When a Girl Stares at You, DON'T Do These 6 Things!

Summary

The video script discusses common mistakes men make when they notice a woman showing interest through staring. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining eye contact without breaking it first, not ignoring her advances, avoiding egocentric behavior, not fighting the urge to stare back, and not acting out of character or nodding repeatedly. The script suggests using charm and confidence to approach the woman, treating the situation like trying to make a scared cat comfortable, and highlights the need for men to be proactive in such scenarios.

Takeaways

• 😉 When a woman stares at you, it could be a sign of attraction, and it's important to handle the situation with confidence and grace.
• 👀 Maintain eye contact when noticed being stared at, but avoid being the first to break it, as it shows you're not intimidated and are in control.
• 🙂 Acknowledge her interest with a smile or a wink, but don't ignore her gesture; instead, use it as an opportunity to communicate non-verbally.
• 💡 Don't let the attention go to your head or become egocentric; maintain your normal behavior and show that you're comfortable with the attention.
• 🕺 Don't fight the urge to stare back; it's part of the silent communication between you two, but avoid being too obvious or comical about it.
• 🚫 Avoid becoming arrogant or acting out of character just because a woman is showing interest; be genuine and let the interaction unfold naturally.
• 🤔 Understand that staring is a form of subconscious communication that can convey more than words, so use it to gauge interest and build a connection.
• 👍 A single nod can be enough to acknowledge her stare, showing confidence and comfort without appearing insecure or uncomfortable.
• 🚶‍♂️ If you're interested in her, make the first move and approach her to start a conversation, as women rarely make the first move due to societal norms.
• 💭 Develop a sense of mystery and confidence that can draw people in, increasing your attractiveness without bragging or being overly self-absorbed.
• 📚 Learn from the experience and apply it to future interactions, improving your social skills and understanding of non-verbal cues in dating scenarios.

Q & A

What should you do when you notice a woman staring at you?

You should hold eye contact and show dominance without being intimidated, and ideally make the first move if you are interested.

Why is it important not to break eye contact first?

Breaking eye contact first can show submission and a lack of confidence. Holding eye contact shows dominance and confidence.

What is a good way to acknowledge a woman’s stare without using words?

A good way to acknowledge her stare is by smiling or winking at her, which communicates your awareness and interest without words.

Why should you avoid becoming egocentric when a woman stares at you?

Becoming egocentric can make you appear arrogant and inexperienced with female attention, which can decrease your attractiveness.

What is the recommended behavior if you are interested in a woman who is staring at you?

You should maintain eye contact, acknowledge her gesture with a smile or wink, and eventually approach her to strike up a conversation.

Why is it advised not to ignore a woman’s staring gesture?

Ignoring her gesture might lead to her shifting her attention to someone else who responds, making you miss an opportunity.

What can continuous nodding indicate when a woman is staring at you?

Continuous nodding can indicate a lack of confidence and insecurity, which can be unattractive and turn her off.

How should you handle the urge to stare back at a woman who is staring at you?

You should not fight the urge to stare back. Instead, maintain eye contact to communicate interest and confidence.

What is a major mistake men make when a woman is staring at them?

A major mistake is becoming overly proud and acting out of character, which can come off as arrogant rather than confident.

Why should you not act like a 'silent stigma male' when a woman stares at you?

Acting like a 'silent stigma male' can make you seem unapproachable and mysterious in a negative way, rather than confident and attractive.

Outlines

00:00

👀 Deciphering Female Interest: The Art of Eye Contact

This paragraph discusses the common situation where a man, having improved his physique and appearance, finds women staring at him. It explains that this could be a sign of attraction and that men often struggle with how to respond when they become the object of attention. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of maintaining eye contact as a display of confidence and dominance, rather than breaking it first. It suggests that a man should be patient and allow the woman to break eye contact, signaling his interest without being intimidated. The text also advises men to approach the woman and initiate a conversation, as women rarely make the first move. It highlights the importance of treating the situation delicately, like trying to gain the trust of a scared feral cat.

05:00

🙅‍♂️ Avoiding Common Mistakes When Noticed by Women

The second paragraph focuses on the mistakes men often make when they notice a woman's interest in them. It advises against ignoring a woman's advances, as this could lead to her moving on to someone else. Instead, men should acknowledge her attention with a smile or a wink, making her feel comfortable and not embarrassed. The paragraph warns against becoming egocentric or arrogant due to the attention, suggesting that a man should maintain his normal behavior and not let the attention inflate his ego. It also advises against fighting the urge to stare back, as this is part of a silent communication that can build attraction. The text recommends being oneself and enjoying the interaction, rather than trying too hard or changing one's personality.

10:04

🤔 Navigating the Subtleties of Non-Verbal Communication

The final paragraph continues the discussion on how to handle a woman's stare. It cautions against nodding repeatedly when a woman is staring, as this can signal a lack of confidence or discomfort. Instead, a single nod is recommended to acknowledge her attention without appearing insecure. The paragraph reinforces the idea that a woman's stare is generally a positive sign of interest and that men should approach the situation naturally. It concludes by encouraging men to watch the next video for advice on how to approach a woman who has shown interest, emphasizing the importance of understanding and utilizing non-verbal cues in social interactions.

Keywords

💡Physique

The term 'physique' refers to the overall physical structure and appearance of a person, including their body shape, size, and condition. In the context of the video, it is used to describe the improved body shape and condition that the subject has achieved, which is attracting attention from women. The script mentions that the individual has 'built up a great physique,' indicating that their physical appearance is a key factor in the attention they are receiving.

💡Demeanors

Demeanors are the ways in which people conduct themselves, particularly in terms of their behavior and attitudes. In the video, 'demeanors' is used to highlight the similarities between men and women when they find someone attractive. The script explains that both genders may stare at someone they desire, indicating that demeanors can be a non-verbal cue of interest.

💡Dominance

Dominance, in this context, refers to the display of control or authority, often through non-verbal cues such as maintaining eye contact. The video script advises against being the first to break eye contact when a woman is staring, as this can be seen as a sign of dominance and confidence, which are attractive qualities.

💡Attraction

Attraction is the feeling of being drawn towards someone or something, often due to physical appearance, personality, or other qualities. The video discusses how staring can be a sign of attraction, as both men and women may stare at someone they find attractive to figure out why they are drawn to them.

💡Eye Contact

Eye contact is the act of looking at another person in the eyes, which can convey a range of emotions and intentions. The script emphasizes the importance of holding eye contact when a woman is staring, as it can demonstrate confidence and interest without the need for words.

💡Staring

Staring is the act of looking intently or for a prolonged period at someone or something. The video explores the reasons behind staring, particularly when it comes to attraction. It mentions that staring can be a subconscious indication of interest and can lead to further interaction between two people.

💡Confidence

Confidence refers to a person's belief in their own abilities and self-assurance. The video script suggests that a man should not let a woman's stare affect his behavior negatively, but rather maintain his confidence and act naturally, as this can increase his attractiveness.

💡Egocentric

Being 'egocentric' means being excessively self-centered or self-focused. The video warns against becoming egocentric when a woman is staring, as it can lead to arrogance and change one's behavior in a way that may be off-putting.

💡Mystery

Mystery, in the context of the video, refers to an aura of intrigue or uncertainty that surrounds a person, making them more attractive to others. The script mentions that a man should maintain an air of mystery when a woman is staring, which can make him more appealing.

💡Approach

Approach, in this context, refers to the act of initiating contact or interaction with someone, often in a social setting. The video discusses the importance of knowing when to make the first move and approach a woman who has shown interest through staring.

💡Nod

A nod is a gesture of acknowledgment or agreement, often involving a quick downward and upward movement of the head. The script advises against nodding repeatedly when a woman is staring, as it can show a lack of confidence or discomfort, which may be unattractive.

Highlights

Men often don't know how to respond when they become the object of attraction, as they are used to being the pursuer.

Women may stare at men they find attractive, just as men do, and this could be a sign of interest.

Staring is a subconscious indication of attraction, similar to how one might stare at a painting in a museum that captures their attention.

Men should not be the first to break eye contact when a woman is staring, as it shows dominance and lack of intimidation.

Ignoring a woman's stare may cause her to lose interest and allow someone else to engage with her.

Men should acknowledge a woman's stare with a smile or a wink to communicate interest non-verbally.

Becoming egocentric or arrogant in response to a woman's stare can be off-putting and may reduce one's dating value.

Men should not fight the urge to stare back, but rather engage in a silent dance of communication.

Acting out of character or becoming overly confident in response to a woman's attention can be perceived as arrogance.

Nodding repeatedly at a woman who is staring can show insecurity and discomfort, which may be unattractive.

A single nod is sufficient to acknowledge that you've noticed a woman staring without appearing insecure.

Men should maintain their natural demeanor and not change their personality in response to a woman's attention.

Men should approach the situation naturally and not make the staring a big deal, treating it as a normal occurrence.

The act of staring can be a clear sign of attraction and should be reciprocated to show interest.

Men should use their surroundings to their advantage, such as offering to buy a woman a drink to strike up a conversation.

The video suggests that further advice on how to approach a woman who is interested will be provided in a subsequent video.

Transcripts

so you've been working on yourself and

you've built up a great physique and you

dress to impress but now the only thing

that happens is you find women keep

staring at you yes this should be a clue

that she might be somewhat interested in

you but many men don't know what to do

when they go from being the hunter to

the hunted you see women also have the

same demeanors as many men and will

stare at you if they find you attractive

granted she might take a different

approach in how she stares at you but

it's something you might need to get

used to especially if you've been

working hard to improve yourself today

we explore some of the mistakes that

most men make the moment they notice a

woman is interested in them in most

cases it's often an indicator that she's

attracted to you but since men don't

have experience being hunted they often

mess it up but what does it mean when a

woman stares at you why do people stare

at each other when it comes to people

staring at each other it's quite a

fascinating story you see men and women

are alike when it comes to spotting

someone they desire and when they do

they'll want to figure out why this

person is so attractive to them what

follows is the stare that occasionally

might seem weird you see we have our

attention drawn to the things we desire

and you can see this when you're walking

through a museum and a painting pops out

what you will inadvertently do is stare

at it subconsciously each time you walk

by this is a clear indication of

interest and your mind is building up up

numerous questions since we as human

beings hate unanswered questions we will

continue to stare at what grabs our

attention now women are the same and if

you've been focused on improving

yourself and how you look you are very

likely to find that women stare at you

more often the question here is what

should you do or rather what is it you

should not do if you also like her well

we've identified six things that you

have to avoid doing if you're truly

interested in a woman and she's staring

at you the ideal way you want to go

about this is to treat it like a scared

feral cat that you're trying to make

comfortable and allow to like you or get

close to you but what you should avoid

doing is just as important let's dive in

number one break eye contact one of the

things you should avoid doing when you

notice a woman staring at you is being

the first one who breaks eye contact you

see women are often those who have to

submit as a way of showing that you are

the one truly in control now holding eye

contact is a way of showing dominance

and that you are not intimidated by her

staring at you what you'll notice is

that eventually she will break eye

contact and this is when you can look

away this will often happen in just a

couple of seconds but you want to show

her that you have seen her staring at

you and you are wondering why if you do

happen to get her to break eye contact

First you will also notice that she will

stare at you again sometime later once

again the same principles apply and you

will need to hold eye contact for as

long as possible ideally this is when a

Charming Man who's been following this

channel should have an idea of how to

approach her yes the constant staring is

a clear sign of Attraction and one thing

you want to do is be the one making the

first move you see regardless of who a

woman is women rarely make the first

move as this has been ingrained in their

DNA if you choose your opportunity

wisely you should be able to not when

the correct moment is for you to make

the approach and strike up a

conversation number two simply ignoring

the gesture whilst it might seem very

tempting to Simply ignore the gesture of

her staring at you it doesn't yield you

any benefits to Simply Let It Go what is

bound to happen is someone else might

come by and steal her attention and

since they're actually responding she

will feel more comfortable and you will

have ultimately lost your shot instead

of simply ignoring the staring gesture

there are a couple of things you can do

number one is to have a smile and smile

at her you can follow this up with a

wink as well but the main thing is to

acknowledge the fact that she's been

staring at you you see the idea is to

communicate with her without using any

words and this can be done through

gestures or even some facial expressions

you want to make sure that she's

comfortable enough for you to approach

her and she should not feel embarrassed

about being caught staring now this all

depends on what whether you find her

attractive or not as some of the most

attractive women rarely even focus on

the men around them knowing that the

attractive man will come looking for

them in some way the final thing you

should do instead of ignoring her is to

either go over to her or signal her over

if this happens in a bar you can use

your surroundings to your advantage this

means you can call her over and offer to

buy her a drink You're simply looking

for a way to occupy her time and strike

up some kind of conversation so it is

important to not ignore any of her

advances in this manner as she might

simply move towards someone else and

choose to ignore you you don't want to

have her feel like she's embarrassing

herself or even put her in any state of

discomfort for staring at you remember

it's not purposely done number three

don't become egocentric one of the worst

things you can do when you notice a

woman staring at you is to allow it to

go to your head you see many men don't

have the luxury of women staring ing at

them which means they don't know how to

act when they see this they simply see

her liking him and it becomes an ego

thing you see the last thing you want to

do is to embarrass her in some way or

make her feel like she's the one

responsible for a change in your

behavior this will tell her that you

don't have any real experience with

women who give you attention and it

might seem like you don't have any

dating value a good quality man will

just allow her to stare and focus on

himself he will continue being the

normal person he is and understand that

it might be the way he currently is

that's making her stare you want to show

that this is nothing new to you and

you're used to having women stare at you

what you'll notice is that a silent kind

of confidence will radiate from you and

this creates an aura of Mystique around

you that makes women like you even more

additionally you'll notice that she

talks about you to her friends and this

can mean that more and more people in

the room will stare at you as well you

want to have everyone feel like this is

everyday practice for you and it happens

quite often it's these additional levels

of confidence that truly draw people in

and will increase your sexual value so

don't let it go to your head and don't

become egocentric bragging about this as

it might be at the cost of those around

you you don't want to be the silent

stigma male that everyone loves but

doesn't understand we've touched on the

power of mystery on many different

occasions on this channel and would

recommend that you also check out some

of the other videos number four don't

fight the urge to stare back whenever we

stare at someone it's natural to check

yourself and then simply Look Away now

we've already mentioned the fact that

you should hold eye contact for as long

as she permits but you also don't have

to fight the urge to stare back you see

since staring is something that is often

frowned upon you will more than likely

find yourself and every part of your

being telling you to look away is you

might just come across as being weird

and she might be asking herself why

you're staring at her however if she's

the one who's been staring at you it's

time to understand that this encounter

between the two of you is somewhat of a

silent dance yes this means that both of

you are actually communicating in your

minds and it is this form of

subconscious communication that is often

communicating things that words will

never be able to do what's happening is

that you're exchanging information and

if you have experience your facial

gestures can be quite enticing to even

turn her on as we've mentioned your go

goal is to get her to talk to you as

soon as possible which is a way of truly

gauging her real interest levels so you

mustn't fight the urge to stare back

whilst it might seem normal to you the

act of trying to stare at her without

being obvious can often be comical and

is not attractive at all so if you like

her and she's staring at you you should

continue to stare back ideally this will

also communicate to her that you're

interested or that you find her

attractive we've already touched on the

wink and slice smirk that can say words

about your personality and in many cases

even draw her in simply just be yourself

and you need to have some fun with it as

well number five don't become the

you see one of the big issues

with Modern Men is they simply don't

know what to do whenever a woman is

touting their ego in fact many men

become so puffed and proud of themselves

they simply act out of character and

their levels of self-confidence can

rapidly rise through the roof if you're

not careful it's very important to know

that if a woman is staring at you it's

no big deal and you should also treat it

as such don't do the whole hey baby

routine when you think she likes you

instead of being confident this can come

off as very arrogant she staring at you

for a reason and it's not for you to

change your personality in any way

additionally many men might become so

self-absorbed that they tell everyone

around them forgetting that this is a

silent form of communication that could

lead to something even more beautiful

and she's also taken a risk by doing so

as she might be judged by those around

her since women should never be the ones

making the first move as we've already

mentioned the best course of action is

to just accept it for what it is and

it's no different than having a random

stranger stare at you you can simply

ignore them or walk away if you feel a

little threatened however it's best to

Simply Be Yourself and continue to focus

on what you're doing the occasional

reciprocal act will be enough to keep

her attention

number six nodding repeatedly the act of

nodding at a woman when she's staring at

you might seem natural in fact people

often nod at each other when they catch

someone staring at them as a way

acknowledging that they've been seen and

that the other person might be fine or a

little uncomfortable with someone

continuously staring at them however

continuous nodding shows a lack of

confidence and a little insecurity in

fact it might show that you're a little

uncomfortable with her staring at you

and this is what will often turn her off

off immediately if you're going to nod

at her you should stick to a single nod

to acknowledge that you have seen her

and that you are completely fine and

confident with the fact that she's

staring you down also you don't want to

approach her with the demeanor of what

are you looking at this is perhaps one

of the most important things to keep in

mind always try to focus on keeping

things as natural as they can possibly

be whenever a woman is staring at you it

is most generally a good sign and it

also means that she's checking you out

with women now having so many options in

men who pursue them this is quite a rare

phenomenon to occur but once you notice

this you'll eventually need to approach

so make sure to check out this next

video on how to actually get a woman who

likes you