When an INTJ likes you...

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19 Aug 202003:42

Summary

TLDRThis video explores how an INTJ personality type behaves when they like someone. They are likely to preempt and solve your future problems, valuing continuous self-improvement. INTJs appreciate being listened to and enjoy spending quality time, which is a sign of their affection. The script encourages viewers to subscribe, join the Discord server, and support the channel, highlighting the importance of time and intentional actions.

Takeaways

  • 🔔 The video encourages viewers to subscribe, like, and enable notifications for the channel, as well as join the newly set up Discord server for community interaction.
  • 🔮 INTJs, when they like someone, are likely to preempt and try to solve that person's future problems in advance, reflecting their mindset of caring for future selves as much as present ones.
  • 🤔 INTJs are motivated by a mix of irritation at learned helplessness and genuine care for the person they want to help, combining optimism with cynicism about people's efforts to solve their own problems.
  • 🚫 Mentioning recurring issues to an INTJ may lead to them applying their problem-solving skills to help, but showing a lack of willingness to work on oneself could put one in their bad graces.
  • 🛠️ INTJs enjoy improving systems and are likely to suggest solutions that involve rethinking things from first principles, appealing to their strengths.
  • 💭 Taking an INTJ's suggestions seriously, especially in a romantic context, is a sign of respect and acknowledgment of their listening and problem-solving abilities.
  • 🛣️ INTJs are goal-oriented and may start plotting or setting goals for you if you lack them, as they operate in a directional way and sometimes struggle to understand those without clear objectives.
  • 🎯 INTJs value quality time and see spending time with someone as a deep form of respect, especially considering their future-focused nature and the preciousness of time.
  • 🎉 The video script also mentions the value of leisure and fun, but INTJs are more likely to prioritize activities with a purpose or goal over purely recreational ones.
  • 💌 The speaker playfully assumes that INTJs watching the video like them, given that they've already invested their time, and invites them to confirm by subscribing and joining the community on Patreon and Discord.

Q & A

  • What does the video encourage viewers to do at the beginning?

    -The video encourages viewers to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell if they haven't already, and also to join the newly set up Discord server.

  • What is the main topic discussed in the video script?

    -The main topic discussed is the behavior and characteristics of an INTJ personality type when they like someone.

  • How does an INTJ show they care about someone according to the script?

    -An INTJ shows they care by preemptively solving future problems for the person they like, even if it's not asked for, and by being genuinely concerned about helping them improve.

  • What motivates an INTJ to solve problems for others?

    -The motivation is a mix of irritation at learned helplessness and a genuine care for the person they want to help, combined with an optimistic yet cynical view of people's efforts to solve their own problems.

  • Why might mentioning recurring issues to an INTJ be problematic?

    -Mentioning recurring issues can be problematic because an INTJ will focus intensely on solving them and may disapprove if they perceive the person is not willing to work on self-improvement.

  • What does the script suggest about INTJs and their approach to systems improvement?

    -The script suggests that INTJs relish the idea of improving systems and are likely to approach this by rethinking things from first principles, which appeals to their strengths.

  • How should someone respond to an INTJ's suggestions if they are liked in a romantic sense?

    -The person should take the INTJ's suggestions and solutions on board, as it shows they are being listened to, which is important for INTJs who dislike having to simplify or tailor their communication.

  • What does the script imply about the INTJ's view on the phrase 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it'?

    -The script implies that the phrase is off-putting to INTJs because they believe that everything and everyone can always be improved.

  • How do INTJs typically approach goal setting and planning for themselves and others?

    -INTJs are goal-oriented and directional, often plotting on behalf of others if they lack clear goals, and they may even create goals for them if necessary.

  • What is the INTJ's attitude towards leisure activities with no specific goal?

    -While not at the top of their list, INTJs do not necessarily dislike leisure activities without a goal, but they resonate more with the idea that 'work is more fun than fun' due to their intentional nature.

  • Why is spending time with someone a significant gesture for an INTJ?

    -Spending time with someone is a significant gesture for an INTJ because time is a precious and non-negotiable resource; giving it willingly is a deep form of respect.

  • What is the final call to action for viewers in the script?

    -The final call to action is for viewers to subscribe, visit the website, support on Patreon, and join the Discord server, with links provided in the description.

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