Subtle Signs She Wants YOU To Make The First Move

Summary

In this video, Courtney Ryan discusses the subtle signs that women give when they want men to make the first move, even though they may not be direct about it. She covers seven key behaviors, including curiosity about a man's type, lingering during transition moments, bringing up shared scenarios, showing selective vulnerability, enjoying silence, playfully challenging him, and subtly hinting at availability. Courtney emphasizes that men should pay attention to these cues as they indicate a woman’s interest, encouraging them to trust their instincts and take the lead without overthinking or fearing rejection.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women often don't make the first move due to social conditioning, fear of rejection, and a desire for the guy to lead.
• 😀 Many women use subtle, indirect signals to show their interest, which can be easily overlooked by men.
• 😀 One sign that a woman wants you to make the first move is when she asks about your type, trying to gauge if she's a match for your preferences.
• 😀 If a woman lingers during transition moments or doesn't rush to leave, she's waiting for you to take the next step.
• 😀 When a woman casually mentions shared activities, like starting a book club or taking a class together, it's an invitation for you to take the initiative.
• 😀 A woman who selectively opens up about personal or vulnerable topics is trying to create an emotional connection.
• 😀 Silence can be a powerful signal. If a woman is comfortable in quiet moments with you, it shows trust and potential attraction.
• 😀 Light teasing, disagreements, or playful challenges are ways women test chemistry and flirt without being too forward.
• 😀 Asking about your plans or mentioning hers can be a hint that she's making herself available for a date or to spend more time with you.
• 😀 Even though many men feel pressure to make the first move, paying attention to these subtle signs can help take the guesswork out of the situation.

Q & A

Why do most women not make the first move, despite being interested?

A mix of social conditioning, fear of rejection, and the preference for the guy to lead are the main reasons. Many women feel pressure to not be direct and instead send subtle signals, hoping the guy will take the initiative.

What does it mean when a woman asks about your type or preferences?

When a woman asks about your type, she's gauging whether she fits your preferences without directly putting herself out there. It’s a way to test the waters and see if there’s potential for something more between you two.

How can a woman show interest through 'transition moments'?

If a woman lingers after a conversation or event is about to end, she's likely waiting for you to make a move, like asking for her number or suggesting continuing the conversation elsewhere. This pause is a subtle cue for you to take action.

What is the significance of a woman mentioning shared scenarios?

When a woman casually brings up activities or events that involve both of you, she is subtly planting the idea of spending time together. It's an indirect way of showing interest, while leaving it up to you to take the next step.

Why would a woman selectively show vulnerability?

A woman might open up about something personal to test the emotional connection. This vulnerability is often a way of seeing how you respond and if you are trustworthy enough to engage in deeper, meaningful conversations.

What does it mean if a woman doesn’t mind silence with you?

If a woman can comfortably sit in silence with you without feeling the need to fill the gap, it’s a strong sign of trust and comfort. This calmness is an indicator that she feels safe around you, which can lead to deeper attraction.

How does playful teasing indicate romantic interest?

When a woman lightly disagrees or teases you in a fun way, it’s a way of creating tension and flirtation. This playful dynamic shows she’s interested in you and wants to see how you handle the chemistry and respond to her.

What does it mean when a woman asks about your schedule or mentions hers?

If a woman starts asking about your plans or mentions her own availability, she's likely offering a subtle invitation for you to ask her out or make plans to spend time together. It's a clear but indirect way for her to make herself available without being overly forward.

How can a man know when to make the first move?

If a woman is giving subtle signals like asking about your type, lingering in transition moments, or mentioning shared activities, it's a green light for you to make the first move. Don’t overthink it—trust your instincts and go for it.

What should a man do if he's unsure about making the first move?

If you're unsure, pay attention to the signs she’s giving. If she’s showing interest through small actions or words, take a chance. The men who get what they want are those who trust their gut and take the initiative, even if there's some risk involved.