Episode 194: The Benefit of Confession
Summary
TLDRIn this episode of 'Becoming Something,' hosts JP and Coley Taylor delve into the importance of confession in the Christian journey. They discuss the misconception that confession is exclusive to Catholics and emphasize its role as a spiritual discipline for all believers. The conversation explores the benefits of confessing sins to God and others, the power of specificity in confession, and the freedom that comes from transparency. The hosts share personal experiences, biblical references, and practical advice on integrating confession into one's spiritual life for growth and sanctification.
Takeaways
- ποΈ The podcast 'Becoming Something' aims to provide honest and real conversations for young adults in their 20s and 30s, focusing on life preparation and spiritual growth.
- π‘ The hosts, JP and Coley Taylor, discuss the importance of confession in the Christian faith, emphasizing it as a spiritual discipline beyond just a Catholic practice.
- π€ JP admits his lack of knowledge about non-Catholic confession practices, highlighting the need for broader understanding and education on the topic.
- π The conversation references biblical scriptures, such as James 5:16 and 1 John 1:7-9, to support the practice of confession and its role in Christian sanctification.
- π¬ Confession is portrayed as a specific, detailed act rather than a vague admission of wrongdoing, which is essential for true repentance and humility.
- π€ The hosts stress the importance of community and accountability in the confession process, encouraging believers to be open with their struggles within their faith groups.
- π« The discussion warns against the misuse of confession, such as using it to feel better without genuine repentance or as a means to manipulate or judge others.
- ποΈ Confession is presented as a path to freedom, humility, and joy, countering the fear of embarrassment and the weight of guilt associated with sin.
- π§ The practice of confession is linked to personal transformation, with the hosts sharing their own experiences of how it has positively impacted their lives.
- π₯ The podcast encourages believers to find a supportive community for confession and accountability, cautioning against the fear of betrayal within such groups.
- π The hosts suggest that embracing confession can lead to spiritual growth and a deeper understanding of one's need for a savior, aligning with the teachings of Jesus.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the 'Becoming Something' podcast?
-The main theme of the 'Becoming Something' podcast is to have honest and real conversations for young adults in their 20s and 30s, with the aim of preparing them for life's challenges and helping them become all that God desires them to be.
Who are the hosts of the podcast in the provided transcript?
-The hosts of the podcast in the provided transcript are JP and Coley Taylor.
Why does the host feel confession is important in the Christian faith?
-The host feels confession is important in the Christian faith because it is a spiritual discipline and practice that helps in sanctification, promotes humility, and allows for healing and accountability within a community of believers.
What are the three questions the host's life group asks themselves?
-The three questions the host's life group asks themselves are: how did they feed their soul (spiritual growth), how did they feed others (discipleship and evangelism), and how did they feed their flesh (areas of confession).
What does the host suggest is the proper way to confess sin?
-The host suggests that proper confession should be specific, detailing exactly what the sin was, rather than using vague terms, and should ideally be done in a community where one can receive support, accountability, and prayer.
Why does the host believe that specificity in confession is important?
-The host believes that specificity in confession is important because it brings the sin into the light, allows for true repentance, and helps in overcoming the sin by understanding its root and nature.
What does the host mean by 'walking in the light'?
-By 'walking in the light,' the host means living transparently and openly, not hiding one's sins or struggles, and being willing to confess and deal with them in a community of believers.
What does the host suggest is a common misconception about confession among non-Catholics?
-The host suggests that a common misconception among non-Catholics is that confession of sins is only a Catholic practice, whereas in reality, it is a spiritual discipline that all Christians can benefit from.
How does the host describe the feeling of true freedom in relation to confession?
-The host describes the feeling of true freedom as not being bound by the fear of others' opinions, not being defined by one's sins, and having the courage to confess and seek restoration without the burden of shame.
What biblical references does the host mention in support of confession?
-The host mentions James 5:16 and 1 John 1:7-9 as biblical references that support the practice of confession among Christians.
How does the host address the fear of being betrayed by the community after confession?
-The host acknowledges the fear of betrayal but emphasizes trust in God's sovereignty, stating that even if confession is used against someone, they can find solace in their faith and the belief that God is in control.
Outlines
ποΈ Podcast Introduction and Confession's Role in Spiritual Discipline
The podcast 'Becoming Something' starts with an introduction emphasizing the importance of honest and real conversations for young adults. The hosts, JP and Coley Taylor, set the stage for the episode's theme of confession as a spiritual discipline. They discuss the misconception that confession is exclusive to Catholics and the importance of acknowledging and confessing sins to God as a part of Christian growth. The conversation also touches on the hosts' personal experiences and the idea that confession prepares individuals for life's challenges.
π Biblical Basis for Confession and its Significance in Christian Life
The second paragraph delves into the scriptural basis for confession, referencing James 5:16 and 1 John 1:7-9. The hosts discuss the importance of confessing sins to one another for healing and the role of confession in sanctification. They also explore the concept of confessing specific sins rather than general categories, emphasizing the need for humility and honesty in recognizing and addressing personal failings.
π« The Freedom of Confession and Overcoming Shame
In this section, the conversation shifts to the freedom that comes from confession and the liberation from the weight of sin and shame. The hosts share their personal experiences with confession and how it has led to a deeper sense of humility and authenticity. They also discuss the importance of being specific in confessions to avoid superficial or partial admissions, which can hinder true spiritual growth and freedom.
π€ The Community Aspect of Confession and Accountability
The fourth paragraph highlights the importance of community in the process of confession. The hosts emphasize the need for believers to be in community, where they can confess sins to one another and hold each other accountable. They discuss the practice of confessing specific sins to a trusted group and the benefits of transparency, including receiving prayers and support from fellow believers.
π£οΈ Responding to Confessions with Grace and Understanding
This paragraph discusses how to respond when someone confesses a sin. The hosts share personal stories of confession and the importance of responding with love, forgiveness, and understanding. They stress the need to avoid self-righteousness and to recognize that everyone is capable of the same sins. The conversation also touches on the potential risks of confession and the trust required in a community to ensure that confessions are not used against individuals.
π The Transformative Power of Confession in Spiritual Growth
The final paragraph wraps up the discussion on confession by emphasizing its transformative power in spiritual growth. The hosts share how confession has personally changed their lives, leading to greater freedom and joy. They encourage listeners to practice confession, even if it feels awkward at first, and to trust in the sanctifying work of God through this practice. The podcast concludes with an invitation to engage with the 'Becoming Something' community and resources.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Confession
π‘Sanctification
π‘Humility
π‘Freedom
π‘Community
π‘Sin
π‘Accountability
π‘Pride
π‘Spiritual Discipline
π‘Transformation
π‘Penance
Highlights
The podcast 'Becoming Something' aims to keep conversations honest and real for young adults in their 20s and 30s, preparing them for life's challenges.
JP and Coley Taylor discuss the importance of confession as a spiritual discipline and practice in Christian life.
Coley shares his background from Seminary and his degree in Masters of Arts and Christian Ministry.
The conversation explores the misconception that confession is only for Catholics and its actual role in the broader Christian faith.
Scripture references are provided to support the practice of confession, such as James 5:16 and 1 John 1:7-9.
Confession is presented as a tool for sanctification and a means to experience humility and freedom from sin.
The hosts discuss the importance of being specific in confession to truly bring sin into the light.
The conversation addresses the fear of being judged or misunderstood when confessing sins to others.
JP shares his personal experience with confessing gossip and the power of forgiveness and acceptance from his community.
The discussion emphasizes the role of community and accountability in the process of confession and sanctification.
The hosts explain how confession should be approached with discernment and without fear of causing others to stumble.
The benefits of confessing sins to God and receiving spiritual healing through the prayers of the community are highlighted.
Nate's personal transformation through the practice of confession is shared, illustrating its impact on freedom and joy in life.
The conversation concludes with encouragement to practice confession, even if it feels awkward, as it can lead to profound spiritual growth.
The hosts reflect on the importance of humility and the dangers of self-righteousness in the context of confession.
The podcast ends with a reminder of the podcast's mission to help listeners become all that God desires them to be.
Transcripts
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what's up Podcast world it's your boy JP
in the podcast studio with the one and
only greatest
staff member of Harris Creek
Coley Taylor
wow I actually agree with that he's here
but he's not on a microphone
unbelievable what's he doing is he does
he just do this because he likes to
listen to us back there honestly working
magic pulling levers you can't see him
he's on the other side of the camera if
you're watching us on YouTube speaking
of you should watch us on YouTube
because uh I'm hot Spock on Spotify no
like man most of our listeners listen on
Spotify
hey I feel like I need to confess what I
just said
is that how that works sure I feel like
I probably shouldn't have said you
should watch this because I'm hot yeah
you probably shouldn't feel like that
was a miss
I feel like what gave it away
are you trying to transition we don't
even get to Banter I feel like you're I
feel like you're slipping man
get to talk yeah I just happened too
soon I don't know I just had to come
okay I just sitting too early in the
podcast hey shocker yeah wow oh my word
unbelievable So Okay so we've got a lot
of different types of water going on
over here we got I should have taken my
label off
there oh my gosh man Baylor football huh
yeah I'm not very excited about them
funny uh you don't look like a football
player
I played in middle school did you yeah I
absolutely did tackle what was your last
sport that you played basketball uh yeah
because I'm I'm kind of tall but then
other guys started getting taller and
are you any good I mean I haven't played
I I haven't shot a basketball in
whatever ever you have a hoop at your
house correct did you say he poops at
his house well he does I'm sure of that
I mean I just feel like why are you
telling the world that a basketball hoop
at this house oh my gosh it's amazing
wow we're off to a great start today
guys
okay Kathy did um humiliate me earlier
there are some things that we will not
there are conversations
and um people probably think I'm so mean
like like if if this is all of the
conversations we're willing to have this
small so you can now wonder for the rest
of your life gosh what is that what did
Kathy do yeah what did she do okay guys
today I should confess that right yes
here we go today we're talking about
confession this is something that only
Catholics do and apparently JP so I like
what's where where do you get this from
literally I really did not know
non-catholics confess their sins until
you came so I know you're kind of saying
that as a joke but I feel like it's a
spiritual discipline and a practice that
we just don't practice that often so you
really I mean you really didn't know
that no I mean I knew if I hurt
someone's feelings or I did something to
them I like go and say sorry but I did
not think that I should like confess my
sins to anyone other than God hmm do you
think you should confess your sins to
God yeah did you practice that not
regular not like I do now
and you went to Seminary yeah and what
what is your degree in uh
uh masters of arts and Christian
Ministry with the concentration
underneath
drop the mic
amazing what was your degree in uh
masters of divinity I have no idea what
the concentration was because I didn't
really concentrate because yours no yeah
I did everything but the languages but
all that to say is it is ridiculous that
I went to Seminary and share with us
some of those languages man yeah uh
Hebrew and Greek it's more of a written
language yes like Hebrew like just give
us give us a couple like tell it say a
couple sentences in Hebrew shalom
what does it mean peace peace
uh awesome so confession like what are
the questions then around confession
like well it's like why should we do it
I feel like you don't need to confess
something unless it's like
really hurt someone or it's really bad
and you need help like
yeah and so like even that question you
know do you confess sins to God because
there's there's entire ideology out
there it's like hey if Jesus died for
all of our sins on the cross they've
been paid for then then we don't need to
confess our sins to God to be forgiven
because we've already been forgiven for
them and then there is in the Catholic
faith I grew up Roman Catholic there is
the the sacrament of reconciliation
which is where you go and and to uh
remove Sin from your soul you have to
confess it to the priest in which he
then prescribes to you a Penance to pay
which is usually something like say 10
Hail Mary's or or and to our fathers and
you know something along those or say
the rosary something along those lines
and confession is actually a normal part
of the Christian faith we know that
James 5 16 says that you should confess
your sins to who one another yeah or
each other confess your sins to each
other and pray for each other so that
you may be healed for the prayers of a
righteous person are powerful and
effective that's James 5 16. first John
1 says that uh you know who we are to
confess our sins
um let me look it up I got a couple of
scriptures running in my head
um so it's first John 1 7 through 9
which is going to take me just a minute
yeah
first John 1 9 but I don't know the
seven part give it to him and greet Nate
um
Oikos
huh because it's a type of yogurt yogurt
but if we walk in the light as he is in
the light we have fellowship with one
another and the blood of Jesus uh his
son purifies us from all sin if we claim
to be without sin we deceive ourselves
and the truth is not in us if we confess
our sins he is faithful and just and
will forgive us our sins and purify us
from all unrighteousness if we claim
that we have not sinned we make
ourselves out to be a liar and his word
is not in us and so there's some really
like harsh like realities but the
overarching principle is that confession
is normative to the Christian Life and a
tool that God uses to sanctify us but I
think there's even misunderstanding for
those of you that are in community or
small group that do practice confession
in our small group in my life group my
community when I meet with the guys we
ask ourselves three questions
which we've said before on here but how
do you how did you feed your soul
meaning what did you do to grow as a
follower of Jesus what are you listening
to what are you reading how did you feed
others
that's discipleship and evangelism like
who who have you talked to this week
where you have the things of God on your
mind and then how did you feed your
flesh and that's the confession part
like hey here's what I did this week I
think a lot of times when we confess
it's like I talk about my single friends
they get really clumsy when they're when
they're confessing sexual sin because
they say things like way I tripped this
weekend I stumbled this weekend I fell
in the area of lust this weekend so
Tripp stumbled fell you got really
clumsy why is that not confession like
why because because it's not specific
and so I think confession if we're
really bringing something into the light
which it should be specific tell me what
that stumble fell tripped up look like
what did you do and so if it's like well
I looked at porn and masturbated I think
the the confession is I went to
www.pornsite.com and I went through the
areas of possible explicit images and I
chose this kind and I looked at it and I
went you know here and I dwelled and and
lingered there and then I I masturbated
and you confess it in that uh
specificity which can feel humiliating
but what what does humiliation produce
in our lives
humility humility and so it's not a
consequence it's not like oh I have to
do that because I sin in Christ we have
the freedom to do that because of who
Jesus he's made us New Creations and and
so we walk in the light as he is in the
light Ephesians 5 talks about this too
be Children of the light so there's
nothing like we're we're like a window
we're a glass hey you can see everything
inside I'm not afraid of you knowing
anything about me and we think in in an
early Interfaith Journey we think oh I
don't want people to know I don't want
people to know I don't want people to
know I don't want to do that it's really
embarrassing you know embarrassment is
rooted in Pride but if but there is
something greater out there that if you
can achieve it where you say I don't
care uh I I'm I what my identities in
Christ my identity is not in my sin
and it does not bother me that you might
think less of me I am not I'm my
identity is not in your opinion of me
and I'm walking in Real and True freedom
and that's a freedom that a lot of
people will never find and I'm zealous
for that man if I'm honest
I feel sad for people when they're like
I'm unwilling to find that level of
Freedom like I just I don't I don't want
to put in the work that is necessary to
get there I don't want to renew my mind
around the truth to get there that's
good I also think like specificity helps
in other areas of sin too like I think
porn is the example that gets thrown out
a lot but I know I have said before when
I thought I was confessing like I'm just
really struggled with pride this week oh
I just I'm just struggling with a little
bit of insecurity and that like covers
My Confession but what really helps is
when I like name how ugly it is because
you're when you're naming how ugly your
sin is and you're saying hey someone
walked by me and I thought oh I'm better
than them because I would never do what
they're doing yeah like a God doesn't
rank us I was putting myself above
another child of his that he loves and
created I mean like when you like
actually get to the root of your sin
it's just as ugly as pornography or
anything else that seems bigger and so
just to encourage people out there who
like maybe pour into masturbation the
big obvious like I got drunk this
weekend type since the the hidden ones
the thought ones like be specific with
those two yeah I would even say with if
your struggle is Lust porn and
masturbation try to move your confession
to the thought level meaning rather than
confessing hey I did go to
www.pornsite.com I'm making that up by
the way don't don't go there and look uh
say
um you know I wanted to as I was driving
or right there live in the moment text
the you know send the group text and say
hey guys would you pray for me right now
I I really feel a battle of lust within
me I want to go look at something I want
to go look at someone I'm not married to
but I feel like that's just like robs
any Joy from your your life where it's
like
you just can't do anything like you're
always thinking about what you did wrong
you're always thinking about your wrong
thoughts it's like there's no Freedom
there that just feels like you're in a
jail cell it might I want to be honest
and say it might feel that way early on
um I think there it is actually a joy
supplement meaning a joy um magnifier a
joy multiplier in your life
um rather than robbing you of Joy
because you get to this place where
you're truly free and I don't I don't
know of a greater place in the world
than to be truly free and then you get
to a place where you're really fighting
sin you know and
and uh that I mean that's that's
um
like to be free from sin and free from
the approval of others and perception
management I mean that is a level like
in the garden they were naked and
unashamed that's a level of lack of
Shame and and and a freedom that most
people will never ever find so there's a
Greater Joy out there that a lot of
people will never find that's actually
found through this idea of confession
yeah and when you confess so when you
confess it should be specific
um you know and I understand that
amongst friends you might think well I
don't want to cause them to stumble and
I think there's wisdom in that you know
don't cause them to stumble and don't
hide behind your fear of causing them to
stumble as an excuse to not be specific
so be as specific as you can which takes
a little bit of discernment I get it
there's no like rules to follow you have
to be Discerning in that and um and and
don't not say something because you're
afraid to because you're afraid that
they're going to think less of you
something else that we'll do is is we'll
do partial confessions like we'll
confess just to feel better hey we just
feel guilty we want to get that guilt
removed and so we want to say something
so we say something just enough make
space for it like we talk about a lot on
staff something called Spotlight just
kind of a
a corporate principle that we use here
that is rooted in in you know Ephesians
5 and biblical ideas where it's like
when we mess up we stop we create space
for it we shine a giant Spotlight on it
we take some time to look at the mistake
and to learn everything we can from it
and so you need to make space for
confession don't if there's a part of
you that's like hey I just want to get
this over with I just want to move past
it as fast as I can you're robbing
yourself of some sanctification that's
there that the spirit of God can do in
your life through that confession by
giving it space So when do you do this
like you just
call up a friend randomly and like like
how do you how do you do this in in your
everyday life yeah well I think I think
you know my hope is that you are in
community that you have you're doing
life in community with other believers
and so you have a small group that
you're meeting with on a weekly basis
and I think you don't want to wait so if
you meet Tuesday morning and you you do
something stupid Wednesday right don't
um don't wait till the following Tuesday
text them and say hey guys I have
something that I want to confess to you
it it is relations to this ask me about
it ask me if I'm lying to you and then
ask me if I'm lying to you about lying
to you I I'm a 42 year old pastor at a
church and I know that I am capable of
all kinds of evil right and so like
they're they're like I'm capable of all
kinds of things and
and so I like when people pry into my
life and not everybody like every now
and then there's somebody on Instagram
that feels like they're called to be my
accountability partner and I don't know
them I'm not talking about that kind of
relationship I'm saying like I have
people in my life like I am submitted to
Elders I am I am uh submitted to guys
I'm in community with they are asking me
hard questions all the time and I'm
openly confessing to them all the time
like that's a normal part of my life
and another benefit of letting people
into those struggles and into your sins
is it says in James 5 16 that they can
pray for you so that you may be healed
like when we share what sins we're
struggling with a people know so they
can be praying for us and I truly
believe like that's where healing is
found and then B they're able to hold us
accountable to it and that's the
beautiful thing if week after week after
week you're confessing oh I didn't make
time to spend time on God's word this
week like eventually your group's gonna
be like hey
Let's help you get there like what can
we do to help move the ball down the
field or whatever so that's good
volleyball Fields but into the goal into
the basket yeah I I think I have found
Freedom too when you tell someone like
the ugliest dirtiest part of yourself
and they look back at you and they're
not running away they're not leaving and
they say hey I love you like that's
powerful that's Freedom that's a true
friend yeah how do you respond because
if you if you I don't know
I don't know what you would confess to
let's say you confess to like man I just
went to the grocery store and I stole
all my food like what what do I do as
your friend how do I respond to a
confession
with well if they stole food
yes
uh he did steal some food from the local
grocery store he did just confess
actually on the air we do have a
recording of him confessing
if it's like hey I struggle with gossip
and I say actually I've told my life
group I'll share this really vulnerable
sometime I think like a year or two ago
I already guess I talked bad about my
like life group about the girls in my
group
I just for some reason was being
prideful and was like they're not as
good of Christians as me or whatever
dumb thing I said and I knew as soon as
I said it that I had to tell them and
like that sucks like to have to go to
someone and say that you talked bad
about them also and I said it sucks I'm
sorry I'm just a bad person anyways I
feel like you tell let me just explain
so I like get in there and it's awkward
it's uncomfortable I feel this like heat
rising up because I don't want to say it
and then I say it and I just own it and
I apologize and I own my sin in it of it
was coming from a prideful place this
isn't a reflection of you I'm so sorry
blah blah blah and some of them were mad
and like hurt but they also forgave me
and like there's something powerful of
like they didn't just wash it away they
didn't say oh okay they like sat in it
with me and it was awkward and
uncomfortable and then they just said
like we love you and we know you really
love us and we know that this is a
mistake that you made not who you are
that's a powerful thing to tell someone
like this is a mistake you made it's not
who you are and because Nate I want you
to know
um when somebody confesses something
really vulnerable and someone makes them
feel dumb for that it's it's super hard
that's really difficult place to be and
so
I just I'm just that happened no I'm
just putting that out there man just
you're pretty specific with like me
oh well I do think people are hesitant
to share because in the past they've
probably told something or someone's
found out about something that they've
done and it's been used against them
totally and I would just say if you're
in a true Christian Community when you
share these things they should not be
held against you and it should be for
your good they shouldn't and and I agree
with that and I want to say one other
thing here and just say and it might be
and that's okay you know and I think
because if you live in the greatest fear
is that that these people are going to
betray me in that way and you live in
that fear uh you kind of live your life
walking around the eggshells and
insulated and I think right now we can
just say you know what I may share
something really vulnerable
and it may be used against me and God is
in charge of that like he is Sovereign
he controls the hearts of Kings he
directs them like watercourses wherever
he pleases he controls the minds of men
and women and uh and and if if that's
what he wants to allow to do then I will
live in that consequence then I'll die
and I'll be in heaven with him forever
and ever and ever
and I may even ask him why I don't know
but um it's going to be okay and so I
just I'm I want to I don't want to say
to people hey they will never do that
because I don't know your community
group but I don't know the maturity
level and I know how the enemy is
tempted to like he's just against unity
and he loves to bring division to people
so it is a vulnerable place to confess
and and it may not always go well and
that doesn't mean that it was the wrong
thing it is the right thing the
scripture calls us to it it really
clearly candidly uh it is a part of
sanctification that God wants to use in
our lives
I I so when you when you confess like
when people confess to my answer I
always just give them a hug yeah you
know I said hey stand up give me a hug I
said man I just want you to know you are
loved I don't think less of you you
didn't do anything that I'm not capable
of doing I I can't wait to see God
restore this situation and I think what
you just did was really Courageous by
bringing it to the light thank you for
walking in that faithfulness and
obedience and and sometimes the
confession is against me like it's like
hey I want you to know I sinned against
you and so I then you know it's like in
that hug it's like and I want you to
know that I forgive you like I I am not
I have no intentions of of holding this
against you or seeking retaliation I
forgive you
I mean that's just it's just such a hard
thing because I've been with people when
they've confessed in and I'd like want
to get angry or self-righteous and and
just be like a like how could you
if that's if that's your response what
what's what's the problem in me if
that's like what is it like to be in
community with that guy yeah
y'all's Community sucks I'm just kidding
I'm I use that word because Kathy made
me right right
oh that's not I'm sorry I shouldn't have
done that were you will you guys please
forgive me I should not have used that
word and I'm sorry yes me I don't even
like that word I don't let my kids use
it okay I'm sorry I said it but like
when whenever you hear someone confess
and you get self-righteous like that's a
sin too like and it is the same in God's
eyes this is what I I say that and if
I'm being candid I don't believe it like
I'll look at
someone sleeping with someone who's not
their spouse and I'm like that is worse
than me thinking a self-righteous
thought and myself righteous thought
alone would have been enough to put
Jesus on the cross and so that's honest
there's different consequences totally
there's still sin yeah but it's
something I have to renew my mind around
which is actually where the practice of
confession has been helpful because if
I'm looking around like oh I don't have
any big obvious sins like so and so does
that builds that self-righteousness that
builds that Pride but when I begin to
confess the thoughts that I have about
other people I'm realizing man those
thoughts alone put Jesus on the cross
like that's how I need to renew my mind
yeah so Jesus when when he was on the
earth like he was very selective on
um the things that he taught and the
things that he taught that were
preserved for thousands of years that we
would read him and read them and this is
the Brilliance of the Bible this is what
it says in Luke 18
um verse 9 it says to some who were
confident of their righteousness and
looked down on everyone else Jesus told
this Parable two men went up to the
temple to pray one a Pharisee and the
other a tax collector Tax Collectors
were hated they were responsible for
funding the murder of Jewish people
Pharisees were the religious Elite the
Pharisees stood by himself and prayed
God I thank you that I am not like other
people robbers evildoers adulterers or
even like this tax collector I fast
twice a week and give a tenth of all I
get but the tax collector stood at a
distance he would not even look up to
heaven but beat his breast and said God
have mercy on me a sinner I tell you
that this man rather than the other went
home Justified before God for all those
who exalt themselves will be humbled and
who and those who humble themselves will
be exalted and I feel like that is not
taught in Christian today in in the
church today I feel like the church can
teach us to be like the Pharisee and not
to say say no you must remain close to
your own depravity this is why like
confession is normative like this is
what is going to be a Sanctified work my
hunch is if you had never heard of that
then then one of your biggest
seasons of spiritual growth has been
since then would be my punch right and
and I I didn't see your life before and
so it's hard to speak into that but uh I
I do know that Jesus is saying hey this
is what I want this not that like I'm
not looking for you to come to me all
Pious like you have your act together
I'm looking for you to come and
understand your need for a savior at the
root of the Christian faith is US
drowning in our sin not able to save
ourselves and God moving toward us with
a savior and I think that we know that
but we still think like the Rich Young
Ruler like we're going to be this person
that can get to God by our good works
and and we can't we're not good enough
to get to God yeah
like I want to just repeat what you just
said that like confession has changed my
life I read my Bible I prayed I went to
church pre-learning how to practice
confession and I still do those same
practices now and the act of confessing
weekly to my friends and then daily to
God like has transformed me I live in
Freedom I have more fun I'm further from
some of the sins that had kept me in
captivity for so long and I just like
want that for all of you so I know it
seems weird like the very first time we
started practicing confession I was like
this is so bizarre and I didn't want to
do it and it's been like the best
decision I've ever made so give it a try
even if it feels awkward stick with it
it will change your life guys Nate's
gonna start to with you and yeah he's
gonna he's gonna give it again what
sense do you confess that's the thing
I'm like I'm just like racking my brain
I'm like I just if there's nothing to
confess what is the kind of thing what
is the type of thing
I love it hey guys I hope that's helpful
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