12 Things You should not tell any Girls - Marcus Aurelius | Stoic talk

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11 Jul 202428:43

Summary

TLDRThis video script offers 11 essential lessons for maintaining a healthy and strong relationship with a girl. It advises against criticizing her appearance, comparing her to others, discussing past relationships, and making fun of her interests. It also emphasizes the importance of respecting her privacy, supporting her achievements, avoiding negative comments about her friends and family, and being mindful with humor. Additionally, it covers the sensitivity of financial discussions and the need for patience with personal information sharing. The script promotes respectful communication as the key to building trust and fostering a loving partnership.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Never criticize a girl's appearance as it can damage her self-esteem and make her feel unappreciated.
  • 🙅 Avoid comparing her to other women as it can make her feel inadequate and create insecurities.
  • 🤐 Refrain from talking about your ex, as it can create discomfort and make her feel insecure about your commitment.
  • 🚫 Do not make fun of her interests; instead, show curiosity and support to understand her better.
  • 🧠 Avoid questioning her intelligence; offer support and understanding when she's struggling with something new.
  • 🤐 Keep her secrets and respect her privacy to build trust and show her that she can rely on you.
  • 🏆 Celebrate her achievements genuinely and avoid undermining her successes to build her confidence.
  • 👫 Be respectful of her friends and family, and address any concerns with sensitivity to avoid conflict.
  • 😂 Use humor that brings you closer together and avoid jokes that could be hurtful or dismissive.
  • 💰 Approach financial discussions with respect and openness, focusing on teamwork and solutions rather than criticism.
  • 🔒 Do not pressure her for personal information; let her share at her own pace and respect her boundaries.

Q & A

  • Why should one avoid criticizing a girl's appearance?

    -Criticizing a girl's appearance can hurt her feelings, damage her self-esteem, and make her feel insecure and unappreciated. Instead, focusing on compliments and appreciating her unique style can make her feel valued and confident.

  • What should one do if they have a genuine concern about their partner's appearance related to health?

    -If there's a health-related concern, it's important to approach the topic gently and with sensitivity. For example, expressing care for both partners' well-being and suggesting activities like going to the gym together can be a supportive way to address the issue.

  • Why is comparing one's girlfriend to other women harmful to a relationship?

    -Comparing one's girlfriend to other women can make her feel inadequate and unappreciated for who she is. It can create unnecessary insecurities and diminish her individuality, which is crucial for a healthy and unique relationship.

  • How should one handle discussing past relationships with their current partner?

    -Past relationships should be discussed honestly but briefly, avoiding details that could cause discomfort or insecurity. It's better to focus on the present relationship and creating new memories together.

  • What is the impact of making fun of a girl's interests on the relationship?

    -Making fun of a girl's interests can make her feel belittled and unsupported. Instead, showing curiosity and support for her hobbies can strengthen the relationship and create a safe space for her to express herself.

  • How can questioning a girl's intelligence affect the relationship negatively?

    -Questioning a girl's intelligence can be hurtful and damaging, eroding her self-esteem and trust in her partner. Offering support and understanding, and avoiding condescending tones or language, can help build a more respectful and supportive dynamic.

  • Why is it important to keep a girl's secrets?

    -Keeping a girl's secrets is crucial for building trust and showing respect for her privacy. Revealing her secrets can make her feel betrayed and unsafe, potentially damaging the relationship severely.

  • How should one celebrate a girl's achievements to foster a positive relationship?

    -Celebrating a girl's achievements genuinely, whether they are big or small, shows that you value her efforts and are proud of her. This helps build her confidence and strengthens the relationship by showing support for her goals and dreams.

  • What is the effect of making negative comments about a girl's friends or family?

    -Negative comments about a girl's friends or family can create tension and conflict, as they are important parts of her life. Approaching concerns with sensitivity and respect can help maintain harmony and strengthen the relationship.

  • How can insensitive jokes or sarcasm potentially harm a relationship?

    -Insensitive jokes or sarcasm can hurt a girl's feelings and create distance in the relationship. Using humor that is light-hearted and positive, and being mindful of her reactions, can help maintain a positive and supportive environment.

  • What is the best approach to discussing financial matters in a relationship?

    -Discussing finances should be approached with respect, openness, and a focus on teamwork. Being transparent and honest while also being supportive and understanding can help build trust and cooperation in managing financial matters together.

  • Why should one avoid pressuring a girl for personal information?

    -Pressuring for personal information can create discomfort and strain, as everyone has their own pace for sharing personal details. Building trust gradually and letting her share at her own pace shows respect for her boundaries and fosters a deeper connection.

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