Dating An ENTJ Personality Type - 10 Interesting Facts

Psychology Refresh
5 Jun 202209:30

Summary

TLDRThis video script explores the unique dynamics of dating an ENTJ personality type, known as Commanders or Leaders. ENTJs approach relationships with clear objectives and strategies, being supportive, agreeable, and direct in expressing feelings. They value trust, connection, and commitment, preferring independent partners. ENTJs show affection through actions rather than words, and are devoted and loyal, with a focus on long-term planning and thoughtful gift-giving. The script offers insights for understanding compatibility and successful dating with ENTJs.

Takeaways

  • 😀 ENTJs are highly supportive and take a proactive role in helping their partners achieve their goals.
  • 🤔 ENTJs, despite their usual lack of compromise, can be surprisingly agreeable in relationships, prioritizing their loved ones' happiness.
  • ❤️ ENTJs are not afraid to express their feelings openly and pursue relationships with confidence.
  • 🔒 When ENTJs trust someone, they open up completely, showing a side of themselves that is rarely seen.
  • 📚 ENTJs are strategic in their approach to relationships, often studying and observing before taking action.
  • 🎁 ENTJs are known for their thoughtful gift-giving, using it as a way to express their affection and long-term commitment.
  • 💑 ENTJs prefer deep connections over casual dating, seeking relationships that offer loyalty and commitment.
  • 💪 ENTJs are attracted to independent romantic partners who are self-sufficient and confident.
  • 🤝 ENTJs show their affection through actions rather than words, often using physical contact to convey their support.
  • 🛡 ENTJs are devoted and loyal partners, standing by their loved ones and supporting them in achieving their best.

Q & A

  • What personality type is the focus of the video script?

    -The video script focuses on the ENTJ personality type, also known as the Commander or Leader.

  • How do ENTJs typically approach their romantic relationships?

    -ENTJs approach their romantic relationships with a clear set of objectives and a strategy for achieving them, often doing so with vigor and excitement.

  • What is the risk that ENTJs face in romantic relationships?

    -ENTJs risk ignoring or misinterpreting the unpredictability of human nature and the volatility of affection due to their structured and goal-oriented approach.

  • Why are ENTJs considered extremely supportive in relationships?

    -ENTJs are extremely supportive because they are goal-oriented and have an innate need to organize and devise solutions to problems, including their partner's aspirations.

  • How can ENTJs show agreement or compromise in a relationship?

    -ENTJs can show agreement or compromise by adjusting their plans to accommodate their loved ones and putting their happiness ahead of their own, even though compromising is usually a major challenge for them.

  • What is the typical style of ENTJs when it comes to expressing their feelings?

    -ENTJs are typically blunt and direct when expressing their feelings, especially when they are interested in someone, as they do not want to lead people on or be misunderstood.

  • Why is the moment an ENTJ opens up to someone considered special?

    -The moment an ENTJ opens up is special because it is a rare and brief moment of tenderness reserved for people they can truly trust, contrasting with their usual blunt and tough demeanor.

  • How do ENTJs prepare before taking action in a relationship?

    -ENTJs study and observe the actions of the person they are interested in to fully comprehend them and determine the best method to attract them, utilizing their long-term planning skills.

  • What role do gifts play in the way ENTJs express affection?

    -Gifts are a common approach for ENTJs to express their affection, often involving thoughtful and elaborate planning to create something special for the people they care about.

  • What type of dating is not fulfilling for ENTJs and why?

    -Casual dating is not fulfilling for ENTJs because they value commitment and loyalty, and casual relationships do not provide the depth of connection they seek.

  • What qualities do ENTJs look for in a romantic partner?

    -ENTJs are drawn to independent romantic partners who exude confidence, self-sufficiency, and inner strength without the need to brag or be unpleasant about it.

  • How do ENTJs typically show their affection?

    -ENTJs typically show their affection through acts rather than words, such as gift-giving, compromises, or physical contact like hugging or holding hands.

  • What is the nature of ENTJs' loyalty in romantic relationships?

    -ENTJs are fiercely loyal and devoted romantic partners who stand by their loved ones even in the face of threats and challenges, and they are protective of those they care about.

Outlines

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😀 ENTJ Personality in Dating: Supportive and Goal-Oriented

The first paragraph introduces the topic of dating an ENTJ personality type, highlighting their unique approach to romantic relationships. ENTJs, known as Commanders or Leaders, are characterized by their goal-oriented nature and strategic planning in dating. They are serious about relationships and aim for long-term commitments. However, they may overlook the unpredictability of emotions. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of understanding ENTJs' supportive nature, their willingness to adopt their partner's aspirations as their own, and their surprising agreeableness when it comes to compromising for the sake of their loved ones. It also touches on their directness in expressing feelings and their tendency to study and observe before taking action in a relationship.

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🎁 ENTJ's Approach to Relationships: Gifts, Connection, and Independence

The second paragraph delves deeper into the dating habits of ENTJs, focusing on their use of gifts as a means of expressing affection and their long-term planning skills. It mentions that ENTJs are likely to give thoughtful and elaborate gifts, showing their dedication to making others happy. The paragraph also discusses ENTJs' preference for casual dating as a means of exploration and their eventual need for commitment and loyalty. It highlights their attraction to independent romantic partners who exude confidence and self-sufficiency. Additionally, it points out that ENTJs often show affection through actions rather than words, preferring physical contact and supportive gestures to express their care and commitment to their loved ones.

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Keywords

💡ENTJ

ENTJ is an acronym for a personality type in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), which stands for Extraversion, Intuition, Thinking, and Judging. In the context of the video, ENTJs are referred to as 'Commanders' or 'Leaders' and are characterized by their goal-oriented and strategic approach to relationships. The video discusses how ENTJs approach dating and relationships with a clear set of objectives and a strategy for achieving them.

💡Dating

Dating is the process of meeting and engaging in social activities with the aim of developing a romantic relationship. The video focuses on the unique way ENTJs approach dating, emphasizing their use of clear objectives and strategies to achieve their goals in romantic relationships.

💡Objectives

Objectives refer to the goals or aims that someone has in a particular situation. In the context of the video, it highlights that ENTJs have a clear set of objectives when it comes to dating and relationships, which they pursue with vigor and excitement.

💡Strategy

A strategy is a plan of action designed to achieve a long-term or overall aim. The script mentions that ENTJs approach their romantic relationships with a strategy for achieving their objectives, indicating their organized and systematic approach to dating.

💡Supportive

Being supportive means providing help or encouragement to someone. The video describes ENTJs as extremely supportive, especially when it comes to their partner's aspirations, often adopting these aspirations as their own and going above and beyond to assist them.

💡Agreeable

Agreeableness is a personality trait characterized by a tendency to be compliant, cooperative, and considerate of others. The video points out that ENTJs can be surprisingly agreeable in relationships, adjusting their plans and even compromising for the happiness of their loved ones.

💡Expressing Feelings

Expressing feelings refers to the act of conveying one's emotions to others. The script notes that ENTJs are not afraid to express their feelings, especially when they are interested in someone, and they will pursue them with confidence.

💡Trust

Trust is the reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, or surety of a person or thing. The video mentions that when ENTJs decide to trust others, it's a special connection, as they are typically blunt and tough, and their moments of openness are rare and significant.

💡Gift Giving

Gift giving is the act of presenting someone with a gift. The video describes how ENTJs use gift giving as a way to express their affection, often planning and executing elaborate gifts for those they care about as part of their long-term planning skills.

💡Connection

A connection refers to the relationship or link between people or things. The script discusses how ENTJs search for a deep connection in their relationships, becoming exhausted with casual dating and valuing commitment and loyalty.

💡Independence

Independence is the state of being self-governing or not depending on others. The video highlights that ENTJs are attracted to independent romantic partners who are self-sufficient and capable of making their own decisions without relying on others.

💡Affection

Affection is a gentle feeling of fondness or liking. The script notes that ENTJs show their affection through acts rather than words, such as gift-giving, compromises, or physical contact, which is a way for them to express support and care for their loved ones.

💡Loyalty

Loyalty is the quality of being faithful to a person, cause, or duty. The video emphasizes that ENTJs are devoted and loyal romantic partners, standing by their loved ones and being protective, even when others may not.

Highlights

ENTJs approach dating with clear objectives and a strategic plan.

They take romantic relationships seriously and aim for long-term commitment.

ENTJs may overlook the unpredictability of human emotions in relationships.

ENTJs are extremely supportive and help their partners achieve their goals.

They are surprisingly agreeable and willing to compromise for their loved ones.

ENTJs are not afraid to express their feelings and pursue romantic interests confidently.

They are private individuals who open up to form special connections.

ENTJs are brutally honest, sentimental, and affectionate when they trust someone.

They study and observe before taking action in romantic pursuits.

ENTJs are known for thoughtful and elaborate gift-giving.

Casual dating is not fulfilling for ENTJs who seek deep connections.

ENTJs are attracted to independent and self-sufficient romantic partners.

They show affection through actions rather than words.

Physical contact and body proximity are common ways ENTJs express support.

ENTJs are devoted and loyal, standing by their loved ones even in adversity.

Despite not being naturally emotional, ENTJs are attentive listeners and supportive partners.

Transcripts

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Welcome to Psychology Refresh! Today, we’re going to go over  

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the 10 Interesting Facts About  Dating An ENTJ Personality Type 

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Make sure to watch each one of them and find out  how you can approach a dating game with them!

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ENTJ (Commander/Leader) is a very unique  personality type with a lot of great traits.   

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However, people with this personality  type approach their romantic relationships  

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in a very interesting way. They approach dating  and relationships with a clear set of objectives  

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and a strategy for achieving them, and do it with  a lot of vigour and excitement. These personality  

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types take romantic relationships very seriously  and are in this game for the long haul.  However,  

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a romantic relationship is an incredibly  complicated matter and ENTJs are at risk of  

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ignoring or misinterpreting the unpredictability  of human nature and affection’s volatility.  Let's  

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look at the most interesting things you should  know about dating and relationships with an  

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ENTJ. This can help you figure out which  personality types are compatible and which  

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aren't. Furthermore, it will tell you how you  can approach a dating game with a Commander and  

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how you can achieve success in that field.  Here  are 10 Interesting Facts About Dating An ENTJ.

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Number 1 – They are extremely supportive ENTJs are goal-oriented first and foremost.  

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They have an innate need to organize the people  around them, devising methods and solutions  

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to whatever problems they encounter. When it  comes to their partner's aspirations, ENTJs are  

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generally willing to go above and beyond to assist  them. When Commanders care about someone, they  

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prefer to adopt their aspirations as their own.  This may appear to be commanding or domineering,  

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yet it is actually a display of affection. ENTJs  desire to assist their loved ones in succeeding.  

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They may experience a sense of responsibility  for the aspirations of their family, partners,  

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and friends, and they devote time and energy  to assisting those they care about the most.  

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They'll also do their best to keep their  loved ones motivated along the road.

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Number 2 – They are surprisingly agreeable There isn't much room for compromise in  

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ENTJ partnerships because they are recognized for  structuring their lives in a precise, even abrupt  

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manner. One of the most important things an ENTJ  can do is adjust their plans to accommodate their  

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loved ones, putting their happiness ahead of their  own. For ENTJs, compromising is a major problem!  

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When it comes to relationships, ENTJs will  go out of their way to allow their romantic  

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partners to take the lead if they know  it's something essential to them. They'll  

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bite their tongue and back up a step. Because  most ENTJs do not typically compromise, others  

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may be confident that it is a sign of genuine  regard for them. When ENTJs make a compromise,  

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it is a subtle yet effective move and often this  is an act of something more than a friendship.

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Number 3 - They are not scared  to express their feelings 

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When it comes to flirting, ENTJs are typically  blunt since they don't want to lead people on  

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or make them think they have feelings when they  don't. Commanders also don't want to let someone  

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walk out on them when they genuinely care for  them. When the ENTJs are interested in someone,  

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they aren't hesitant to express it, and  they will often pursue them with confidence.  

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ENTJs despise missing out on  something they truly desire or  

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letting them to slip away. They are naturally  direct people, so they aren't scared to show  

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their interest in this person and let  them know that they are drawn to them.

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Number 4 - They rarely open, but when  they do the connection is special 

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When an ENTJ decides to trust others, it's  another unexpected aspect of the connection.  

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Because ENTJs are blunt and tough in their  daily lives, the moment they soften totally and  

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open up their hearts to others is a magical  moment. Commanders can sometimes surprise  

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others with their absolute openness instead  of their normal strong-willed personality.  

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ENTJs might display their vulnerable side in a  relationship with someone with whom they have a  

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strong bond. This isn't something that happens  very often, and it doesn't last very long.  

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It's a brief moment of tenderness  reserved for people they can truly trust.  

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ENTJs can be brutally honest, sentimental, and  affectionate while they're in this mindset.

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Number 5 - They will study before taking an action ENTJs are frequently self-assured and charming,  

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and they can even be a little playful. Banter, as  well as the odd poking or taunting, is a means for  

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them to show their enthusiasm. They appreciate  the back-and-forth, and are typically attracted  

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to someone who can keep up with them. Commanders  are outgoing individuals who pay attention to  

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others' actions and what appears to pique their  interest. They will most likely learn about the  

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target of their adoration by conducting study  and observing their actions. This aids the ENTJ  

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in fully comprehending this individual and  determining the best method to attract them.

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Number 6 – They are big on gifts Gift giving is another way Commanders  

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put their long-term planning skills to good use.  Surprises and unexpected gifts are a specialty of  

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ENTJs. Others birthdays may feel hurried because  work took precedence over gift shopping some  

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years, but the ENTJ partner will make up for it  on other occasions. Commanders are known for their  

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thoughtfulness. It's not uncommon for ENTJs to  plan and execute an elaborate gift for someone  

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they care about for weeks, if not months. Giving  gifts is a common approach for ENTJs to express  

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their affection. They appreciate spending  the time to plan something truly special for  

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the people they care about, and they especially  enjoy seeing the final product and the reaction!

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Number 7 – They search for that connection… 

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Casual dating isn't normally fulfilling for  ENTJs, but it may be when they're younger. It's  

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all about discovering what they desire or simply  meeting new people for them. However, they become  

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exhausted with most individuals, and this might  leave them feeling a little disconnected from  

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forging connections. Commitment is crucial to the  ENTJ, and they don't enjoy spending time or energy  

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on things that don't help them advance. Because  loyalty is one of the things the ENTJ loves most  

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in a relationship, something casual isn't going to  provide them with what they need in this regard.

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Number 8 – They look for  independent romantic partners 

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ENTJs are drawn to people who exude confidence,  who can keep themselves together with inner power  

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and pride. They are drawn to people who are proud  of themselves without having to brag about it or  

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be unpleasant about it. Someone who  is self-sufficient who does not rely  

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on others to provide for them on a regular basis.  Commanders enjoy being able to look after someone  

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they care about, but they are also drawn to  people who do not require such care. The ENTJ  

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is drawn to those who are self-sufficient  and know how to make their own decisions.

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Number 9 – They show their  affection via acts, not words 

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When Commanders show how much they care,  they usually do so via acts rather than  

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words. This can take the shape of gift-giving  or compromises, but it can also take the form of  

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physical contact. Because ENTJs have a hard  time expressing their emotions verbally,  

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they may prefer to convey their support through  physical contact and body proximity. ENTJs  

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frequently express themselves through sympathetic  gestures, such as hugging or placing a touch  

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on the arm while talking. It might be the way  they look at their loved ones or simple acts of  

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holding hands while being in the public. ENTJs  aren't known for talking about their feelings,  

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but they do know when to offer support and  physical closeness is the thing, they use a lot.

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Number 10 – They are devoted  and loyal romantic partners 

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ENTJs are fiercely loyal people who will stand  by their loved ones even if they are threatened.  

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They can become rather protective of these  unique individuals, never giving up on them  

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even when others appear to be doing just that.  When they care about someone, they will not betray  

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them or do anything that would impede them from  accomplishing their goals and becoming the finest  

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version of themselves imaginable. Even though they  aren't naturally skilled at dealing with emotions,  

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they are terrific listeners. ENTJs pay  attention to what their spouse says and wants,  

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and they will go out of their  way to help them acquire it.

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