How Girls REALLY Want You To Talk To Them
Summary
TLDRThe video script narrates the story of Jeffrey, who had a long-standing crush on Jessica but lacked the courage to express his feelings. It delves into the importance of boldness in approaching women, contrasting shyness with confidence. The speaker shares personal anecdotes from his teenage years in Army Cadets, where his inability to act led to missed opportunities. The narrative emphasizes the need to overcome fear of rejection and to engage in playful, authentic conversations rather than dull interviews, advocating for a balance of ambition and light-hearted teasing to attract and connect with women.
Takeaways
- 😔 The importance of courage in expressing feelings to someone you have a crush on, as hesitation can lead to missed opportunities.
- 😳 The narrator's personal experience of having a crush in Army Cadets and the regret of not expressing his feelings, which resulted in the girl having a crush on someone else.
- 🤔 The advice that shyness and inaction make one less attractive, and that taking action despite fear can lead to positive outcomes.
- 💪 The concept that courage is acting despite feeling fear, and that this courage can be attractive to others.
- 🚫 The narrator's belief that being scared of rejection is a common but unproductive mindset, and that regret from inaction is worse than the pain of rejection.
- 📉 The idea that the pain of rejection lessens with each experience, and that those with more experience are less affected by it.
- 🔢 The suggestion that quantity and practice in interactions with the opposite sex are key to becoming good at it, similar to how one learns any other skill.
- 💭 The insight that girls prefer honesty and directness in communication, rather than games or pretense of disinterest.
- 😜 The effectiveness of teasing and playful banter over formal questioning in creating a more engaging and attractive interaction.
- 👥 The narrator's anecdote about a failed attempt to connect with a girl due to his friend's lack of 'game', illustrating the importance of keeping conversations interesting.
- 🌟 The impact of speaking with ambition and passion about one's goals and dreams, which can be a powerful way to connect with and attract someone.
Q & A
What is the main issue Jeffrey faces regarding his feelings for Jessica?
-Jeffrey has a crush on Jessica but lacks the courage to speak to her, resulting in him just staring at her in class without taking any action.
How does the speaker describe Adonis' understanding of women?
-Adonis is portrayed as understanding women well, similar to how Jeffrey understands the female characters in League of Legends, but with a more confident and engaging approach.
What was the speaker's experience in Army Cadets as a teenager?
-The speaker had a crush on a girl in Army Cadets but was too shy to speak to her, instead of just staring and engaging in self-deprecating behavior like tilting back in his chair and biting his pen lid.
What event led to the speaker being asked to the dance by the girl he had a crush on?
-The girl had no one else to go with, and the speaker was the last option, but he still agreed to go with her to the dance.
What did the speaker learn about the importance of taking action when it comes to expressing feelings to someone?
-The speaker learned that fortune favors the bold and that being shy or waiting for the right time can lead to missed opportunities, as it did when the girl he liked expressed interest in someone else.
What advice does the speaker give about dealing with fear and rejection when approaching someone you like?
-The speaker advises that courage is acting despite feeling fear, and that rejection is less painful than regret for not taking action. He also mentions that the pain of rejection lessens with each experience.
What does the speaker suggest is a more attractive approach to talking to girls than asking conventional questions?
-The speaker suggests teasing and playful banter as a more attractive approach than asking conventional questions, which can feel like an interview and bore the girl.
How does the speaker describe the difference between his conversation style and that of the 'cool Chad'?
-The speaker's style involves teasing and ambition, making the conversation lively and interesting, whereas the 'cool Chad' might act disinterested, which can be attractive but inauthentic if the person is actually very interested.
What negative outcome did the speaker's friend Levi experience when using a conventional approach with a girl?
-Levi's girl got bored with the interview-like questions and left him to interrupt the speaker's moment with his own girl, leading to both girls leaving without further interaction.
What is the speaker's advice on what to talk about with a girl to increase attraction?
-The speaker advises talking about personal ambition, passion, and playful teasing rather than mundane topics like hobbies, which can be boring.
What impact did the speaker's conversation about his YouTube plans have on a girl he was interested in?
-The conversation about his ambitious plans for YouTube and leadership of a movement greatly increased the girl's attraction to him, showing the power of speaking with passion and ambition.
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