HOW TO DM WOMEN { STEP BY STEP }

Summary

In this video transcript, the speaker shares a three-step process for effectively sliding into women's DMs on Instagram. The advice starts with ensuring one's profile is attractive and professional, suggesting hiring a photographer for quality photos. Next, the speaker recommends following and liking recent posts of potential matches and waiting for them to follow back before sending a DM. The final step involves direct messaging with a simple question about location, followed by an invitation for a personal meeting if they're in the same city, emphasizing high value and efficiency in communication.

Takeaways

• 😎 The importance of having an attractive and presentable Instagram profile with high-quality photos before attempting to DM women.
• 📸 Investing in professional photography to enhance one's appearance on social media can significantly increase attractiveness and response rates.
• 🔄 Following and liking a girl's recent photo on Instagram is the first step to show interest without being too aggressive.
• 🚫 Only DM girls who follow back as it indicates they have shown interest in your profile.
• 📍 Prioritizing local connections by asking if the girl is in the same city to avoid long-distance interactions.
• 💬 Keeping the conversation straightforward and skipping small talk by suggesting to meet in person if there's mutual interest.
• 🍷 Proposing a casual meet-up like having wine at one's place to gauge the level of interest without being too formal.
• 📱 If a girl is interested, she will provide her number for further communication, simplifying the process of setting up a date.
• 🚶‍♂️ Disengaging from the conversation if a girl shows any hesitation or makes excuses, indicating a lack of interest.
• 🕊️ Highlighting one's busy lifestyle and preference for in-person interactions as a sign of high value and to avoid excessive texting.
• 👍 The script emphasizes the effectiveness of this approach based on personal experience and results.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video script?

The main topic of the video script is providing a three-step process for effectively sending direct messages (DMs) to women on Instagram.

Why is it important to have a good Instagram profile setup according to the script?

A good Instagram profile setup is important because it's the first impression a girl gets when you DM her. It should be attractive and presentable to increase the chances of getting a response.

What does the script suggest about the content of one's Instagram profile?

The script suggests that one's Instagram profile should not be filled with pictures of just themselves and their pets, but rather should look presentable and represent the person in the best light.

What is the first step the script recommends before DMing a girl on Instagram?

The first step is to follow the girl and like one of her recent photos without sending a DM immediately.

Why does the script advise not to DM girls who do not follow you back?

The script advises against DMing girls who do not follow you back because the chances of getting a response are significantly lower if they have not shown interest by following you.

What is the strategy for selecting which girls to DM according to the script?

The strategy is to follow and like the photos of 10 to 20 girls, and then only DM the ones who follow you back, indicating they have shown interest.

What should be the focus of the first message when DMing a girl according to the script?

The first message should focus on asking if the girl is in the same city, as the script emphasizes not wanting to pursue long-distance relationships.

Why does the script recommend skipping small talk and going straight to meeting in person?

The script recommends skipping small talk because it wants to quickly gauge the girl's interest level and efficiency in securing a date, rather than spending time on text exchanges.

What should you do if a girl responds with hesitation or says it's too fast according to the script?

If a girl responds with hesitation or mentions it's too fast, the script suggests explaining that you work a lot and prefer to get to know people in person, which also implies your high value.

What is the final step in the script's DM process after establishing mutual interest and location?

The final step is to suggest getting to know each other in person, for example, by having wine at your place, and then asking for her number to set a date.