2011

Dr. Sam Graber
15 Apr 201821:40

Summary

TLDRMel Robbins delivers an energetic talk at TEDx, urging individuals to take action on their desires despite the lack of motivation. She emphasizes that success is simple but not easy, requiring one to overcome the 'autopilot' state of mind and push through the initial resistance of change. Robbins introduces the 'five-second rule' to combat hesitation, encouraging immediate action on impulses to avoid self-sabotage. Her message is a call to arms for personal growth and seizing opportunities, reminding the audience of their unique potential amidst a sea of one in 140 trillion chances.

Takeaways

  • ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Mel Robbins is a motivational speaker who has been helping people achieve their goals for 17 years in various settings.
  • ๐Ÿ“ป She hosts a syndicated radio show where she talks to people who feel stuck and offers advice on overcoming dissatisfaction with life.
  • ๐Ÿ  She is involved in a show called 'In-Laws I Move In', which aims to resolve family conflicts by facilitating open discussions about real issues.
  • ๐Ÿค” Robbins encourages the audience to think about what they truly want and to be selfish in identifying their desires.
  • ๐Ÿ“š She emphasizes that achieving one's goals is simple in theory but not necessarily easy, as it requires taking action and breaking routines.
  • ๐Ÿšซ Robbins criticizes the use of the word 'fine', arguing that it often masks dissatisfaction and prevents people from taking action to improve their lives.
  • ๐Ÿง  She discusses the concept of 'activation energy', the force required to break from autopilot and start a new behavior.
  • ๐Ÿ›Œ Robbins suggests setting an alarm for 30 minutes earlier to confront the physical force needed to change behavior and start the day actively.
  • ๐Ÿš€ She proposes the 'five-second rule' to act on impulses before the mind's emergency brake kicks in and kills the idea.
  • ๐Ÿ’ก Robbins stresses the importance of getting out of one's head and comfort zone to explore and grow, as this is essential for personal development.
  • ๐Ÿค She concludes by offering her support to the audience, encouraging them to take action and make requests to achieve their goals.

Q & A

  • Who is the speaker at the TEDx San Francisco event?

    -The speaker is Mel Robbins, who has been helping people achieve their goals for the past 17 years.

  • What is the main theme of Mel Robbins' talk?

    -The main theme of Mel Robbins' talk is about how to get what you want in life by overcoming the barriers that prevent action, such as the 'fine' mindset and the autopilot mode of the brain.

  • What does Mel Robbins do for a living?

    -Mel Robbins hosts a syndicated radio show, has written a book, and is involved in various other media projects, all focused on helping people achieve their goals.

  • What is the 'inner snooze button' analogy Mel Robbins uses?

    -The 'inner snooze button' is an analogy for the tendency to dismiss or ignore good ideas and opportunities because of the inertia of routine and comfort.

  • What does Mel Robbins suggest is the first decision most people make in the morning?

    -Mel Robbins suggests that the first decision most people make in the morning is to hit the snooze button and go back to sleep, which symbolizes the resistance to change.

  • What is the 'activation energy' that Mel Robbins refers to?

    -The 'activation energy' is the force or effort required to get started on a new behavior or action, which is often the same amount of force needed to break a routine.

  • What is the significance of the number 'one in four hundred trillion' mentioned by Mel Robbins?

    -The number 'one in four hundred trillion' signifies the astronomical odds of an individual being born, emphasizing the uniqueness and potential of each person.

  • What is the 'five-second rule' that Mel Robbins introduces?

    -The 'five-second rule' is a technique where if you have an impulse to act, you must do so within five seconds or risk the mind's tendency to pull the 'emergency brake' and kill the idea.

  • What does Mel Robbins believe is the key to getting out of the 'autopilot' mode of the brain?

    -Mel Robbins believes that the key to getting out of the 'autopilot' mode is to force oneself to take action, especially when it involves stepping out of one's comfort zone.

  • What is the main advice Mel Robbins gives to the audience for achieving their goals?

    -The main advice Mel Robbins gives is to stop waiting for the right feeling or motivation and instead take action immediately, especially within the critical first few seconds of an impulse.

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