why i really left florida... | Katie Carney
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Katie addresses rumors and accusations about her departure from Florida, emphasizing that her move was a personal decision guided by her faith, not due to any dramatic events. She shares her experience with temporary living situations and the importance of taking action when feeling a change is needed. While applying makeup, she also tries out a new foundation, engaging with viewers on a personal level and discussing the value of kindness and truth in online interactions.
Takeaways
- ๐ Katie left Florida due to a feeling that her time there was up, not because of any drama or forced circumstances.
- ๐ She stayed with her best friend temporarily, but never felt it was a permanent arrangement.
- ๐ฌ There were rumors and accusations about her departure, including being kicked out or having a breakup, which Katie denies.
- ๐ Katie feels guided by her faith and believes God was telling her it was time to move on from Florida.
- ๐งณ Katie's lifestyle is transient, with a history of moving frequently and living in various places, including her car.
- ๐ She tries out a new foundation from e.l.f. during the video, discussing her experience with it.
- ๐ Katie emphasizes the importance of kindness and logic, urging viewers to question their assumptions and accusations.
- ๐ซ She discourages hate-watching and attacking strangers online, advocating for a more respectful and positive online community.
- ๐ค Katie acknowledges the difference between curiosity and entitlement, reminding viewers that content creators have a right to privacy.
- ๐ฌ She invites genuine questions and curiosity but rejects rude accusations and negativity, aiming to maintain a healthy and safe space for discussion.
Q & A
Why did Katie leave Florida?
-Katie felt that her time in Florida was coming to an end after staying with her best friend temporarily, and she believed it was time to move on and do something different with her life.
What are some of the accusations and rumors Katie has been facing regarding her departure from Florida?
-Katie has been accused of getting kicked out of her best friend's house, having a breakup with a roommate, and generally lying about her reasons for leaving Florida.
How does Katie usually wear her hair?
-Katie's hair is naturally wavy, but she usually straightens it. However, she decided to wear it wavy and curly more often and is trying out products from Not Your Mother's to achieve that look.
What is the significance of the e.l. Foundation in Katie's video?
-The e.l. Foundation is a new product that Katie is trying out in her makeup routine during the video. She discusses her initial impressions and how it performs on her skin.
What is Katie's perspective on sharing personal drama online?
-Katie prefers not to share personal drama online. She believes in maintaining a positive and healthy space for her audience and does not like to engage in public drama.
How does Katie feel about the comments accusing her of lying?
-Katie finds the accusations of lying unnecessary and believes that some people prefer to believe in dramatic lies rather than the truth. She emphasizes that she does not like public drama and does not want to be part of it.
What is Katie's approach to dealing with negative comments and accusations?
-Katie addresses the accusations directly in her video to clarify the truth and set the record straight. She also expresses her belief in kindness and logic over negativity and drama.
What does Katie believe about people's reactions to her lifestyle and decisions?
-Katie believes that some people have a hard time understanding that everyone has different lives and that her transient lifestyle is a personal choice. She also thinks that some people create or believe in drama because they find it more exciting.
How does Katie describe her approach to discussing personal matters on her channel?
-Katie describes her approach as one that avoids discussing personal matters in depth, especially if they involve drama or negativity. She prefers to keep certain aspects of her life private to maintain a safe and healthy space for her audience.
What does Katie hope to achieve by addressing the accusations in her video?
-Katie hopes to clear up any misunderstandings and to promote a more logical and kind approach to discussions. She also wants to discourage people from assuming the worst about others without reason.
What is Katie's view on the entitlement of some viewers to know personal details of content creators?
-Katie believes that being curious is fine, but feeling entitled to know personal details about content creators is unhealthy and disrespectful. She emphasizes that everyone, including content creators, has the right to privacy.
Outlines
๐ Leaving Florida: Addressing Rumors
Katie begins the video by addressing rumors and accusations about her leaving Florida. She emphasizes that she dislikes drama and prefers to focus on more meaningful aspects of life. She mentions her natural wavy hair and her decision to try out a new curly hairstyle using products from Not Your Mother's. Katie also introduces her plan to discuss the real reason behind her departure from Florida while doing her makeup, specifically trying out a new e.l.f. Foundation.
๐ Makeup and Moving: Clarifying Misunderstandings
In this paragraph, Katie continues her makeup routine while delving deeper into her reasons for leaving Florida. She clarifies that her move was not due to any dramatic events, such as being kicked out or a breakup, but rather a feeling that her time there was coming to an end. She explains her transient lifestyle, moving frequently over the past 11 years, and her decision to spend time in New York for health-related reasons. Katie also discusses her approach to content creation, focusing on positivity and avoiding unnecessary drama.
๐ โโ๏ธ Dispelling False Accusations
Katie refutes specific accusations made by viewers, such as being kicked out of her best friend's house or having a romantic relationship with her roommate that ended in a breakup. She asserts that these claims are false and emphasizes her desire to maintain a drama-free online presence. Katie also discusses her personal philosophy on sharing personal information online, preferring to keep certain aspects of her life private to avoid unnecessary drama and maintain a healthy online environment.
๐ Trusting God and Taking Action
Katie shares her spiritual perspective on her life decisions, stating that she felt a divine calling to leave Florida and move on to something different. She discusses her belief in taking actionable steps in alignment with her faith, even when the exact path is not clear. Katie also addresses the comments accusing her of lying, expressing her disappointment in the tendency of some people to create drama where there is none and her commitment to maintaining a positive and kind online presence.
๐ค The Importance of Kindness and Logic
In this paragraph, Katie emphasizes the importance of kindness and logical thinking in online interactions. She criticizes those who accuse her of lying without reason and encourages viewers to approach discussions with curiosity rather than entitlement. Katie also discusses the difference between being curious and feeling entitled to know everything about someone, advocating for respectful and considerate behavior online. She stresses her commitment to maintaining a safe and healthy space for her audience.
๐ฌ Balancing Personal and Public Life
Katie concludes by discussing the balance she strikes between sharing personal experiences and maintaining privacy. She acknowledges the limitations of online content, explaining that she cannot share every detail of her life due to the potential for misuse and the desire to protect her mental health. Katie reiterates her stance on avoiding drama and her commitment to creating content that is uplifting and in line with her moral and spiritual beliefs. She also invites viewers to engage in respectful discussions and questions, while discouraging baseless accusations.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กDrama
๐กAccusations
๐กRumors
๐กTransience
๐กHealth Insurance
๐กPrimer
๐กMedium Coverage Foundation
๐กCurl Cream
๐กVegan
๐กHate Comments
๐กTemporary
๐กContent Creator
Highlights
Katie addresses accusations and rumors about her leaving Florida, emphasizing the importance of truth over internet drama.
She discusses her naturally wavy hair and the products she uses to enhance its texture, like Not Your Mother's curl cream.
Katie shares her experience with the New e.l.f. Foundation, including her choice of color and where she purchased it.
She emphasizes the temporary nature of her living situations, having moved around the country over the last 11 years.
Katie explains her decision to leave Florida was influenced by a feeling that her time there was coming to an end, guided by her faith.
She clarifies that she was not kicked out by her best friend and that their friendship remains strong.
Katie denies rumors of a romantic relationship with her roommate and subsequent breakup as a reason for her move.
She expresses her preference for not engaging in public drama and keeping certain aspects of her life private.
Katie advocates for kindness, logic, and questioning emotions before making accusations online.
She discusses the importance of taking action while trusting in divine guidance for life's decisions.
Katie shares her current health challenges and the need for extended stays in New York for medical appointments.
She reflects on the difference between curiosity and entitlement when it comes to personal information online.
Katie stresses the need for respect for personal boundaries, even for content creators and public figures.
She expresses her desire for her channel to be a safe and healthy space, free from personal attacks and negativity.
Katie concludes by reiterating her stance on privacy and her hope for viewers to focus on more positive and productive activities.
Transcripts
basically I want to talk to you guys
about like the real reason that I left
Florida
so let me just like address all these
accusations and all these rumors there
are always going to be people who would
rather believe a dramatic lie about you
than the actual truth honestly I think
there's more to life than a stranger
from the internet's drama that you are
making up because there really is no
drama and so when I bring this stuff up
people assume that I only bring it up
because I'm upset about it that's
literally the opposite it's that I want
better for those people hi this is Katie
in today's video first of all my hair is
naturally wavy but I usually straighten
it but I decided that I want to wear it
like wavy and curly more often and so I
have some products from not your mothers
like their curl cream and stuff and so
I'm just trying it out uh I'm kind of
not brand new to this cuz I have worn my
hair like this before but I'm still kind
of new in terms of like really trying to
figure out like the right technique for
my hair and also like I have a lot more
hair up here than down here so it
anyway we're trying it out we're going
to learn we're going to learn if you
have any tips let me know I do know that
if you're putting curl cream in and
stuff to make sure that truck was really
loud uh to make sure that your hair is
like soaking wet I do know that um but
if you have any other tricks please let
me know um but yeah this is just my hair
today anyway hi uh in today's video I am
going to do my makeup I'm going to be
trying the New e.l. Foundation that I
got why I holding that so weird I got
this recently uh I think in my last
video I purchased that but while I'm
doing my makeup uh I want to talk to you
guys about something that's pretty
important that's pretty serious honestly
basically I want to talk to you guys
about like the real reason that I left
Florida because over the last week or
two I have been getting a decent amount
of comments not a lot by any means but
like several comments accusing me of
lying about why I left Florida and a lot
of you guys know that I usually don't
get into this kind of drama but I just
kind of figured that if some people were
either accusing me of lying or if they
were just kind of confused about why I
really left Florida I just wanted to
kind of make a video and explain it um
and just go a little bit deeper into the
reasoning behind why I left Florida and
all that kind of stuff and so it's kind
of like a deep kind of video of like why
I left Florida and like kind of
answering some hate comments honestly
and answering some like accusations and
stuff while I'm doing my makeup so I'm
just going to kind of do both at the
same time all right so glasses
off and go up there I have the air
conditioning on one
I hope it's not too loud but also I need
to make this video really quick cuz it's
1,000ยฐ outside and my camera is going to
overheat so anyway I'm going to do this
yeah that's not that bad okay so I'm
going to put on the Pacifica vegan
collagen skin solve Prime blur and
hydrate little primer um and I have a
little brush that I'm going to use
because my hands are not clean because I
just did this a million times and I'm
not trying to put some curled cream on
my face okay so okay okay so
excuse me hello there we go thank you
okay so to give a tiny bit of a
backstory tiny bit uh hi my name is
Katie and I have lived all over the
country traveled lived in my car and
just explored and been literally all
over the country over the last like 11
or 12 years uh I'm 37 I'm almost 38 my
birthday soon I'm going to be 38 soon um
but anyway so yeah since my mid 20s I
have either lived in my car or I have
lived in an apartment or a house whether
it was by myself or with family or
friends temporarily um every single
place that I have been since my mids I
have known that it was going to be
temporary so whether I moved into an
apartment by myself or I lived with
friends I lived with family I was
traveling I was living in my car it was
always temporary just kind of like a
really long road trip where I was just
exploring and going to different places
um and just checking out our country and
so even when I have moved into houses or
even when I signed a lease and I got my
own place I always knew that it was
temporary one day might I live somewhere
more permanently if I get married or if
you know like my financial situation
changes if my job situation changes if
my health changes might I live somewhere
more permanently of course maybe but at
least for right now and since my mids my
life in terms of like where I'm living
and where I'm going where I'm traveling
has just always been more temporary and
so that's kind of like the the little
mini backstory um and then then to pause
that I'm going to try the e.l.
foundation this is the soft Glam satin
Foundation I got mine in the color 15
Fair warm um and I got this at Walmart
it was $8 or $9 it's a newish release
and this is my third time trying it why
am I holding everything so weird right
now this is my third time trying it the
first two times I did not use a primer
and so I just wanted to try it with this
primer um and so let me just kind of
show you what it looks like on my face
right
now I think Walmart is the only place to
purchase this in stores right now I know
you can get it online as well but I
think if you want to get it in store I
think it's only at Walmart right now so
yeah this is a medium coverage
foundation and I think it looks pretty
nice um I have like pretty textured skin
right now I don't know what is going on
my skin over like the winter and like
last fall was amazing it was so great
and then now it's just like no bumpy and
textured and it's going to break out and
whatever so I don't know anyway so just
take that into consideration that my
skin is kind of combo is like mostly dry
but kind of combo and then textur so
that's what it looks like I think it's
nice I am generally a skin tint kind of
girl I love um like the Wet n Wild skin
tints really good the summer Friday skin
tint is really good I love that one um
but I was interested in getting more of
like a medium coverage Foundation
recently and so the fact that this just
came out and it's $8 I'm like yes yes
please I want to try that and so I do
think that this looks nice I think it
looks nice nice do I love it I don't
know yet but I at least think that it's
nice I think it does kind of cling to my
dry patches a little bit so I might have
to Prime better whatever but I do think
that it's nice I think this uh color is
a really good match for me let me cool
my phone down a little bit because it's
it's overheating okay hi the rest of the
video I am going to be doing my makeup
but I'm not going to be like talking
about makeup as much I really just
wanted to show you that foundation and
then just kind of do the rest of my
makeup um just while I'm talking about
this topic so okay I'm just going to do
my eyebrows quick and then I'm going to
explain everything else cuz it's kind of
hard to talk doing my eyebrows okay so
to explain this as quickly as possible
again I have moved all over over the
last like 11 years and so this time
about a year ago I think it was like
last May so a little over a year ago I
went to Florida to go spend some time
with my best friend and I went there
knowing that it was going to be
temporary again just like all of my
other moves and all of my other travels
over the last 11 years I went there
knowing it was going to be temporary I
didn't know how long exactly but I just
knew that it was going to be temporary
and so I went and I said his guest room
and I mostly unpacked not everything but
a lot of my stuff and I ended up staying
there for about a year and around that
year mark maybe a month or two before
that I was kind of thinking well
honestly a few months before that I was
kind of thinking okay where am I going
to go next when am I going to leave what
am I going to do you know but about a
month or so before that I was really
thinking about it like really actively
thinking about it because I just kind of
felt God telling me okay your time of
Florida is about to be up at least for
now maybe I'll go back one day but your
time in Florida is about to be up and so
you need to make another step and go
somewhere else and do something
differently and so I know I know that
sometimes God will give us a clear
actionable step and sometimes he'll give
us several steps sometimes he'll only
give us the first one sometimes he'll
give us you know several steps but
sometimes he also just wants to see our
obedience and our focus and see our
action so it's like okay God I can kind
of tell that my time in Florida is up
here I don't exactly know where you want
me to go or even where it's best for me
to go because maybe God does not really
care where I live maybe he can use me
anywhere right but I still couldn't
exactly tell where to go next you know
but I still just could feel God telling
me that my time in Florida was still up
and so it was up to me to take that
actionable step of leaving Florida and
so uh yeah so basically I knew when I
was leaving Florida that I was going to
go spend a couple days at my dad's and
then I was going to be in New York for a
few weeks especially because my health
insurance is in New York and my health
isn't really that great and I needed to
see a lot of doctors and I've been here
for a couple weeks at this point and I
still have more doctors to see and more
results and stuff to get and hopefully a
video soon I'll be able to update you on
all my health stuff but yeah so
basically the reason that I'm explaining
it this way which I don't think is much
different than the way that I explained
over the last couple weeks but the
reason that I just wanted to bring it up
is because I have gotten several
comments not a majority by any means but
several comments accusing me of lying
accusing me of getting kicked out of my
best friend's house accusing me of oh
well she went through a breakup with her
roommate and so she has to leave or or
she just went through a breakup in
general and that's why she's leaving um
and just like mooching off of my best
friend and running away from things and
that kind of stuff and I find it really
interesting that I've been getting a lot
of those comments now again not not a
lot but several of them now because it
seems that a lot of these people even in
their comments they have watched my
videos for years and so they know that
my life is pretty transient and so it's
kind of interesting that this particular
move seemed like different to them or
something and I'm not exactly sure why
but I went into going to Florida as it
was going to be temporary I always knew
that maybe I didn't like totally make
that clear to you guys but I just kind
of thought it was clear because all of
my moves have been temporary you know
and so uh yeah so I got accused let me
just like address all these accusations
and all these rumors I was accused of
getting kicked out of my best friend's
house that absolutely did not happen
he's still my best friend he has been
since we were teenagers I did not get
kicked out he did not make me feel like
I had to leave nothing like that and so
that is just definitely false uh I got
accused of dating my roommate and then
us breaking up and that's why I had to
leave that definitely did not happen he
and I were not dating we have never been
in a romantic relationship I did date
someone else and I mentioned that in one
of my recent videos I did date someone
else for about 6 weeks and so someone
accused me of oh you and your boyfriend
broke up so that's why you moved that's
definitely not the truth either because
he didn't even live in Florida so our
relationship was long distance anyway um
but also I would not move because of a
six we relationship breakup that's not a
reason that I would move and then what
else did I get accused of yeah just
lying in general just lying in general
about something else was going on and
the thing that I want to say about that
um oh I forgot to put concealer on but
the thing that I want to say about that
is and this might be a little harsh but
you guys know me I think that some
people want there to be drama when
there's no drama especially when it
comes to people online I think some
people are online and they do talk about
dramatic things you know and if you know
me personally if you know me personally
off camera you might know that in my
personal life I can be dramatic
sometimes and even on here there are
sometimes that I talk about things that
might be a little bit drama but usually
if I'm being dramatic on here usually
not always but usually it's because I'm
trying to be silly or funny you know um
sometimes I think that that's kind of
funny but if we're talking about drama
in terms of uh you know personal
relationship or dating or family or
money or anything like that like job
stuff I personally might talk about that
kind of stuff with like my close friends
and family but publicly I usually again
I have before but I usually don't get
into that kind of stuff even if I do
talk about dating which is very rare I
usually talk about at pretty surface
level but again if you're one of my my
personal friends off camera I'm going to
talk about that kind of stuff in depth
not in a dramatic way well sometimes but
I just really like to talk about certain
things like that in depth but I don't
share all that kind of stuff online
honestly a lot of people think think I'm
hiding and whatever but honestly the
reason that I don't talk about a lot of
like dramatic things like breakups or
whatever or if I get in a fight with
someone the reason I don't talk about
that kind of stuff online is because I
don't like that kind of public drama I
don't like it I don't want it I don't
want to be a part of it and I do know
that a lot of people who are online you
know content creators or whatever I know
that they are dramatic that they will
talk about dramatic things and I just am
not really one of those people again not
always I have talked about certain
dramatic things but there are a lot a
lot of dramatic things that have
happened to me or that I have done or
that I've experienced in my life that I
haven't shared because I don't want that
to be a big part of my channel again
I've talked about some things but
honestly honestly if I've talked about
every single dramatic thing that has
happened in my life I would probably get
more views but that's just not me that's
not me that's not what I want my channel
to be I want my channel to be
encouraging and loving and that we can
connect in a positive in a healthy way
you know in a logical way even or an
emotional way but still in a healthy
emotional way and I just think
personally my opinion on this that a lot
of people wish there was drama when
there's not especially when it comes to
people online because they might assume
that I'm on here to be dramatic to get
more views but I'm just again usually
not doing that kind of stuff um and so I
do think that some people wanted there
to be drama when there wasn't any drama
and so no I did not get kicked out no I
did not move because of a breakup no I
was not using my best friend none of
that stuff it was just I have a best
friend that I've known for a really long
time um he let me stay in his guest room
for a little while and then I could just
feel that God was telling me that it was
time to go somewhere else and do
something different with my life I don't
exactly know what those next steps are
but I'm just trusting God with that
while I take action because I really do
believe that while we're trusting God to
show us things we still have to take
action and so yeah I just think that
either maybe some people um you know
maybe they haven't watched a lot of my
videos and so they're just kind of
confused like oh that seemed abrupt why
is she leaving Florida but again just to
explain my past I've just always had
that kind of temporary life maybe it'll
change one day but it just won't right
now you know um and you know a lot of
people also probably have some trouble
understanding that my life is just
really different than a lot of other
people's you know like a lot of people
hate moving a lot of people love living
in one place for a really long time and
that's great I'm not saying that what
I'm doing is right or that what you're
doing is right and vice versa means it's
wrong it just is that we're different
it's just that we're different you know
and so if God wants me to stay in one
place or if I get really connected in
one place or if my health changes if I
get married if my financial situation
changes anything like that I'm
definitely open to staying somewhere
more longterm nowadays but it's just not
what's happening right this second and
so that's really it you know again I
just think that some people maybe have a
hard time understanding that people have
different lives but I also think that
some people just want there to be drama
when there's not and so they want to
accuse me of lying or they see someone
else make making up a lie about me and
they'd rather believe that instead of
believing me and you know what about
that kind of thing there are always
going to be people who would rather
believe a dramatic lie about you than
the actual truth because they want there
to be drama they literally want to try
to catch you in a lie even if there's
not a lie there are just always going to
be people who are out to get us and you
guys know from my standpoint and my
morality standpoint and what I think is
biblical all that stuff is nonsense I
think all that stuff is nonsense I think
accusing someone of lying when there's
literally zero reason to do that I think
that's just wanting there to be drama
when there's not I think believing in
what a stranger says about someone
versus what the actual person is telling
you I think all that's nonsense I think
it's drama I think it's just too much
emotional stuff and honestly I think
that this world is way too hard already
it's way too hard already and so adding
unnecessary drama because it's fun or
it's exciting or whatever I'm just not
that kind of person and so honestly
that's why I usually don't address this
kind of stuff I usually sometimes I have
but I usually don't because I just think
that life is hard enough and I think
that it's really good to focus on what
we can control things that are you know
more about um how we can help other
people all that kind of stuff because
honestly honestly I think there's more
to life than a stranger from the
internet's drama that you are making up
because there really is no drama and so
I just hope that we can just kind of
take people at their word unless there's
a reason not to and here's the thing I
understand being curious
100% I understand asking questions I
understand all that kind of stuff and I
think that stuff's great but accusing
someone of lying or accusing someone of
something that they've never said and
that they've never hinted at or whatever
I don't think that's very healthy and so
I'm totally fine that if someone's like
oh wait why are you really moving is
there any more to that story like I'm
just curious I think that's fine you
know but I don't think it's very healthy
to be like Katie is clearly lying she
obviously got kicked out of her house I
think that stuff is just and here's the
thing when never I talk about this stuff
it's never because someone was mean to
me and my feelings are hurt I always
talk about it from like a bigger Global
and logical standpoint I always do you
know so I'm not talking about this my
feelings are hurt I promise you I
promise you it's more just like I wish
if I was like a pageant Queen I think my
makeup's mostly Done Right lipstick but
if I was like a pageant Queen and if the
question was like what do you wish was
different about this world I would say
that I wish people were kinder to other
people I wish people were more logical
and I wish people questioned their
emotions I wish people questioned what
they were going to say before they said
it more than they do right now and I
just wish people wanted to air on the
side of kindness versus attacking all
the time especially when it comes to
strangers like here's the thing I know
that I post a lot but in reality you're
still only seeing about an hour hour and
a half of my whole week and so even if I
post a lot even if you feel like we're
buds which I hope that you do I hope
that you feel like we're close in some
way I still also hope that we understand
that we never ever know someone's full
story not even our best friends or our
family we don't always know the full
story and so filling in the gaps with
accusations and negativity like why why
do that you know so again if you have a
question feel free to ask but I'm only
really going to ask the ones that are
obviously asked out of kindness and
curiosity I'm not going to answer the
ones that are that well sometimes I do
sometimes I do but usually I'm not going
to answer the ones that are obviously
like accusations and just rude and
whatever and sometimes I do but it's
just like what's the point of that guys
like don't honestly don't you have
anything better to do with your life
than just like accuse a stranger of
lying about something that's literally
not a big deal like oh I moved out of I
moved out of like my friend's house oh
well clearly there's drama there there
really wasn't there really wasn't there
really wasn't um and I just hope that
you know like if you hate my Channel or
if you hate watch me or if you only
watch me to go on all those online
forums that I don't read but I know
exist that hate talk me and all that
kind of stuff I just honestly this might
sound harsh but we got got to do it
sometimes we got to hear these things
sometimes I hope that you find something
better to do with your time that's maybe
more productive healthy uh Kinder you
know um because I just think that hate
watching or attacking strangers for no
reason it just really doesn't make any
logical sense you know take me out of
the equation person a attacking person B
when they don't even know person B you
could here's the thing you could just
stop watching that person if you think
that I'm lying if you think I'm annoying
if you don't like my videos anymore you
could just stop watching my Channel you
know um instead of just accusing me of
lying and then even cuz there was one
person that accused me of lying and then
I corrected them and then they responded
back still accusing me of lying and so
after that I'm like all right I'm just
going to opt out of the conversation and
they said I was getting passive
aggressive when in reality I'm just like
no I'm going to opt out of a
conversation if someone is actively
actively trying to misunderstand me and
accuse me of things that that aren't
true I'm going to oped out of a
conversation there's no need for me to
be in that conversation anymore you know
and so uh yeah again this is not about
all my feelings are hurt none of that at
all um it's just that like logically I
just wish that people like literally
listen to what was said um and again
since I'm never telling 100% of the
story because it's impossible nobody
actually ever does that I just hope that
if we need to fill in the gaps for our
own brain we could ask questions and or
just fill in the gaps with things that
make sense instead of negativity you
know and accusing someone and stuff I
just think that we can be better than
that and here's the thing about it is
like I have such high standard for
people
and so when I bring this stuff up people
assume that I only bring it up because
I'm upset about it that's literally the
opposite it's that I want better for
those people I want better for those
people I want them to focus on Jesus I
want them to focus on the facts and the
truth and what's healthy and also what's
kind because even if you don't agree
with someone uh or whatever you can
still be kind about it or you can detach
yourself from the situation you know and
so anyway let me put this on really
quick I will list all my makeup products
in the description cuz I know I didn't
tell you the last few so I'll just have
them Linked In the
description so yeah I think that some
people were just confused maybe they
haven't watched a lot of my videos they
were confused about why I was moving or
maybe it's just so opposite of their own
personal life so that they don't really
understand it um but again just a
reminder everyone has different lives it
does not mean that one's right or wrong
it just means that they're different um
but I just do think that some people
wanted there to be drama when there is
no drama you know and again especially
on my channel honestly if you're looking
for drama this is the wrong Channel this
is the wrong Channel
I'm not and again I have a couple times
before okay but in general all the time
I'm not going to be talking for 3 hours
about breakups I'm not going to be
talking about dating that much uh I'm
not going to be talking about fights I
get into with my friends I'm not going
to be talking about things that happen
in my personal life that are really
really personal I'm going to talk about
some personal things but some things I
am going to keep private Because the
Internet is a very very very dangerous
and mean place and some things for just
my own little level of sanity that I
have I think it's good to keep some
things not she's hiding things from us
blah blah but there are some things that
are not necessary for you to know that I
am going to keep private if I think it's
something that's necessary for you to
know sure I'll tell you or if it's
something that I'm comfortable sharing
sure I'll tell you but there are some
things in my life that are not necessary
for you guys to know and that I don't
feel comfortable sharing and so I'm just
going to keep those things private of
course but yeah this is just not the
channel this is just not the channel for
that kind of drama this is the channel
for me to be silly dramatic about some
things or to share certain parts of my
life but this is also the channel to to
hear logical things and to hear about
God and to hear about the Bible and to
just hear about day-to-day life and you
know maybe some food and travel of
course and you know maybe my hair
journey of trying to get it curly and
stuff yeah but I just I know I've
repeated this a lot but I think it's
true I think some people are searching
for drama they're searching for either
some drama that makes them like ooh oh
my gosh I can't believe that you know or
they want to catch someone in a lie um
they want to accuse someone of something
they want to be right about something
you know and again my Channel's just
that's not the space this is not the
space for that it's just really not and
so again if you don't like me if you
want to always assume that I'm lying any
of that kind of stuff I just honestly
hope that you stop watching my channel
there are millions and millions of other
videos to watch and I know that like 98%
of you guys are here because you enjoy
watching my channel you know and we feel
connected and you hopefully like what I
have to say and stuff you know but also
I don't expect everyone to like
everything that I have to say that's not
it but I just also hope that we can be
mind and um again logical I know that
that's a high standard but I do have
high standards for people you know and
so again there is no drama about why I
left Florida there's really really not
there's really not um I just left
because I could just kind of tell that
God was telling me to do something
differently and I needed to take that
first step of leaving Florida and also
on top of that I'm just going to be in
New York for potentially a little bit
longer than I was even expecting because
of doctor appointments so where am I
going after this I don't know I have no
idea but that's okay that's okay okay
either God is going to show me or I am
just going to make a decision and I'm
going to make sure that it is at least
aligned with the Bible you know not
something that's like actively sinning
um and then I'm going to make that
decision and then I will I will be able
to feel God tell me if it's right or
wrong and to Pivot or to change or
whatever you know and so anyway I just
wanted to do that video um and just kind
of talk to you guys a little bit about
that and I also just wanted to show you
that makeup again I'll have everything
linked below um I do like this
Foundation but I think for my skin again
maybe I have to prime it better but I
think that it just sticks to all like my
little dry patches and my texture a
little bit too much so I probably won't
wear it all the time but I might wear it
if I want something a little bit more
like medium coverage cuz every other
Foundation I have at home is a skin tint
and so I might wear this sometimes but
yeah it just like clings a little bit um
but yeah honestly one last thing
sometimes I do wish I could talk about
dating or I do wish I could talk about
other things you know but I just have
learned after doing YouTube for almost
10 years that there are some things that
are just better to keep private because
the internet can be a very unhealthy
place that people want to attack but
again this is more than just oh I don't
like this this is a bigger Global thing
a logic thing a a moral thing really um
because I just don't understand with my
set of morals that come from the Bible I
don't understand going online and
accusing a stranger of lying about why
they left their friend's house like I
just I can't really really fathom that
and so I have higher standards for
people and so if you want to be one of
those people I will be praying for you
guys I promise that's not passive
aggressive nonsense I will be praying
for you because there is more to life
than just disliking someone online and
then attacking them for it and again
detach me from that situation I feel the
exact same way and I think the exact
same way person a person B you don't
need to attack each other um especially
again when we're talking about oh they
left their friend's house there must be
more drama there there's not there's not
I think healthy discussions I think even
even healthy arguments are fine I think
those are fine but once you start to
attack someone's character and accuse
them of lying and all that kind of stuff
it's just kind of not really a healthy
argument anymore you know and so yeah so
sometimes I do wish I could share a
little bit more but I just have learned
that it's not really a healthy space to
do so because I don't want to be
involved in the drama I really don't I
really don't I want this to be a healthy
space a safe space for people to leave
comments and a safe space for just us to
share you know and so the things that I
do share cuz sometimes I do share really
personal and vulnerable things but I
just want it to be a safe space to do
that you know and so sometimes I will
block people or I will delete comments
if they're really really rude or
whatever you know but I think that's so
different than just being curious and
asking questions I'm so curious I ask
questions all the time but I think
that's very different than like accusing
someone being mean and all that kind of
stuff you know and so anyway hey guys
edit and Katie here you guys know that I
could talk about this topic for like 4
hours but one thing that I did forget to
say that I just want to put in here is
that there is a huge difference between
being being curious and feeling entitled
to know things I love curiosity I think
it's really important I think asking
questions and being curious and wanting
to learn is super important but I also
do think that there are some people
online who feel entitled to know
whatever they want even about strangers
just because that stranger is a content
creator and I just don't agree with that
I still think that no matter if
someone's a celebrity a content creator
a musician whatever it is they still get
to choose what they share with general
public because they are still a human
you know and so I think again being
curious is totally fine and great but
being entitled I just think that that's
really not healthy and I also will not
deal with that on my channel as well
also I'm in a house with a dog that just
barked sorry if you heard that so yeah I
just think that being entitled to the
level of I deserve to know whatever I
want to know not only is that unhealthy
but it's also disrespectful it's just
really selfish and disrespectful and I
just hope again that some people can
kind of admit that and that they can
maybe make some person changes because
it could help the greater good it really
really could okay all right back to the
video I just wanted to explain that a
little bit I hope that that made sense
if you have any other actual questions
please let me know in the comments but
again any like accusations or whatever I
probably just block you and honestly I
am going to pray for you because I think
that there's more to life than accusing
a stranger of something that they didn't
even do I just think there's more to
life I think that you can be better
honestly honestly I think that you can
just be better I think you're better
than that I think you're smarter than
that and I think that you can change if
you really can admit to yourself you
know what but I really do spend way too
much time online just being mean to
strangers in the comments or dming them
and just attacking them for no reason
maybe I can focus on other things that
are healthier or more productive or
better but yeah I hope that you guys
enjoyed this video a little bit of like
me explaining a little bit more about
leaving Florida showing you a little bit
of makeup and then just some logical
arguments by the way I know my nails are
a mess I'm going to paint them tonight
don't don't even look um but yeah I hope
that you guys enjoyed this video I
really hope that you're subscribed I do
talk about some logical and moral stuff
on here but I also talk a lot about
traveling and just a bunch of of Vlogs
just's a bunch of like day-to-day kind
of Vlogs I post on here and uh yeah I
guess it's going to be it thank you so
much for watching and I hope you have a
wonderful day I love you Jesus loves you
and I'll talk to you later bye
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