Wife left me when I was caring for my dying father, but when he made me a millionaire in his will...

Summary

The script narrates the story of a 36-year-old man who, despite being disinherited by his ailing father due to career choices, remains devoted to his father's care. His wife, initially supportive, becomes resentful of the time spent caring for his father and eventually leaves him. After his father's passing, the man discovers he was always the heir to his father's wealth, and his father was proud of his independence. The man reconciles with his father's legacy and faces his ex-wife's attempts to claim a share of the inheritance, maintaining his resolve to protect his children and honor his father's memory.

Takeaways

• 👨‍🦳 The narrator is a 36-year-old man who became a millionaire after his father's will was revealed, despite initially being disinherited.
• 🏠 The narrator has been married for 8 years with two children and has been caring for his ailing father with kidney problems, who requires dialysis twice a week.
• 💼 The narrator works for a tech firm, having chosen a career in technology over his father's merchandising business, which strained their relationship.
• 📜 The father had threatened to leave his wealth to charity when the narrator refused to join the family business, leading to a soured relationship.
• 🚗 The narrator's wife, Ail, was upset about the time he spent caring for his father, leading to frequent arguments and eventually divorce.
• 👶 After the divorce, the narrator moved in with his father, bringing his children along, which improved the father's quality of life.
• 💔 The father passed away peacefully, and it was revealed that the narrator was always the heir to his father's wealth, contrary to previous beliefs.
• 🏡 The narrator quit his job to take over his father's business and moved his family into his parents' house to honor his father's memory.
• 🤝 The ex-wife, Ail, and her parents attempted to reconcile after learning about the inheritance, but the narrator rejected their advances, suspecting their motives.
• 📝 The narrator is advised by his lawyer to be cautious of his ex-wife's intentions and to monitor her interactions with their children to prevent potential custody disputes.
• 🌴 The narrator plans to take his children on a vacation to the Bahamas, showing his commitment to their well-being and happiness.

Q & A

What was the main reason for the wife's initial dissatisfaction with the husband's decision to care for his father?

The wife was upset because she felt there was no point in wasting time on the husband's father, who had already removed him from his will and given his wealth to charity.

Why did the husband's father want him to take over the family business?

The father owned a successful merchandising business and wanted his son to continue his legacy, but the son was passionate about technology and chose a different career path.

How did the husband's relationship with his father change after his mother's death?

Their bond rejuvenated after the mother's death, leading the husband to visit his father more often and eventually move in with him to provide care during his illness.

What was the wife's reaction when the husband inherited his father's wealth after his passing?

The ex-wife, Ail, and her parents returned, expressing regret for not knowing about the father's death and suggesting a reconciliation for the sake of the children.

What was the husband's response to his ex-wife's attempt at reconciliation after learning about the inheritance?

He rejected the idea, believing that she was only interested in the inherited wealth and not genuinely concerned about him or their children.

How did the husband manage his responsibilities during the time his father was ill?

He juggled work, caring for his father, and taking care of his children, often working late into the night to compensate for time spent away from his job.

What was the turning point that led to the husband and wife's divorce?

The turning point was when the wife gave him an ultimatum to choose between her and his father, to which he chose his father, leading her to leave and eventually file for divorce.

What was the husband's father's profession and how did he accumulate his wealth?

The father owned a merchandising business, which he built and managed successfully, leading to the accumulation of his wealth.

How did the husband's father express his pride in his son's independence and passion?

Despite their disagreements, the father left his entire wealth to his son in his will, showing that he respected his son's choices and was proud of his pursuit of passion.

What actions did the husband take after inheriting his father's wealth?

He quit his job, took over his father's business, moved into his father's house with his children, and planned to take the kids on a vacation to the Bahamas.

What was the husband's decision regarding his father's business after his passing?

He decided to take the company back from the trust and run it himself, aiming to scale it to the level his father had wanted.

Outlines

00:00

😔 Strain Between Family and Career

The narrator, a 36-year-old man, describes the challenges of balancing his responsibilities as a husband, father, and primary caregiver for his ailing father, who suffers from severe kidney problems requiring regular dialysis. His wife, Ail, becomes upset when he prioritizes his father's health over her needs, leading to marital strife. The narrator's father, once a successful businessman, had a falling out with his son for not taking over the family business, leading to a strained relationship. Despite the tension, the narrator remains committed to his father's care, even as his wife's resentment grows.

05:01

😡 Escalating Conflict and Divorce

The conflict between the narrator and his wife, Ail, intensifies as she continues to oppose his commitment to his father's care, arguing that it's a waste of time since the father has already disinherited him. The narrator's refusal to abandon his father leads to frequent arguments and eventually, Ail leaves the family home. She sends divorce papers, which the narrator signs without hesitation, relieved to be free from the toxic relationship. Ail does not seek custody of their children, indicating her lack of interest in their well-being.

10:02

😢 Reconciliation with the Father and His Passing

Following the divorce, the narrator moves in with his father and children, leading to a period of happiness and reconciliation. His father's health declines further, but he enjoys the company of his grandchildren before passing away peacefully. The narrator is initially devastated but finds solace in his father's lawyer revealing that he was always the heir to his father's wealth, contrary to previous beliefs. This revelation brings a sense of closure and the realization that his father never truly abandoned him.

15:02

😠 Ex-Wife's Greed and Legal Battles

After inheriting his father's wealth, the narrator faces a new challenge when his ex-wife, Ail, and her family attempt to reconcile for financial gain. They express false remorse and manipulate the situation to try and gain access to the inherited wealth. The narrator, aware of their intentions, refuses to allow them back into his or his children's lives. He seeks legal advice to protect his assets and his children, ensuring that Ail cannot manipulate the situation to her advantage.

🛫 Moving Forward with Life and Business

With the support of his lawyer, the narrator is confident that his ex-wife's attempts to claim part of his inheritance will be unsuccessful. He focuses on his children, spending quality time with them, and plans a luxurious vacation to the Bahamas as a treat. He also takes over his father's company, providing him with the flexibility to manage his personal life and well-being. The narrator is determined to move forward, honoring his father's legacy and ensuring a secure future for his children.

Keywords

💡Dialysis

Dialysis is a medical procedure that removes waste products and excess fluids from the blood when the kidneys are no longer able to do so effectively. In the video's theme, it is a critical aspect of the narrator's father's health condition, symbolizing the father's deteriorating health and the son's commitment to his care. The script mentions the son taking his father for dialysis twice a week, highlighting the son's dedication despite personal challenges.

💡Inheritance

Inheritance refers to the process by which an individual receives assets, money, or property from a deceased person. In the video, the theme of inheritance is pivotal as it initially causes tension between the narrator and his wife, who is upset about being excluded from the father's will. The father's will is later revealed to have always included the son, signifying the father's enduring love and support for his son's independence and choices.

💡Legacy

Legacy is the property, values, or other assets passed down from one generation to the next. The video's narrative revolves around the father's business legacy and the son's decision to not take over the family business, which leads to conflict and misunderstanding between the father and son. The son's decision to eventually take over the business after his father's death represents his acceptance of the family legacy.

💡Conflict

Conflict in this context refers to the disagreements and tensions between individuals, particularly between the narrator and his wife over the care of his father and the family's wealth. The script illustrates multiple instances of conflict, such as the wife's disapproval of the son's commitment to his father's care and their arguments over inheritance and the family business.

💡Custody

Custody refers to the legal right to care for and control a child. In the video, the issue of custody arises during the divorce proceedings between the narrator and his wife. The wife does not initially seek custody, but the potential for her to later claim it through manipulation or legal means is a concern for the narrator, as he is now the sole caregiver for their children.

💡Divorce

Divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage. The script details the narrator's divorce from his wife, which is triggered by their irreconcilable differences, particularly regarding the care of his father and the inheritance issue. The divorce is a significant turning point in the video, leading to the narrator's independence and the eventual reconciliation with his father.

💡Loyalty

Loyalty is the quality of remaining faithful and committed to a person, cause, or duty. The video's theme of loyalty is evident in the narrator's dedication to his father's care, despite the personal and marital consequences. His loyalty to his father and his own values is contrasted with the perceived disloyalty of his wife, who abandons the family.

💡Passion

Passion refers to a strong emotional interest or conviction in something. In the video, the narrator's passion for technology and software is at odds with his father's desire for him to take over the family business. This passion is a driving force behind the narrator's life decisions and represents his commitment to personal fulfillment over financial gain.

💡Caregiver

A caregiver is someone who provides care and support to those in need, such as the elderly or ill. In the script, the father has a full-time caregiver who assists with his daily needs, especially as his health declines. The presence of a caregiver is significant as it allows the father to maintain some level of independence while also receiving the necessary care.

💡Reconciliation

Reconciliation is the restoration of friendly relations after a disagreement or conflict. Towards the end of the script, the ex-wife and her family attempt to reconcile with the narrator after learning of the inheritance. However, the narrator sees through their motives, suspecting their intentions are driven by greed rather than genuine remorse or affection.

💡Trust

In the context of the video, a trust is a legal arrangement where assets are held and managed by a trustee for the benefit of another person or entity. The father initially places his business into a trust, indicating his disapproval of the son's refusal to join the family business. However, the revelation that the son was always the heir suggests that the trust was a mechanism to protect and preserve the family's wealth for the son.

Highlights

Man's wife left him while he was caring for his ailing father, but returned after the father made him a millionaire in his will.

Man's father suffers from kidney problems, requiring dialysis twice a week, which the man has committed to taking him to.

Man's wife disapproves of him taking his father for dialysis, believing it to be a waste of time as the father had previously disowned him.

Man's father wanted him to take over his merchandising business, but the man chose to pursue a career in technology instead.

Man's father threatened to give all his wealth to charity after the man refused to join his business.

Man's wife, Ail, was never close to his parents and criticized them after the father removed the man from his will.

Ail created problems for the man when he had to take his father for dialysis, making him choose between family responsibilities and her demands.

Man's father passed away peacefully after the man moved in with him to take care of him in his final months.

Man discovered that his father had actually left him all his wealth in his will, contrary to previous beliefs.

Man's ex-wife, Ail, returned after learning about the inheritance, seeking reconciliation for financial reasons.

Man refused to reconcile with Ail, recognizing her intentions to gain access to his inherited wealth.

Man took over his father's business after his passing, intending to honor his legacy.

Man's lawyer advised him to be cautious of Ail potentially seeking custody of their children to gain financial leverage.

Man plans to take his children on a lavish vacation to the Bahamas, using his newfound wealth to provide for them.

Ail has not contacted the man since their last encounter, possibly seeking legal means to claim a portion of the inheritance.

Transcripts

wife left me when I was caring for my

dying father but when he made me a

millionaire in his will she came back

crawling I'm 36m married for 8 years

with two children along with this I'm

the only son of my ailing father you see

my dad is suffering from kidney problems

for many years now but in the last 2 3

years his condition has worsened and he

has to go for dialysis twice a week

earlier he was able to commute on his

own but over the last year he often

asked me to accompany him he is also

growing weaker every day now I have made

a routine for myself that I would be

taking my father for dialysis every time

I don't want to leave him alone in this

condition he has to go for dialysis 2

days a week so I have fixed Saturday and

Wednesday Saturday is my week off so

it's not a concern for Wednesday I got

permission from my boss to leave early

and then compensate for the remaining

hours slw workk in the night after

returning home from the dialysis I've

been working in this company for 10

years my boss has seen me as a

hardworking and loyal employee so

granting this special permission wasn't

a big deal for him however the problem

was at home with my wife ail 34f when

she got to know that I would be taking

my dad for dialysis twice a week she got

upset she didn't like it when I used to

take him occasionally but she never

expressed her displeasure upfront now

that I had taken up the responsibility

diligently she could not stop herself

she said that there no point wasting my

time on my father because whatever I do

he was never be going to be impressed by

me well here's a little context to this

my dad owned a merchandising business he

was quite well off and had acquired

decent wealth he wanted me to take over

his business but I was passionate about

something else I wanted to get into

technology I was enthusiastic about

coding and creating software so after

school when dad wanted me to take up

some business or management courses I

took up a software degree he was still

fine with that until I was willing to

join his company however after

completing my graduation I started

working for a renowned Tech firm Dad

wasn't happy that instead of taking

forward his legacy I was working for

someone else he kept asking me to join

his business and I kept stalling it

after my marriage dad asked me the final

time if I wanted to join

and I said no dad got Furious and said

he would give all his wealth to the

charity and I wouldn't get a penny I

still didn't budge for my decision you

see I was earning well even at that age

I bought a car in my own house at the

age of 29 I was pretty confident that I

would be able to lead a decent life even

without his wealth I told him that I

didn't need his money and could build

wealth on my own our relationship soured

after that point 5 years back mom passed

away due to Cardiac Arrest it was

devastating for Dad you see I moved out

of the house at 17 for my college

then I got a job and I started Living On

My Own the only companion dad had was

Mom and losing her was the most

devastating thing for him that's when

our bond rejuvenated I started visiting

him often and used to take my kids to

play with him eventually he stepped down

from his company and gave it to a trust

to run my wife ail was never close to my

parents until my mother was here ail

used to avoid visiting my parents saying

that my mother was too nosy in our lives

and they didn't get along with each

other when my father announced that he

would remove me from his will ail

started openly criticizing my parents

for being mean and evil I insisted she

stay away from my relationship with my

parents but she always stepped in and

said it was something that was going to

affect our future especially our

children's I assured her that ours and

our children's future are secure

irrespective of Dad's wealth but she was

not willing to understand that now

coming to the current situation ail

created a fuss when she got to know that

I would be accompanying dad for dialysis

twice a week initially I tried to make

her understand that Dad had no one but

me he has lost his parents long back

though he has an elder brother he lives

in the other end of the city and rarely

visits dad dad has become very lonely

after mom's demise and in this condition

I cannot abandon him but my wife refuses

to understand this of late she had made

my life miserable every Saturday she

comes up with some plans either it is

hosting a party at the house deep

cleaning the house outing with the

children or as stupid as grocery pickup

I made her understand that she can plan

anything she wants on Sundays because on

Saturdays I have to take Dad for

dialysis but she continu continues with

her plans and then later rebukes me for

being late or missing it I had to rush

to my dad to pick him up then take him

to the dialysis center and after it was

done I dropped him and ran back home to

her sarcasm and Tantrums it is not just

about Saturday she does the same for

Wednesday evening I had committed to my

boss that I would compensate for the

remaining work late in the evening or in

the night after returning from the

dialysis but she always had a plan to

trouble me almost every Wednesday

evening she would go out either to meet

her family her long lost friends or to

attend some random party leaving the

children's respons ability to me I had

to juggle my work cook for the children

feed the younger one and meanwhile

complete my pending tasks at my

workplace this was after a hectic day at

work and at the dialysis center I know

it's getting long but this is how

miserable my condition is many times my

dad suggested that I let him go to the

center with the nurse because he sees me

always in a hurry intense looking at my

watch after dropping him home I don't

even wait for a second and rush back

even while picking up I ask him to be

ready and come outside before I arrive

dad has a full-time nurse and a

caretaker Aker to take care of him but I

still feel bad for not spending time

with him the drive from his house to the

center is 30 minutes earlier I used to

enjoy chatting with him during that

drive about the good old days of

children but as AAL Tantrums have

increased all I'm concerned about is

rushing back home most of the time I'm

just over speeding my car in the traffic

taking shortcut lanes and overtaking

other vehicles to cut down the drive

time this is the only time I get to

spend with Dad and I don't want to ruin

that or stop it by asking him to go with

the nurse I too have some

responsibilities as a a son I'm just not

able to bear this woman any longer

update one it is just getting worse

every day my wife is not leaving any

stone on turn to dissuade me from

attending my father her point is that it

is a lost deal dad had already removed

me from his will and had given his

wealth to charity so there was no point

wasting time and energy on him I failed

to understand her do we do everything

just for profit and loss what if

someone's parents don't have any wealth

or are poor do their children abandon

them because they have nothing to offer

after listening to her Tantrums for so

many months I finally told her that she

was not going going to inherit anything

from her parents so why does she visit

them every now and then oh my God she

lost her sht at this and said my parents

did a lot more than your greedy father

they supported me in everything they are

not like your father who disowned you

for not joining his business my father

would have never done that to me so

don't you dare compare my parents to

yours it was not just once this type of

argument is becoming a Norm at my house

almost every Wednesday and Saturday

after I returned from dialysis just that

it is getting severe and ugly at every

instance earlier she used to fight with

me alone now I see her yelling and

shouting at me in front of the children

not only this I have heard her

badmouthing my dad in front of my

children and manipulating them against

me and my dad I heard it and intervened

which again led to an ugly fight between

us ail's fight has become a routine for

me on the days when she doesn't fight I

feel something is missing only she

becomes more aggressive the next day

I've almost given up on her now I don't

yell back and answer her I just ignore

her as if she doesn't exist for me what

else should I do I cannot abandon my

father just to please her I don't care

if he has kicked me out of his will he

did so because of my own decision I

refused to join his company he was

forced to give his hard-earned business

to the trust it must have been so

disheartening for him that company was a

baby to my dad and he had to donate it

to someone else he had all the right to

disown me because I had hurt him I

sometimes feel that karma is biting me

back because I had hurt my dad on the

other hand dad is becoming weaker he is

barely able to walk on his own he needs

support to step him down to the car to

save time I used to ask him to come

outside and drop him outside the house

but now I don't care about being late I

go inside to carefully walk him to the

car and then drop him to his bed until

he settles down peacefully he is also

having shortness of breath so I make

sure to walk him as slowly as he wants

also while driving I drive carefully so

as not to overs speed and increases

heart rate I don't care about going late

to my house because rushing to the house

was also not helping if I any way have

to deal with that evil woman why not at

least keep Dad happy my casual attitude

has worsened the situation and yesterday

ail said that I need to choose one of of

them either my dad or her I tried to

make her understand that Dad was not

going to be with us forever seeing his

condition it didn't look like he was

going to make it long she came back with

a Curt reply in that case you need to

make your choice carefully someone who

is going to be with you forever or

someone who is going to die soon this

was so insensitive I told her you know

what I better choose my dad than Choose

You who is so evil and selfish to a

dying man she packed her bags and left I

didn't even stop her she needed some

time to cool off and I also needed some

space from her in her absence I'm taking

care of the house my children dad and my

work yet I feel so relieved so relaxed

her absence is actually soothing to me

the day before yesterday she sent me a

divorce paper I was somewhere expecting

it but didn't anticipate it to be coming

so soon I was shocked but deep down I

was happy and relieved I didn't call her

just signed the papers and sent her back

surprisingly she didn't ask for the

custody of the children that was the

only Clause I was worried about but she

clearly didn't want them when she

received the paper she called me back

yelling that how could I just sign it

without calling her and pleading with

her funny right her mom snatched the

phone and shouted that I should have

acted like a man and tried to pacify his

wife back into the marriage instead of

just signing the papers it was so funny

why would I do that she wanted a divorce

and I complied I was like it was good

for me I got rid of her without a fuss I

also taunted her that she even abandoned

her children and didn't want them she

said I could have all my assets

including my two children she didn't

want any of it her mother said Avil was

still very young and she didn't want the

baggage of children on her shoulders I

said fine by me I'm glad to have my kids

with me it is a relief for me no doubt

but I'm worried about my children they

miss their mom mostly the younger one

when I'm at the office it is difficult

for me to manage all the responsibility

alone but I hope I'll be able to sail

through this update to it's going to be

a shorter update so I shifted to Dad's

house along with my children it is a

great move I must say thanks to everyone

for the lovely suggestion it worked out

moving with Dad was good for all of us

dad got the company of my children and

they got their grandpa to play with dad

had a full-time caregiver who was ready

to take care of my children on a raise

why not someone to take care of my

children under my dad's supervision the

best deal right it is such a happy

feeling to see Dad playing and laughing

with my children and them enjoying

themselves with their grandpa ail didn't

think this to be coming she wanted to

make my life miserable by divorcing me

she thought I would not be able to

juggle all the responsibilities together

taking care of the children my dad house

and work but you see all is set

perfectly I'm definitely having the last

laugh the divorce was the best thing

ever LOL update 3 it's a sad news dad

passed away last week in his sleep he

went to bed happy and content after

playing with my children and never woke

up again the doctor said he died

peacefully the doctor his nurse and even

his caregiver said Dad was happy after I

moved in with him and it actually

increased his lifespan to these many

months he was already on the verge of

giving up before I moved in it is very

sad to lose your only parent but I'm

glad that he got to spend the last few

months of his life happily my children

are also very sad to lose him but Dad

has imparted good values to them they

say that Grandpa used to teach them to

accept reality and move on life never

stops for anyone I feel so proud to hear

such good things from them they are

indeed My Strength In This Moment of

Despair but there is one more shocking

news that came after dad's demise dad's

lawyer reached out to me asking me to

come over to his office to reveal dad's

will I said it wasn't required dad had

already told me that he had given all

his wealth to the trust so I'm fine with

that and he can proceed with the

paperwork to transfer everything to them

I asked him if I needed to vacate dad's

house because I was guessing that also

was given to the charity trust he

laughed at me and asked me to just come

over when I went there I found the trust

members were already present the lawyer

had called them as well when the lawyer

started reading the will I was in tears

dad has actually willed me as Heir all

his business his house his wealth was

for me I asked the lawyer if this change

was made recently I thought he made this

change after I started taking care of

him the lawyer smiled and said I was

always his Heir and the will was never

altered I was inconsolably crying that

my dad never abandoned me maybe he

threatened to disown me so that I could

take forward his business and his legacy

I was still crying when dad's attorney

pacified me I said it kills me from

inside that I hurt my dad all his life

but he always cared for me the lawyer

said that Dad was actually very proud

that I didn't give up on my passion

under his pressure and that I was happy

to lose my generational wealth to pursue

my passion dad was very proud of me the

lawyer said that I'm the decision maker

of the business and if I want I can take

the company back from the trust and run

it myself I'm thinking of doing that I

did whatever I wanted to do dad

indirectly supported me now it was my

time to pay him back I'm thinking of

taking it back from the trust and

scaling it to the level dad wanted his

business to fly I came back home and

told my children about their Grandpa's

will he has given some portion of his

wealth to my children as well after they

turn 18 today we went to his grave with

some flowers and spent some time in

Serenity it is a very emotional phase

for me update 40 you know the ants came

back running on seeing the sugar candy a

month later to Dad's demise I started

taking over his business and other

community service work first of all I

quit my job and took over the business

then I rented my house because my

children and I decided to live at my

parents house they feel connected to

their grandpa in this house this house

has my childhood memories so I also

don't want to leave it with this news

that I had inherited my father's million

dooll wealth I got many visitors at my

house long lost relatives friends and

neighbors but the most surprising

visitor was my ex-wife

ail and her parents they entered the

house sobbing that they didn't know

about my father's demise or else they

would have attended the funeral her

parents went on to say all good things

about my dad ail hugged the children and

cried about how much she missed them I

asked her if she missed them so much and

why didn't she visit them in the last 78

months she said she went to our house

but it was locked what a BS I was like

weren't you worried about your children

when you saw the house was locked didn't

you feel it necessary to contact me and

check if the kids were fine she had no

answer her parents parents were like

let's forget whatever has happened in

the past now that my father was gone the

children would be left alone in the

house when I was at work they need a

mother so it was better that we

reconcile I laughed at their face at

this suggestion the children needed her

the most when she left them to me now

the children have gotten used to her

absence and I don't want her back in my

life she started crying her parents left

us alone she held my hands and pleaded

with me for reconciliation she said she

loved me and missed being with the

children I laughed and said you know

what you don't love me you love the

wealth my dad left to me you and your

greedy parents are here on my door just

to leech on my money I don't regret

using those words for her parents

because that's what they are she also

called my dad greedy and mean during our

divorce there was no way I was letting

this woman have a penny for my dad's

hard-earned money she got offended that

I had abused her parents she said until

now she was pleading with me because she

loved me but now she would take what is

rightfully hers she didn't demand any

elony for the divorce but now she needs

half of my wealth rather half of my

dad's wealth I told her she could do

whatever she she wanted I'll destroy her

but not give a penny she abused me and

left I discussed this with my lawyer

about this possibility he said that her

chances were slim the divorce had

settled a year before I got the

inheritance besides the children were

with me so there was no way she could

get anything but he also asked me to be

careful about letting her spend time

with the children she could manipulate

them and file for their custody and then

later use them to demand money for their

maintenance and all that I couldn't be

more thankful to him for this advice I'm

going to supervise their meeting I'm

also spending a lot of time with the

kids these days days to help them cope

with the loss so that they don't run to

their mommy for emotional support I've

undertaken my dad's company so it gives

me a lot of flexibility to manage my

well-being and personal life I'm

planning to take the kids on a vacation

in the Bahamas yeah why not they deserve

this lavish vacation no it's about

overspending my dad's wealth I could

have also afforded it but I didn't have

the time earlier juggling work and

taking care of dad now that I can I want

to take them out as far as AAL is

concerned she hasn't contacted me since

their last visit I I thinks she is busy

knocking on every lawyer's office to

file a suit against me